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  1. Producerdebasish majumder
    ENIGMA OF DREAM!
    ENIGMA OF DREAM!Everyone love to dream Obviously with a gleam But seldom one bothers It has two realms One is based on reflection of practical beam Other is purely manufactured by individual鈥檚 whim One is based on reflection Where nature...
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    Deb Helfrich
    02/12/2016 #9 Deb Helfrich
    The poet in his creative hexagon! Where you "Produce honey with a royal gesture " Inspiring, @debasish majumder
    debasish majumder
    02/12/2016 #8 debasish majumder
    #7 Thank you very much madam @Donna-Luisa Eversley for your appreciation. i am privileged and honored.
    Donna-Luisa Eversley
    02/12/2016 #7 Donna-Luisa Eversley
    @debasish majumder..you look great love that black T-shirt... Great looking mug! Great poem...
    debasish majumder
    02/12/2016 #6 debasish majumder
    #2 Thank you very much @Mamen Delgado. i am privileged and honored.
    debasish majumder
    02/12/2016 #5 debasish majumder
    #1 Thank you very much madam@ Franci Eugenia Hoffman for your consistent support. i am privileged and honored.
    debasish majumder
    02/12/2016 #4 debasish majumder
    #3 Thank you very much @Gert Scholtz for your warm commendation. i am privileged and honored.
    Gert Scholtz 馃悵
    02/12/2016 #3 Gert Scholtz 馃悵
    @debasish majumder What a wonderful honey-poem to start the weekend!
    Mamen Delgado
    02/12/2016 #2 Mamen Delgado
    So cool @debasish majumder!!!
    馃憦 馃憦
    Franci Eugenia Hoffman
    02/12/2016 #1 Franci Eugenia Hoffman
    Outstanding poetry, Debasish. Cool T-shirt!
  2. Producerdebasish majumder
    BE HAPPY! IS IT AN ILLUSION?
    BE HAPPY! IS IT AN ILLUSION?I love to be happy It is my only fancy Anybody can obtain happiness Only if he or she can act with finesse It is a matter of perception And a contentment, entirely deals with one鈥檚 obsession If you feel happy, entire mundane...
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    Ali Anani
    02/12/2016 #1 Ali Anani
    Signaling with lovely symphony

    To construe a hive with honey

    Spirally they dance with glee

    What a jocund company!

    Nature鈥檚 amazing serendipity

    A delicious produce

    Galore amuse

    Dear @debasish majumder View more
    Signaling with lovely symphony

    To construe a hive with honey

    Spirally they dance with glee

    What a jocund company!

    Nature鈥檚 amazing serendipity

    A delicious produce

    Galore amuse

    Dear @debasish majumder- you MUST be happy and grateful poet to be able to write an excellent poem. Just as @Tausif Mundrawala wrote in his lovely buzz we need to nude ourselves out of unhappiness. Close
  3. Producerdebasish majumder
    MUCH A DO ABOUT NOTHING! AMAZING!
    MUCH A DO ABOUT NOTHING! AMAZING!Sonu and Sonia, both are young couple at their mid-twenties, and fallen in love with each other intensely. Their love affairs quickly followed to the ultimate culmination in their marriage. Now their emotional fret being settled to a conjugal...
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    Aurorasa Sima
    27/11/2016 #7 Aurorasa Sima
    Beautiful story, Debasish, and such an important message!
    Donna-Luisa Eversley
    27/11/2016 #6 Donna-Luisa Eversley
    @debasish majumder there are so many nuggets of wisdom within this story... We should be careful not to worship our children least they do not learn the value of hard work and appreciation of honest living.
    Brilliant...
    David B. Grinberg
    27/11/2016 #5 David B. Grinberg
    I agree Debasish, we should all "count our blessings" every day and be grateful for that which we have. Keep buzzing, my friend!
    Paul Walters
    27/11/2016 #4 Paul Walters
    @debasish majumder A tale of tragedy well told, thank you
    Ali Anani
    26/11/2016 #3 Ali Anani
    This is a sad story @debasish majumder. I have witnessed similar cases. Social pressures overcome home bringing, drive some people to compare with others and do illegitimate actions to reach the level of the higher class. This ends up only in loss for the whole family and the parents who worked hard to have a son reach a certain qualification only to find out they were sowing in water.
    debasish majumder
    26/11/2016 #2 debasish majumder
    #1 #1 Thank you very much @Gert Scholtz 馃悵 for your cordial appreciation. i am privileged and honored.
    Gert Scholtz 馃悵
    26/11/2016 #1 Gert Scholtz 馃悵
    @debasish majumder A tragic story which I am sure often plays out in real life. Wonderfully told Debasish - thank you.
  4. Producerdebasish majumder
    ASPIRATION OF BEES!
    ASPIRATION OF BEES!BeBee is simple Like a dimple In the check of a damsel Allure all with an enigma Cannot restrain from its enriching counsel What a lovely affinity, making a unique networking style beBee the best for its cordial and...
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    Franci Eugenia Hoffman
    24/11/2016 #5 Franci Eugenia Hoffman
    Beautiful flow @debasish majumder, and a sincere dedication to beBee!
    Fatima Williams
    24/11/2016 #4 Fatima Williams
    I love this poem @debasish majumder You truly make beBee special. Thank you
    Yes
    "Though tiny we are
    Serving with significance for a fairly long tenure
    We promote a grand signature in the existing nature
    Emphatically declare our Royal nomenclature!
    Be bee, be bee
    Make only honey with utmost glee!
    Erroll -EL- Warner
    24/11/2016 #3 Erroll -EL- Warner
    Unless your manager is a micro manager one of those left overs from the Brick and Mortar era. Micro managers caused the collapse of Brick and Mortar.
    debasish majumder
    24/11/2016 #2 debasish majumder
    #1 thank you very much madam @Deb Helfrich for your appreciation. i am privileged and honored.
    Deb Helfrich
    23/11/2016 #1 Deb Helfrich
    "beBee a networking site is becoming the best
    Where luminaries from all walks are working at their behest
    To make this site wonderful
    Where we all feel relaxed and cool
    Be happy to be a bee in glee! "

