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Love, Dating, Romance, Marriage & Divorce

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  1. Brian McKenzie

    Brian McKenzie

    19/06/2017
    Meme, Meme, Meme, Meme, Manly Men Meme Brian McKenzie
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  2. Brian McKenzie

    Brian McKenzie

    19/06/2017
    They want the Vampires, Werewolves, Pirates, Surgeons and or the BDSM Billionaire
    second place for Bad Boy, Rebel w/o Cause, Criminal, Rapper, or local dime bag Thug.
    youtu.be https://wattbad.wordpress.com/2017/03/19/what-women-want/...
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    Brian McKenzie
    19/06/2017 #1 Brian McKenzie
    The article in question that got me there.
    https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/women-leave-men-love-every-man-needs-know/
  3. ProducerMatt 🐝 Sweetwood
    It's Time To Change the Way Marriage Works
    It's Time To Change the Way Marriage WorksIt all started with a humorous Facebook post I made recently about my fear of marriage. I was taking my usual Saturday walk-about in Manhattan when I turned the corner on 42nd street, near Grand Central Terminal, and I came across a wedding...
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    Gerald Hecht
    18/06/2017 #76 Gerald Hecht
    #75 @Renée 🐝 Cormier thank you --somehow, they turned out to be unbelievable...they are amazing...I just need to stay out of their way now...they are beyond my circle of misfits
    Renée  🐝 Cormier
    18/06/2017 #75 Renée 🐝 Cormier
    #74 Happy Father's Day, @Gerald Hecht.
    Gerald Hecht
    18/06/2017 #74 Gerald Hecht
    #73 @Renée 🐝 Cormier yep; my kids told me to put this thing down; they're taking me out for lunch
    Renée  🐝 Cormier
    18/06/2017 #73 Renée 🐝 Cormier
    #67 As long as nobody is trying to "run" me, I'm happy. Love begins within oneself. If you genuinely love who you are, then you will never need anyone to give you some sense of completion. Looking for that in another will only lead to disappointment. Also, if your relationship with yourself is completely healthy, then your partner will always feel safe with you. With that comes, trust, security, etc., assuming both partners are equally emotionally balanced. If one partner is "off" so to speak, then the relationship will be challenged in ways that will undermine its success. That's my take on things, for whatever it is worth. :)
    Gerald Hecht
    18/06/2017 #72 Gerald Hecht
    #70 @Franci🐝Eugenia Hoffman, Brand Ambassador @ beBee I think that I've suddenly become possessed...all it took was to let my (hippie dreamer) guard down for a moment ...and now...I think I may be headed for the history books as "The First True Divorce Robber Baron in America".

    Oh, may the universe not judge me harshly.

    I fear that My new company, "Divorce Logistics Enterprises" may surpass Facebook by 2020.

    I haven't even finished the business plan (I just started working on it about 10 minutes ago)...and I've already been booked for "60 Minutes" and "Time" wants to start working on a cover story.

    I wish I was suffering from Bi-Polar Affective Disorder or something; that I may be able to provide a potentially forgivable rationale for what (they will say) I've done...
    Gerald Hecht
    18/06/2017 #71 Gerald Hecht
    #69 @Paul "Pablo" Croubalian I'm increasingly discovering that so much of the advice that I ignored ...has resulted in really hard puzzles that I would never have bought even at a yard sale;

    and yet, your previous comment has quickly (seed-like) "sprouted" into this evolving vision for an "end to end" divorce solution business.

    I even said to myself: why not actually name the thing: "Divorce Logistic Enterprises" (DLE).
    the lawyers would just be one group of employees, along with CPA's, Counselors, Investment Planners, etc. (working under one of 50 "State Specific Compliance Divisions")...which in turn would be part of an "Interstate Coordination Best Practices Department"...
    ...etc.

    The vision is growing faster than I can articulate it...
    ...and even stranger; every bit of seems "metaphysically wrong" to me.

    We humans are a strange lot; I've never thought of myself as an entrepreneur --I am opposed to the purpose of this thing; and simultaneously; I'm seeing the blueprint for the whole thing draw itself, accompanied by a feeling of divine inspiration...like "a calling".

    Ye Gods!
    Paul "Pablo" Croubalian
    18/06/2017 #69 Paul "Pablo" Croubalian
    #68 I didn't mean that divorce is A business for the general public. It's certainly a big business for the lawyerin' guys. If I was a lawyer I'd do nothing but.

