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  1. ProducerNikhil Gadkar

    Nikhil Gadkar

    27/02/2017
    Social Media Marketing Strategy
    Social Media Marketing StrategySocial Media Marketing...
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  2. Filip Dedi

    Filip Dedi

    26/02/2017
    Filip Dedi
    19 Ways to Get Additional Business and Enjoy the Good Life: Maximize Your Energy Fields
    www.linkedin.com Envisage picking ... No, imagine picking a call and talking to someone very far away from your location -- either through Skype, phone, voice or...
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  3. ProducerRoyce Shook

    Royce Shook

    26/02/2017
    There is always some madness in love
    There is always some madness in loveThere is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness. Friedrich Nietzsche, "On Reading and Writing" Back in 2006, the folks at National Geographic ran an article that showed the Nietzsche may have been correct. "To...
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  4. Lori Boxer

    Lori Boxer

    26/02/2017
    Help your teen get cooking: Stock your kitchen with these.
    Lori Boxer
    7 Kitchen Staples for Teen-Friendly Meals
    ow.ly Teens who can prepare their own meals eat healthier and learn responsibility for their food choices. To help your teen get cooking, stock your kitchen with these easy-to-prepare...
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  5. ProducerEmilia M. Ludovino
    HOW TO TAME ANXIETY - part 1
    HOW TO TAME ANXIETY - part 1There are many emotions we need to learn how to handle and reduce. Such as disappointment, anger, resentment, frustration and anxiety - an emotion that most of us feel very uncomfortable with. And yet anxiety is common and unable us to reasoning...
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    Emilia M. Ludovino
    26/02/2017 #20 Emilia M. Ludovino
    #17 @Emily🐝 Bee and @John White, MBA - Thank you for taking your time to read it. I am glad you found it useful. The article has a part 2 -- that maybe you like to read it also. Promise you it's peaceful and funny :) . Leave you the link https://www.bebee.com/producer/@emilia-ludovino/peaceful-meditation-to-tame-anxiety
    Emilia M. Ludovino
    26/02/2017 #19 Emilia M. Ludovino
    #16 Thank you @Sara Jacobovici for your positive comment. Have a blessed weekend!
    John White, MBA
    26/02/2017 #18 John White, MBA
    #17 @Emily🐝 Bee: Me too!
    Emily🐝 Bee
    26/02/2017 #17 Emily🐝 Bee
    This Buzz is for me!
    Sara Jacobovici
    25/02/2017 #16 Sara Jacobovici
    Thanks for the tag @Emilia M. Ludovino. I respect your professionalism and sense of responsibility by writing: "Please note I am neither a psychiatrist nor a psychologist if your anxiety is severe or debilitating please seek appropriate professional help." And: "There is no one way to settle anxiety, and each person responds differently to anxiety and to the techniques available." After this, I can say that your list is sound and offers thoughtful opportunities to consider in our day to day needs to gain control over our emotions. I highlight two of your points: 1. Awareness is crucial to maintaining control over our emotions. 2. Learning to listen to our emotions as communicating to us, bringing something to our awareness, can also reframe our experience and avoid moving into a reaction which an emotion can cause.
    Emilia M. Ludovino
    25/02/2017 #15 Emilia M. Ludovino
    #10 Hi @Phil Friedman - great to see you around. Thank you for taking your time to read it and leave us your comment. I absolutely agree with you that worry and stress over things that have not yet happened or not yet even imminent is a wast of time. Have a great weekend! Cheers.
    Emilia M. Ludovino
    25/02/2017 #14 Emilia M. Ludovino
    #9 Thank you @Cyndi wilkins for sharing your daughter story with us. We all have different coping mechanisms and I found it curious that her coping mechanism was crying. When I'm very tired - mentally and physically exhausted - I also cry. For me a sign that I need to stop and take care of me. Glad to know that she grow up a nice lady. Have a beautiful weekend!
    Emilia M. Ludovino
    25/02/2017 #13 Emilia M. Ludovino
    #8 Thanks @Aleta Curry! Glad you liked it and found it useful. :) Have a great weekend!
    Emilia M. Ludovino
    25/02/2017 #12 Emilia M. Ludovino
    #7 Hi dear @Gert Scholtz! It's always a pleasure to have your feedback. You're so right when you said that stress and anxiety are increasing to the detriment of mental and physical health. And in a lot of situation people suffering from anxiety and over stress just prefer to pop a pill instead of learning out to cope with it in a more natural way. Like exercise more, go for a walk in the nature, learn and practice any kind of meditation, etc. You with you wonderful articles about your surroundings can inspire people to go outside and have more health habits. Little healthy habits can do a great good. Thank s for reading Gert. Fijne weekend!
    Emilia M. Ludovino
    25/02/2017 #11 Emilia M. Ludovino
    @Aleta Curry, @debasish majumder, @Milos Djukic - Thank you for the sharing. Have a great weekend!
    Phil Friedman
    25/02/2017 #10 Phil Friedman
    Obviously, this may not work for everyone nor, for that matter, more than a few, but when I feel myself getting anxious, I ask very consciously "What could be the worst possible thing that could happen?" And if the answer is something other than fatal, I remind myself that, one way or another, it can be managed.