    This poem certainly makes me gleeful, @debasish majumder!
  5. ProducerSara Jacobovici

    Sara Jacobovici

    21/11/2016
    Developing a Tolerance to Negativity
    Developing a Tolerance to NegativityImage credit: Casual Photophile The writers and readers who participate in the discussions found on beBee provide such a great source of energy to think, learn, grow and succeed. And it鈥檚...
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    Sara Jacobovici
    27/11/2016 #105 Sara Jacobovici
    #103 Nice share and powerful ending @Jared Wiese. Thanks
    Jared Wiese
    27/11/2016 #104 Jared Wiese
    #85 Sara, I am honored, but even happier that I added to the discussion and can share it. :)
    Jared Wiese
    27/11/2016 #103 Jared Wiese
    #102 Love it! HA... here we go....

    Your acceptance comment reminds me of M. Scott Peck's Road Less Travelled (which I imagine you've read ;)

    The first 2 paragraphs speak to acceptance (CAPS are mine):
    "Life is difficult.

    This is a great truth, one of the greatest truths. It is a great truth because once we truly see this truth, we transcend it. Once we truly know that life is difficult - once we truly understand and ACCEPT it - then life is no longer difficult. Because once it is accepted, the fact that life is difficult no longer matters."


    The paradox, duality, good/bad, negative emotions (suffering) topics also remind me of Dan Millman's The Life You Were Born to Live. From the chapter, The Law of Perfection:

    "From a transcendental perspective, everyone and everything is unconditionally perfect; from a conventional viewpoint, perfection doesn't exist" -J. Krishnamurti

    "The Law of Perfection presents a paradox because it contains two apparently opposite truths, which operate at different levels of experience.

    From a conventional view, this world is a place of suffering: crime in the streets, the hungry, the homeless, the oppressed. Even without the daily news, in our own lives, when we get what we don't want, we suffer; when we don't get what we do want, we also suffer; and even when we get exactly what we want, nothing lasts in this realm.

    From a transcendental perspective - seeing ourselves and this world with all its difficulties from the all-encompassing wisdom and patience and love and understanding that comes when our hearts are open - then all of it, the joys and sorrows, the suffering and pleasure, and everything going on in this moment on planet Earth, is absolutely, completely perfect in terms of a great process of evolution."
    Sara Jacobovici
    27/11/2016 #102 Sara Jacobovici
    #101 No rambling here @Jared Wiese but your perspective and insights. Thanks for sharing. When you write, "Until we reach a threshold, we probably will not really change the circumstances that got us, stung.", it reminds me of Carl Rogers quote, "The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change."
    Jared Wiese
    27/11/2016 #101 Jared Wiese
    #84 yes, Sara. Thank you for the insightful reply! More good perspectives.

    My simile also speaks to tolerance. Many people can tolerate 1 sting. Some cannot. Until we reach a threshold, we probably will not really change the circumstances that got us, stung.
    I am thinking of the more current definition of tolerance. To me, it then gets into how much pain we take before changing. This ties to negative emotions and your discussion point.

    - Am I "really mad/sad/hurt/NEGATIVE" that I got stung? (notice the reactivity)
    - Am I "grateful/glad/smarter/POSITIVE" that I now know what I did or can do to avoid getting stung (proactive).

    It is not me vs. the bee. It is me AND the bee. Perhaps that's another perception of duality?! We both exist and do what we are innately born to do (sting/react)
    . . . or learn to do better (sting/not swat at a Bee's nest, then get uoset about it) if we are more evolved.

    Please excuse the rambling-if you feel/choose to see it as such. I hope it ties to many points in this discussion.
    Sara Jacobovici
    27/11/2016 #100 Sara Jacobovici
    Part 2/2 @Nikki Petersen continued from part 1.....Tension does exist in the "negative" until the expected resolution occurs and then the positive/release takes place. The duration, intensity and sense of familiarity of the tension will create different experiences. Nothing simple about all of this but certainly makes for interesting discussion.

    I have to confess the first thing I thought of was Peanuts and Lucy and Charlie Brown and the football. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=055wFyO6gag
    Sara Jacobovici
    27/11/2016 #99 Sara Jacobovici
    #96 Part 1/2 Thank you @Nikki Petersen for taking the time to read my post and for your comment. I appreciate you bringing up trust/mistrust as they are are an important contribution to this discussion. You write, "For us to create the trust that enables the sitting with the tension, there also has to be mistrust. There has to be doubt that the outcome will be what we hope it will be." My sense of this is a mature view point; something we are able to form out of accumulated experiences, whereas trust and mistrust are formed very early on in human development. It's not a matter of hope for the newborn and infant to have his or her needs met, its an expectation. The newborn or infant trusts that his or her physical and emotional needs will be met; it's unspoken and innate. It is when those needs are not met that mistrust begins to form and produces feelings/sensations related to anxiety.

    In any group, individuals bring their own meanings formed from experiences related to expectations and will either be "naively" open in their trust or on the other end of the spectrum, suspicious, or anywhere in between. Trust is earned; we shouldn't trust anyone until they have proven that they are trustworthy. In terms of my clinical work I remind my client of that. I have to work hard at earning his or her trust. As well, I remind my client that there are three aspects to the trust in the work; they need to trust themselves that they will do what they need or able to do in their work, trust the medium; whether the talking or the creative arts materials and process, and then there is me, where the client can take the time to develop that trust.
    Sara Jacobovici
    27/11/2016 #98 Sara Jacobovici
    #97 Thanks for your encouraging remark about my post @Jim Murray. As for the rest, I defend your right to saying what needed to be said.
    Jim Murray
    27/11/2016 #97 Jim Murray
    I learned a bit here and that's always good. This is a solid post, nicely reasoned and resolved and very useful, especially for Americans at this extremely stressful juncture in their history.

