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A CityVP Manjit Learning Hive Featuring :
  1. ๐Ÿ Fatima Williams
    Beauty does not in our physical being but in our hearts. In our beliefs of what we are capable of. In how we can influence the world in a good way. To show that a physical or mental disability lies simply in the mind of a person and not in the body.To show that all it takes is belief in ourself along with the undaunted support of our loved ones. A inspiration of self-belief and to bring out the best in us even during our worst times.
    Abandoned Girl got Angel Voice Without Hands Sing n play piano 'Golden Buzzer'
    Abandoned Girl got Angel Voice Without Hands Sing n play piano 'Golden Buzzer' Girl without hands sings like an angel a beautiful Lesson of Life. Nothing is Impossible! Follow Your Dream..Follow Your Heart..~Dream will come True. Just...


    CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    20/03/2017 #5 CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    #2 Joyce, while we watch these video's that touch us on an emotional level, there are amazing technological developments in the area of thought controlled prosthetic. https://www.nytimes.com/2015/05/21/technology/a-bionic-approach-to-prosthetics-controlled-by-thought.html

    As these technologies mature, the idea of people covering their faces with pity will be less prevalent, and when these times arrive, we will look back at video's like this in the same way we do when we think about novelty acts in PT Barnum circus acts.

    Look at the wording above, it leads with "girl without hands sings" - what I see is a human being who knows how to sing, who just happens not to have hands. If we want to change human views about disability, they start with our gut reactions.

    I know what you would have seen Joyce, you would have seen the words "Abandoned Girl" and your tears link to this reality more. As we make these realities more explicit, we begin to learn to see the human being and then the innovation that adds new functionality.

    The innovation in MS would be a cure for MS. http://www.sciencealert.com/this-radical-new-cure-for-ms-reboots-the-immune-system - these are very tiny steps but the more focus we attend to these steps, the more we set attention towards seeking proactive marvels and transformations through science/tech.
    ๐Ÿ Fatima Williams
    20/03/2017 #3 ๐Ÿ Fatima Williams
    #1 Thank you to this beautiful girl actually Phil. I cried watching this. Very inspiring young lady. The song she sang is very beautiful too.

    "A million stars tonight are rising from your heart
    A million dreams will do come true
    A million stars tonight make everything go right
    โ€˜Cause all those dreams are made for you

    Under the shelter of love
    We will always survive Sorrow and pain fade away, far away
    Love is here to stay"
    Joyce Bowen
    20/03/2017 #2 Joyce Bowen
    made me cry
    Phil Friedman
    20/03/2017 #1 Phil Friedman
    A marvelous share, Fatima. Thank you for finding and bringing this to us.
  2. ProducerJohn White, MBA

    John White, MBA

    What To Do When Someone Tells You You're Not Good Enough
    What To Do When Someone Tells You You're Not Good EnoughThroughout my career, I've been plagued by people telling me I'm not good enough. I've been rejected for more jobs than I care to remember. I've heard every excuse in the book for not being hired. Some of them were quite absurd and hard to...


    John White, MBA
    20/03/2017 #5 John White, MBA
    #2 @CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit: When I made the transition from the corporate world, I sought extensive advice from @Viveka vonRosen and Kathy Caprino. Both of them were very kind to share their knowledge with me and I've done my best to try to give value back to them as a move through my journey. I must say that 3 of my biggest mentors are @Matt ๐Ÿ Sweetwood @Javier ๐Ÿ beBee @Juan Imaz, I'm learning as much as possible from them every day. Hopefully, I'm providing them with value as well.
    Renรฉe  ๐Ÿ Cormier
    20/03/2017 #4 Renรฉe ๐Ÿ Cormier
    That's the key, John. Never let anyone tell you what or who you are, unless it is very nice! The world is full of mediocre people who hold themselves to very low standards. Surround yourself with intelligent, positive, supportive people in all areas of your life. My days of accepting anything less are long over.
    Harvey Lloyd
    20/03/2017 #3 Harvey Lloyd
    Great stuff and I realize negative folks exist are they a road block or a mere cone? I used to think they were road blocks and if I could find the right leader then I could flourish .

    It wasn't until I realized it was my path they were blocking that realized all of them were cones on my path.

    With this in mind I was able to see that our two paths were splitting

    Perception within your path is everything
    CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    20/03/2017 #2 CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    John it would be great to know which mentors made a difference in your life. Grant it that the mentors we choose relate to a specific transformation, and in your buzz you mentioned this relationship with mentors and reading between the lines these mentors probably paid a significant part in your life.
    ๐Ÿ Fatima Williams
    20/03/2017 #1 ๐Ÿ Fatima Williams
    Just because someone holds a fancier title than you or has a larger ego, doesn't mean they know what is best for your career. - A golden quote @John White, MBA

    I've always known that someone who dismisses what you believe in either doesn't know you well or doesn't care about you in this case a manager or is a hater.

    Your career journey is an inspiration to many of us. We need to confide and seek advice from people who don't judge us and doesn't see us from the regular eyes. For example : I've seen the looks I've got from a few friends when I say I sometimes blog or sing. And I just dismiss those reactions because they don't know me as much as I know myself.
    Thank you for making a change in many peoples professional lives that which many leaders or influencers don't take the time to do Thank you for proving to us persistence and hardwork is the key to our success.
    "Do something small each day to improve your career, and over time those small steps will turn into something big." Your are living example of this. ๐Ÿ‘โœŒ๐Ÿค—
  3. ProducerJoyce Bowen

    Joyce Bowen

    The Price of Beans
    The Price of BeansI wrote this during difficult times. My point, however subtle, was that bullying has a distinct cost to society. I experienced bullying in school, and it was terribly disruptive to my education. I implored school officials to intervene to no avail....


    Sandra ๐Ÿ Smith
    14/03/2017 #12 Sandra ๐Ÿ Smith
    #11 You raise a really important topic here Joyce. Bullying is widespread, and often authorities are out of touch with who is causing the problem, or reluctant to 'lay blame.' This means the bullied end up withdrawing and become further isolated. I read a heartbreaking story on Yahoo the other day about a 14 year old girl who took her own life after being online. It's not just in person now...
    Joyce Bowen
    14/03/2017 #11 Joyce Bowen
    #10 @Sandra ๐Ÿ Smith thank you for pointing this out.
    Sandra ๐Ÿ Smith
    14/03/2017 #10 Sandra ๐Ÿ Smith
    @Joyce Bowen check out Sue Kleibold's TED talk, it's amazing. I cried.
    Liesbeth Leysen, MSc. Brand Ambassador beBee, Inc.
    14/03/2017 #9 Liesbeth Leysen, MSc. Brand Ambassador beBee, Inc.
    this article is a good deed thank you @Joyce Bowen
    Lisa ๐Ÿ Gallagher
    14/03/2017 #8 Lisa ๐Ÿ Gallagher
    People have been brainwashed in this country to believe that Social programs and expansion programs IE: Medicaid are free give outs to lazy people. They don't put a lot of thought into the long term effects these programs have, everyone becomes a dollar sign to others and kids get lost in the fray thanks to decisions Adults make- decisions Politicians make and those who listen to ditto heads instead of trying to become self educated are enablers of the lies, enablers of a price tag placed on everyone.. which happens to be a very low price tag if you are not part of the Elite in our society.
    Sara Jacobovici
    14/03/2017 #7 Sara Jacobovici
    Thanks for tagging me @Joyce Bowen. You are calling out that the Emperor has no clothes. The tragedy is that most people are turning a deaf ear. "Falling through the cracks" is a phrase I despise. I have heard it too often across the board when it comes to education and health and mental health care. We can analyse and develop theories as to what led us to these cracks and how we respond to their existence, but that is like laying some cement over the crack and pretending the reason the crack is there is in the first place went away. Right now, anything good is coming from individuals like yourself and groups made up of individuals like yourself, who are Aristotle's gadflies (yes it goes way back). There is a reason for the expression, "It takes a village to raise a child." No one, not one parent, not one teacher, not one health care professional, can do it alone. The community needs to be a strong foundation in which, if cracks appear, they're filled in quickly and appropriately, by rallying around the child together. Wishing you (and us) all the strength. A difficult battle but one worth investing the effort in.
    Deb ๐Ÿ Helfrich
    14/03/2017 #6 Deb ๐Ÿ Helfrich
    @Joyce Bowen this highlights something I believe strongly, we have let our society build up rules that separate us, and allow us to live in fear and we simply don't even see how unloving and unsupportive something as crucial as the education of our children has become. It is all about statistics, when it should be all about caring.

    If we look at anyone who commits an atrocity there was a long line of people - not by any stretch just the parents - who did not have enough adequate support to figure out how to turn a troubled child into a productive person.

    We have to stop caring about financial results and return to caring about humanity.
    Franci๐ŸEugenia Hoffman
    14/03/2017 #2 Franci๐ŸEugenia Hoffman
    So unfortunate that our schools put their head in the sand. They worry more about a student's hair color than serious matters. Proactive tax dollars make more sense than reactive tax dollars, IMO.
    Pascal Derrien
    13/03/2017 #1 Pascal Derrien
    actually almost sad to say but the economic cost is an angle (not only one of them obviously) that seem to mobilize the business community.... when it comes to address failure.
  4. ProducerJoyce Bowen

    Joyce Bowen

                                                                     Baby Doe
    Baby DoeThis is a difficult piece for me. I remind myself every day that five children in the US will die today. Baby Doe already had her deathday. She is, for me, a poster-child for what happens when we deny the incredulousโ€”parents and caretakers kill...


    Joyce Bowen
    21/02/2017 #11 Joyce Bowen
    @Susan Rooks The most important thing to realize is this is a story with which we are well versed. This story happens five times a day--every day--even on holidays. #2
    Mamen ๐Ÿ Delgado
    21/02/2017 #10 Mamen ๐Ÿ Delgado
    So so hard @Joyce Bowen... ๐Ÿ’ซโœจ๐Ÿ’ซ
    Javier ๐Ÿ beBee
    20/02/2017 #9 Javier ๐Ÿ beBee
    Very sad and touching ... thanks @Joyce Bowen
    Bill Stankiewicz, ๐Ÿ Brand Ambassador
    20/02/2017 #8 Bill Stankiewicz, ๐Ÿ Brand Ambassador
    Very sad read here, thx for sharing @Joyce Bowen, my prayers are for this girl. #Hopingforabetterworld
    ๐Ÿ Fatima Williams
    20/02/2017 #7 ๐Ÿ Fatima Williams
    This is very sad @Joyce Bowen An episode liked this happened hardly a week ago. A 7 year old Little girl Hasini was abused and killed out of fear Rather was burnt to her death by her neighbouring Boy 22 year old engineering very good looking student. ( Can be googled) Very depressing to hear. May her soul R.I.P and all little girls who had died cause of some heartless swines.