    FWIW, I have also determined in my life not to worry and stress over things that have not yet happened or not yet even imminent. My experience is that significantly more than 50% of potential problems do not ever come to pass. So if you stress over all possibilities, however remote, you will spend more than half your time worrying about nothing. And even in those cases where bad consequences do come to pass, following this path means that you eliminated a lot of useless worrying anyway. Cheers!
    Cyndi wilkins
    25/02/2017 #9 Cyndi wilkins
    When my daughter was very young, she used to describe those butterflies as a "bonkie in her tummy." She was born with an exaggerated sensory response to sudden noises...I can't tell you how many birthday parties we had to leave prematurely because someone popped a balloon. Her anxiety was rather extreme, however we have engaged in many of these techniques and quite a few modifications of our own to avoid medicating her...at times that too has been necessary. But sometimes, we just had to let her cry it out...I realized that children dealing with such powerful emotions are like open conduits to all the sensory input around them....they are unable to mute it as we tend to as adults. When they are at school among so many other children with their chaotic energy it is like being thrown into a snake pit! My little girl would come home sometimes after school and just lie across my chest for an hour or so and sob uncontrollably...Now, at thirteen, she's too cool to have me pick her up at the front door! Fortunately, most of the time given the proper coping skills, they grow out of it;-)
    Aleta Curry
    24/02/2017 #8 Aleta Curry
    Good article with concrete tips instead of fluff.
    Gert Scholtz
    24/02/2017 #7 Gert Scholtz
    @Emilia M. Ludovino This is a very important post with good advice Emilia. Stress and its cousin anxiety is increasing to the detriment of mental and physical health. The five steps are a master plan to counteract anxiety. Thank you for the information.
    debasish majumder
    24/02/2017 #6 debasish majumder
    excellent post @Emilia M. Ludovino!a panacea for reducing anxiety! Great share! enjoyed read. thank you for the share.
    Emilia M. Ludovino
    24/02/2017 #5 Emilia M. Ludovino
    #3 Hi dear @Ian Weinberg! Sorry for tagging you but I always like the piece of knowledge you bring to the articles you read. I admire your work and the way you talk about it and because I know I'll learn something with you, hence, I tagged you. Have a blessed weekend!
    Emilia M. Ludovino
    24/02/2017 #4 Emilia M. Ludovino
    #2 Thank you dear @Ali Anani for taking your time to read my article and leave your comment full of wisdom. I like the way you deal with a angry moment. I focus on my breathing and the image of my Buddhist teacher - that immediately brings me a place of serenity. And because emotions are contagious our peaceful reaction reflects back into the other person. Have a wonderful weekend!
    Ian Weinberg
    24/02/2017 #3 Ian Weinberg
    Thanks @Emilia M. Ludovino for sharing another insightful appraisal of an important subject. The problem with anxiety and it's nastier big brother, 'panic', is that the amygdala (the seat of fear, anxiety, panic and rage) mediates its effects by secreting adrenaline-noradrenaline and cortisol, which in turn stimulate the amygdala. So you end up with an amygdala 'locked-in' spiral where one is a sustained victim of flight/fight. The only way that you can wind out of this spiral is through a 'break-state' - a diversion of attention, as you correctly point out. The second factor conspiring against us in the anxiety state is that the somatic symptoms of anxiety are invariably more forboding than the thing that actually triggered the fear in the first place. Hence when we administer Beta-blockers, by blocking the symptoms of anxiety but not the mind state itself, we observe a marked improvement in the overall anxiety state.
    Ali Anani
    24/02/2017 #2 Ali Anani
    You offer a great recipe for dealing with anxiety @Emilia M. Ludovino. I enjoyed all. I liked what you wrote "5 - Focus On Something Else: Distracting yourself from an intense focus on anxiety can also help". This is exactly what I do if somebody is talking angrily. I look the person in the eyes, nod my eyes occasionally let the person know I care and listen.In fact, I don't listen for two minutes and send my mind thinking about other issues. In two minutes anger cools down and then I may be truly listen, observe and think. It seems your prescription applies to anxiety, stress and other negative emotions.
  6. ProducerCary Teller

