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Habits of Highly Effective People

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This group can be for anything related to the works of Stephen R. Covey, his book The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, or anything related!

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  1. Jared Wiese, 馃悵 adds VALUE & RESULTS
    Influence others by example. Your example flows naturally out of your character, the kind of person you truly are. Your character is constantly radiating and communicating. From it, others come to instinctively trust or distrust you and your actions.

    Habit 5: Seek First To Understand, Then To Be Understood
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    We see the world, not as it is, but as we are鈥攐r, as we are conditioned to see it. When we open our mouths to describe what we see, we in effect describe ourselves, our perceptions, our paradigms. When other people disagree with us, we immediately think something is wrong with them.

    Paradigms and Principles of Effectiveness
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    18/04/2017 #6 Jared Wiese, 馃悵 adds VALUE & RESULTS
    #4 And, I love this one too ;) Covey was great about paradigms.
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    18/04/2017 #5 Jared Wiese, 馃悵 adds VALUE & RESULTS
    #4 No worries, @Miguel 馃悵 L贸pez Oliva. Just giving credit where due.
    Miguel 馃悵 L贸pez Oliva
    18/04/2017 #4 Miguel 馃悵 L贸pez Oliva
    #3 sorry @jared, I wanted to say I love your post.... definetelly this ks not my day.
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    18/04/2017 #3 Jared Wiese, 馃悵 adds VALUE & RESULTS
    #2 Will do, Miguel!

    This is not my own. It comes from Stephen R. Covey and the 7 Habits book.

    Although, I believe it is also known as "Psychological projection".
    Miguel 馃悵 L贸pez Oliva
    17/04/2017 #2 Miguel 馃悵 L贸pez Oliva
    Your post @Jared. It is very similar than the one I recently wrote, I invite you to read it (and watch the video). ;)
    https://www.bebee.com/producer/@miguel-lopez-de-la-oliva/what-reality-are-you-creating-for-yourself
  3. Jared Wiese, 馃悵 adds VALUE & RESULTS
    Develop a personal mission statement. Write down your philosophy of life, focusing on what you want to be (character) and do (contributions and achievements), and on the values or principles upon which being and doing are based.

    Habit 2: Begin with the End in Mind

    (Shared from the Living the 7 Habits app)
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    He who has a why to live for can bear almost any how.

    Friedrich Nietzsche, German Philosopher鈥擧abit 2: Begin with the End in Mind

    (Shared from the Living the 7 Habits app)
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    Shared from the Living the 7 Habits app:

    Me lift thee and thee lift me, and we'll both ascend together.

    John Greenleaf Whittier, American poet鈥擧abit 4: Think Win-Win
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    "The marksman hitteth the target partly by pulling, partly by letting go. The boatsman reacheth the landing partly by pulling, partly by letting go."

    Egyptian proverb鈥擧abit 7: Sharpen The Saw
    (Shared from the Living the 7 Habits app)
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    09/04/2017 #1 Jared Wiese, 馃悵 adds VALUE & RESULTS
    When are you "letting go"?
  8. Jared Wiese, 馃悵 adds VALUE & RESULTS
    How to Achieve Your BIG Goals Without an Extreme Makeover

    By DARREN HARDY聽27,936 views

    "it鈥檚聽so聽easy聽to聽overestimate聽the聽importance聽of聽one聽big聽goal聽or聽resolution鈥β燼nd聽underestimate聽the聽value聽of聽making聽small聽improvements聽on聽a聽daily聽basis."
    How to Achieve Your BIG Goals Without an Extreme Makeover
    How to Achieve Your BIG Goals Without an Extreme Makeover To achieve your big, hairy and audacious goals in the year ahead, you don鈥檛 need to make any massive transformations or major makeovers. Instead I have a...
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    馃悵 Fatima G. Williams
    08/04/2017 #2 馃悵 Fatima G. Williams
    #1 Have an amazing weekend 馃馃憤馃
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    08/04/2017 #1 Jared Wiese, 馃悵 adds VALUE & RESULTS
    Thanks for the share, @馃悵 Fatima G. Williams! Hope you are having an awesome weekend, 1% at a time ;)
  9. Jared Wiese, 馃悵 adds VALUE & RESULTS
    "Writing is another powerful way to sharpen the mental saw. Keeping a journal of thoughts, experiences, insights, and learnings promotes mental clarity, exactness, and context. Writing good letters鈥攃ommunicating on the deeper level of thoughts, feelings, and ideas rather than on the shallow, superficial level of events鈥攁lso affects our ability to think clearly, to reason accurately, and to be understood effectively."