    When I think of people who behave like this. I just want their brains to explode with some feelings or conscienceness of their actions. #Hopingforabetterworld
    debasish majumder
    20/02/2017 #6 debasish majumder
    oh! this is a heart rending episode going across the world and the developing nations pictures are more horrendous! thank you very much for the relevant share @Joyce Bowen.
    Todd Jones
    20/02/2017 #5 Todd Jones
    #4 Worse than animals, these people. The lottery of birth is apparently no different for children than it is for a dog. I have been pushed to my limit of anguish today. My deepest respect for you, and the incredibly difficult toil of social workers that labor in the trenches of suffering every single day.
    Joyce Bowen
    20/02/2017 #4 Joyce Bowen
    @Todd Jones I jumped to post. I added the link to The New Yorker story. That one will move you to tears. #3
    Todd Jones
    20/02/2017 #3 Todd Jones
    You've done it again, Joyce. Moved me to a place of anguish with another authentically raw post. Crusade on, my new friend. The world needs more people like you.
    Susan Rooks
    20/02/2017 #2 Susan Rooks
    One of the saddest stories in years, @Joyce Bowen
    Pascal Derrien
    20/02/2017 #1 Pascal Derrien
    nothing intelligent to add when all is already said.........
  5. ProducerJoyce Bowen

    Joyce Bowen

    The Pursuit
    The PursuitThe pursuit was on. Equality of the contestants was not issue. Their goals were not the same. The stalker had in mind to catch her prey, who wanted only to escape. Survival was the issue here. The prey would do what it had to to survive....


    Devesh Bhatt
    06/03/2017 #14 Devesh Bhatt
    #12 my best wishes for the interview.

    I believe each of your readers would want you to be Child Advocate.
    Joyce Bowen
    06/03/2017 #13 Joyce Bowen
    Joyce Bowen
    06/03/2017 #12 Joyce Bowen
    @Franci๐ŸEugenia Hoffman It was easy. It's nonfiction. I'm trying to raise awareness. I'm glad my story held you to the end. It was my intention. I interview to become an official child advocate tomorrow. Here's hoping I can help. #11
    Franci๐ŸEugenia Hoffman
    06/03/2017 #11 Franci๐ŸEugenia Hoffman
    Brilliant, Joyce. Your story held me to the end. I felt like I was running with her. I like the twist at the end - unexpected.
    Joyce Bowen
    22/02/2017 #6 Joyce Bowen
    if you like this, (and have read it) slap it with a relevant, otherwise hold off.
    Praveen Raj Gullepalli
    15/02/2017 #5 Praveen Raj Gullepalli
    #4 Well as a kid I performed the craziest of escapes to avoid a hair cut...chased half a mile across the neighbourhood by an uncle... even hid in a trunk half a day on one occasion...child's play can go either way! Sad to realise it was a misleading designation in your case though. And there goes the childhood!
    Joyce Bowen
    15/02/2017 #4 Joyce Bowen
    @Praveen Raj Gullepalli Sigh of relief? Look at it this way. In the end the predator caught the prey. It just happened that the predator had a designation attached that most of us view as friendly
    Praveen Raj Gullepalli
    15/02/2017 #2 Praveen Raj Gullepalli
    Super! And a sigh of relief at the end too! And now I feel like Hobbes wondering at Calvin's story telling ability ;)
    Rod Loader
    15/02/2017 #1 Rod Loader
    Very intense @Joyce Bowen. It definitely held me to twist at the end. Well done.
  6. ProducerJoyce Bowen

    Joyce Bowen

    My Story of Abuse
    My Story of AbuseWhat is the view of child abuse? I struggle with that question.ย  I've found that child abuse survivors are viewed as damaged goods.ย  I see pity in peopleโ€™s eyes.ย  I say, donโ€™t see me and my ordealโ€”understand that there are children out there right...


    Joyce Bowen
    17/02/2017 #12 Joyce Bowen
    @Joel Savage Thank you for reading it. Thanks for your comment.
    Joel Savage
    17/02/2017 #11 Joel Savage
    Great story but emotional. However, I am glad that you have shared to inspire other victims that think nothing better is left for them to go after in this terrible world. There is hope for child abuse victims and this story is the greatest evidence. Thank you.
    Joyce Bowen
    13/02/2017 #10 Joyce Bowen
    @CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit ahhh yes. I have been at the mercy of the whims of others so often that I collect many things. I have 5T external hard drives.
    CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    13/02/2017 #9 CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    #7 Last year there was a site called about.com and they had this facility called "collections", where you collect people under their interests - I thought the idea was brilliant and I ended up setting up 95 categories and had read and collected over +5000 profiles.

    Then someone there decided that they were going to a new system and announced that in the "collections" pages will be scrapped. It was their site and their decision. This is how marketed human beings are - it has nothing to do with personal. They were not interested in what this media meant to people, it did not fit their business model and so employed a more simpler model of focusing on personal brand.

    In noticing your fight it is not the first time I have come across people with your fighting spirit. At about.com I had come across over 20. Just like that the site was wiped clean of all collections, but not before I realized that some people dedicate their "work" to this form of seeking justice for others. Abuse does not start as canyons, it starts as tiny cracks.

    What you write is tell your story, but what you actually do is fight for justice. That was the name of that collection I once had at about.com "fight for justice". I have zero respect today for about.com but plenty of respect for the stories of those people I encountered, people whose names I should have recorded but did not because I naively thought info on a cloud stayed there.
    Joyce Bowen
    13/02/2017 #7 Joyce Bowen
    @CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit yes--so true. I went on to be sexually assaulted by a predator who victimized disadvantaged children. That is a much longer story spanning years of tracking both him and his victims.
    CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    13/02/2017 #6 CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    When I first found the web my curiosity revealed my naivety. The first niche social network site I joined was back in 1998 and the site called yoni.com and such was my naivety that even as I interacted in the discussions there, I did not know what a yoni was. The moment I saw what it was, I could not believe that I could not see it, it was just a case of OMG.

    That OMG pales in comparison to one particular discussion I had. The discussion was about bulimia. As a naive individual I wanted to understand bulimia and why this condition of self-image effected women. One of the answers I received I was not ready for and even today the chill of the answer registers to my bone.

    I was curious enough to initiate a private chat with one of the women who took part in this group. It is in this conversation that I both realized that I had ventured into something much bigger than me and that I was a million miles removed from.

    I asked this woman about bulimia and explain what it was. I will never forget her answer. She told me that as a child her father asked her mother to hold her while the mother watched and he would thrust his penis into her mouth. If this isn't horrific enough, this woman was disabled and so was objectified as a thing by her parents.

    This discussion group that discussed bulimia was a gathering place for women like her to share their humanity and not simply there misery, this was not a place where someone liked me belonged. What did I get from that woman is the hidden truth of what sits behind these conditions that we call bulimia. This was one woman's story about what happened to her. One is enough.

    It is not bulimia I am talking about here it is abuse. Later I discovered the horrific accounts of disabled people to widespread abuse simply because they were disabled. Those that want meaning to be about work miss the meaning of home, they miss this.
    Joyce Bowen
    13/02/2017 #5 Joyce Bowen
    @Todd Jones Hard to find healing when I know children are still out there dying. I should be dead myself.
    Todd Jones
    13/02/2017 #4 Todd Jones
    Another painful read Joyce. I hope you find comfort and healing in these essays. Your words tear at my heart.
    Pascal Derrien
    13/02/2017 #3 Pascal Derrien
    That's summing it all I suppose for now, selfish adults praising diversion and ignorance hoping there is a holy value in repentance......
    Joyce Bowen
    13/02/2017 #2 Joyce Bowen
    @Paul Walters Thank you.
    Paul Walters
    13/02/2017 #1 Paul Walters
    @Joyce Bowen may I suggest a novel I read last year entitled A Little Life
    by Hanya Yanagihara which resonated with me
  7. CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    @Eva Pรฉrez Duque brought my attention to a problem of streetcalling in Latin America - it is not that I can solve it, but being aware of this means I can make one more person I know aware of it.
    CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    Buenos Aires Wants to Outlaw Catcalls
    www.citylab.com Officials in Argentina, and beyond, are finally taking catcalls more...
  8. ProducerJoyce Bowen

    Joyce Bowen

    TurmoilHeโ€™s dead. She wondered how those words would feel rolling off her tongue: She toyed with them, letting them trickle through the screams drifting through her head. Heโ€™s dead. She looked at the silent form beside her: a boy lying on an...


    Joyce Bowen
    21/02/2017 #14 Joyce Bowen
    @Aaron Skogen So sorry to hear. This story is a fictionalized account of an episode with my son. He survived. #13
    Aaron Skogen
    21/02/2017 #13 Aaron Skogen
    Far too close to home with this. We lost a young member of our community to overdose just a few months back.
    Joyce Bowen
    13/02/2017 #12 Joyce Bowen
    Thank you, @John Valledor . I've often considered myself an artist.
    John Valledor
    12/02/2017 #11 John Valledor
    Artists use colors on canvas in unique shades, patterns, and strokes to share and convey one-of-a-kind impressions. Joyce, your clever use of words--strung together uniquely, eloquently--conveyed an indelible image (impression) in my mind (the anonymous reader). I felt as if I was truly present in that emergency room--powerful. For me, that puts you on par with artists that create similar magic on canvas. #10
    Joyce Bowen
    12/02/2017 #10 Joyce Bowen
    @John Valledor Got to admit you just put a glow on my face. ๐Ÿ˜‚
    John Valledor
    12/02/2017 #9 John Valledor
    "huddled on a stretcher too short to keep his feet from threatening the end." Gotta admit--great prose. There's a publishing company that needs your talent. Bravo!
    debasish majumder
    12/02/2017 #8 debasish majumder
    heart rending post @Joyce Bowen! great share. thank you for the share.
    Cyndi Docy
    12/02/2017 #7 Cyndi Docy
    So very sad and unfortunately happening all too often. My thoughts and prayers go out to this mother. May God comfort her.
    Joyce Bowen
    12/02/2017 #6 Joyce Bowen
    @Chas โœŒ๏ธ Wyatt Then go read The Fly That Flew. You'll chortle yourself into tears.
    Chas โœŒ๏ธ Wyatt
    12/02/2017 #5 Chas โœŒ๏ธ Wyatt
    Powerful, but, it strikes too close to home for me. (Not to take anything away from your powerful story; it just strikes a personal nerve).
    Cyndi wilkins
    12/02/2017 #4 Cyndi wilkins
    Well then...I do have one word...RELIEVED;-)
    Joyce Bowen
    12/02/2017 #3 Joyce Bowen
    @Cyndi wilkins Kind words. Thank you, but the ending is fiction. It is both non-fiction and fiction as are most works.
    Cyndi wilkins
    12/02/2017 #2 Cyndi wilkins
    No words @Joyce Bowen...Sending love...
    Pascal Derrien
    12/02/2017 #1 Pascal Derrien
    Bloody pills....
  9. Donna-Luisa Eversley
    Donna-Luisa Eversley
    Cryโ€ฆlet the hero take a seat!
    donnaluisawordslayer.wordpress.com Mr. Achilles and my heel! I had to see a new doctor today for an evaluation. Iโ€™m just so tired of having to rehashย  November, 2014. Iโ€™d like to forget it. Every time I think Iโ€™ve...