    Cary Teller

    25/02/2017
    10 Ways To Avoid The Common Cold This Winter
    10 Ways To Avoid The Common Cold This WinterGetting a cold in the middle of winter is always a miserable experience. You need to do everything you can to prevent coming down with a cold this winter. If you are smart, you will take some strong steps to help ensure you make it through this cold...
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    Emily🐝 Bee
    26/02/2017 #2 Emily🐝 Bee
    Great Buzz! I'm knocking on wood here,,, I haven't gotten sick yet this season!! A few weeks back I was coming down with something but I fought it. I didn't have anything more then some pressure behind my ears & a sore throat. Lasted maybe 2-3 days. Got lucky & I'm grateful!!!
    Julie Hickman
    25/02/2017 #1 Julie Hickman
    This is great advice @Cary Teller! I didn't realize that red bell peppers contained so much vitamin C. It's funny though because I tend to be free of colds during the winter but when summer time hits, it seems that a cold is inevitable.
  7. ProducerRoyce Shook

    Royce Shook

    24/02/2017
    Poetry  for a friend
    Poetry for a friendFrom The Selected Poems of Nikki Giovanni: 1968–1995  EnjoyLOVE IS Some people forget that love istucking you in and kissing you"Good night" No matter how young or old you areSome people don't remember thatlove islistening and laughing and...
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  8. ProducerDeidré Wallace

    Deidré Wallace

    22/02/2017
    What Is The Greatest Gift That We Can Give One Another?
    What Is The Greatest Gift That We Can Give One Another?What Is The Greatest Gift That We Can Give One Another?If we as human beings can begin to accept, that most people operate from a place of pain, from a place that needs healing, then we would make our lives a lot easier.Our lives would be made a lot...
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    Deidré Wallace
    23/02/2017 #5 Deidré Wallace
    Thank you Siraj Shaik, for sharing my article. Much appreciated.
    Deb 🐝 Helfrich
    23/02/2017 #4 Deb 🐝 Helfrich
    "Judging others isn't good for us and it certainly isn't good for us if we are to continue living in a civilised society." This is something I profoundly believe, as well, @Deidré Wallace

    If someone is on the planet, we should respect their right to participate in their own life. Structures and rules should be about fairness in access to space, resources, and community.

