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Invisible Illnesses: Relationships

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If we are ill, our dreams can lose their thrill. "Believe" and keep smiling..be positive of love.
  1. ProducerChristina Glazar
    CAG Connect ~ Communication 101
    CAG Connect ~ Communication 101Most questions I get from clients and readers are about some basic communication skills. I put some “rules” together. Of course my guidelines only work if you are NOT in an abusive relationship. Some things just don’t work if your partner gets...
  2. Christina Glazar
    #relationships #couplecoaching #happypartners
    Christina Glazar
    CAG Connect ~ What Do You Really Want?
    www.cagconnect.com What do you fight for when you are arguing with your partner? Is it the forever same issue? Do you feel you are not heard? We are going at each other’s throat for all kinds of things. And...
  3. ProducerChristina Glazar
    See Your Partner With Your Heart!
    See Your Partner With Your Heart!Learn To Communicate With Your Partner Before It Is Too Late! #relationships #partnercommunication #lifecoaching www.CAGConnect.com...
  4. Margaret Aranda, MD, PhD
    "Of course; do you think I'm bickering with you about something; you are a slave just like me and everyone else typing here; what do we have to bicker about?" ~Gerald @Gerald HechtMargaret Aranda, MD, PhD


  5. Javier 🐝 beBee
    Thanks @Jim Murray . beBee team will work for you. Keep this message for the future ;) Javier 🐝 beBee


    Margaret Aranda, MD, PhD
    25/08/2016 #4 Margaret Aranda, MD, PhD
    #2 I've seen the new update by @Paul "Pablo" Croubalian and love all the work you have been doing, @Juan Imaz, @Javier 🐝 beBee, @Federico 🐝 Álvarez San Martín and more! Just amazing, high-tech, up-to-date and really, really inspiring! Thank you! Muchas gracias!
    Randy Keho
    29/07/2016 #3 Randy Keho
    Should we start calling ambassadors double agents? Jim Able is already working undercover. Maybe any further converts should be screened by @Brian McKenzie He should know one when he sees one.
    Javier 🐝 beBee
    29/07/2016 #2 Javier 🐝 beBee
    #1 thanks @Margaret Aranda, MD, PhD ! I keep my Facebook for my " past " (family and friends). Enjoy beBee ! It will become better by the end of this year ! Great features are coming ;)
    Margaret Aranda, MD, PhD
    29/07/2016 #1 Margaret Aranda, MD, PhD
    Great way to let FB, LI, etc know ~ already, too many people are 'missing' me on FB...but I'll gather a 🚗carpool🚗 of NewBeez to join in the Jive of the Hive!
  6. ProducerBrian McKenzie

    Brian McKenzie

    My Memoir Madness: Part 1
    My Memoir Madness: Part 1This started from Dr. Margaret's post and honey - find it here:Starting Line Writing Challenge: Memoir MadnessWhere she asks, 'What is your first memory?'.    I had an exceptionally shitty childhood.  I remember none of it before age 5.  Every...


    Brian McKenzie
    28/07/2016 #5 Brian McKenzie
    #4 @Ward Bailey another Bueller! Hazza! Be sure to check out and join the motorcycle hives. Welcome to beBee. Thanks for the read.
    Ward Bailey
    28/07/2016 #4 Ward Bailey