    I meant it's business and should be treated just like any other business negotiation. (Coolly, calmly, forcing emotion out of the equation.) That was the advice I got and ignored. I wish I hadn't.
    Gerald Hecht
    18/06/2017 #68 Gerald Hecht
    #59 @Paul "Pablo" Croubalian I don't know if divorce is an autonomous business ...yet. I think it's still a branch of the lawyerin' business (as opposed to the legal business); like personal injury lawyerin' business.
    But , there are many qualified entrepreneurs who will (no doubt) figure out a cost effective, revenue generating "autonomous thingie".

    There will be franchises and everything... "Na na, na na na na, hey hey hey, bye bye, Inc."
    Gerald Hecht
    18/06/2017 #67 Gerald Hecht
    #63 @Renée 🐝 Cormier yes they can...another reason to fight for the "right" to have spaces/intervals where nobody is allowed to watch...where its physically impossible for anyone to watch...that's what the 4th amendment really is; it's the keystone of every real love story.
    Technology isn't what's killing it, and neither is any "national/public security rationale".

    The real cause of the increasingly Orwellian nightmare of our lives is one thing:

    fear and loathing and self hate in the businessmen, politicians, policymakers, and clerics/dictators who've deluded themselves into believing that they "run the world".
    Gerald Hecht
    18/06/2017 #66 Gerald Hecht
    #65 @Lisa 🐝 Gallagher hearing things like that, makes it painful to think of the journey being interrupted every two years for "contract renewal conferences"...maybe I'm "naive", or "old fashioned".
    Nah.
    Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    18/06/2017 #65 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    #63 We had a rocky start because we were so young when we met. My husband was 15, I was 16. We married at age 21. Our first child was born when I was 22, almost 23 years old. Life was not easy and there were times I felt like walking away. I'm so glad I rode out the waves (and believe me, I'm not saying that's possible for everyone) but we are closer now than I would have ever imagined 20 years ago. I think in our case, hard times made both of us appreciate simpler times and much more. Is our life perfect, no... far from it but it's beautiful in ways that are hard to describe.
    David Navarro López
    18/06/2017 #64 Anonymous
    In response to your buzz, I had to write this one https://www.bebee.com/producer/@david-navarro-lopez/my-love-you-re-perfect-as-you-are-i-m-gonna-change-you
    Hope you like it
    Renée  🐝 Cormier
    17/06/2017 #63 Renée 🐝 Cormier
    Of all the couples I know who have been together for 20 years or more, I only know one that seems to be genuinely happy together. Looks can be deceiving, however.
    Todd Jones
    17/06/2017 #62 Todd Jones
    #26 Renee, I believe that you are on to something here. One of the most happily married couples that I know maintain separate homes. It is the second marriage for both individuals.

    I initially thought the arrangement odd, however now believe that there is a genius aspect to it. They spend tons of time with each other, travel extensively, and are always out on the town together, but with their separate retreats are able to escape the contempt that inevitably follows the familiarity of marriage and living together. I have never seen nor even heard of them having a heated argument.

    Different strokes for different folks. This design continues to serve them well after 15 years.

    My wife of 18 years (we've been together for 24) originally stated that this type of agreement would never work for her personally, but I think that she is now warming to the idea :)
    🐝 Fatima G. Williams
    17/06/2017 #61 🐝 Fatima G. Williams
    #51 is this for real or are you joking ?
    🐝 Fatima G. Williams
    17/06/2017 #60 🐝 Fatima G. Williams
    #58 @Gerald HechtGeral 🤣🤣🤣🤣
    Paul "Pablo" Croubalian
    17/06/2017 #59 Paul "Pablo" Croubalian
    Interesting. I often thought that a marriage should have a five-year term like a commercial lease. Two years just may not be enough time. I do believe that no one should get married until they have lived together for two years. Maybe an initial two-year term with multiple options to renew?