    How we get to this stage is really to see the hurt of all these wounds, forgive and move on, and then grow a new generation of humans who aren't taught to judge in the open and explicit way we currently conduct our society.
    Deidré Wallace
    22/02/2017 #3 Deidré Wallace
    Thank you debasish, for letting me know. Much appreciated.
    Deidré Wallace
    22/02/2017 #2 Deidré Wallace
    Kevin Baker: Thank you for sharing my post. Much appreciated.
    debasish majumder
    22/02/2017 #1 debasish majumder
    lovely insight @Diedre Wallace! enjoyed read. thank you for the share.
  9. Donald 🐝 Grandy
    It's time for some fun in the dirt ! Donald 🐝 Grandy
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  10. Donald 🐝 Grandy
    Nice morning for some single track riding. Donald 🐝 Grandy
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    Javier 🐝 beBee
    23/02/2017 #1 Javier 🐝 beBee
    great to see you @Donald 🐝 Grandy !
  11. Cyndi wilkins

    Cyndi wilkins

    22/02/2017
    A Moment of Impact: With @Deb🐝 Lange...Facing the challenging emotion of anger...Using The Buddy System;-)
    The Memory in the Body - take care of your body & you take care of your emotions & energy
    The Memory in the Body - take care of your body & you take care of your emotions & energy Conversations with readers of my book, "Trust Your Senses - Embodied Wisdom for the Modern Age - Today conversation with Cyndi Wilson, physical therapist....
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    Deb🐝 Lange
    23/02/2017 #6 Deb🐝 Lange
    love engaging with other queen bees on BeBee & readers of my book, who are not just reading! They are conndvting, forming buddies, writing Sensory journals & much more!
    Deb🐝 Lange
    23/02/2017 #5 Deb🐝 Lange
    #2exactky! Dredge out what is under the surface, let it free & turn it into gold! We are all alchemists!
    Deb🐝 Lange
    23/02/2017 #4 Deb🐝 Lange
    #1#1they are going to be awesome! We will do some Sensory exercises! Have guests and cofacilitatirs such as @Deb Helfrich share what she has bern doing with the book & her life! & have a q and a! Love you to join us! Lets get visceral!
    Deb🐝 Lange
    23/02/2017 #3 Deb🐝 Lange
    Thanks
    Cyndi wilkins
    22/02/2017 #2 Cyndi wilkins
    #1 The more you give of your gifts, the more you receive in return...We are panning for GOLD;-)
    Deb 🐝 Helfrich
    22/02/2017 #1 Deb 🐝 Helfrich
    This video demonstrates the power of beBee!!! Global conversations arising out of some chance commenting interactions that proves that commenting really is a way to create meaningful professional and personal relationships.

    Lots of the common themes arise: Synchronicity, Triads, Supportive friends, Book Launches.... and especially: DEEPER ENGAGEMENT

    If you are looking for advice, why not learn how to understand your own embodied wisdom?

    Deb Lange is running a series of 3 FREE classes coming up in March. We've love to have you join us: https://insightsoccur.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?appointmentType=2573008
  12. ProducerRoyce Shook

    Royce Shook

    22/02/2017
    The rules of disinformation at play in the US today--one view
    The rules of disinformation at play in the US today--one viewThis is a follow-up to my earlier post on Truth and Alternate facts.  If we are to try to understand the truth, we should develop some skills and understanding of what devices people use to hide the truth.Note: The first six rules are generally not...
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    Royce Shook
    22/02/2017 #4 Royce Shook
    #1 @Robert Bacal, you raise an interesting point, I think there are many who believe the information they are spreading is true. The problem is as Harvey says, it is hard to keep up with the facts, and very few have time to research. Also, many are lazy thinkers, it is easier to believe then it is too challenge, and many of us do not like to confront either our own thinking or others
    Brian McKenzie
    22/02/2017 #3 Brian McKenzie
    Sounds like Mr. Sweeney has read a D.o.D. manual that was fed to me as core required reading back in 87.
    Harvey Lloyd
    22/02/2017 #2 Harvey Lloyd
    Once upon a time............We had to live within a very fundamental envelope of existence. News and controversy took months to cross the ocean or continent. Therefore news was mostly local and focused on survival. Today we can type a word and spread it to millions in mere seconds.