    Joyce Bowen
    21/02/2017 #12 Joyce Bowen
    Beautifully put. I can so relate. I remember the doctor telling me I have MS and asking, "So how do we fix this." I knew what her answer would be. I strive to be stronger even when I can't. In simple terms, it sucks to feel helpless. Hope you have recovered.
    Donna-Luisa Eversley
    09/02/2017 #11 Donna-Luisa Eversley
    #8 @CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit Yes, so I'm stronger.. thanking God for the lessons learnt along the way! Thank you :-)
    Donna-Luisa Eversley
    09/02/2017 #10 Donna-Luisa Eversley
    #5 Hahaha @Devesh Bhatt , you are quite good with the poetry. Your advice is well received :-) Thank you!
    Donna-Luisa Eversley
    09/02/2017 #9 Donna-Luisa Eversley
    Hahaha, trust you to make me feel on top of the world with a few strokes of the pen @Ken Boddie. Thank you. That outpouring was a mere hour after the visit, and it felt good after letting it out. A little vulnerability every now and then is cathartic .
    So what have you gone and done with your back. Gymnastics and jumping off planes are for James Bond! I do hope you feel better soon. I like your thought of a series of tunnels. Thought at the end of one that was it, but they do persist. Its a good thing my melancholy state remains for very short infrequent periods :-) Thanks my friend #4
    CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    09/02/2017 #8 CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    You know what they say "what does not kill you makes you stronger".
    Ken Boddie
    09/02/2017 #7 Ken Boddie
    #6 Perhaps Vege - might ...... but beef sausage, left for too long in the fridge, definitely won't, Dean-san. ๐Ÿคข
    Dean Owen
    09/02/2017 #6 Dean Owen
    #4 You have to lay off the vegemite Ken-san. Hope for a speedy recovery.
    Devesh Bhatt
    09/02/2017 #5 Devesh Bhatt
    either now or for times gone by,
    If you hurt, you must cry.
    Even tigers shed some tears.
    When sly men attack with poisoned spears.
    They cry for strength, live and endure.
    A few days slow, he feasts on boar

    Silly silly mashup translation

    Cry a little. Smile a little. Have a feast.
    Ken Boddie
    09/02/2017 #4 Ken Boddie
    You asked if any of your post resonates with us. Well here I am, flat on my back in bed, recovering from food poisoning, and I've put my back out again. But hey, I'm stuck in a short tunnel and the light at the end is clear and bright. Sounds like your tunnel may be a bit longer and the light more difficult to see. Or else you've just come out of one tunnel to go into another. Just remember that every tunnel has a light at the end. Sometimes we may not know where it is yet but deep down we know it's there. And if that light happens to be a train coming towards you, step aside, count to ten, then move forward again. You can cry if you want. You can do anything you want. After all, you're DLE from T&T. ๐Ÿ˜€
    Donna-Luisa Eversley
    08/02/2017 #3 Donna-Luisa Eversley
    #2 @Aleta Curry..Hahaha...Exactly. ๐Ÿ˜‰
    Aleta Curry
    08/02/2017 #2 Aleta Curry
    True enough - nobody died and made you Superwoman!
  10. ProducerPat ๐Ÿ Bagano
    The 6 Toxic Beliefs That Makes Your Life Difficult
    The 6 Toxic Beliefs That Makes Your Life DifficultThe thing that makes your life difficult is produced in your mind, it controls you and make problems manifest into your experience. If you do not collapse and let go of your toxic beliefs, it will continue to control you, produce the cycle of...


    Joyce Bowen
    21/02/2017 #4 Joyce Bowen
    fear is a response--a reaction. I've learned to face my fear most times, but I can still be intimidated.
    Kevin Baker
    05/02/2017 #3 Kevin Baker
    fear is an illusion
  11. CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    Sometimes I say to myself "just shut up and observe" and then having observed, take a deep breath and honour what it is you have seen. The play Wit by Margaret Edson is to observe that which I would not wish upon my worst enemy - the experiences from cancer treatment
    The Play Wit- 2001 (Margaret Edson)
    The Play Wit- 2001 (Margaret Edson) Wit by Margaret...


    CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    02/02/2017 #2 CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    #1 Same here, it sticks with me too. Thompson's performance still leaves me speechless despite having seen this before.
    Deb ๐Ÿ Helfrich
    02/02/2017 #1 Deb ๐Ÿ Helfrich
    The TV version with Emma Thompson still sticks with me.
  12. ProducerLisa Vanderburg

    Lisa Vanderburg

    Love hurts
    Love hurtsIt's Care-giver month again....think I'll have a nap. Don't get me wrong - for other carers, I care. I'm sure they do a stellar job and remain blissful, serene and contented. Well done!Alas, I'm the other type: bemused, confused and cranky with it!...


    Lisa Vanderburg
    02/02/2017 #17 Lisa Vanderburg
    I am humbled at your considered understanding and empathy, Sir! You've clearly identified this 'dance' we're in - a little like the film 'They shoot horses, don't they'; we're both fairly knackered and probably should be melted down for soap:) I spent a few years writing about the med side of PD, but it sort of seems a little like I've run out of words for the time being. For my hubby who puts up with my endless crap, we have a lot of laughs based on the British-way-of-caustic-wit: sarcasm. That gets us through!
    Thank you kindly @CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit for adding those links; especially that righteous video! I'm grateful!
    CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    02/02/2017 #16 CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    It altered my view of love when I first visited England and saw my aunt as a carer and all that she had to do to look after my uncle whose Parkinson's steadily got worse. Over successive years I learned how unforgiving Parkinson's is. It was made even more tough because my uncle was a naturally a fiercely independent man, who found it difficult to be subjected to loss of control.

    I tried looking after him for just one day - one day when I discovered to experience life living in my aunt shoes and by the days end I was exhausted, and it was beyond me how she did this day in day out - how can observing this not alter my view of what love is.

    The luxury I had is that I was there on a business trip and I got to get back home. Through this buzz I am learning for the first time highly detailed interventions. I checked out DBS, RBD and PLDM

    DBS = http://www.parkinson.org/understanding-parkinsons/treatment/surgery-treatment-options/Deep-Brain-Stimulation
    RBD= http://www.neurologyadvisor.com/neurodegenerative-diseases/rem-sleep-behavior-disorder-parkinsons-disease-neurodegenerative/article/435337/
    PLDM = http://www.mountain-sleep.com/index.php/sleep-disorders/plmd-rls

    So the gravity of the words "Still, my beloved โ€“ the one I choose to love daily" is that much more powerful to absorb.
    The carer is not spared but can fight back in small ways and it is a privelege to have read this buzz, for the creativity and spirit, as also shown in this video "Parkinsons is a Thief" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=InFY3s-UgY0
    Donald ๐Ÿ Grandy
    02/02/2017 #15 Donald ๐Ÿ Grandy
    Agree @Deb ๐Ÿ Helfrich. As difficult as it might be. Live your life or become the next one requiring care. It's not a selfish thing to do.
    Cyndi wilkins
    16/11/2016 #14 Cyndi wilkins
    #7 The wave hit hard...an ocean of emotion...I'm still picking the seaweed out of my hair...But I'm getting there;-) Yeah, that whole sickness and in health thing isn't all it's cracked up to be...Don't get me wrong...I love, honor and respect the kind of love that it takes to be a care giver...But sometimes it hurts like hell...experiences like this will awaken that sleeping dragon in anyone...I suppose if it were easy, there would be no lesson in it...We are all our own greatest teachers...sending you LOVE:-)
    Lisa Vanderburg
    16/11/2016 #11 Lisa Vanderburg
    #10 I hear you, @Irene Hackett! It seems wimmin are bent to this role; God love the male care-givers, but they are a rarer breed....must be the anticipation thing; we corral wobbling toddlers and crashing kids, so it's just an ergonomic problem :) Just for laughs: my father died in 2010 - I had been assisting my step-mother in his care. It was my night - his last. He was his usual cranky self (not in pain, mercifully) and was struggling to get out one side of the bed which was blocked, while I tried to steer him to the other side. He got so mad he had his final event. His last words were, 'oh SHUT UP woman!!'
    Deb ๐Ÿ Helfrich
    15/11/2016 #9 Deb ๐Ÿ Helfrich
    #8 As complex as it might be, he actually needs you to make sure you keep on living a full life - whatever that means to you!
    Lisa Vanderburg
    15/11/2016 #8 Lisa Vanderburg
    #5 You called it dead to rights, @Deb ๐Ÿ Helfrich! It crept up slowly - all this....mayhem. I think I have come to terms with my 'lot'. I have no illusions as to what the future holds, so I set my eyes on the goal: to be in control when the proverbial really hits the fan! After that, I imagine no more - it's not of consequence. That's not a sentimental statement or plan, it's merely the truth! To think my sister (years back) used to believe in reincarnation - ha! I'd say to her, 'who in their right mind would want to come back to this world of pain??' But I could think of less-lived lives!
    Lisa Vanderburg
    15/11/2016 #7 Lisa Vanderburg
    #6 Good Lord @Cyndi Wilkins - I am so very sorry for your angst. I can totally empathise when you say, ''The only saving grace for me is that he also suffers dementia and has no memory of what has happened to him...'' You HAD to put him in a nursing home: you had no choice, and I hope you're not still beating yourself up for that. I have the dubious benefit of having to care for my spouse until 'death do us part'. That gives me the onus to be both pit-bull and dragon for him (the upside :) ), and I apologise in advance for those that will feel my wrath should they ignore or neglect my charge! The lines are just too bleary when it's your parent - it warms my heart though; you're clearly mutual love.
    Cyndi wilkins
    15/11/2016 #6 Cyndi wilkins
    "But Iโ€™ll tell you whatโ€™s exhausting: anticipation. To have to be on full-alert for when heโ€™s going to โ€˜goโ€™ (potential fall), to know when heโ€™s going to crash into something or other requires a fair amount of following like a guard-dog." Oh dear Lisa....I feel this soooooo profoundly right now...I've been living this nightmare of dragons and demons ever since I found my dad one morning several weeks ago like a turtle on his back in the bath tub...He had a stroke as he was making his way to the bathroom in the night and fallen over...I thank God every day that he was still conscious and not severely injured, however the stroke took it toll...After several weeks of trying desperately to care for him at home I have had to make the heart wrenching decision to put him in a nursing home...The emotional backlash is like being dragged into an undertow and not being able to surface for air...The only saving grace for me is that he also suffers dementia and has no memory of what has happened to him...My heart goes out to you.
    Deb ๐Ÿ Helfrich
    15/11/2016 #5 Deb ๐Ÿ Helfrich
    From my humble perspective, embodying the dragon, for your own good, is the most sane approach. Get thee to someone who can begin to comprehend. It is isolating trying to explain something that is inexplicable.

    And self-care! I see the challenge so clearly. The need for vigilance. But that very vigilance is actually probably part of what created the situation to begin with. It will be reflected back on you at the most poignant of moments. After caring for weeks non-stop, the slightest diversion of focus will result in some sort of catastrophe either physical, or much, much worse, the allegation that insinuates that you have been selfish.

    In a very tiny, miniscule way, I can identify the cycle with my puppy days. It wasn't the damage to the objects being chewed so much as the inability to see chewing and swallowing as harmful that ravages the companion's mind, which is walking its own tightrope of sleep depravation. Wondering if there are any puppy-proofing sorts of options in your vastly more complex scenario?