    Thanks for linking this over on BadWeb. I'd never heard of this community and am enjoying the discovery what it has to offer. Be well.
    Margaret Aranda, MD, PhD
    20/07/2016 #3 Margaret Aranda, MD, PhD
    #2 Can you write it out and just list it as Age 16? You don't have to go in order here. March with our Memoir Madness ~ your fan base wants more. Pure and simple. It's your Life. Anyone who can't deal with it doesn't have to. It's yours.
    Brian McKenzie
    17/07/2016 #2 Brian McKenzie
    #1 Day 1 in Boot is always shell shock.... not nearly as fun as the day they put a 16 yo in charge of the company barracks. Good times - talk about attitude adjustments - not a lot of people like taking orders from a 16 year old. Nearly all of my family did time in the military - I was well aware of the games they played - it was really just 'Camp Happy' with as Col Jessup put it - faggety white uniforms. * Marine Corps PLDC was another game entirely - they kicked my ass.
    Margaret Aranda, MD, PhD
    17/07/2016 #1 Margaret Aranda, MD, PhD
    I would entitle this: Hippy Child Abuse and a Good Grandpa Escape. Brutally honest, but I would expect nothing less from you. I'm sorry for the bad, and I see what you can do. There's so much more to you. Your brain is beautiful, something that re-wired itself to survive. I'll never call you a victim, for that does not reside. You are a Warrior, once upon a time...when children were supposed to be children, your Grandpa taught you about time. He gave you food, life, history, and sustenance. And for this, you thrive. Keep writing, my friend, as it is truly real life and we cannot be spared to look through the eyes of an adult whose body was only that of a child. Break forth, as you have always done, to conquer another quest that is before you in the military. How was your first day?
  7. ProducerMargaret Aranda, MD, PhD
    QUESTIONS? "Memoir Madness" Q & A HERE
    QUESTIONS? "Memoir Madness" Q & A HERE/ by Dr Margaret Aranda / First, you've decided to enter the "MEMOIR MADNESS: AGES 1 - 31" Project, and good for you! Second, you should read all this first, so you know what to do!Here's all the instructions, so after you read, then go to "STARTING...


    Margaret Aranda, MD, PhD
    20/07/2016 #2 Margaret Aranda, MD, PhD
    Gentle reminder from questions asked: 🌺Yes, leave all your social media links, even if it is your store, blog, LI, etc. All. 🌺
    Margaret Aranda, MD, PhD
    17/07/2016 #1 Margaret Aranda, MD, PhD
    Dedicated to my daughter, who always asked so many questions, even as a toddler. I hope they never stop.
  8. Margaret Aranda, MD, PhD
    "The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother." ~ Unknown Margaret Aranda, MD, PhD


    Margaret Aranda, MD, PhD
    17/07/2016 #1 Margaret Aranda, MD, PhD
    ...and the greatest gift that a mother can give her children is to love their father.
  9. ProducerAmour Setter

    Amour Setter

    Why I decided to sell up everything to travel the world with my child
    Why I decided to sell up everything to travel the world with my childWhen I announced that I was selling up everything I owned to travel the world with my 16-year-old son, people laughed at me. "You'll be back sooner than you know it" was a retort I heard often. But I was determined to live my dream and help my son...