    But I was a little taken aback at some of the comments. This Max Carter fellow very much appears to be a walking contradiction of sorts. "I have one rule in life. Do not go to jail. If you like it, do it again, if not, don't." What does that even mean and what does that have to do with your piece? The first time I read it I got the distinct impression he was approving of those who choose a life of crime.

    There's a certain etiquette that needs to be observed here. People spend a lot of time and energy on their posts, and slathering the comments with non-sequiturs and discussion highjacks is really bad form. The whole idea is that the engagement should add to the value of the post, not take the discussion off into the wild blue yonder.

    I guess you could accuse me of the same thing, but it needed to be said, because I'm seeing a lot of it lately.
    Nikki Petersen
    27/11/2016 #96 Nikki Petersen
    @Sara Jacobovici I enjoyed your discussion of this topic. I do enjoy this forum because it allows me to think deeply, which I need in my life. Thank you.

    I wonder where trust fits in? In trying to apply the topic to my own life, personal, business, and parenting (among other aspects), my observation is that so much of the tension and dissonance is created by trust/mistrust issues. For example, the employees can feel that they should focus on the journey of discovery to multiple outcomes, but they have to trust that their ideas will fall on receptive ears; isn't the reason that sitting with the tension is uncomfortable is because they're not sure they can trust what will happen in the long-run?

    With your other example, music and therapy, doesn't the client need to be able to trust that the outcome of being with the tension created in a session will be useful or meaningful? That trust isn't just there, automagically -- it has to be created.

    For us to create the trust that enables the sitting with the tension, there also has to be mistrust. There has to be doubt that the outcome will be what we hope it will be.

    And that's where the circle comes back to negative emotions. We've all been hurt and we've all experienced the disappointment of misplaced trust. It's part of being human.

    The tension between positive and negative then, must come from trust and mistrust?
    Max Carter
    27/11/2016 #95 Max Carter
    What is it you are disagreeing with?

    Which part and why?

    I am think the readers would be curious to know more than I would.

    Is the part where I say we are not as removed from the animal kingdom a we would like to think?

    Is it the part where I explain pack mentality and how it actually works?

    Is the part about rules creating exclusion?

    Or is it all of it summarily?

    I covered more Tran one point.
    Ali Anani
    27/11/2016 #94 Ali Anani
    #90 We agreed to disagree.
    Max Carter
    27/11/2016 #93 Max Carter
    #92 I am curios as to why?
    Sara Jacobovici
    27/11/2016 #92 Sara Jacobovici
    #88 As you said @Max Carter, you disagree. And so, at the risk of sounding cliche, I respectfully agree to disagree.
    Sara Jacobovici
    27/11/2016 #91 Sara Jacobovici
    #87 Read it and admired it @Ali Anani
    Max Carter
    27/11/2016 #90 Max Carter
    #89 The chaos behind why the birds flock together has many variables down to the individual birds and the place they take within the flock. there are no rules, they feel their way though it with instinct and at times in any flock or even pack there are challenges for pecking order or place in the pack.

    The alpha is the strongest leader of the flock or the pack that guides them true and out of danger based on the leaders intuition which is chaos based in the now and the variables in a state of flux being read in the moment.

    We as humans foolishly think ourselves more evolved from the animal and will go against intuition in favor of thinking we can think better than our intuitive senses. That is the biggest road block we create and keep in place for ourselves.

    I have one rule in life. Do not go to jail. If you like it, do it again, if not, don't.

    When you start creating rules you have to start excluding those who don't meet with your rules. For me i think it's healthy not be hanging out with someone in the middle of creating a crime and to avoid breaking the law myself in my own actions.

    When people do not comply with the laws we impose in society they go away from society and are excluded from society.

    Rule building is about creating mechanisms for and parameters for exclusion.
    Ali Anani
    27/11/2016 #89 Ali Anani
    #88 There are simple rules for birds flocking together> The feedback effect leading to chaos is based on simple rules. No one pretends the rules are always right, but we strive to improve them. They help in focusing our efforts. Nobody till now can predict the weather of of its complexity, but it was the three simple differential equations that helped in noticing the butterfly effect. We are trying to do the same.
    Max Carter
    27/11/2016 #88 Max Carter
    #87 I disagree because existence works on the principle of organized chaos and as a part of existence so do we which means all the variables are variable in the moment and no equation is ever going to suit the moment you are in unless you create it and can control all the variables which control is an illusion.

    To create an equation is to engage in willful delusion that one has control over anything. We mange ourselves we don't control anything because we are organized chaos not a machine.
    Ali Anani
    27/11/2016 #87 Ali Anani
    #85 I agree entirely with you @Sara Jacobovici. On my last buzz, I responded to a comment by @Max Carter and I almost said the same about the value of developing the equation. It is trial and error, but is worthy.
    Sara Jacobovici
    27/11/2016 #86 Sara Jacobovici
    #78 Thank you @Jared Wiese for your very valuable contribution to this discussion. Much appreciated.
  6. Producerdebasish majumder
    MARKETING PLOY! AN IGNOMINIOUS TOY?
    MARKETING PLOY! AN IGNOMINIOUS TOY?Are you thinking I hanker for only award and recognition? I only crave to make a dent out of my sincere attribution Never be satiated for only reward You must have got me wrong I don鈥檛 bother your camouflaging enticement I penned...
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    debasish majumder
    23/11/2016 #4 debasish majumder
    #3 Thank you very much sir @Ali Anani for being kind enough to go through my post and shared your warm appreciation and support. actually the nuances of modesty i honestly learn from you, precisely how effective tool it is in modern digital media, where majority lose their calm and tend to resort to useless ventilating their irritation, despite being humiliated, and resulting them to bring infamy for them. but, on contrary, your address all with a modest 'dear' word, despite their comment may not subscribe with your views, is truly a lesson for many to learn, setting an axiom for many to follow. once more thanks sir for your appreciation. i am privileged and honored.
    Ali Anani
    23/11/2016 #3 Ali Anani
    Dear @debasish majumder- now, I find a new gift that you have. you are a sarcastic writer and poet without being rude. This is very difficult to achieve, but you do. The message is clear and the flow of ideas is envious. Congratulations
    John White, MBA
    23/11/2016 #2 John White, MBA
    I have shared your clever post to the Social Marketing Solutions Hive. Buzz on!
    Mark Anthony
    23/11/2016 #1 Mark Anthony
    Thankyou . Intriguing message
  7. ProducerJavier beBee