    Before anyone gripes that a marriage is not a business, maybe not, but divorce certainly is.
    Gerald Hecht
    17/06/2017 #58 Gerald Hecht
    #57 got it! On my way...
    Michael O'Neil
    17/06/2017 #57 Anonymous
    #56 They do a deal with the Eketahuna pie shop. It is modeled on one run by Mrs Nellie Lovett.
  4. Mark Baer

    Mark Baer

    16/06/2017
    "Baer proves that he does not need a degree in psychology to have any credibility about the topic of empathy. He works professionally with people to understand their relationships and how to best solve their problems with the same skill as any psychiatrist might. But I didn’t write this just to show how one can have deep psychological knowledge without directly working in psychology, I wrote it because Baer’s thoughts on empathy and the technique of empathy conversations are genuinely intriguing and important. I think that truly listening to someone you may disagree with is a very easy method to accept and understand their thinking, a method we can all practice every day."
    Mark Baer
    Nobody Likes Lawyers...But Mark B. Baer Proves They Have Feelings
    www.psych2go.net Of course that's just a saying. What I'm really getting at is how psychology fits into law. If you're an avid reader of this website (and thus a big fan of psychology), you know psychology...
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  5. ProducerRobert Cormack

    Robert Cormack

    12/06/2017
    Dating Advice: You're Competing With Animals and Leash Parties.
    Dating Advice: You're Competing With Animals and Leash Parties.“Does a girl have to have hollow bones to get some sugar around here?” Amy Farrah Fowler, The Big Bang TheoryOne of the funniest sequences on The Big Bang Theory is when Sheldon becomes attached to a bird. Amy, his girlfriend, is particularly...
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    Robert Cormack
    12/06/2017 #8 Robert Cormack
    #5 Interesting you bring that up, @Wayne Yoshida. I remember having lunch with a woman who came from French nobility. She married a man against her parents' wishes and lost everything. Sitting there in the restaurant, we overheard a man being rude to the waitress. My friend shook her head. "We were always taught," she said, "that the way you treated servants showed whether you were 'old rich' or 'new rich'." Apparently, there are a lot of "new rich" people out there with no manners. I expect it's the same at home with the dog.
    Robert Cormack
    12/06/2017 #7 Robert Cormack
    #4 I grew up with animals, @Martin Wright, and I've always had a good relationship. For reasons I can't understand, in the past month, two dogs have tried to go after me. It isn't fear so I must have done something to them in a former life.
    Robert Cormack
    12/06/2017 #6 Robert Cormack
    Wise choices, @Brian McKenzie. Both will drag you down if you let them. #3
    Wayne Yoshida
    12/06/2017 #5 Wayne Yoshida
    This is so funny and very timely! I thought about this last night. Pet-owner behavior is one of those "relationship indicators" - exactly similar to how one treats wait staff in a restaurant.
    Martin Wright
    12/06/2017 #4 Martin Wright
    an animal' s reaction is based on instinct, and if they take a dislike then there is often soething there. Also how people react to animals often cuts through the social pretences.
    Brian McKenzie
    12/06/2017 #3 Brian McKenzie
    No pets. I move too often. Ditto for the fem-widget.
    Robert Cormack
    12/06/2017 #2 Robert Cormack
    Well then, I guess I did the right thing after all, @Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee#1
    Joyce 🐝 Bowen   Brand Ambassador @ beBee
    12/06/2017 #1 Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee
    Hahaha--a jewel, as always.

    I had to laugh at this: "If it humps your leg, you’ll probably get to second base before appetizers (with the woman, not the dog — although, hey, the dog has made the first move)." Having been a dog trainer/owner/groomer, if a dog humps your leg, he is marking his territory. He humps you? Maybe you have to do the dog, too.
  6. Angelo De Falco

    Angelo De Falco

    11/06/2017
    Angelo De Falco
    Sesso: l' orgasmo vaginale non esiste - CercoCerco
    www.cercocerco.net Sesso: l' orgasmo vaginale non esiste. Secondo alcuni sessuologi l' orgasmo vaginale non esiste. Molto fingono di averlo per sentirsi normali....
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  7. ProducerAcademic Zodiac

    Academic Zodiac

    09/06/2017
    Your Next Astrology Date is Marriage
    Your Next Astrology Date is Marriage#Dating next #Marriage #Astrology https://goo.gl/EILNWP #SmartScope #Love #Sex #16SunSigns #1008planets #RTRRT #ZodiacFix #SmartZodiacINTRODUCTION TO THE ACADEMIC ZODIAC RTRRTWelcome to your true astronomic zodiac! We shall briefly resume the...
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  8. ProducerRobert Cormack