    Caring about you from afar!
    Lisa Vanderburg
    15/11/2016 #4 Lisa Vanderburg
    #2 Thank you so much @Gert Scholtz! To be honest I don't know if I'm courageous, but I know a fella who has Parkinsons AND a dragon for a wife - he's got STONES :)
    Most grateful for your good wishes - I'll pass them on!
    Lisa Vanderburg
    15/11/2016 #3 Lisa Vanderburg
    #1 Oh, I am touched by your words and your wisdom my friend, @Ali Anani! I am so far from a super-anything, I look at amoebas in awe :)
    Life is one long prat-fall; a losing battle with decrepitude. It's the same for everyone - those with chronic disease (especially neurodegenerative) just KNOW they're losing earlier. Borrowing from your pensive and beautiful buzz, Adaptations to Emotional Flooding, I just have a little root-rot!
    Gert Scholtz
    15/11/2016 #2 Gert Scholtz
    @Lisa Vanderburg My best wishes to you and your husband Lisa. Your courage is truly admirable.
    Ali Anani
    15/11/2016 #1 Ali Anani
    I am deeply touched by your buzz @Lisa Vanderburg. Your story is full of anticipation and I understand fully your saying that anticipation makes us edgy. I almost "melted" like an ice cube while reading " I have strong opinions, but clearly more lily-livered about my own set of values, because the lines keep changing or blurring. They didnโ€™t always. If it appears Iโ€™m describing a stranger; weโ€™re getting closer"! This is a deep description of many of us and I am not sure I could ever expose my feelings so eloquently and creatively. I wonder how do you make the time to write and comment. You are a super human.
  13. ProducerDonna-Luisa Eversley
    Surrendering to Courage
    Surrendering to CourageWe belongThis was written a number of weeks ago, and maybe its the time to be published. Right now 'courage' is needed more than before in my lifetime and maybe yours. I have a vested interest in this world, and so do you. We live here. We breathe...


    Savvy Raj
    28/02/2017 #47 Savvy Raj
    A beautiful dedication to the spirit of courage in us all dear @Donna-Luisa Eversley.and I loved and reread these lines which I certainly believe in .
    We all have it - courage, but it stays hidden until we let it out!

    In a world where all we see is war, I pray for peace, love, and everyone.
    ๐Ÿ Fatima Williams
    04/02/2017 #46 ๐Ÿ Fatima Williams
    " You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face " #quoteunknown

    But this is what comes to my mind when I read this buzz. I see a women challenging fear and who has gained confidence, courage and a beautiful soul every step moving forward. #bebeesforver :)
    Sushmita Thakare Jain
    04/02/2017 #45 Sushmita Thakare Jain
    #44 Ohh my my...i'm missing out on wonderful posts out here...
    Well all face the Courage in some form or the other each day
    I connect with you emotinally, its difficult to find your Courage and surrender to it...but thats required...

    Thank you for tagging me in...๐Ÿ“
    Donna-Luisa Eversley
    04/02/2017 #44 Donna-Luisa Eversley
    @Sushmita Thakare Jain...not sure if you saw this
    Donna-Luisa Eversley
    02/02/2017 #43 Donna-Luisa Eversley
    #33 @Preston Vander Ven glad it resonated :-)
    Donna-Luisa Eversley
    02/02/2017 #42 Donna-Luisa Eversley
    #34 @Pascal Derrien .. oui monsieur...brilliant!!! hahaha had to do the translation :-)
    Donna-Luisa Eversley
    02/02/2017 #41 Donna-Luisa Eversley
    #35 @Pamela ๐Ÿ Williams I had to sit and smile, and simply pause when I read your comment. "Courage is love. Love will give you the strength of 10. " Yes, Yes, Yes... thank you :-)
    Donna-Luisa Eversley
    02/02/2017 #40 Donna-Luisa Eversley
    #37 @Lisa ๐Ÿ Gallagher Yes Lisa, I understand that healing needed. We have strength and courage especially when our moral fabric has been tested. I am sure your courageous spirit will shine on always! Yes we are strong. In solidarity!
    Donna-Luisa Eversley
    02/02/2017 #39 Donna-Luisa Eversley
    #36 @Aurorasa Sima I appreciate you dropping by :-) Thanks for your support!
    Brian McKenzie
    01/02/2017 #38 Brian McKenzie
    There is no money in Peace - if there was; that would be breaking out everywhere. Fear and Low Info are the payday for Money and Power - and they have been that way for Millennia. It will not change in our life time. The current color revolutions in play by Soros & Clinton prove that. It's a recipe as old as Marx - too bad too few care to read it. Too bad so many still crave and love the Pavlovian Kibble.
    Lisa ๐Ÿ Gallagher
    01/02/2017 #37 Lisa ๐Ÿ Gallagher
    My grandfather served in WWI- just not to date myself too much, I had a much older grandfather. My other grandfather served during WWII and my dad during the Korean War. They all signed up voluntarily, so I came from a family of strong men, sadly they all left too soon. It was my mother who raised 5 children on a mealy wage that inspired me to dream, anything is possible and to never give up. Times have been tough lately. I have been more silent because my brain is trying to heal. But, in numbers there is strength and I/WE shall prevail! PS: Marches coming up, speaking of strength in numbers: https://www.facebook.com/groups/progressivearmy/events/ Thanks @Donna-Luisa Eversley
    Pamela ๐Ÿ Williams
    01/02/2017 #35 Pamela ๐Ÿ Williams
    Being the daughter & sister of service men who faced 'the enemy' in Korea, Vietnam, and the Gulf, the former wife of a police officer and a single mother for my daughter's entire life, I can say this; courage is love in it's purest form. We can try to separate them, but they are one and the same. I did not see myself as courageous for being a single mother because I love my daughter so much there is nothing I won't do, nothing I won't sacrifice for her well-being and happiness.
    When my brother left this earth I was his executor and supervised all the funeral arrangements. A cousin came up to me at the services and whispered: "You're the strongest person I've ever met". I wasn't strong., I wanted to scream at everything and everybody, BUT, my brother had suffered mentally and emotionally his entire life and because of this many looked down on him. I was going to make damn sure that his passing was seen as a great loss to us, because it was. Courage is love. Love will give you the strength of 10.
    Pascal Derrien
    31/01/2017 #34 Pascal Derrien
    ''On ne fait preuve de courage que lorsqu'on est mort de trouille''.

    Arturo Andrade : Les Dรฉmons de Berlin (2009) de Ignacio Del Valle
    Preston ๐Ÿ Vander Ven
    31/01/2017 #33 Preston ๐Ÿ Vander Ven
    Thanks for this Buzz
    Devesh Bhatt
    30/01/2017 #32 Devesh Bhatt
    #29 I imagine it not to be courage.
    I imagine running away as courageous.
    We all ultimately do what we want to,
    I don't think courage is the problem, the problem is the lack of time, time doesn't wait for a decision.
    I am afraid of time constraints.
    Aleta Curry
    30/01/2017 #31 Aleta Curry
    Thank you for this reminder, @Donna-Luisa Eversley. I believe in courage; I've seen it in action. I won't piggy-back on your post, so I'll save the story for another day, but I know what's in us and I believe humans summon up the best when their backs are to the wall.
    Laura Mikolaitis
    30/01/2017 #30 Laura Mikolaitis
    A timely and relevant buzz @Donna-Luisa Eversley. One of my favorite quotes about courage: "โ€œCourage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow.โ€ ~ Mary Anne Radmacher. I love this quote because courage does come in all shapes and sizes, and it resides within us even when we don't realize that it is there. We are presented with circumstances and challenges every step of the way so I believe that courage definitely plays a part in helping us along the way. Lately, for me, it has been that little voice at the end of the day. Thanks for a lovely piece of writing and reflection, Donna.
    Donna-Luisa Eversley
    30/01/2017 #29 Donna-Luisa Eversley
    #19 @Devesh Bhatt I am glad you can find the courage to give another view ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜. Yes love can make us find and release the courage from within. Once you live people and life , you can find your courage ๐Ÿ˜Š
    Donna-Luisa Eversley
    30/01/2017 #28 Donna-Luisa Eversley
    #18 @Ken Boddie thanks for sharing your thoughts...Yes, our servicemen give so much and at any moment can lose everything. In our daily living there are courageous acts all around from ordinary people showing extraordinary courage. Makes me grateful๐Ÿ˜Š.
    Luiz Henrique Souza .E.
    30/01/2017 #27 Luiz Henrique Souza .E.
    #24 Second choice, you got it heheh!
  14. ProducerAbhilash Gaur

    Abhilash Gaur

    Jallikattu seems cruel today, car racing might tomorrow
    Jallikattu seems cruel today, car racing might tomorrowIn the struggle for animal rights, we need to make allowances for other peopleโ€™s views and ways ofย life Could you, in a moment of anger, smash your phoneโ€Šโ€”โ€Šan ordinary call-or-text phoneโ€”against a wall? Would it be โ€˜crueltyโ€™ to the phone?...


    Devesh Bhatt
    26/01/2017 #4 Devesh Bhatt
    We take to the streets for tradition...Good

    When would we take to the streets for the women and children, for healthcare education, basic amenities, accountability of politicians etc etc
    Or we wait for another old man to sit on a fast and lead the way.
    CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    26/01/2017 #3 CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    I know that this is a big news story in India right now because my parents said I MUST watch an Indian news story about bullfighting and I have far too much to keep up with western media without paying attention to a news program in Hindi, a language my parents understand but I barely comprehend at the level of basic Hollywood.

    Now after reading this, I now know why they were so fervent that I pay attention to this news story, which I still cannot as far as Indian news media is concerned, because Indian news media have decided to be CNN but much worse, much much worse. The constant repetition, the weird music, the heightening of dramatic effects and that CNN kind of soundbites printed or scrolling.

    So now I have finally learned about "Jallikattu". In finding out more I was pleasantly pleased to discover the quality of Indian journalism that I found in a website called The Wire. This is the complete antithesis of the so called "news reporting" conducted on Indian news networks on Cable TV. What I liked about The Wire is that presents both sides :

    Banning Jallikattu Will Decimate Indiaโ€™s Indigenous Cattle Breeds By Himakiran Anugula

    Jallikattu is Nothing But Animal Abuse and Machismo, Packaged as Tamil Culture and Tradition By Anonymous

    At times like this it makes me wonder if my parents had not emigrated, what kind of villager would I be if I was born in India? That is what I will contemplate as I head towards we keep our cow in the kitchen, in the fridge and it is called the "milk jug".
    Bill Stankiewicz, ๐Ÿ Brand Ambassador
    26/01/2017 #2 Bill Stankiewicz, ๐Ÿ Brand Ambassador
    I agree with you Fatima.
    ๐Ÿ Fatima Williams
    23/01/2017 #1 ๐Ÿ Fatima Williams
    #Wellsaid A sport that's been held for over 2500 years should not die ! As the animals even Humans are injured in the sport. That comes with the game. Safety measures can be imposed not such laws that abhor people's tradition and culture ! Jallikattu is not just important from a cultural point of view but is more important from a farmer's point of view as it helps in preservation of native breeds.
  15. ProducerDavid B. Grinberg
    Symptoms of Depression
    Symptoms of DepressionIt is now 20 years ago that Steve jumped from the rooftop of the office building in Frankfurt, Germany.My colleague ANDย friend, Steve (Dr. Steve R.), was an extraordinarily good Management Consultant. Even though he did not speak German, his...