    Javier beBee

    22/11/2016
    New beBee ambassadors - 2016 November
    New beBee ambassadors - 2016 NovemberWe鈥檝e received many questions asking about the specific requirements that need to be met to become one of our Ambassadors. We are priorizing these actions:1. Promote beBee on the internet --> 聽Whether it鈥檚 through your various social networks,...
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    Andrew Books
    29/11/2016 #154 Andrew Books
    #153 Yeah...if they let ME in, there's hope for anyone. :) Thanks @Javier beBee!
    Javier beBee
    29/11/2016 #153 Javier beBee
    #149 @Michael Rana anyone can become an ambassador after working hard promoting beBee ... more info at www.bebee.com/ambassadors
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    29/11/2016 #152 Juanma Romero
    Gracias @Javier beBee y todo el equipo. Un honor para m铆 y felicidades al resto de Embajadores.
    Isabel D铆az   Dur谩n
    29/11/2016 #151 Isabel D铆az Dur谩n
    Congratulations!!!!!
    DILMA BALBI -Contratos e Gest茫o
    27/11/2016 #150 DILMA BALBI -Contratos e Gest茫o
    Welcome new ambassadors! Congrats! Felicitaciones @David Navarro L贸pez
    Michael Rana
    27/11/2016 #149 Michael Rana
    Can someone be an ambassador if they've only recently joined the network?
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    27/11/2016 #148 Anonymous
    #144 Gracias @Belen Robles, eres un encanto!!
    Pamela L. Williams
    27/11/2016 #147 Pamela L. Williams
    Wonderful! Our Ambassador community continues to grow! Welcome new Ambassadors!
    INNFORMATE CENTRO DE FORMACION
    27/11/2016 #146 INNFORMATE CENTRO DE FORMACION
    Felicidades a todos los BeBee s Embajadores....vamossssssssss
    Congrats to all the ambassadors of this great site
    Andrew Goldman
    27/11/2016 #145 Andrew Goldman
    Welcome all!
    Belen Robles
    27/11/2016 #144 Belen Robles
    oppps....@David Navarro L贸pez acabo de darme cuenta leyendo otro post que est谩s en la lista de nuevos embajadores :0 Quiero expresarte mi m谩s sincera 隆隆Enhorabuena!! Me alegro much铆simo de tu nombramiento. Siempre en un placer "debatir" contigo.
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    24/11/2016 #143 Mar铆a Paz Hueso Luque
    #142 Gracias, @Jos茅 Ram贸n L贸pez! Un honor para m铆. Saludos!!
    Jos茅 Ram贸n L贸pez
    24/11/2016 #142 Jos茅 Ram贸n L贸pez
    Felicidades a todos los nuevos embajadores. @Mar铆a Paz Hueso Luque: enhorabuena!!!
    Mar铆a Paz Hueso Luque
    24/11/2016 #141 Mar铆a Paz Hueso Luque
    #140 Muchas gracias @CARLOS JOSE CAPELLIN!馃槉馃槉.Un beso
    CARLOS JOSE CAPELLIN
    24/11/2016 #140 CARLOS JOSE CAPELLIN
    Enhora buena @Mar铆a Paz Hueso Luque, te mereces todo lo bueno que te pase. Felicidades tambi茅n a los nuevos embajadores.
    Michael Bellina
    23/11/2016 #138 Michael Bellina
    Thank you again! I love what you are doing here.
    Lisa Gallagher
    23/11/2016 #137 Lisa Gallagher
    #51 Agree you rock @Jan Barbosa! & I need to mention that @Jared Wiese my other partner in crime on Twitter rocks too. We need a theme song for "The app with no name." Maybe the Scorpions, "Rock you like a Hurricane?" https://youtu.be/Ypq1FsSXdbE ;-)
    Lisa Gallagher
    23/11/2016 #136 Lisa Gallagher
    #78 Together everything is possible!
    Lisa Gallagher
    23/11/2016 #135 Lisa Gallagher
    #134 Thanks @Jared Wiese, thats so sweet of you! By the way, my comment was supposed to read, "live" buzzes, not like . My phones keyboard doesn't like me. Congrats again, I was very happy to see you listed!
    Jared Wiese
    23/11/2016 #134 Jared Wiese
    #132 Thanks, Lisa! You were one of the first people I wanted to thank!
  8. ProducerEbenezar John Paul
    Aren鈥檛 we all聽just liars?
    Aren鈥檛 we all聽just liars?There are times in lifewe remain mumWhen beliefs are questioned聽fading away like maples in autumnAren鈥檛 we all just liars?Feeling so deeplyyet showing so littleWanting to be lovedbut not giving chancesPretending to be happywhile bleeding...
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    Lisa Gallagher
    22/11/2016 #3 Lisa Gallagher
    great poem written by @Ebenezar John Paul
    Ebenezar John Paul
    21/11/2016 #2 Ebenezar John Paul
    #1 I couldn't agree more with you @Lisa Gallagher. Always a pleasure to meet people who get what is meant to be delivered :)
    Lisa Gallagher
    21/11/2016 #1 Lisa Gallagher
    Great poem @Ebenezar John Paul. What you wrote of tends to be true for many, especially in the early stages of dating. It can also be true when someone is attracted to another yet they are afraid of letting them know for fear of rejection. Pretenses, we've all been guilty!
  9. ProducerAli Anani