    Robert Cormack

    07/06/2017
    Dating Advice: Can You Escape Manscaping? (Or Is This Love In The Age of Deforestation)
    Dating Advice: Can You Escape Manscaping? (Or Is This Love In The Age of Deforestation)"I let it fly in the breeze and get caught in the trees, a home for the fleas in my hair” The Cowsills, HairThere was a time when hair was the subject of songs (and a musical). Those “flaxen, waxen” locks were like an allegory of freedom, a unifying...
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    Robert Cormack
    10/06/2017 #2 Robert Cormack
    My rule of thumb is: "If it's climbable, I'd better get the shears."#1
    Todd Jones
    10/06/2017 #1 Todd Jones
    Chewbacca... laughing my ass off here! The bitch of getting old is that hair now sprouts uncontrollably everywhere except atop my head. I will spare you the visual of my monthly manscaping rituals...
  9. Mark Baer

    Mark Baer

    01/06/2017
    I'm giving a presentation tomorrow morning and published the following article specifically for that presentation:

    "Better Decisions Occur When We Don’t Let Our Emotions Get The Best Of Us"
    Mark Baer
    Better Decisions Occur When We Don't Let Our Emotions Get The Best Of Us | HuffPost
    www.huffingtonpost.com I was invited by a family office to give a presentation to a group of its advisors, which I’ll be doing tomorrow morning. Investopedia defines...
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  10. Mark Baer

    Mark Baer

    27/05/2017
    When Hiring a Lawyer or Mediator, Buyer Beware: Who is responsible for educating the public about dispute resolution options?
    Mark Baer
    When Hiring a Lawyer or Mediator, Buyer Beware: Who is responsible for educating the public about dispute resolution options?
    www.linkedin.com Over the years, I have written a great deal about how our personal biases, beliefs, assumptions, expectations and values shape our worldviews...
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    Mark Baer
    27/05/2017 #2 Mark Baer
    #1 Thank you, Laurent, and I appreciate your sharing my article.
    Laurent Boscherini
    27/05/2017 #1 Anonymous
    Welcome on beBee @Mark Baer ! Always relevant is the Motto to read you.
  11. Mark Baer

    Mark Baer

    27/05/2017
    The Choices We Make Create History, So Choose Wisely
    Mark Baer
    The Choices We Make Create History, So Choose Wisely | HuffPost
    www.huffingtonpost.com Last night, I attended a wonderful program at UCLA titled Why History Matters: History in the Classroom: Controversy Across Cultures. The program...
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  12. Mark Baer

    Mark Baer

    27/05/2017
    Psychology Meets Divorce: You Think You’re Helping, Do You?
    Mark Baer
    Psychology Meets Divorce: You Think You're Helping, Do You? | HuffPost
    www.huffingtonpost.com There are ways of changing the paradigm from adversarial to...
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  13. Mark Baer

    Mark Baer

    27/05/2017
    The Choices We Make Create History, So Choose Wisely
    Mark Baer
    403 Forbidden
    www.psychologytoday.com
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  14. Mark Baer

    Mark Baer

    27/05/2017
    Are Illusory Agreements The New Trend?
    Mark Baer
    Are Illusory Agreements The New Trend? | HuffPost
    www.huffingtonpost.com I’m increasingly being asked to review premarital and marital agreements, and divorce settlement agreements that are illusory in nature. Illusory...
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  15. Brian McKenzie

    Brian McKenzie

    21/05/2017
    Cats - go get an f'ing herd of them.
    Ambivalent, Oscillating, Pedantic, Vacillating, Incongruent, Bi-Polar, teeter-tottering widgets of dithering indecision.

    *yes, - that is the polite string of what I was thinking
    Brian McKenzie
    ‘Benevolent sexism’: Men who open doors for women can be as sexist as those who are rude to them, study finds | National Post
    bit.ly Psychologists found that a friendly or chivalrous attitude can mask chauvinistic views because the men see females as weak creatures in need of their...
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  16. Amy Walton