    Claire L ๐Ÿ Cardwell
    27/01/2017 #16 Claire L ๐Ÿ Cardwell
    @Aurorasa Sima - v. perceptive article as always. I had a friend that committed suicide several years ago. He was quiet for a long time and then suddenly seemed to burst back into life. That last weekend we spent with him was amazing. He even made plans to meet up the following week. I felt guilty for a long time for missing the signs.....
    Paul Walters
    27/01/2017 #15 Paul Walters
    @Aurorasa Sima Another fine piece...thank you
    Froilรกn Pรฉrez
    26/01/2017 #14 Froilรกn Pรฉrez
    I love that you write about such key issues, @Aurorasa Sima.

    I was not aware that numbers where so high among teenagers.
    CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    26/01/2017 #13 CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    Depression is such a huge monster with an unpredictable wingspan that even the medical fraternity are struggling to understand it, other than find means of alleviating moods through drugs, which themselves can worsen the situation. Both Robin Williams and David Foster Wallace took drugs which at times elevated rather than alleviated their depression.

    The most curious finding for me is that physicians have a higher rate of suicide than the general population and doctors with depression is not something we think about, and so it is humbling to read this New York Times account :

    Medical Student Distress and the Risk of Doctor Suicide
    Pascal Derrien
    26/01/2017 #10 Pascal Derrien
    those events are always disturbing and you have provided practical pointers to hopefully avoid some... blindspots are to easy to identify :-(
    Devesh Bhatt
    26/01/2017 #5 Devesh Bhatt
    The catch is how do we deduce the symptoms.

    I have personally experienced people being driven to depression because society /doctors/family were persistent that the person is depressed, slowly self doubt creeped in and the person actually became depressed.

    Depressed people do depressing things.

    Often by misquoting the trigger of depression, people get depressed that no one understands them, hence they are a misfit.

    Why do people mask depression? They supress and supress and when they finally let the load out it is spontaneous and may seem incoherebt. They do try revealing it makes it worse for them.
    CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    26/01/2017 #4 CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    David Foster Wallace wrote a piece called The Depressed Person. David Foster Wallace was a genius of a writer, hailed as one of the 20th Century's greatest American writers. David Foster Wallace had serious depression. David Foster Wallace took his own life - unable to bear the depth of his depression.

    This is a poignant buzz, not simply because even a great thinker can succumb but a little more awareness is good for all of us. http://harpers.org/wp-content/uploads/HarpersMagazine-1998-01-0059425.pdf
    Lisa ๐Ÿ Gallagher
    26/01/2017 #2 Lisa ๐Ÿ Gallagher
    Thanks for posting this @Aurorasa Sima, depression leading to suicidal thoughts or suicide is very real. I'm not sure when the mind crosses from 'People would be better off without me, to- I'm OK with this, I am doing everyone a favor and relieving the pain I can't escape." I had a friend who committed suicide over 10 years ago, I didn't see the signs until after he was gone either. He sent me an email 15 mins before he took his life. It left me with a lot of guilt.
    Mohammed A. Jawad
    26/01/2017 #1 Mohammed A. Jawad
    Never accept defeat with hardships and agony in life . Accepting defeat is like embracing depression.

    Let come what comes. You have to shun depression, at critical and tough times. Yes, you have to be realistic and courageous, with unfaltering determination and passion. Getting distracted by deviations is vain.

    Be simple, possess excellent character, and at the same time, harbor a strong will power coupled with patience, and at times, be far-sighted with your vision, actions and expectations. Ahaโ€ฆyou will be an influential person!
  16. ProducerJavier ๐Ÿ beBee
    Difficult times make you stronger
    Difficult times make you strongerInspirational Uplifting Quotes For Difficult Times If youโ€™re going through a rough time, reading some uplifting quotes can help you remember that life isnโ€™t always bad.Every struggle in your life has shaped you into the person you are today....


    Tausif Mundrawala
    13/02/2017 #73 Tausif Mundrawala
    We can pick something or the other from every quote here. Thanks, @Javier ๐Ÿ beBee, for sharing this wonderful buzz with us.
    Irene ๐Ÿ Rodriguez Escolar
    06/02/2017 #72 Irene ๐Ÿ Rodriguez Escolar
    #71 ejem no se lo digas a nadie (intento no sacar mucho el agijรณn, aunque hay veces que... )
    He dibujado la abeja giรฑando el ojo en la tapa de mi cajita de madera (aรบn por finalizar) creo que lo colguรฉ el viernes.
    Federico ๐Ÿ รlvarez San Martรญn
    06/02/2017 #71 Federico ๐Ÿ รlvarez San Martรญn
    #70 jajajaja son nuestras dos abejas estrellas. ยฟCuรกl te gusta mas?
    Irene ๐Ÿ Rodriguez Escolar
    06/02/2017 #70 Irene ๐Ÿ Rodriguez Escolar
    Anda mira @Federico ๐Ÿ รlvarez San Martรญn en plan abeja asesina, jjjjj comentario que le hizo a @David Lรณpez, creo que traduje unas cuantas frases, pero no todas sorry.
    Kevin Baker
    02/02/2017 #69 Kevin Baker
    I so agree to make the most of what you have to deal with.
    Cรฉsar de Souza
    02/02/2017 #68 Cรฉsar de Souza
    Poetic and self-help text, @Javier ๐Ÿ beBee?
    Preston ๐Ÿ Vander Ven
    02/02/2017 #67 Preston ๐Ÿ Vander Ven
    A great analogy of a difficult time in life is like a fire. It can be used for something of beauty or it can be ignored. Imagine a difficult time in life as an obstacle that we learn from. When we do this, you and I are like Silver or Gold put into the fire. Yes, it hurts, but through this learning process we can be refined stronger and more pure. We learned from our mistake and now we can move on.
    If we choose to ignore that the difficulty exist's or play the "Blame Game", it can run wild and destroy everything in our path.
    Javier ๐Ÿ beBee
    02/02/2017 #66 Javier ๐Ÿ beBee
    Entrepreneurship is an obstacle race
    Muhammad Ali
    26/01/2017 #65 Muhammad Ali
    Thats is true.
    Mohammed Sultan
    26/01/2017 #64 Mohammed Sultan
    Difficult times always reveal the "teachable moments" from which you should benefit..Do't use the word mistake but talk about the challenge.When you do a mistake but you do't learn the lesson you are going to be passed over even if you are in the right track.To be strong means your attitude will always be aligned to creating opportunities rather than solving problems.Doing mistakes but learning from them will even make you stronger and when you become stronger, you will be looked at as a "guarantee" of being responsible rather than casting blame.
    David Hutton
    26/01/2017 #63 David Hutton
    " You can always Lay down but you may not always be able to get back up - Stand up as long as you can" ! -dh
    David Hutton
    26/01/2017 #62 David Hutton
    Thank you Javier ! These are beautiful . I knew most of them but reading them Reminded me all over again and it felt wonderful. Food for the Soul !!!!! David
    Milos Djukic
    26/01/2017 #61 Anonymous
    Please, enjoy the silence of your mind without the unpleasant inconvenience. This is just the calm before the storm of creativity.

    If you get stuck, be sure you are on the right track.

    The one who was unpopular or attacked has also a chance to become eternal.
    Milos Djukic
    26/01/2017 #60 Anonymous
    #54 :)
    Bill Stankiewicz, ๐Ÿ Brand Ambassador
    25/01/2017 #59 Bill Stankiewicz, ๐Ÿ Brand Ambassador
    Thank you Fatima & all the great feedback here by so many wise bee's
    Graham๐Ÿ Edwards
    25/01/2017 #58 Graham๐Ÿ Edwards
    "It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat." - Teddy Roosevelt
    Renรฉe  ๐Ÿ Cormier
    25/01/2017 #57 Renรฉe ๐Ÿ Cormier
    "There are no problems; only solutions." My former boss used to say this all the time. It resonated with me because it is true. Every challenge in life is only as challenging as we perceive it to be. If you focus on moving forward, you will realize you never really had a problem. Life is all about the choices we make. Choose solutions over problems, positivism over negativity, progress over stagnation, happiness over misery...
    Mohammed Sultan
    25/01/2017 #56 Mohammed Sultan
    Everybody can be strong- that's easy; but to be strong to rapidly bounce back from failure and see an opportunity in every setback and to be optimistic in a sea of bad news ,that's not within the strength of everyone and is not easy.Thank you @Javier beBee or sharing such inspirational quotes.
    Todd Jones
    25/01/2017 #55 Todd Jones
    "Life is like a grindstone. However, whether it wears you down, or polishes you up depends on what you are made of." Author unknown, although many try to take credit
    Bill Stankiewicz, ๐Ÿ Brand Ambassador
    25/01/2017 #54 Bill Stankiewicz, ๐Ÿ Brand Ambassador
    Like they say, what does not kill you makes you stronger in Supply Chain Management ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ
  17. Producerdebasish majumder
    SYSTEM FAILURE- A SOCIAL MALICE?Aloke Majumder, a promising entrepreneur, is truly become successful in a very short span of time. After completing his engineering studies from a premium institution of the country, instead of accepting lucrative job from reputed M.N.Cโ€™s, he...


    Ali Anani
    27/01/2017 #6 Ali Anani
    This is truly a sad story dear @debasish majumder. Greed led to the loss of lives and leaving behind two orphaned children. When we cheat and expose other peoples' lives to the risk of death we forget we expose ours as well. A terrific story and the lessons are deep.
    Sushmita Thakare Jain
    24/01/2017 #5 Sushmita Thakare Jain
    Nice read @debasish majumder and BTW loved the picture made me dive in :)
    debasish majumder
    24/01/2017 #4 debasish majumder
    #3 thank you very much madam @Aurorasa Sima for your cordial comment. i am privileged and honored.
    Jianlan Li
    24/01/2017 #2 Jianlan Li
    Jeet Sarkar
    24/01/2017 #1 Jeet Sarkar
    Great article. Lovely insight Sir @debasish majumder ! Thank you for sharing it!
  18. ProducerPhil Friedman

    Phil Friedman

    On the Limits of Free Expression
    On the Limits of Free ExpressionWE MAY ALL HAVE THE RIGHT TO FREELY EXPRESS IDEAS AND OPINIONS BUT IS ANYONE OBLIGATED TO LISTEN, LET ALONE ANSWER ...The issue of what is and what isn't acceptable expression on social media comes up frequently, particularly on platforms such as...