    Ali Anani

    17/11/2016
    The Positive Side of Negative Emotions
    The Positive Side of Negative EmotionsI wrote a presentation on separation thinking in which I discussed our tendency to ask this or that such as is it the egg or the chicken? I wondered why not this AND that. More relevant questions are available that reinforce this separation...
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    Ali Anani
    22/11/2016 #111 Ali Anani
    #110 Yes, and I have witesses some of my acquaintances go through the downward spiral. I agree with you @Franci Eugenia Hoffman
    Franci Eugenia Hoffman
    22/11/2016 #110 Franci Eugenia Hoffman
    Negative emotions are natural reactions that we need to cope with. Recognizing the cause of negative emotions can lead the way to deal with them appropriately. Ignoring them can eventually cause a downward spiral and even result in harm to others and ourselves.
    Ali Anani
    21/11/2016 #109 Ali Anani
    @Sara Jacobovici responded in a buzz to this buzz. What a great read Sara's buzz is. You may read it here:
    https://www.bebee.com/producer/@sara-jacobovici/developing-a-tolerance-to-negativity
    Ali Anani
    20/11/2016 #108 Ali Anani
    #107 I agree with you dear @Mohammed Sultan. Your comment is consistent with the quantum theory "When we consistently make certain assumptions about the bad things that may happen to us we trigger our negative emotions". When we focus only on negatives we develop the Observer Effect. Negative emotions help to stabilize positive emotions, but excessively reflecting on negative ones throw us out of balance.
    Mohammed Sultan
    20/11/2016 #107 Mohammed Sultan
    Dear @ Ali Anani PhD.Thanks for sharing the output of your balanced emotion.When we consistently make certain assumptions about the bad things that may happen to us we trigger our negative emotions.Everything depends on how we view our external world.People with unbalanced emotion explain the bad things that happen to them in terms that are internal and stable.Thinking all the time of what went wrong is the moving sands of our emotions.It leads to giving up and prevent us from seizing opportunities because we think of punishment of failure(negative emotion) rather than the rewards for success(positive emotion).Fit and balance of our internal emotions should be done first before we align them with reason or with the external world.It also make sense to delay our decisions or meetings when we temporarily are flooded with negative emotion and become unable to balance them with reason.
    Lisa Gallagher
    20/11/2016 #106 Lisa Gallagher
    #105 Thanks @Ali Anani, Sometimes I re-read what I write and I will second guess myself, wondering if I conveyed my message well. Im glad you are able to get a visual when reading! So kind of you to put up a link to my buzz here:))
    Ali Anani
    20/11/2016 #105 Ali Anani
    #104 You writing is packed with images dear @Lisa Gallagher. Having just read your beautiful buzz of today on "Relationships and Empathy", you proved to me that your words are poetic, rich in vividness, and draw images in my mind. You words are images and I wonder why you think it is hard for you to describe in words. For readers, I strongly recommend for you reading the buzz of Lisa. It shall be time well-invested and for you to know that my comment reflects reality:
    https://www.bebee.com/producer/@lisa-gallagher/relationships-and-empathy#c11
    Lisa Gallagher
    20/11/2016 #104 Lisa Gallagher
    #103 Thanks Ali, that's probably because I'm a fairly simple person LOL. Sometimes my mind has very deep thoughts but I have a hard time expressing them. It's as though I can see a picture in my mind but it's hard to describe in words.
    Ali Anani
    20/11/2016 #103 Ali Anani
    #102 @Lisa Gallagher- emotions and thoughts lead to actions. For every action there is an equal reaction in the opposite direction. That is why I find your comment so deep and informative, and especially this part of the comment "The more we put out to the universe, negative or positive, well it comes back to us". You do amaze me with how simply and clearly you express complex ideas.
    Lisa Gallagher
    20/11/2016 #102 Lisa Gallagher
    It's amazing how negative emotions can over take the postive emotions @Ali Anani. I think you described some of the mystery behind them well. We can co-exist as long as our common core is one that comes from a good place. I think we aren't able to co-exist if one person is positive (for the most part) and the other is inherently evil. I've always believed that positive attracts positive and vice versa. The more we put out to the universe, negative or positive, well it comes back to us. Everyone has negative emotions and that's not a bad thing. It's when we allow those emotions to dictate our lives and treat others unjustly because we feel so bitter inside.
    Ali Anani
    20/11/2016 #101 Ali Anani
    #91 Yes, and passionately I understand your feelings.
    Ali Anani
    20/11/2016 #100 Ali Anani
    #96 @David Navarro L贸pez wrote a beautiful buzz on the forging metaphor. Thanks @Max Carter for reminding us of this metaphor. To better understand this metaphor, I urge you to read David's buzz at the following link:
    https://www.bebee.com/producer/@david-navarro-lopez/can-the-character-be-forged
    Ali Anani
    20/11/2016 #99 Ali Anani
    #97 I am deeply moved by your comment @Ian Weinberg. Thank you
    David Navarro L贸pez
    20/11/2016 #98 Anonymous
    #96 Agreed, Max. It needs a big amount of self-honesty to be aware of what is wrong and change it. To forgive ourselves is as well an important point, as guilt might blur the way we should go forward.
    Ian Weinberg
    20/11/2016 #97 Ian Weinberg
    An intelligent, innovative and thought provoking article. Thanks for this Ali.
    Max Carter
    20/11/2016 #96 Max Carter
    #95 @David Navarro L贸pez I really dug the piece and thank you for sharing it. Bruce Lee said something to the effect to take what resonates and make it uniquely your own. That's what triggered in my mind as I read the part about Copy.