    This has brought online millions of opinions that are really no more than superficial facts that have been correlated into a statement. Quite benevolent a few decades ago, but now, it only inflames others who may or may not share the shallow opinion.

    By the time you research the facts the crowd has moved on to different feeding grounds, you can't keep up with facts. Maybe this is the intent your post describes.
    Robert Bacal
    22/02/2017 #1 Robert Bacal
    An incredible list that's not only applicable to politics, but also for other relationships.

    I wonder how many people spreading false information do so intentionally knowing it's false, or whether they actually believe the misinformation. Any thoughtss?
  13. Malini Chaudhri  Ph.D
    Malini Chaudhri  Ph.D
    CRITICAL OUTREACH. WORLD AT WORK
    www.linkedin.com As the Business world struggles for definition and terminology to address the issues driving change in todays markets and lives, the...
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  14. ProducerRoyce Shook

    Royce Shook

    21/02/2017
    Truth and Alternate Facts
    Truth and Alternate FactsWe are living in strange times when our leaders and their surrogates speak about truth, and alternate facts, which they see as simply is another version of the truth. There are people who remain for the whole of their lives so much under the control...
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    Aurorasa Sima
    22/02/2017 #4 Aurorasa Sima
    #2 Good reading you Phillip. I missed your articles.
    Michelle Jackson
    22/02/2017 #3 Michelle Jackson
    Know the truth, do your research and read between the lines. Yes, the truth can not be disputed, lies snowball into bigger lies. Lies appears to be our current reality, not ACTUALITY.
    Phillip Hubbell
    21/02/2017 #2 Phillip Hubbell
    "There's three sides to every story, there's yours and there's mine and the cold hard truth." Don Henley
    Brian McKenzie
    21/02/2017 #1 Brian McKenzie
    You can always tell the character by which set of lies someone believes. Welcome to party, they have been playing this game for generations.
  15. ProducerDavid Gomes

    David Gomes

    19/02/2017
    Are You Aware of These 7 Things about Erections?
    Are You Aware of These 7 Things about Erections?Overview of erection Every man wants to have a solid erection, and every woman wants a husband who can satisfy her in bed. Without a solid erection, you cannot expect to satisfy your partner in a bed. Even if every man wants a long-lasting...
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    Emily🐝 Bee
    26/02/2017 #1 Emily🐝 Bee
    Waoooow, I blinked twice when I saw this Buzz! Thank you for the info! :-D
  16. Producerhealthy guides

    healthy guides

    18/02/2017
    How to Get Rid of a Toothache If You’re Terrified of Dentists
    How to Get Rid of a Toothache If You’re Terrified of DentistsHey,How to Get Rid of a Toothache If You’re Terrified of DentistsIn case you missed my last email you would have noticed thatAlice Barnes is the author of Dentists Be Dammed that teachesyou how to prevent and even reverse cavity infection all...
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  17. ProducerNutricionista Claudia Silvestre
    Siga essas 6 regras básicas para sair do sedentarismo e ter uma vida mais ativa
    Siga essas 6 regras básicas para sair do sedentarismo e ter uma vida mais ativaIniciar uma atividade física pode até ser fácil, no entanto muitas pessoas tem a dificuldade de incorporar em seu estilo de vida. Mas isso não é tão complicado como muitos podem pensar, basta apenas adotar pequenas atitudes que o ajudarão a...
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  18. Andrea Rodrigues Brunelli Donnard
    Have a great day all of you.( photo mine ) Andrea Rodrigues Brunelli Donnard
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  19. ProducerRoyce Shook