    Habit 7: Sharpen The Saw
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    What is YOUR focus?

    Focus on your Circle of Influence. Proactive people focus their efforts in their Circle of Influence. They work on the things they can do something about.

    Habit 1: Be Proactive
    (Shared from the Living the 7 Habits app)
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    What is 'success' to you? Jared Wiese, 馃悵 adds VALUE & RESULTS
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    06/04/2017 #2 Jared Wiese, 馃悵 adds VALUE & RESULTS
    #1 That is one of the best "successes" we can put forth in the world, @Cyndi wilkins! Thanks for the comment!
    Cyndi wilkins
    06/04/2017 #1 Cyndi wilkins
    Raising happy and healthy children;-)
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    Habit 3: Put First Things First:
    Build personal relationships. By focusing on relationships and results rather than time and methods, you can become a listener, a trainer, and a consultant to those in your sphere of influence. Your effectiveness - and that of those around you - will increase dramatically.

    (Shared from the Living the 7 Habits app)
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    Habit 2: Begin with the End in Mind:
    Because I am self-aware, because I have imagination and conscience, I can examine my deepest values. I can realize that the script I鈥檓 living is not in harmony with those values, that my life is not the product of my own proactive design, but the result of the first creation I have deferred to circumstances and other people. And I can change. I can live out of my imagination instead of my memory. I can tie myself to my limitless potential instead of my limiting past. I can become my own first creator.

    (Shared from the Living the 7 Habits app)
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    Shared from the Living the 7 Habits app:

    Diagnose, then prescribe. Diagnosing then prescribing, is a principle that's appropriate for medicine, law, product design, engineering, and much more. In fact, it's a principle evident in all areas of life. It has its greatest power, though, in the area of interpersonal relations.

    Habit 5: Seek First To Understand, Then To Be Understood
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    Habit 7: Sharpen The Saw:
    Rejuvenate your spirit, meditate, engage in daily prayers, read uplifting books, commune with Mother Nature, in some way try to remove yourself from the discord of the everyday world that invades your sense of inner peace.

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    Habit 4: Think Win-Win:

    The Abundance Mentality flows out of a deep inner sense of personal worth and security. It is the paradigm that there is plenty out there and enough to spare for everybody. It results in sharing of prestige, of recognition, of profits, of decision making. It opens possibilities, options, alternatives, and creativity.

    (Shared from the Living the 7 Habits app)
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    13/03/2017 #1 Jared Wiese, 馃悵 adds VALUE & RESULTS
    Now, how did I KNOW you'd like this share, @Thomas Trang? ;)
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    Habit 4: Think Win-Win:
    So often the problem is in the system, not in the people. If you put good people in bad systems, you get bad results. You have to water the flowers you want to grow.

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    09/03/2017 #2 Jared Wiese, 馃悵 adds VALUE & RESULTS
    Thank you for the share, @Susan 馃悵 Rooks - the Grammar Goddess!
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    "First understand the problem. You may find that you have a tendency to rush in, to fix things up with good advice. But you may often fail to take the time to deeply understand the problem first. This is the key to interpersonal communication."
    -Habit 5: Seek First To Understand, Then To Be Understood

    (Shared from the Living the 7 Habits app)
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    Paradigms & Principles of Effectiveness:
    Interdependence is a far more mature, more advanced concept. If I am physically interdependent, I am self-reliant and capable, but I also realize that you and I working together can accomplish far more than, even at my best, I could accomplish alone. If I am emotionally interdependent, I derive a great sense of worth within myself, but I also recognize the need for love, for giving, and for receiving love from others. If I am intellectually interdependent I realize that I need the best thinking of other people to join with my own.

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    Who have you LISTENED TO recently?

    "Nature hath bestowed upon us two ears, and two eyes, yet but one tongue; which is an Embleme unto us that though we heare and see much, yet ought wee to speak but little."