    It's all been done before however there is always a way to express it that is unique to one's perspective and how one applies it to ones life

    I like the metal forging metaphor as well as I use a simple philosophy of the sword has no master to illustrate that each is a living sword and the hilt is the mind and letting others have control over what and how you think allows them to weld you against whoever the choose.

    Something ingrained in me by my Hungarian family and many family debates that looked like war was about to break out. I was taught if I couldn't put it in my own words I was not allowed to participate because until you can put it in your own words you have yet to live concept to find if it is wise for your life. .

    It's never easy to look at oneself and ones past and see where one inflicted harm and own it and forgive oneself by changing ones behavior so they don't repeat the inflicting of suffering as a matter of habit as they keep on keepin on.
    David Navarro L贸pez
    20/11/2016 #95 Anonymous
    #92 No idea who gave you a -1, Max. Maybe an inexperienced user who does not know how it works, because your comment is full of wisdom.
    I agree with your words "People fear changing themselves because then maybe they might have to take responsibility..."
    Self awareness can be a very disgusting experience if you don't like what you see, and you don't have the guts to change it. But is possible, in every case.
    Some time ago I wrote a post you might like, concerned to this: https://www.bebee.com/producer/@david-navarro-lopez/can-the-character-be-forged
    Sara Jacobovici
    20/11/2016 #94 Sara Jacobovici
    #89 Thanks for clarifying your comment @Harvey Lloyd. I understand that the sarcasm can come from parenting experiences ;-) but..... objectively speaking.....that potential wisdom does exist and experiences with time does enable the realization of that potential.
    Max Carter
    20/11/2016 #93 Max Carter
    Whoever gave my last comment a -1, why?
    Max Carter
    19/11/2016 #92 Max Carter
    Why do we fear getting rid of the terms positive and negative when describing human emotion?

    Let me see I can answer this.

    We fear letting go of these abusive descriptors so we can avoid actually having to deal with the cause of the emotional response and own responsibility for actions that led to the emotion displayed.

    We cling to these terms to avoid dealing with each other and taking responsibility for our actions and words by saying "They are being negative and I did nothing or said nothing to illicit that response, it's their choice. and they are being negative."

    This is self delusional avoidance and why these terms are abusive to self and all ones.

    This is behavioral psychology applied with out allowing personal identity in the form of the ego expression to distort the view.

    To let go these ideas means a redefinition of self and the ego expression. People fear changing themselves because then maybe they might have to take responsibility for things they have done in the past and acknowledge the suffering they have inflicts and generally people like to avoid that as they see it as a negative experience and this increases their resistance to change.
  10. ProducerAli Anani

    Ali Anani

    15/11/2016
    Adaptations to Emotional Flooding
    Adaptations to Emotional FloodingI am not discussing the flooding of markets with products. I am not discussing the flooding of information. I am interested in this buzz to talk about emotional flooding and its consequences. I am tempted to write this buzz having read the buzz...
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    Ali Anani
    17/11/2016 #75 Ali Anani
    I responded to the great comments on this buzz in a buzz titled "The Positive Side of Negative Emotions"

    https://www.bebee.com/producer/@ali-anani/the-positive-side-of-negative-emotions

    I am deeply grateful to all commenters who inspired the idea of this new buzz
    Ali Anani
    16/11/2016 #74 Ali Anani
    #72 @Deb Helfrich- your dog example is more than apt. @Max Carter wrote a buzz as inspired by this buzz and his buzz too has drawn some great comments. I plan to write my next buzz to elaborate more on some of the points you highlight in your comment. Negative shouldn't mean bad. Without negative pressures water shall not move more than 30 meters from the roots of a tree to its top. A battery shall not function without the positive and negative anodes together. But we can't deny that there stressing emotions that if we allow to escalate and flood us they shall cause severe health problems. I again emphasize that it is our attitude that counts.
    I strongly agree with you on this issue " So we are quite likely to have emotional responses parallel to the adults that raised us, but the underlying situations may be vastly different".
    Max Carter
    16/11/2016 #73 Max Carter
    #72 There is no model is the problem and people are searching for a model or technical guide to tell them what's right and what's wrong and too many over history and currently are far too willing to sell them one keeping them crutched and never searching within.

    One knows why one feels the way one does, it's when we tell people not to feel this way about this or that and then we pass project self-judgment onto others insisting they reflect our projected self image as their own and condemn them the fate we chose for ourselves.
    Deb Helfrich
    16/11/2016 #72 Deb Helfrich
    There are some really important points of @Max Carter's that I want to highlight. To start. I have another, less emotional, and more observable parallel to the damage we do in assigning the concept of positive and negative - judgement - to emotions. My dog smells everything for information; she doesn't label one smell bad and one smell good, she drinks in all the scent particles. Sometimes lingering, sometimes rolling in them, but mostly just letting them waft by. The human need for judgement causes problems in all kinds of ways, but with the inevitability of emotions, we have an especially damaging problem.

    Furthermore, he mentioned that we learned how to feel emotions by mimicking the adults around us. Big, big, big observation. It is how we learned language, too. Rules (grammar) and judgements come much later on, as our brains only develop that analytical aspect much later. So we are quite likely to have emotional responses parallel to the adults that raised us, but the underlying situations may be vastly different.

    Both points bring us back to learning to adapt to our actual current conditions, perhaps using biomimicry as a great model, so that we stay in the flow of life, and its seasons and chaotic events, rather than letting emotions hijack our higher analytical intelligence. Hard stuff, but it comes back to awareness again and again and again.