    Lyon Brave
    31/12/2016 #58 Lyon Brave
    wow, how cool are you
    Amour Setter
    21/08/2016 #57 Amour Setter
    #56 Thank you, Michael. Courage or madness, lol ;)
    Mickael Angelo Yusufidis
    21/08/2016 #56 Mickael Angelo Yusufidis
    An example of courage.
    Amour Setter
    12/07/2016 #54 Amour Setter
    #45 Thanks Jean. It's what we both needed!
    Amour Setter
    12/07/2016 #53 Amour Setter
    #44 Thanks, Margaret. We actually both benefitted enormously from the experience. Not sure who benefitted the most, but we had a ball along the way (most of the time) lol.
    Amour Setter
    12/07/2016 #52 Amour Setter
    #43 Thanks Trudy!
    Amour Setter
    12/07/2016 #51 Amour Setter
    #42 Thanks Aaron! Appreciate.
    Amour Setter
    12/07/2016 #50 Amour Setter
    #41 Fantastic story Pascal! You proved them all wrong and lived to tell the tale. Looking forward to hearing about your travels through Africa! :)
    Amour Setter
    12/07/2016 #49 Amour Setter
    #40 Thank you, Maja. Life is all about challenges, it's how you handle them that matters most. I think it's important to welcome change and not be afraid of stepping outside your comfort zone because that is always where true growth begins. You've got to feel the fear and do it anyway, lol ;)
    Amour Setter
    12/07/2016 #48 Amour Setter
    #36 Thank you Sara for your encouraging words. Most appreciated!
    Amour Setter
    12/07/2016 #47 Amour Setter
    #34 Thank you @Juan Imaz!
    Amour Setter
    12/07/2016 #46 Amour Setter
    #33 Agreed @Charlene Burke! You have a great plan, enjoy every moment of it! :)
    Jean L. Serio CPC, CeMA
    12/07/2016 #45 Jean L. Serio CPC, CeMA
    Thanks Amour, for sharing such a personal story. I admire you for your determination to move forward in a way you knew, in your heart, was best for your son. It's a truly inspirational story we can all learn from.. And as Aaron Skogen states in his comment "Experience, is indeed, life's best school."
    Margaret Aranda, MD, PhD
    12/07/2016 #44 Margaret Aranda, MD, PhD
    Fantastic mothering! YOU knew what to do because you realized this was your one son, and your one life with him growing up for a fraction of his impressionable life. And you gave him all that you could give, no regrets. Hat's off to you, Mother! Hat's off to you!
    Trudy Dyer
    11/07/2016 #43 Trudy Dyer
    Such an inspirational and courageous story. Thanks for sharing your experience @Amour Setter Continued success to you and Atreyu.
    Aaron Skogen
    11/07/2016 #42 Aaron Skogen
    Experience is indeed life's best school! A wonderful story Amour!
    Pascal Derrien
    11/07/2016 #41 Pascal Derrien
    That's one hell of a story but I should not be surprised you did it for your son providing your first name :-)

    One thing only I can relate too is people telling you not to do it those types are everywhere a long time ago before the mobile phone era I left Paris to cross the Canada over a two months with limited cash at age 19 the number of people who tried to persuade me to do otherwise was impressive, I would get kill I would run out of money I did not know the country they heard so and so etc... I left and I had a ball I slept on beaches, sordid hostels etc,, but a few years later I crossed Eastern Europe when the wall fell and cross the US too morale is I don't really care what people say and YOU DID RIGHT

    PS: I travelled thru your country and Mozambique too but that will be for another time
    Maja Vujovic
    11/07/2016 #40 Maja Vujovic
    There's more than one way to make up a story. The slowest, hardest, most challenging one - but also the most genuine - is to live it. For real.
    Maja Vujovic
    11/07/2016 #39 Maja Vujovic
    What a force of nature you are, @Amour Setter! And for some reason, I imagine you as petite - go figure. It must be your name - the whole world in so few letters. (Note to self: create a hive for heroes...) Respect!
  10. ProducerAli Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    I Love You- What Does it Mean?
    I Love You- What Does it Mean?It amazes me how we use words very frequently without knowing exactly what they mean. Just ask for the definition of leadership and strategy and you shall be puzzled by the variations in definitions. I experienced this. I asked for the opposite...


    Ali Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    18/04/2017 #193 Ali Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    #192 It is nice to read a comment on a buzz that has been published for a while. Nicer it is reading such a lovely comment such as yours @Joanne Gardocki. I felt the love in your words and I enjoyed reading your pure heart.
    Joanne Gardocki
    17/04/2017 #192 Joanne Gardocki
    Lovely and thought provoking, particularly at this time of year when hope springs eternal. I found myself wondering where is "agape" the Greek word and concept of the highest form of love in the diagram. Must all love be romantic? Giving from the heart and fullness of self for the pure delight in the object of love rings true when I hold a baby. Thank you, @Ali Anani, for sharing the warmth of pondering love.
    Nandita De
    11/04/2017 #191 Nandita De
    #190 Me too! 😊
    Ali Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    09/04/2017 #190 Ali Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    Thank you @Nandita De and I am glad to connect with you
    Nandita De
    08/04/2017 #189 Nandita De
    Very nice!
    Ali Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    11/03/2017 #188 Ali Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    #187 Thank you @Harish Daniel for commenting and your lovely appreciation
    Harish Daniel
    11/03/2017 #187 Harish Daniel
    Excellent explanation about love, thanks for sharing @Ali Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    Louise Smith
    25/02/2017 #186 Louise Smith
    #185 Yes Ali I try hard to remind myself often
    Ali Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    25/02/2017 #185 Ali Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    Love is greater than death and hate - love your ideas @Louise Smith
    Ali Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    25/02/2017 #184 Ali Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    #182 @Robert Cormack- very interesting comment. I read yesterday a buzz on beBee stating that Love = Joy + Fear. I think it was @Louise Smith who wrote it. Love is the combination of joy and fear. If we love somebody we also fear his/her loss. Th is idea intrigues me as much as your comment does. Again, I see a real expansion of this idea in your comment Love hurts. Yes, it does and again I would say Love = Joy + Hurt
    A lot to think about
    Louise Smith
    25/02/2017 #183 Louise Smith
    I think the image for when love turns is a coin