    Royce Shook

    18/02/2017
    Are you retiring to something or from something?
    Are you retiring to something or from something?We are all retired and we were meeting for lunch on a Friday afternoon. The talk moved through many topics, from funny things grandchildren say to more serious issues such as stroke and medical issues, basketball and hockey. One of the people at the...
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    Julio Angel 🐝Lopez Lopez
    19/02/2017 #13 Julio Angel 🐝Lopez Lopez
    #12 So beBee gives us that opportunity, is a hive of passions @Royce Shook
    Royce Shook
    19/02/2017 #12 Royce Shook
    @Julio Angel 🐝Lopez Lopez @Brian Mckenzie and @Javier I agree that passion is the key to life. I also agree that with Francis that we must find ways to stay relevant. If we find passion in what we do, we do not consider what we do as work, so we continue with our passion for life. However, many people are still searching for their passion. We are fortunate that we have found our passion and that we can live it day to day. I find that many of the people I have had the opportunity to read and interact with, on my short time on beBee, are people who have found their passion and who are sharing their passion with others.
    Julio Angel 🐝Lopez Lopez
    19/02/2017 #11 Julio Angel 🐝Lopez Lopez
    Good advices @Royce Shook Thanks
    Julio Angel 🐝Lopez Lopez
    19/02/2017 #10 Julio Angel 🐝Lopez Lopez
    #9 True, my father had an accident and he was retired, but he's a handyman and he's been busy. Having an occupation, a passion is very important.
    Javier 🐝 beBee
    19/02/2017 #9 Javier 🐝 beBee
    I think I will never retire from working. I need to be active. My job is my passion, and my passion is my job. If you love life, just look for any activity you are passionate about. I know many people who were thinking on retirement and once they got it they died. We don't know how long our lifes will be.... but we know life is short. So enjoy your passions , your job until the final of your days ! Life is beautiful. Human makes it complicated. Have a great Sunday !
    Brian McKenzie
    19/02/2017 #8 Brian McKenzie
    I doubt I ever retire, I havent worked anythink but hustle for nearly the last ten years. No boss, No coworkers, No time clock - hell, most think I dont work as it is now ;)
    Ken Boddie
    19/02/2017 #7 Ken Boddie
    Interesting questions, Royce.
    From the relief of "Take your job and stuff it!" to the unknown potential stressor of 'Me time + She time = We time'.
    "The Devil wears .... a gold watch". 🤣
    Jim 🐝 Cody
    18/02/2017 #6 Jim 🐝 Cody
    Retirement is just a word. However I find that it is a state of mind. It's whatever you want it to be...embrace it and enjoy. 😊
    debasish majumder
    18/02/2017 #5 debasish majumder
    lovely insight @Royce Shook! enjoyed read. thank you for the share.
    Franci🐝Eugenia Hoffman
    18/02/2017 #4 Franci🐝Eugenia Hoffman
    Nice read, @Royce Shook. The main concern I find about being retired is to stay relevant. Helping others is a rewarding way to stay relevant.
    Paul Walters
    18/02/2017 #3 Paul Walters
    @Royce Shook Great piece...must away to do that sock drawer!!
    Helena Jansen van Vuuren
    18/02/2017 #2 Helena Jansen van Vuuren
    Thought I was semi-retired but the part time job grew - probably took on the extra work out of sheer fear of having no income and monthly retirement cheque won't be arriving for another 16months. Have a stash of 1940s pearls - learnt silk stringing, a bit of photography, some social media stuff, attend some markets and an annual 1940s music festival - this is the retirement plan.....however this last job is pushing my health to the max. ....hanging in and hanging on to reach the magical age of 64 3/4 years for my pension. Many of my contemporaries are not as fortunate and had to give up due to health problems....the gods conspired to not let them experience even a couple of years of being master of their day. "Man plans, god(s) laugh"
    Chas ✌️ Wyatt
    18/02/2017 #1 Chas ✌️ Wyatt
    I have never embraced the concept, or ideology of retirement. There are things that I must do in order to pay the bills, but, I do not consider them a 'career', and I would easily let them go without remorse, if my creative abilities sustained me. There are many things I would do if I had the means and wouldn't idly waste my time regardless of my age.
  20. Jared Wiese, 🐝 adding VALUE & RESULTS
    Jared Wiese, 🐝 adding VALUE & RESULTS
    Commercial Hand Sanitizers Can Cause Cancer. Here is How to Make The Most Effective Hand Sanitizer
    livingtraditionally.com What’s one thing that almost every American carries around – a little bottle of hand sanitizer.  If you think that hand sanitizers protect you against germs, you are mistaken. Not only do alcohol based sanitizers last only a few minutes (they must...
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  21. ProducerDeb 🐝 Helfrich
    Anger Buddies Does a Body Good
    Anger Buddies Does a Body GoodMy dear buddy Cyndi wilkins has really helped me move forward over the last few weeks because she is very good at using her intuition to guide a conversation into the nooks and crannies that typically get overlooked. We all have periods in life when...
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    Deb 🐝 Helfrich
    18/02/2017 #14 Deb 🐝 Helfrich
    #13 You've highlighted the very thin line between anger and danger, @debasish majumder. I think that is why we find it easy to want to ignore these feelings, bury them, and pretend everything is fine. It is incredibly hard to express anger in a constructive way, and yet, learning this skill is pretty crucial for living a contented and meaningful life.