    @Ali Anani's metaphor of flooding is apt. We can grow into the ability to manage our emotions as a river that never threatens the banks of our peace of mind.
    Ali Anani
    16/11/2016 #71 Ali Anani
    #70 I am very thankful to you @Joel Anderson
    Joel Anderson
    16/11/2016 #70 Joel Anderson
    Thank you @Ali Anani for some great insights.
    Ali Anani
    16/11/2016 #69 Ali Anani
    #68 I am so glad that you are enjoying the comments on this buzz dear @Deb Helfrich for I too find them an integral part of the buzz. You appreciation is beyond description and I am about to flood with joy
    Deb Helfrich
    16/11/2016 #68 Deb Helfrich
    This is a masterpiece of community interaction, @Ali Anani, all initiated by your wisdom. I am surfing the comments with such thrill. There are actionable lessons for everyone in regard to Emotional Flooding contained throughout the conversation.
    Max Carter
    16/11/2016 #67 Max Carter
    #65 Is it poosible to be too grateful as I thank you again for your kindness.
    Ali Anani
    16/11/2016 #66 Ali Anani
    Part 2
    A negative is a loss and the only loss that we truly experience is the loss of growth and learning when we ignore our emotions or other people because we use words such as Negative to describe the emotion and therefore the person.
    During a recent visit to my dentist, he said that the new "artificial teeth" shall stick in my mouth by negative pressure. Here negative is doing a great job and very positively. I think the distortion comes from our attitudes to view negative as bad. Joy is great and positive; however excessive joy is harmful and becomes harmful. It is our attitudes that we may think we may have joy without having pain or that joy is always a good thing regardless of its quality and quantity. Sometimes we need to say the positive pole and negative pole of a battery. The positive pole alone or the negative pole alone shall not make the battery work. It is the presence of both that we may have a working battery. You ignited the battery of my mind, Max.
    Ali Anani
    16/11/2016 #65 Ali Anani
    Part 1
    I urge readers of this buzz to read the buzz of @Max Carter (the link is given in my previous comment). I commented on this great buzz by writing:
    This is an amazing buzz @Max Carter- You make me think and rethink. I am honored that my buzz and the discussions inspired you with writing such a profound buzz. In fact, you too inspire me to write a buzz on same, but using a different approach. I shall do soon.
    I read this buzz twice before responding and the following segments from your buzz caught my attention:
    Psychologically speaking by saying some emotions are negative we will do anything we can to avoid them or someone experiencing them
    Max Carter
    16/11/2016 #64 Max Carter
    #63 Thank you kindly @Ali Anani
    Ali Anani
    16/11/2016 #63 Ali Anani
    @Max Carter responded to this buzz in a beautifully and mind-capturing buzz. The link is:
    https://www.bebee.com/producer/@max-carter/psychospirilosophy-says-there-are-no-negative-emotions#c1
    Ali Anani
    16/11/2016 #62 Ali Anani
    #61 Great and I tag @Deb Lange to your buzz @Max Carter
    Max Carter
    16/11/2016 #61 Max Carter
    #58 Well put. In fact this convo inspired me to write a piece on the topic just now. I tagged you.
    Ali Anani
    16/11/2016 #60 Ali Anani
    #56 @Deb Lange- as I mentioned in one of my responses to @Max Carter trees know fear, but accept it. They store certain nutrients for winter times. They change the direction of their leaves so as not to get exposed to intense sunlight. Trees may use alternative roots to find oxygen instead of the deleted oxygen in the water-depleted oxygen. That accept fear and adapt to it. Adaptation isn't controlling; it is mobility to move to finding solutions. Honestly, I fail to see big differences in our thinking.
    Ali Anani
    16/11/2016 #59 Ali Anani
    #54 Negative is made more negative by our attitudes. Negative emotions and positive ones co-exist, but in what proportions depends on us. I feel too I am in the rabbit hole, but I am not afraid to learn and find my way out. Thank you @Max Carter View more
    #54 Negative is made more negative by our attitudes. Negative emotions and positive ones co-exist, but in what proportions depends on us. I feel too I am in the rabbit hole, but I am not afraid to learn and find my way out. Thank you @Max Carter for this discussion has added lots of questions for me to ponder upon. Close
    Ali Anani
    16/11/2016 #58 Ali Anani
    #53 I am not less than you enjoying those convos @Max Carter. In fact not only enjoying, but also learning. Attitudes have a role and intentions too do. Therefore I enjoyed greatly this segment of your comment "They allowed the possible reward cloud their judgment by allowing fear to guide them. Afraid if they don;t make it big they will have no love in their life". Yes, they allowed fear to guide them and this is the point how not to let such fear to take its grip on us. Trees store carbohydrates for fear of not having enough supplies of it during winter. Trees accept fear and know how to deal with it. We too need to do the same.
    Ali Anani
    16/11/2016 #57 Ali Anani
    #51 @Ian Weinberg- thank you for the link. Will read today
    Deb Lange
    16/11/2016 #56 Deb Lange
    #49 The person you mention, may not have realised that there was something fishy. That person may feel shame. I would advise for them to give themselves much self-love to heal the shame. Shame needs acceptance that we were not wrong in this situation. If I hide, which is what shame wants to do, I will be perpetuating the energy of shame, as if I was wrong. As @Max carter says, we get tangled up when we cast negative and positive judgements on our lives, rather than saying that just is. I don't think trees judge that is bad, that is good. they weather the storms, the sunny days, and they may "know" the sunny days, allow their growth, the windy days sow seeds, or help them drop their leaves. Nothing to judge, a windy day just is a windy day. being sad because my Mother passed on, is not bad or good, it is a human expression of loss of a loved one. I think Ali, we may have a slight misinterpretation of what we both mean by control. Best wishes to you.
  11. ProducerKeith Bare