    Amy Walton

    18/05/2017
    Amy Walton
    Shhh... 5 Things Your Wife (or Significant Other) Secretly Wishes You Would Occasionally Do on Facebook (Pick One!) - Amy Walton Coaching
    www.amywaltoncoaching.com Ladies, this post is not being written to you, but please feel free to share it with your hubby or significant other. Gentlemen, I write this blog post to you as a woman, a life coach for moms who are raising children, a widow and now engaged woman,...
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    Amy Walton
    27/05/2017 #2 Amy Walton
    Excellent advice! #1
    Brian McKenzie
    18/05/2017 #1 Brian McKenzie
    Men, boys - the best advice you will ever get from me on relationshits - is to do EXACTLY what women dating 'experts' recommend
    1 Spend less time on Social media to begin with
    2 Don't post skads of photos
    3 Avoid the salesy smarmy hawking of her Etsy account or whatever
    4 Placate at your own risk
    5 Never air your relationshit on-line, it is too much Soap Opera
    6 And finally - what is she & whom is she doing on Social Media ? You are an idiot to ignore her friends list that she is shopping and grooming.
  17. ProducerRobert Cormack

    Robert Cormack

    17/05/2017
    Dating Advice: Talking Dirty Makes Our Brain Go Whoopee!
    Dating Advice: Talking Dirty Makes Our Brain Go Whoopee!“Yeah Darlin’ go make it happen, take the world in a love embrace”Born to be Wild, Mars BonfireI always thought talking dirty during sex was a good way to hide sounding like an asthmatic sheepdog. If we’re doing it right — giving it our all, so to...
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    Robert Cormack
    17/05/2017 #7 Robert Cormack
    #4 Well there's Paul Williams' "Memories," @Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee, sung by Barbara Streisand.
    Robert Cormack
    17/05/2017 #6 Robert Cormack
    #2 I follow raunchy whenever I can @Brian McKenzie. I'll take a look.
    Robert Cormack
    17/05/2017 #5 Robert Cormack
    The Snickers was gone on the second rewrite @Don 🐝 Kerr#1
    Joyce 🐝 Bowen   Brand Ambassador @ beBee
    17/05/2017 #4 Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee
    What's that song about memories?
    Brian McKenzie
    17/05/2017 #3 Brian McKenzie
    I just prefer to gag them - but each to their own
    : O
    Brian McKenzie
    17/05/2017 #2 Brian McKenzie
    I have written and translated letters for internet dating for years - y'all some dirty perverted f*cks .... but it is great material that I boost often - follow along in my #Kyrzbekistan hive - it gets a bit raunchy now and again.
    Don 🐝 Kerr
    17/05/2017 #1 Don 🐝 Kerr
    Where's that Snickers? Diddle dee dee @Robert Cormack
  18. Brian McKenzie

    Brian McKenzie

    12/05/2017
    Torn.... Do I write article on How to be an Official F*ck Boy ..... or another scathing primer on Why Love is Shit......?
    Seeking Beer and Inspiration.
    Brian McKenzie
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    Brian McKenzie
    12/05/2017 #1 Brian McKenzie
    We are done sacrificing Professor Peterson. https://youtu.be/5uTMPwFlf9I
    Completely, Done.
  19. Brian McKenzie

    Brian McKenzie

    09/05/2017
    How to be attractive to women.
    Plus up on money, power, fame because you can do nothing about height and other genetic markers.

    What is the widget that is sought - it is the purely Satanic 6.6.6.
    6 Feet in height, 6 Pack Abs and a 6 Figure income - and that is the minimum bar of entry into the market place. If you are not six foot tall, there is a monetary off-set that will run through their mind in calculation for either annual salary or net worth. What is that co-efficient? I would say that it varies for each roll the dice and who owns the table you are playing upon. It is a crap shoot - but Men, even if you 'win' the game, you lose.

    Never forget that you are the ATM - the Cash source. The moment that another revenue stream appears with either current larger assets or potential of greater future outcomes - you will be abandoned and bilked in the process. That is of course not to say that there will not be several countless indiscretions with the Bad Boy ilk and flair. Loyalty & Fidelity are not a Constant Truth, but a variable that is 'flexible' based upon the inverse proportion of getting caught. The less likely she is suspected to be caught - the higher the propensity and frequency of trysts.

    I wager the number is close to a 35K off set for every inch under the target six foot mark in annual salary with the 100K as the ante. Offset hedge markers for existing real-estate, cars and yacht ~ never forget we now live in the Instagram Bubble.