    Knowing the things that draw our ire - the things we will not tolerate - helps us navigate life in a direction that will ultimately bring us to serenity, while ignoring anger is very likely to dump us right into situations that trigger the emotion in ever-escalating cycles.

    Like so many things in life, the way to learn how to deal constructively with anger is to practice and @Cyndi wilkins and I are finding this buddy system to be a fun, fruitful, and sometimes profound way to express feelings, understand life-long patterns, and start to change the way we feel so that we move on, full of hope, curiosity, and delight.
    debasish majumder
    18/02/2017 #13 debasish majumder
    to prefix 'D' to anger i guess, amply clarify the gravity as well demerits of anger @Deb 🐝 Helfrich. yet, anger have positive impact too, as it vent out our suppress emotions, enabling us to understand our constraints and how detrimental our emotions are if we allow them to overrule us. however, lovely insight madam. enjoyed read. thank you for the share.
    Cyndi wilkins
    16/02/2017 #12 Cyndi wilkins
    #9 "Intention" is the mother of creation;-) Thanks for buzzing in with your support @Savvy Raj...
    Cyndi wilkins
    16/02/2017 #11 Cyndi wilkins
    #7 Thank you @David B. Grinberg...After this session I had with Deb, I was the one "buzzing" all over the office! The fire energy created by the playful release of anger really does fuel those "jet packs" that keep us moving;-)
    Deb 🐝 Helfrich
    16/02/2017 #10 Deb 🐝 Helfrich
    #9 We really appreciate your support, @Savvy Raj
    Savvy Raj
    16/02/2017 #9 Savvy Raj
    A Great idea with a good intention @Deb 🐝 Helfrich and @Cyndi wilkins I wish you success in this endeavour. Sharing on my hive' Life and Living '
    Deb 🐝 Helfrich
    16/02/2017 #8 Deb 🐝 Helfrich
    #7 Much obliged, David!
    David B. Grinberg
    16/02/2017 #7 David B. Grinberg
    Hey Deb, this program sounds super awesome. I wish you and @Cyndi wilkins all the best and much success with it! I'm sharing this on three hives. Keep buzzing!
    Cyndi wilkins
    16/02/2017 #6 Cyndi wilkins
    As a manual therapist by training, I am more accustomed to using therapeutic touch to interpret the signals that the physical body communicates to me. In that way I can assist my client in the release of their pain through soft tissue manipulation. This was more of a cerebral experience where I really had to trust my intuition to guide me ...@Deb 🐝 Helfrich and I were both challenged to engage ALL of our senses...particularly sight, sound and body language, in an effort to tap into the "emotion" trying to make its way to the surface. Once we did that, we could have a little "playdate" with it...give it expression in a supportive environment where it can be transformed through the eyes of others as they reflect back to us the lessons to be learned from our collective experiences.
    These "patterns of behavior" are inherent within all of us. As society has taught us to bury our emotions like an unnecessary appendage, it is high time we did a little excavating of those old bones and shed new light on how we express ourselves effectively.
    Ali Anani
    15/02/2017 #5 Ali Anani
    #3 I am so happy that you found my comment useful and I am equally happy that my comment triggered your comprehensive and deep response. You are a great human and writer dear @Deb 🐝 Helfrich
    Deb 🐝 Helfrich
    15/02/2017 #4 Deb 🐝 Helfrich
    #2 Scrubbing bubble buddies of mood, I like the image, Pascal. It is all about moving forward, rather than getting stuck and lingering in resentment.

