Going to a boot-camp will change you, fundamentally. If you are a loud, brash, over confident narcissist – you will be taken down more than a few notches. If you are shy, quiet shadow – just trying to get through, get by, get unnoticed and graduate – you will be put in the center of attention and the spotlight. You will be transformed into a leader – but in the mold that they prescribe. Your ego, your personae of what you knew before will be broken down, dismantled, hacked, challenged and in my day – belittled, ridiculed, shamed, and of course mocked. You are done being who you were. It is simply done.