    Flip it

    50 - 50
    one or the other
    all or nothing
    love > hate

    Robert Cormack
    22/02/2017 #182 Robert Cormack
    Looks like we're talking about triangular love, @Ali Anani. I think we're all faced with all three points when we "fall in love," each one giving us something but not everything. It's often not what we leave out or misinterpret, but what we expect. Think of it as the "round peg in a square hole." Since love isn't a solid object, we don't see ourselves forcing round into square or square into a triangle. We only realize it doesn't fit when we feel dissatisfied or hurt. Again, since love isn't a solid form with tangible proof we've chosen the wrong pieces, we make the same mistakes again. That's why we say "Love hurts." It really doesn't. What hurts is failure.
    12/02/2017 #180 MPORANYIMIGABO Gerard
    Thanks Ali, and I want to add that a lasting love goes with self determination
    Ali Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    06/01/2017 #179 Ali Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    #178 I wish you had written this comment before @Lyon Brave and I am sure this comment would have drawn many more comments. For example, your writing "The love we have so easily for our friends and family is mature love, it’s natural and effortless". Love is effortless- what a deep meaning this carries! It is stunning beauty.
    ANother example is "Romantic love might be a dysfunctional state of immature love. It might be a seed of love when it’s is still adolescent". I agree as I have witnessed many immature marriages because of dysfunctional love fell apart and ended in smoke.
    I have got to know you recently Lyon, but believe me the only thing that comforts me is late is better than never.
    Lyon Brave
    05/01/2017 #178 Lyon Brave
    Mature love is the foundation of family and a peaceful society. The love we have so easily for our friends and family is mature love, it’s natural and effortless. We love our friends for being themselves and we don’t expect or demand too much from them. We just have to look at behavioral patterns to understand romantic love is illusive and unstable and can at times be immature love. Romantic love might be a dysfunctional state of immature love. It might be a seed of love when it’s is still adolescent. The seed has potential to grow into a tree and become rooted for the long-term, but it’s more likely they seed will be lost in the wind. Immature love and mature love should not be regarded in the same light or with the same seriousness, but people will go all Romeo and Juliet.
    Ali Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    04/01/2017 #177 Ali Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    #176 Me too @Devesh 🐝 Bhatt and I need another lesson of love. Your comment implants this feeling in me.
    Devesh 🐝 Bhatt
    04/01/2017 #176 Devesh 🐝 Bhatt
    Love can be anything but i assume it as the depth of understanding, the opposite of love is returning from a shallow experience, let me clarify ..shallow means ..not looking at a person but ones own needs.
    The recursive loop is this, understanding becomes a need, women like me because they want to be understood, but hate me because they fear being understood... Its more to do with social conditioning than there individuality..

    I still have to learn when to initiate and when to respond, the timing usually sucks.

    A loss of company isn't the loss of love, its a feeling and not a person. I have loved, I still love and i enjoy it when a person does good. Women doubt love when I say this,I believe I need another lesson in love.
    Ali Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    31/12/2016 #175 Ali Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    @Joseph SpruteWith such inspiration I have to believe you
    Ali Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    31/12/2016 #173 Ali Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    #172 This is a beautiful comment @Joseph Sprute and I love this new idea "unconscious reality".