    While trying to avoid getting our mouths washed out with soap... :)
    Deb 🐝 Helfrich
    15/02/2017 #3 Deb 🐝 Helfrich
    #1 Of course, you picked out my favorite sentence, @Ali Anani. And added so much more by extending it to the very important concept of SELF-NEGOTIATION. I actually think that is the core of learning to be a happy and well-adjusted human being.

    Self-negotiation is learning about ourselves and how we react and questioning which parts of our actions and habits may be due to factors way beyond something as innocuous as a comment by a stranger that causes us to lash out in ways harmful to our own bodily equilibrium and meant to throw someone else off of their balance, regardless of who else might be inflicted unintended damage.

    That sort of behavior solves nothing, generates nothing but hostility in return and actually becomes an ever increasing cycle since the actual wrong never had a chance to be rationally discussed.

    I think the first step to being able to find the insight in anger is learning how other people process anger in ways that actually allow the emotion to resolve whatever situation first brought the feelings of hostility into focus.
    Pascal Derrien
    15/02/2017 #2 Pascal Derrien
    Anger buddies are like mood soap cleansers :-)
    Ali Anani
    15/02/2017 #1 Ali Anani
    Dear @Deb 🐝 Helfrich- wonderful buzz. You said it in one line "Being able to express ourselves, and all our emotions, with clarity is part of the dance of negotiation that every human needs to learn to live a joyful, productive, and relatively stress-less life". You bring up to my understanding a hugely important point. We need to negotiate with ourselves as we do with others. Self-negotiation is an idea that strikes me powerfully. Great reading and is worthy of sharing.
  22. ProducerMark Miller

    Mark Miller

    15/02/2017
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  23. ProducerRoyce Shook

    Royce Shook

    15/02/2017
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    Royce Shook
    15/02/2017 #2 Royce Shook
    #1 Interesting @Mohammed Sultan, I have been in many group conversations where one person has tried to dominate the conversation. It takes a person with an awareness of the flow of the conversation, to make sure that everyone who wants to join in, can join in and speak. I appreciate your advice as it is very important for groups to make sure everyone is heard.
    Mohammed Sultan
    15/02/2017 #1 Mohammed Sultan
    Two ways we have to consider to defuse conflict during group discussions ;first ,don't allow the emergence of one of the group to dominate the discussion as h/she will certainly influence other members of the group and thus the validity of the conversation will be questioned.Instead of having a group of say 8 people you will have a group of one and the meeting will look like A ONE MAN SHOW.

    Another thing to consider to diffuse conflict during any conversation is to momentarily shift the conversation to a time when you feel that you will accept and get accepted by others and also when the group can Think and Laugh together.This's how conversations are run between good teams.Thank you @Royce Shook for the share.
  24. Pat 🐝 Bagano

    Pat 🐝 Bagano

    14/02/2017
    “Beat #stress using the power of the mind.” Easier said than done because stress originates in the #mind. To some, the idea to beat stress seems impossible, so turning to alcohol and medications to get rid of stress offers the most convenience. But it hardly works that way.
    Pat 🐝 Bagano
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  25. ProducerLori Boxer

    Lori Boxer

    14/02/2017
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