    Donna-Luisa Eversley
    23/01/2017 #85 Donna-Luisa Eversley
    @Phil Friedman had a slower read of this super post and find it even more relevant today in a broader sense than when you first published. I appreciate my freedom of speech more now than ever before. I even appreciate my freedom of choice to listen, respond , follow and engage with others worldwide, many of whom must be guarded in their own responses, for fear of possible reprisals. Social media may bring us closer as units of this world but it also makes it a lot easier to divide us all.
    Just thinking out loud while reading :-)
    Phil Friedman
    09/01/2017 #84 Phil Friedman
    #81 What was that you said, Jim Saelzler?
    Phil Friedman
    09/01/2017 #82 Phil Friedman
    #80 Excellent simile, Pascal. It's where I've finally arrived after several years. 1) On MY posts I speak my mind. If you come onto my post to comment, then expect that I will respond. If you don't want that, don't come to the comments on MY posts. And let's drop the "Phil's a meany and started it all when he hit me back." 2) I am making an extra effort to respect the sensitivities of others these days by not making critical comments on the posts of others unless a) I've been invited to comment by a tag or a shout out, or b) I have an established relationship with the author of the post and know he or she will accept the critical comment for what it is. 3) I leave it to management to eject rowdy, obnoxious fellow-customers โ€” although I personally prefer that management exercise that prerogative sparingly. Thanks for joining the conversation. You make a lot of sense, as usual.
    Jim Saelzler
    09/01/2017 #81 Jim Saelzler
    But dammit Phil, if I want to tell you something you have to listen!
    Pascal Derrien
    09/01/2017 #80 Pascal Derrien
    I was thinking in very practical terms that social media is you do what you want in your own house, you respect other users in a public park and the management reserves the right to admission to the restaurant providing you comply with basic rules of engagement otherwise you can be escorted out thru the exit door... :-)
    Mohammed Sultan
    09/01/2017 #79 Mohammed Sultan
    #77 Yes,Phil-Sometimes you have to focus on what you do like rather than preventing what you don't like.Thank you for your reply.
    Phil Friedman
    09/01/2017 #78 Phil Friedman
    #76 Donna-Luisa, you are, I think, correct. There is always a tension between a desire for intellectual engagement and the need to protect oneself from emotional predators.

    To my mind, "trolls" almost always fall into the latter category. For they literally draw sustenance from the negative emotional energy they elicit. And in some cases, it becomes a game of King of the Hill -- which is why it is so distressing to them to be ignored.

    As true bullies, they've learned as well that making people uncomfortable frequently gets the what they want, in a recreation of buy-the-bully-off, otherwise known as the Stockholm Syndrome. As always, thank you for you insight and thoughtful comments. Cheers!
    Phil Friedman
    09/01/2017 #77 Phil Friedman
    #75 Mohammed, thank you for reading and commenting. I understand your concern and the moral imperative which you recommend. And I have sometimes been able to act in accord with it -- in several instances using tolerance and playfulness to draw out a supposed troll into communicating openly without a hidden agenda, and becoming part of the community.

    In some few cases it works, and is gratifying But most times it doesn't. Because, I 've concluded, such people usually do not want to join a community. For they truly lack empathy and see others as objects to be used. And are most times, are best ignored.
    Donna-Luisa Eversley
    09/01/2017 #76 Donna-Luisa Eversley
    @Phil Friedman I have noted your efforts to ignore being baited and found one individual quite upset and persistent by your lack of response on one of your posts. I was confused initially about why you did not respond as it became creepy and obsessive. It was interesting to watch, but also uncomfortable. I am guilty at times of really shying away from negativity which is offensive. However, I have learnt in 2016 that I don't need to read or respond to anyone I choose not to engage with. Your discussion on free speech matters , because it is critical to deffrentiate between trollish behavior and an opinion of disagreement. The lines seem blurred on what offends sometimes, and it can be quite subjective. My only fear and concern is we lose when all thoughts mirror our own and there is no yin to yang. Disagreement can protect against fake or fraudulent information dispensed via social media by psudeo experts. Quite an interesting discussion and much needed.
    Mohammed Sultan
    09/01/2017 #75 Mohammed Sultan
    @ Phil Friedman.Fruity trees are always thrown by stones.You either ignore the troll or support him.Those irrational people are acting emotionally ,so they need to be understood and supported until they balance their emotion with reason.In the workplaces there's many who are trolling others ideas because no body listened to their ideas.We always advice companies not to suppress their views or get them blamed for their behavior because they are often me - too people.Their capabilities depends more on their feelings ,emotions and hidden knowledge rather than relationships with others.Show them the glint of light on their broken heart after they had trolled.Kant the French philosopher said "In how a man is guilty,who he violates the rights of others,in ethics he is guilty if he only thinks of doing this." Phil, patience is a true sign of authenticity that provides you with the energy to go further.
    Phil Friedman
    09/01/2017 #74 Phil Friedman
    #73 Thank you, Federico, for keeping us all up to date on that. Cheers.
    Federico ๐Ÿ รlvarez San Martรญn
    09/01/2017 #73 Federico ๐Ÿ รlvarez San Martรญn
    #55 We will have the option to block any user. We will be aware of any attitude described by you. Thanks for the feedback. Best Regards.
    Phil Friedman
    09/01/2017 #72 Phil Friedman
    #71 Thanks, Franci, for reading and joining the conversation. For the most part, I agree with your summary. I am moved, however, to caution everyone about the too-free use of sanctions. In the matter of freedom of expression, I think it is always better on social media to err on the side of being too liberal, and use official sanctions only when it is obvious that the issue cannot be cleared up by the free reigning interactions of the community. Cheers and best wishes to you for the new year 2017.
    Franci๐ŸEugenia Hoffman
    09/01/2017 #71 Franci๐ŸEugenia Hoffman
    Thank you for your professional approach to freedom of expression, Phil. Perhaps, a fragile subject but one worthy of being addressed. We can agree and we can disagree (not referencing you and me, per se), and that's fine because if we didn't we would be complacent and drab souls. If we don't test the waters, then we don't know which way the river flows.

    IMO, your post is more about freedom of speech than trolls. And it is about writers: those who use written words in various styles and techniques to communicate their ideas.

    And it is about listeners(commenters) and their freedom of expression. Both the writer and listener(commenter) should be respected and show respect, as well.

    With that said, relating specifically to beBee we have a gift at our fingertips where we can meet, greet, engage, discuss and have freedom of expression and freedom of listening(commenting). I feel it ours to use, but not abuse and not let anyone else abuse it, as well. @Javier ๐Ÿ beBee has proven that abuse will not be tolerated, which is one of the reasons I'm proud to be a bee.

    To sum up, my rambling, IMO, it boils down to respect.

    Buzz on and be the best you can bee.
    Todd Jones
    08/01/2017 #70 Todd Jones
    #59 Thank you @Javier ๐Ÿ beBee! Can you hear the applause?

    How rich the irony.... A troll trolling a post about trolls. A veritable troll trifecta. Thanks again for escorting him to the exit.
    Milos Djukic
    08/01/2017 #68 Anonymous
    #66 @Phil Friedman, This is the one of the key aspects necessary for sustainable development of any social network. Unpleasant experiences and unrealistically high expectations and hopes, in contact with other people on social media, should not cause disappointment and loss of faith in humanity, kindness and the importance of helpfulness.
    Phil Friedman
    08/01/2017 #67 Phil Friedman
    #62 Tetyana, thank you for commenting. I cannot speak to the charge that there are paid professional trolls on social media, who are agents of various governments, and that such agents use complaints and reporting functions to silence critics of their masters. But I can see that it is definitely a danger. Which is why it is so important to protect the rights of the minority to speak freely against any possible tyranny of the majority. And to make sure that the reporting function is not used unfairly as a tool of repression. Cheers!
    Phil Friedman
    08/01/2017 #66 Phil Friedman
    #57 #61 Milos and David, in the main, I agree with both of you. David makes an important point: It is critical to avoid allowing the reporting functions from being used as tools of retaliation and vendetta. The only way to accomplish that is to assure that every complaint is properly investigated before action is taken against the user being reported. As well, I think it important to understand that simply not liking or being made uncomfortable by what somebody says is NOT, nor should it be sufficient for having that person's account closed down. Freedom of expression has primarily to do with protecting the rights of the minority (or less powerful in the situation) from the overbearing power of the majority (or the more powerful in the situation).

    I think it should also be recognized that some bees might be upset by what some users say, but that in itself is not sufficient to squelch the speaker's free expression. I was aghast recently by reading a comment by a beBee user that lauded some of Hitler's ideas. And so I muted that bee, and when the block function goes live, I will block that person as well. However, I would not want that person's account closed down simply because I found the remark offensive and unacceptable. For that would itself do more damage to free expression than the objectionable remark itself.

    I think Milos lays out some useful criteria in intention, form, and function. And I believe further that a balanced objectivity must be maintained.

    That said, I for one trust @Javier beBee and the beBee administration to act with care and good judgment, as has been amply evidenced to date. Cheers!
    Milos Djukic
    08/01/2017 #65 Anonymous
    "1. The effort or inclination to increase the well-being of humankind, as by charitable aid or donations.
    2. Love of humankind in general.
    3. Something, such as an activity or institution, intended to promote human welfare."
    - From thefreedictionary.com (http://www.thefreedictionary.com/Philantropy)
    Milos Djukic
    08/01/2017 #63 Anonymous
    #54 @Phil Friedman, Never, ever underestimate the importance of having fun and the power of C-butterflies (fractal or not) :)

    Ugly Fractal Troll Bird
  19. Producerdebasish majumder
    CONUNDRUM WITH BRAND VALUE!Modern world invoke to create brand Whether personal or organizational, in grand Human beings, a social creature They genuinely having a tendency to promote an affinity of mixture To churn out with a prolific gesture Beckoning...


    Ali Anani
    07/01/2017 #5 Ali Anani
    Dear @debasish majumder- nothing turns people blind as much as greed in my opinion. We see it everywhere such as the sock markets worldwide where greed drives people to great losses. Greed that says me only and if I win and others lose it is ok. So, this part of your poem resonated strongly with me
    Only impregnated with mere greed

    Is it containing any holy essence?

    Where greed is rudimentary in its presence

    Why we only trigger to develop brand

    What is exactly grand, apart from gross errant?
    CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    07/01/2017 #4 CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    Debasish I discovered that I was born with a personal brand gag reflex. Lately I was doing so well after a few decade finally trying to embrace this reality that we are all branded property, and now having read this I have fallen back to square one again.

    It all began with a Tom Peters article back before the age of 40 https://www.fastcompany.com/28905/brand-called-you because there was something intrinsically wrong with comparing our lives as something that Procter and Gamble or Unilever would sell.

    Brand was great for product that is until we all officially became product courtesy of "Brand You".
    Lyon Brave
    07/01/2017 #3 Lyon Brave
    Man it would be so tight if this was a rap? Nice lyrics..
    Lyon Brave
    07/01/2017 #2 Lyon Brave
    Interesting proverb
  20. Josรฉ Ramรณn โœŒ๐Ÿผ Lรณpez
    Dulce Pontes - Lagrima
    Dulce Pontes - Lagrima ....nao te quero, eu digo que nao te quero, y de noite, de noite sonho comtigo...(...I don't love you, I say I don't love you, and at night I dream of...


    Pedro๐Ÿ Gรณmez
    28/12/2016 #4 Pedro๐Ÿ Gรณmez
    Maravillosa siempre...!!!
    Maria do Socorro Oliveira
    27/12/2016 #2 Maria do Socorro Oliveira
    Muito bonita, a voz espetacular. Bravo!
    CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    26/12/2016 #1 CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    Profound depth and a beautiful voice and composition. It represents for me the profound nature of experience, where sadness and the things in life we die to are not a death but a becoming and a humanity within us, that shape wisdom if we are capable of knowing this depth and where we have the courage or capacity to grow from the sensitivity of our own experiences.
  21. ProducerPascal Derrien

    Pascal Derrien

    Black Mirror: What If I Can Only Hear You?
    Black Mirror: What If I Can Only Hear You?You give me different names, you have written so many different stories about me in so many different languages that itโ€™s hard to believe I was just a man.You talked about love and about all things above and then you started to build a bomb with a...