    Will money make you more attractive? - yep, those bills are nothing more than fresh chum in the water to a hungry shark. Go swimming at your own risk.
    Brian McKenzie
    How Do You Know if She is out of Your League? -
    goodmenproject.com Does a little money change your...
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  20. ProducerRoger Hilleboe

    Roger Hilleboe

    04/05/2017
    Heart Attack
    Heart AttackThis painting is about Heart Ache, Heart Break, Heart Sick but mostly a Heart Attack. But not the myocardial infraction type. No, ‘Heart Attack’ as literal: situations where one person violently rips another persons heart from their chest.The woman...
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    Antoinette Capasso-Backdahl
    04/05/2017 #1 Antoinette Capasso-Backdahl
    For me it's the other way around. Nice work.
  21. Brian McKenzie

    Brian McKenzie

    04/05/2017
    You are Here NOW.
    Welcome to the Show.
    Mouse Utopian Experiments | r/K Selection Theory
    Mouse Utopian Experiments | r/K Selection Theory In reference to the Mouse Utopian Experiments by John Calhoun - I believe that mammals must always have something to strive for or else they lose the will...
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  22. ProducerRenée  🐝 Cormier
    How to Change Your Life and Create Happiness
    How to Change Your Life and Create HappinessMy name is the French word for reborn. I have to say I have been aptly named. Change has been the only constant in my life and I tend to embrace it rather heartily. This may be partly because of my childhood. In the Maritimes where I grew up, the...
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    Renée  🐝 Cormier
    05/05/2017 #20 Renée 🐝 Cormier
    #18 Absolutely! Sadly, not many people get that concept. Thanks for commenting and sharing my post!
    Renée  🐝 Cormier
    05/05/2017 #19 Renée 🐝 Cormier
    #17 Ha! I always remember my cousin saying, "You'd better make sure your wife is happy, because if you don't she'll make Goddamn sure you're miserable!" Stay happy, @Todd Jones!
    Don 🐝 Kerr
    04/05/2017 #18 Don 🐝 Kerr
    @Renée 🐝 Cormier If I be so bold as to add one observation from Jon Kabat-Zinn to your well considered and thoughtful piece. "All the suffering, stress, and addiction comes from not realizing you already are what you are looking for."
    Todd Jones
    04/05/2017 #17 Todd Jones
    #16 Words I try to live by, Renee. Whenever anybody asks me how I'm doing, I respond with a smile and either "Everyday above ground is a good day!", or "Better than some, worse than others!"

    I have also found throughout my life that the more I am grateful for what I have, the more I eventually have to be grateful for. I learned this from Zig Ziglar :)

    Looking back, aside from my late teens and early twenties when life was just one party after another with no real responsibilities, I would contend that I am generally most happy when 1) my wife is happy, and 2) when engaged in the pursuit of my latest goal.

    Thanks for your thoughts.
    Renée  🐝 Cormier
    04/05/2017 #16 Renée 🐝 Cormier
    @Todd Jones, I had a friend who used to say, " When I wake up in the morning, I open one eye and then the other. When I notice I am still here, I say it's going to be a great day."
    Renée  🐝 Cormier
    04/05/2017 #15 Renée 🐝 Cormier
    By the way, @Todd Jones, thank you for sharing this post. :)
    Renée  🐝 Cormier
    04/05/2017 #14 Renée 🐝 Cormier
    #13 I think genuine happiness comes from your ability to weave together and appreciate those happy moments in their totality. Achieving a goal could produce a happy moment, but internally, if you are not able to appreciate your life, talents, the people around, you, etc., you will never be happy.for more than a moment. In my experience, people who lack gratitude/. appreciation for their blessings, end up feeling the depressed and miserable. We can all get sucked into being bummed out when things don't turn out the way we expect, but the story you persistently tell yourself around life's disappointments, will be what determines your degree of happiness. You can say, "It only rains on me." or you can say, "This experience doesn't define my life or my personal value. Tomorrow is another day and I will make it worthwhile."
    Todd Jones
    04/05/2017 #13 Todd Jones
    Great post Renee. I admire folks who are not afraid to walk boldly into the unknown in the pursuit of happiness. It makes me wonder though... could it be that happiness is found only in the pursuit of our goals? Is the elation of finally achieving each new objective only a temporary high destined to be jaded by unanticipated realities? Can the reality of realizing our ambitions ever really live up to the dream?