    -Mary Tattlewell, British author鈥擧abit 5: Seek First To Understand, Then To Be Understood (Shared from the Living the 7 Habits app)
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    05/03/2017 #3 Jared Wiese, 馃悵 adds VALUE & RESULTS
    #2 I hear you, Claire!
    Both ears, WIDE open.

    Thanks for sharing.
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    05/03/2017 #2 Claire L Cardwell
    Nope! And we don't all gather at the Olde Wolde Pie Shop for songs and wassails any more either.....
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    05/03/2017 #1 Jared Wiese, 馃悵 adds VALUE & RESULTS
    Yes, I hear you. Grammatically, it should be "To whom" ;)

    But nobody talks that way. Hear me? Agree with me?
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    Habit 1: Be Proactive...

    Make and keep commitments. The commitments and promises you make to yourself and others and your integrity to those commitments provide the clearest manifestations of your proactivity.

    (Shared from the Living the 7 Habits app)
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    Mother Teresa, Roman Catholic nun鈥擧abit 7: Sharpen The Saw...
    "To keep a lamp burning we have to keep putting oil in it."

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  25. Lance 馃悵 Smith
    How to stay motivated- Part 1: Exercise
    How to stay motivated- Part 1: Exercise
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    28/02/2017 #17 Lance 馃悵 Smith
    #16 @Lisa 馃悵 Gallagher I agree, the beginning is the hardest! Walking/hiking is great! You get to be in nature, and get an amazing workout doing it!
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    28/02/2017 #16 Lisa 馃悵 Gallagher
    Thanks for the tags @Javier 馃悵 beBee. Couldn't agree more, once you begin exercising (hardest part is beginning) it does add routine and mentally one feels better too. My favorite form of exercise is power walking/hiking!
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    26/02/2017 #14 Lance 馃悵 Smith
    #13 馃憤馃挴 Awesome!
    Mamen 馃悵 Delgado
    26/02/2017 #13 Mamen 馃悵 Delgado
    #10 Yes @Lance 馃悵 Smith, precisely the days I just don't feel like are the days I appreciate more the benefits of exercising early in the morning. 馃槈
    And thanks @Javier 馃悵 beBee for the tag. Great content here!
    Mamen 馃悵 Delgado
    26/02/2017 #12 Mamen 馃悵 Delgado
    #7 It is @Jared Wiese, 馃悵 adds VALUE & RESULTS, in fact something "miraculous" has happened in those weeks and I have the feeling it's been so because I have increased my energy level and my connection with the Universe. All thanks to the exercise and the meditation. Thanks to you, my friend. 馃挮
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    26/02/2017 #11 Lance 馃悵 Smith
    #7 @Jared Wiese, 馃悵 adds VALUE & RESULTS Thank you so much for watching and sharing it! I really appreciate that! 馃榾
    Lance 馃悵 Smith
    26/02/2017 #10 Lance 馃悵 Smith
    #5 @Mamen 馃悵 Delgado That's awesome! I wake up early too! Get that exercise in, even on days that I just don't feel like. I know that afterwards I'm going to thank myself for doing it!
    Lance 馃悵 Smith
    26/02/2017 #9 Lance 馃悵 Smith
    #4 Thank you for taking the time to watch!
    Lance 馃悵 Smith
    26/02/2017 #8 Lance 馃悵 Smith
    #1 Thanks for watching and sharing! I really appreciate that!
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    25/02/2017 #7 Jared Wiese, 馃悵 adds VALUE & RESULTS
    #6 Thanks for the tag, @Mamen 馃悵 Delgado! I had just listened to this. It is great advice. Shared it in three relevant hives :) Great stuff, @Lance 馃悵 Smith!
    For #5, I see the Miracle Morning is working for you!!! GREAT! ;)
    Mamen 馃悵 Delgado
    25/02/2017 #5 Mamen 馃悵 Delgado
    Absolutely agree @Lance 馃悵 Smith!! Since last month I started to get up at 6:45 to exercise in the morning and the results during this two months have been extraordinary. As you say, more focused and more clear mind, full connection with myself and much more energy during the day. Great advice!! 馃憦
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