    Praveen Raj Gullepalli
    21/12/2016 #45 Praveen Raj Gullepalli
    #44 Good narrative however. But I never cease to be stymied at the fact that so few...sometimes just one individual...can do /does so much damage while the millions and billions of others...with righteousness on their side, and so much collective strength, allow such damage to be done. Of course they do have their reasons but the fact remains.
    Pascal Derrien
    21/12/2016 #44 Pascal Derrien
    #42 personally I don't do divine so I was trying to think what if it is the other way round in terms of narrative :-) thanks for dropping by @Praveen Raj Gullepalli
    Harvey Lloyd
    21/12/2016 #43 Harvey Lloyd
    #41 No i really don't have much to comment to the religious aspects of the comment. Our spiritual journey is our own and yes i have a spiritual leader but it is not necessary for you to agree or disagree. I guess the focus of my comment was that mankind will decide its own fate.

    I would rather die fighting for mankind than be drawn into a endless debate about who's fault it is. God or evolution may have created the world but, it is clear to me, we can make of it what we want. Those who profit from the debate of dichotomy's are the ones with the microphones. I am challenged by those who support their false arguments and join the herd. They will have made their riches and died while we suffer under their past ideals.
    Praveen Raj Gullepalli
    21/12/2016 #42 Praveen Raj Gullepalli
    I have always believed that it is the capricious, selfish blinded-by-reason Human that walks away or turns away from the Divine and not the other way around dear Pascal! And it is always the Human/s who empower another Human (actively or passively) to grow into a monster. By not acknowledging the right of all other Humans to live a dignified and happy life and supporting it forthright.
    Pascal Derrien
    21/12/2016 #41 Pascal Derrien
    #39 I think I like the analogy ''Many more will die in the fight of mankind'' and also that religion is a distraction comment. It would probably encompass what I was trying to say with my own words, indeed I was thinking that maybe the gods have abandoned us because they could not take anymore and maybe it has happened a long time ago and we did not even notice... now that's the hypothetical view from an atheist I have no faith no religion etc.. but I feel you may have a word or two on that one :-) last many thanks for a great directional comment :-) Harvey
    Pascal Derrien
    21/12/2016 #40 Pascal Derrien
    #38 thanks @Dean Owen yes very often forgotten in the pecking order of horror sadly I could have added many more massacres organized or not...
    Harvey Lloyd
    21/12/2016 #39 Harvey Lloyd
    I have watched this discussion from afar and seen the winding road of comments circle the true depth of your post, none to easy to comment directly. With respect and an open mind i would suggest that the true topic you discuss is that God has abandoned us as we look at the history of Man. If this is an inaccurate assessment of the post forgive the following comments.

    Most religions, (I hate that word, but lack a better descriptor that groups the logical, of all beliefs.) offer man free will. Man is offered the design criteria pen of existence, if you will. From your post i sense you and i share that the design pen has been used more for those of power than for the masses.

    If i were to convince 80% of the population that the tooth fairy was real through writings and teachings, would the evil of the world be caused by the tooth fairy?

    I sell nothing here nor ask that you consider some form of faith. But would state to blame a god for what man has done ignores the very existence of success we seek in our lives. In essence we lack free will.

    Many more will die in the fight of mankind. Some for their beliefs others because of their greed and still others because they rival another. But these will happen just like they have in the past, because man is exercising free will, while good men/women watch.

    The God debate is a distraction while free will of individuals bent on various egregious activities to rule the world move forward. One need not believe in anything, but to exist we have to believe in each other. The God debate pits us against each other just like republican/democrat, majority/minority and many other polarizing divide and conquer strategies.

    You exist, they exist and I exist. We must learn to do it together and identify those who stretch their, very human, free will to enslave us all. Power comes from exterminating others free will.
    Dean Owen
    21/12/2016 #38 Dean Owen
    One has to presume that man is inherently evil but without evil, can there be good? OR perhaps these genocides are nature fighting back? I am glad you highlighted Cambodia, too often forgotten.
    CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    21/12/2016 #37 CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    #36 The one thing that does connect traffic accidents with global murder is ignorance. Movies like "Blood Diamond" attempt to show us the price we pay for a material existence. In traffic accidents, it is the very material that kills us, in genocide it is for the control of that material. In Nazi Germany they called it "lebensraum" or living space for the master race. Notice how this holocaust account http://www.holocaust-trc.org/the-holocaust-education-program-resource-guide/lebensraum/ focuses on the relationship between possession and identity.

    Economist Amartya Sen takes an optimistic view to solve identity in "Identity and Violence", it echoes a call to look at our similarities rather than our differences, rather than appreciate difference as diversity. It echoes the sentiment of why we could as a human race get along, whereas the "Why can't we get along?" in the comedy Mars Attack is perhaps going to be truth until there is an evolutionary renaissance of humanity https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MPMmC0UAnj0

    Our evolution as human beings has not come to a climactic end for we are still emerging from the dark ages, but how future generations evolve is definitely a part of our collective legacy - because it is in individual transformation - perhaps which may well be genetically coded in our DNA that evolution becomes genetic rather than merely memetic. It is similiar to when civilizations first appeared - similiar evolution occurring at the same time https://www.forbiddenhistory.info/?q=node/67 - though this particular link theorizes that there was one advanced global culture that was decimated by some powerful agent like climate change - rather than the way humans evolve is already encoded in those parts of our DNA that today seem to be doing nothing - inactive DNA.
    Pascal Derrien
    21/12/2016 #36 Pascal Derrien
    #34 thanks @Nick Mlatchkov besides the external aspect of the animal I suppose the intent remained the same ?
    Nick Mlatchkov
    21/12/2016 #35 Anonymous
    "Edward Gresser claims that Traffic accidents kill 1.24 million people a year worldwide; wars and murders, 0.44 million"
    These are 'victims of progress' ๐Ÿ˜€
    Nick Mlatchkov
    21/12/2016 #34 Anonymous
    It's quite interesting if lions have been used en masse for that instead of horses in those days ...?
    Pascal Derrien
    21/12/2016 #33 Pascal Derrien
    #31 thanks @CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit for the supplemental comment it is nuts that we keep doing the opposite of what we say ... :-( it does sure warrant a WTF comment :-)
    Pascal Derrien
    21/12/2016 #32 Pascal Derrien
    #29 interesting perspective @Aleta Curry there is some goodness in your thoughts but I think the realist in me have some difficulty with the equation.....:-)
    CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    21/12/2016 #31 CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    #28 Pascal, as much as I now go deeper and learn about Post Rock and what that is courtesy of sites like Wikipedia https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Post-rock View more
    #28 Pascal, as much as I now go deeper and learn about Post Rock and what that is courtesy of sites like Wikipedia https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Post-rock, I can also ask questions that have been asked for nearly 70 years.

    Here I find the term "Never Again" - a mantra set by the United Nations in 1948 - Here is a piece about that http://ir.lawnet.fordham.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1667&context=ilj and then when I drill down to particular genocides such as Rwanda e.g. https://www.globalpolicy.org/component/content/article/201/39226.html I get into the weeds of assaults on humanity - and then with Rwanda I go deeper still to those who are considered by their nation to be heroic e.g. https://yvesengler.com/2015/12/28/the-fairy-tale-about-a-brave-canadian-general-in-rwanda/ and I come to an existential WTF moment.

    It is cool to hope, nice to be positive, wonderful to inspire and marvelous to motivate - but the best thing I like opening up things is to peer into new insights. For me "Post Rock" is a new insight - but here is the rub - until we have an education system and a polity for depth, for wonder, for learning, for truth and for the humility of insight - we are the few who have hopes for the many. Even so our steps in whatever direction make us a little more wiser, a little more awed and a little more informed than is the general cause. This is the best we can do until others also choose for themselves this energy for enlightenment.

    I am not a seeker of agreements or disagreements, I am not vessel of persuasion or dialogue, what I welcome most is people like you who open up new vista's, new questions and new ways of looking at our world - and then I explore and I welcome that. Close
    Aleta Curry
    20/12/2016 #29 Aleta Curry
    I just can't be that hopeless, especially not at this time of year. I always hear the words of the beautiful 'I heard the bells on Christmas Day'. This line gets me every time: 'And in despair I bowed my head, "there is no peace on earth" I said; for Hate is strong and mocks the song of "Peace on Earth, Goodwill to Men"'.

    Our atrocities may be legion; our inhumanity great, but then so is our love. It's easy to say 'look what a mess the world's in. Look how humans behave. It's hopeless'. Yet every single day, thousands...hundreds of thousands?...millions?...of people perform small acts of kindness and love for fellow beings out of a Goodness that springs from we know not where and without expecting *anything *at * all in return.

    Sure, we could each make a list of history's monsters which, if combined, would make a helluva long list. But our list of history's angels, (if we only had the knowledge to create it) would be even longer. I'm not just talking about the list of documented Good Guys, I'm talking about another list, the true list, the A-Z of Humanity. It starts with some unknown bloke named...I don't know...maybe 'Aaron', ends with another unknown fellow perhaps named Zachariah, and includes YOU.
    Pascal Derrien
    20/12/2016 #28 Pascal Derrien
    #25 the genre is defined as Post Rock, they are almost neighbours , they are not really well known even in Ireland past music nerds like me, interesting discussion point you are brining but I don't know about he comparison with road accident, I am actually a crash survivor myself in theory I should not be here writing this I kind of think that we cannot control the butterfly effect or destiny but conflicts can be avoided, shorten or simply stopped at least that's what I would like to think @CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit :-)
    Pascal Derrien
    20/12/2016 #27 Pascal Derrien
    #26 indeed @Irene Hackett up to reverse the course or there will be a major collision :-(
    CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    20/12/2016 #25 CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    First of all thanks Pascal, I would never heard of "God is an Astronaut" never mind considered listening to ambient music, but having a listen to Age of the Fifth Sun https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TJPTcLbGS_I View more
    First of all thanks Pascal, I would never heard of "God is an Astronaut" never mind considered listening to ambient music, but having a listen to Age of the Fifth Sun https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TJPTcLbGS_I those Kinsella twins are putting together some good beats and they have some cool artwork to go along with it as can be seen on their website .

    As for the murder of people whether one calls it genocide and holocaust, the reality of that speaks for itself and it is gruesome. Just as gruesome is the comparative number of deaths that occur on roads. Take this article from Progressive Economy where Edward Gresser claims that Traffic accidents kill 1.24 million people a year worldwide; wars and murders, 0.44 million. http://www.progressive-economy.org/trade_facts/traffic-accidents-kill-1-24-million-people-a-year-worldwide-wars-and-murders-0-44-million/

    We have preventable tragedies often within 10 miles of where we are or live and we can't stop that - how does one address the global conflict when the local collision is arms length - that we weep for the people far away but spare less time for the people closer to home - a home magnifying across the world in similiar tragic circumstances.

    We don't react to road accidents because we protect the injured and killed for their privacy otherwise we would see as gruesome pictures on our roads as one finds in the murderous actions in our world. When we are confronted with mass numbers we become numb to the size of the loss - but we echo sentiments of empathy and compassion, as if we are washing away the horror, while the extent of local loss passes us by because the sheer extent of it would send us into psychological disorder if we were to on-board such pain and loss that happens all around us daily.