    I ask this because I may very well be the guy that coined the term "Well, that didn't work out like I figured..."
    Renée  🐝 Cormier
    04/05/2017 #12 Renée 🐝 Cormier
    Thanks, Franci. We are kindred spirits, I guess. Change is never without its challenges, but keeping a positive frame of mind during those turbulent times and being able to envision a clearing beyond the forest is essential to your success.
    Franci🐝Eugenia Hoffman, Brand Ambassador @ beBee
    04/05/2017 #11 Franci🐝Eugenia Hoffman, Brand Ambassador @ beBee
    I love this buzz, @Renée 🐝 Cormier. You and I are a lot alike. If something isn't working, then it's time to move on. There were times when I was in a job I didn't like and I hung in there - but only so I could have independence in the rest of life. My decisions worked in my favor and I was better off in the long run. I've always been one to follow my gut instinct.

    I love this "I am at a loss to fully understand how being temporarily uncomfortable is better than being permanently miserable."
    Renée  🐝 Cormier
    04/05/2017 #10 Renée 🐝 Cormier
    Thank you for sharing, @Milos Djukic!
    Renée  🐝 Cormier
    04/05/2017 #9 Renée 🐝 Cormier
    Thanks for the share, @Hugo Chinchilla!
    Renée  🐝 Cormier
    04/05/2017 #7 Renée 🐝 Cormier
    #4 Thank you, Jared! Keep smiling!
    Renée  🐝 Cormier
    04/05/2017 #6 Renée 🐝 Cormier
    #5 That is so sweet of you to say, @Lisa 🐝 Gallagher thank you. Your aunt seems to be a survivor, for sure. There is nothing more wonderful than taking control of your life and turning it into what you want. Living a life of what you don't want seems an absolutely insane thing to do.
    Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    04/05/2017 #5 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    I adore you @Renée 🐝 Cormier! You remind me of a younger version (much younger) of my Aunt. She waited until her kids all graduated and then left my Uncle. He was an alcoholic and she gave him time to change before then, he didn't, sadly. She then took off and lived in Az for a while. She was offered a job in Boca Raton Florida and then began her own company. She did some type of Marketing for the Medical Field. She got bored after about 7 yrs in in Boca and moved to Pine Knoll Shores in NC. She continued her biz there and met a man, fell in love, married. He died 5 years after they married which was sad because she really loved him. But, she made a lot of friends which helped her to move forward. My Aunt was a firm believer that those who stayed stuck in life (even in jobs they didn't like) were the unhealthy people. You are full of life, it's evident! Thanks for sharing :)
    Jared 🐝 Wiese ➡ I sell YOU. Fast!
    04/05/2017 #4 Jared 🐝 Wiese ➡ I sell YOU. Fast!
    #3 Ohhhhhhh, I don't like this. I love it, @Renée 🐝 Cormier!

    So true and oh such good advice.

    Thank you for sharing this. Many can benefit from it and be more joyful.
    Renée  🐝 Cormier
    04/05/2017 #2 Renée 🐝 Cormier
    Thanks for sharing @John White, MBA!
    Renée  🐝 Cormier
    03/05/2017 #1 Renée 🐝 Cormier
    Thanks for sharing @Javier 🐝 beBee!
  23. Brian McKenzie

    Brian McKenzie

    30/04/2017
    Dear {Name},
    I love you, I have always dreamed of you .....yadda yadda yadda

    I get the "prettiest" JUNK MAIL.
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    Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    30/04/2017 #1 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    Hey she wrote me too? LOL!!!
  24. Lisa Wilson

    Lisa Wilson

    28/04/2017
    How Does Divorce Affect Your Will in USA? #law #lawfirm #lawoffice #probate #probateattorney #SanBernardino #USA #divorce #will #
    Divorce does not only affect couple’s relationship status but also affects their trusts, wills, and other estate planning tools. Estate planning is a legal process of planning and specifying what should happen to all of the decedent’s assets after death. If an individual made a Will, and later got divorced but didn’t change or rewrite a new Will, it can immensely change his/her estate plans in ways that might not have been predicted.
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    How Does Divorce Affect Your Will in USA?
    madduxlaw.wordpress.com Divorce does not only affect couple’s relationship status but also affects their trusts, wills, and other estate planning...
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    Brian McKenzie
    28/04/2017 #1 Brian McKenzie
    Simply never marry, co-habitate or share accounts/expenses with her, and you don't have to worry bout this.
  25. Brian McKenzie

    Brian McKenzie

    27/04/2017
    Winning: Marriage is a mine-field - maybe you don't trip an explosive and lose a limb or die - but why risk it?
    70% of Men between 20-34 are not married - and not interested in doing such.
    Brian McKenzie
    Bachelor Nation: 70% of Men Aged 20-34 Are Not Married
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