    Pick up a local newspaper and needless death is there http://www.mississauga.com/news-story/7004138-funeral-friday-for-teen-killed-crossing-mississauga-street/ how can we heal war when we can't heal our own roads? Close
    Pamela ๐Ÿ Williams
    20/12/2016 #21 Pamela ๐Ÿ Williams
    That's why I said; Wouldn't you? I sure wouldn't blame the gods. #7
  22. Max๐Ÿ J. Carter
    Guns N' Roses - Civil War with Lyrics
    Guns N' Roses - Civil War with Lyrics Enjoy the song ! Lyrics: What we've got here is failure to communicate. Some men you just can't...


    Mohammed A. Jawad
    10/12/2016 #2 Mohammed A. Jawad
    Ah, a provocative call to the merchants of arrogance and oppression! Perhaps, to be human beings, they ought to learn the language of humanity.
    Max๐Ÿ J. Carter
    10/12/2016 #1 Max๐Ÿ J. Carter
    Look at your young men fighting
    Look at your women crying
    Look at your young men dying
    The way they've always done before

    Look at the hate we're breeding
    Look at the fear we're feeding
    Look at the lives we're leading
    The way we've always done before

    My hands are tied
    The billions shift from side to side
    And the wars go on with brainwashed pride
    For the love of God and our human rights
    And all these things are swept aside
    By bloody hands time can't deny
    And are washed away by your genocide
    And history hides the lies of our civil wars

    D'you wear a black armband
    When they shot the man
    Who said, "Peace could last forever."
    And in my first memories
    They shot Kennedy
    An' I went numb when I learned to see
    So I never fell for Vietnam
    We got the wall of D.C. to remind us all
    That you can't trust freedom
    When it's not in your hands
    When everybody's fightin'
    For their promised land

    I don't need your civil war
    It feeds the rich while it buries the poor
    Your power hungry sellin' soldiers
    In a human grocery store
    Ain't that fresh
    I don't need your civil war

    Look at the shoes you're filling
    Look at the blood we're spilling
    Look at the world we're killing
    The way we've always done before
    Look in the doubt we've wallowed
    Look at the leaders we've followed
    Look at the lies we've swallowed
    And I don't want to hear no more

    My hands are tied
    For all I've seen has changed my mind
    But still the wars go on as the years go by
    With no love of God or human rights
    'Cause all these dreams are swept aside
    By bloody hands of the hypnotized
    Who carry the cross of homicide
    And history bears the scars of our civil wars


    I don't need your civil war
    It feeds the rich while it buries the poor
    Your power hungry sellin' soldiers
    In a human grocery store
  23. Chas โœŒ๏ธ Wyatt
    The 99% Reality, (a must read)~
    Chas โœŒ๏ธ Wyatt


    Chas โœŒ๏ธ Wyatt
    06/12/2016 #3 Chas โœŒ๏ธ Wyatt
    "Black Friday" and "Cyber Monday" have come and went, yet, there is a price many are still paying for "Free Shipping".
    CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    03/12/2016 #2 CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    #1 Yes, this is the blackest kind of work wisdom.
    Chas โœŒ๏ธ Wyatt
    03/12/2016 #1 Chas โœŒ๏ธ Wyatt
    @CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit, thank you for sharing.
  24. ProducerGerald Hecht

    Gerald Hecht

    On Conformity
    On Conformityโ€œMore hideous crimes have been committed in the name of obedience than have ever been committed in the name of rebellion.โ€ - C.F. SnowIt really is one of the greatest practical (pragmatic) jokes in all of Psychology; indeed it was inspired by the...


    Gerald Hecht
    07/01/2017 #62 Gerald Hecht
    #60 @debasish majumder it is sad that all of these studies have been done and we don't seem to learn...you have Philip Zimbardo's "Prison Study" in the 1970's...not only was the science/methodology done right...but the study proved its point so well that it HAD TO BE STOPPED AFTER TWO WEEKS!!!

    This was in the 1970's at Stanford; so naturally we would all think: "lesson learned"..,right?
    Then...inthe early 2000's the "geniuses" at the U.S. Defense Department allow Abu Grade to happen !!!

    Gerald Hecht
    07/01/2017 #61 Gerald Hecht
    #59 @Lyon Brave we could do a joint "diffusion of responsibility thingie "...if he would get enough people to ensure we all turn into slackers and never actually finish it!
    debasish majumder
    07/01/2017 #60 debasish majumder
    what ever the education being imparted in the available system, it will only invoke to become more fool! the actual lessons being learnt while we give up the theoretical exercise and more prone to be ethical with human values, large being guided by circumstantial condition, where humanity is the major concern. without sympathy nothing could be achieved, even also in medical science. it is the human being out of all creatures in this world having the capacity to receive the quality of the matter available in this mundane world, being reflected in his faculty. however, nice insight @Gerald Hecht! enjoyed read. thank you for the share.
    Lyon Brave
    07/01/2017 #59 Lyon Brave
    @Gerald Hecht thank you for this post. I'm mirroring you to establish a bond. Aw, a psych joke.
    Gerald Hecht
    20/11/2016 #58 Gerald Hecht
    #56 @Jim Murray It should also be noted that in the last week alone; the exponential increase in the number of nations rapidly moving toward isolationist, nationalistic/protectionist positions with a simultaneous increase in the influence of extreme right wing/neofascist political parties is something that hasn't been seen in a long time...indeed, your very own recent post (Attn: Canadians...popular vote going to Hillary...We of course are above that sort of thing...) --humorous/tounge-in-cheek; yes ...underlying nationalist passive-aggressive expression of Canadian moral superiority --also yes. I remember a while ago --at the very beginning of the Trump Campaign; (when nobody was taking it seriously at all)...saying: "It's all very funny/entertaining...right up until the second that it isn't..."
    Gerald Hecht
    20/11/2016 #57 Gerald Hecht
    #56 @Jim Murray Yes the original Milgram studies were designed as a sort of "post-mortem" of the Nuremberg courts...to resolve a nasty debate among academics as to whether the "only following orders thing " was an anomaly (a predisposition of "Germanic Culture") or whether the indoctrination to obey authority figures (parents, teachers, law enforcement officials, etc.) was pretty much universal in Western Cultures --built in to the "Romantic-Classical Dualism" in all societies built up from "Aristotelean Reason"...i.e., The USA, Canada, etc...Milgram demonstrated that horrific events requiring "Nuremberg type" war tribunal remediation were were just as likely to be required in Washington D.C. , Toronto, London, Paris, etc...at anytime --as a function of a sweeping reversal of economic fortune in nations; creating a zeitgeist in which (potentially "crazy") populist leaders appeared on the scene --with a message that resonated strongly enough...
    Jim Murray
    19/11/2016 #56 Jim Murray
    I seem to recall that the Nuremburg courts found that blind obedience to authority was no excuse. I kind of read between the lines here and have to tell you that I believe, In America, as of January whatever, civil disobedience will climb to astronomical levels. Mainly because the authority figures are not going to be respected. Some will blindly obey and those are the ones you want to steer clear of. You say you want a revolution...right after Christmas.
    Gerald Hecht
    14/11/2016 #55 Gerald Hecht
    #52 @Peter van Doorn ...sounds like my late dad; he taught me things that are called "behaving decently"in the real world of interacting with people in the physical world...but are barely perceptible in the virtual world...and even more worrisome --the dynamics of the virtual world seem to be transforming the dynamics of the physical world more so than...what should be happening...the exact opposite
    Gerald Hecht
    14/11/2016 #54 Gerald Hecht
    #49 @CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit "personal compass" --almost makes failure to express non-dangerous moral protest as a "man made measurement instrument" limitation ...on the other hand you use the word "check"...implying that perhaps it is in need of recalibration; a recalibration that is in fact possible...that is what I like to think.
    Gerald Hecht
    14/11/2016 #53 Gerald Hecht
    #46 @Peter van Doorn Yeah...I am experiencing a similar disconnect between "life as one sees it" ...and the baffling alternative dimension of social media; so much distortion, amplification variability...complete lack of engagement for tactile, olfactory, gustatory, nocioceptive...any interoceptive feedback "thingies"...it's impossible to be sure of what "identities" are really up to...my latest longform post (a test of some ideas pertaining to this) is behaving as expected...people are viewing it and then "slinking away" like they've been "bad dogs" or something...why? Because I used words almost guaranteed to keep folks from deploying "Phaedrus's analytic knife"...to even bother separating "what a thing is" versus "what a thing means"...it's all gone to far; IMO
    Milos Djukic
    07/11/2016 #50 Anonymous
    CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    06/11/2016 #49 CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    #48 not free but awareness of what freedom is, whether that is the Prisoner TV series from the 60's, George Orwell writing 1984 or the first Matrix movie - all of which knock on our life door and reminds us to check our own personal compass called freedom.
    Gerald Hecht
    06/11/2016 #48 Gerald Hecht
    #45 thank you for sharing your conviction that you are not a number; but rather: You are free
    Gerald Hecht
    06/11/2016 #47 Gerald Hecht
    #46 @Peter van Doorn Thank you for sharing your point of view on this
    CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    05/11/2016 #45 CityVP ๐Ÿ Manjit
    All I have got to say here is "I am not a number, I am a free man"
    Gerald Hecht
    05/11/2016 #44 Gerald Hecht
    Peter Gabriel's ...https://www.youtube.com/shared?ci=4xIePn4Uvdo
    Gerald Hecht
    05/11/2016 #43 Gerald Hecht
    #42 @Peter van Doorn Well, in Milgram's original study; NOT EVERYONE (although most) followed orders all the way to the horrific conclusion --Peter Gabriel wrote a song about those who rebelled against killing someone because a guy dressed in authority clothes told them to. To Gabriel, they represented the last hope for humanity https://www.youtube.com/shared?ci=amscaLF0xho
    Gerald Hecht
    05/11/2016 #41 Gerald Hecht
    #40 @Phil Friedman As I am sure you know --in the famous Milgram Studies, 85% of ordinary citizens of New Haven Connecticut (in the early 1960's --volunteering to participate in a "Learning Experiment" for which they were paid $4.50)...were willing to electrocute a stranger (for incorrectly memorizing a list of words) because a guy in a white lab coat with a clipboard said: "administer the next shock and continue the experiment"...the "path lighting" on the route to hell probably flickers due to massive voltage fluctuations
    Phil Friedman
    03/11/2016 #40 Phil Friedman
    So, Gerald, no matter what a man does, "...If he does so with a pure thought, happiness follows him like a shadow that never leaves him...."? That would seem to suggest that acts of murder, even genocide are okay, provided one does them for the "right" reason(s). However, the Second Scroll of The Wisdom of Chung King (circa 650 AD) says, "Beware of he who performs dastardly acts without conscious malice, because a pure heart is always accompanied by an empty mind." Eichmann showed us that evil can truly be banal, but none the less evil. And The road to hell is often lit with "pure" intentions.
    Gerald Hecht
    03/11/2016 #39 Gerald Hecht
    We see two different expressions; one by @Maria Teresa Redondo Infantes and another by @jesse kaellis we ponder these with great care...
  25. Allen Merck

    Allen Merck

    Please check out my blog First Generation Father.
    Allen Merck
    First Generation Father
    www.firstgenfather.com Parenting from a male...
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