    Keith Bare

    12/11/2016
    I Need Input  in Social Media
    I Need Input in Social MediaI need ideas and help in Social Media on how to run a content based site on changing the world to Hydrogen!! 聽I'm open to all ideas and help!! 聽I can pay you with an idea in 2020 that ramps and scales in financial rewards, based on a FEW KEY pieces...
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    Keith Bare
    14/11/2016 #7 Keith Bare
    #1 @Javier beBee you are the perfect example, very very BUSY and before meeting me (by Bebee ) , you never considered Hydrogen as a mobility energy alternative investment, after watching $PLUG print China, Amazon, and Fedex in coming few months, you too will be convinced, this #HydrogenBee the perfect example of the potential of Bebee and the future!
    Keith Bare
    13/11/2016 #6 Keith Bare
    #3 most people want hard cash to build an idea, I wanna give away my content, i.e. $Plug as long term China play, as payment
    Keith Bare
    13/11/2016 #5 Keith Bare
    #2 @Deb Helfrich good points!! I'm an ex Nuke so I get physics and Energy and Hydrogen !! I'm a #NewbieBee to bebee and #SocialMedia
    My Six points would be Walmart, China, Amazon, Home Depot, Fedex, and Mercedes and BMW!! Of course China and Amazon not announced as of yet
    debasish majumder
    12/11/2016 #4 debasish majumder
    hydrogen, the only element having the lone electron on its orbit is the most intriguing of all elements and of course beBee the lone and distinct of all social media site, making the difference, making all element as non-elementary comparing to hydrogen, who only enable to form other elements. nice proposition @Keith Bare for your lovely share. enjoyed read. thank you for the share.
    Ross Campbell
    12/11/2016 #3 Ross Campbell
    Hi, Keith. I may be able to help with some ideas on social media.. And if you wanted a social strategy, my company could help you. Email me at ross@rosscampbell.me or check out my recent interview here https://olliewhitfield.co/2016/11/09/social-media-for-entrepreneurs/ - look forward to hearing from you 馃榾馃憤馃悵
    Deb Helfrich
    12/11/2016 #2 Deb Helfrich
    Well, @Keith Bare, I am sort of with you, but I just don't know enough. Which is probably what a lot of people are thinking.

    The difference between beBee and Hydrogen fuel is that everyone gets the beBee concept easily, or they try it and feel the energy. So how can you make the use case for Hydrogen fuels easy to understand for someone scrolling through a feed? Think pitch deck, consolidating the main points. Let's say you might even need a series of 5 or 6. A concise buzz that you and others share of a consistent basis could really build the hype you are looking for.

    Understandable chunks, shared repeatedly will build the buzz. You can just see what Javier and Juan are doing. We have front row tickets to a great class in entrepreneurship.
    Javier beBee
    12/11/2016 #1 Javier beBee
    @Keith Bare I like this " Bebee came out of nowhere for me and I LOVE the platform and ability to reach the world with my ideas and input. You also can see my inner side as I only talk SKIING and Green Energy!!" Have a great weekend !
  12. ProducerPratik Das

    Pratik Das

    12/11/2016
    I am Mr. President.
    I am Mr. President.Saturday, November the 12th, 2016. 1500 Hours.Just a little over 72 hours since I won the Presidential elections of the United States of America, 2016. Everyone now calls me the 'President-elect' and, well, I've deserved it. I've worked hard, I've...
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    KING'S DESTINY?
    KING'S DESTINY?King, please wear your kingly attire We common mass, cannot comprehend your satire Take notice your majesty, you are nude! Perplexing us with bewilderment, we are bemused! You have so much wealth in your repository Still why you...
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    Pascal Derrien 馃悵
    16/11/2016 #1 Pascal Derrien 馃悵
    ''Don鈥檛 deceive us Or you will be reduced to carcass Inciting only vultures to explore your residual mass! '' I did not know you could be that radical in your thoughts :-)
  14. Producerdebasish majumder
    METAMORPHOSIS OF MANAGEMENT!
    METAMORPHOSIS OF MANAGEMENT!We know that Octopus have three hearts and Bees have five eyes! We are equally the fifth stages of Homo Sapience Sapience, who are capable to adapt with the available circumstances confronted with, and virtually emerged as a champion one, in...
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    Mohammed A. Jawad
    07/11/2016 #2 Mohammed A. Jawad
    Ugh...then racism stinks, and with discrimination there's only dislike and rejection stemming from thoughts of racial dominance.

    Indeed, a just atmosphere where there's sense of fidelity and respect for others within a society nurtures humanity. Without this, the corporate world is a legion of bullying entrepreneurs.
    Mohammed Sultan
    07/11/2016 #1 Mohammed Sultan
    Dear @debasish majumder, It's really a great post.Our actions have ever been a reflection of our instinctive feelings,this feeling came out of the idea that if you imitated anything ,you gained power over it.In business as well as in real life when you believe that you are going to win ,the battle is half won.All strategies are designed to win;in the same way we test markets before we launch a product,and also let a small kitten to play with a ball of string to train itself for hunting a mouse.This's almost not dictated by the dominating prestige of physical sciences,but entirely by our instinctive feeling and the passion to win to justify our existence.The same instinctive feeling can also be creative,innovative and poetry ,when is turned into an instinct of doing, making and create things.To conclude;it has to be conceded that the mystery of people attitudes can not directly revealed because they are likely to have a double-face and a double-talk,and our knowledge about people is not necessarily of a scientific nature.
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    CRUCIAL SACRIFICE!
    CRUCIAL SACRIFICE!Ramesh and Ramala is a happy couple. Both are engineers by profession and work in a reputed organization. They have a small kid, named Rupam, who is just six years of age and a student of a reputed convent school. They live in a luxurious flat in...
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    FUSS WITH LEADERSHIP!
    FUSS WITH LEADERSHIP!Election mania Whether in U.S. or other continent or country In the global paraphernalia Making people as a bait Trying to impress people with emphatic ingress Exploiting people鈥檚 emotions with their maneuvering prowess A...
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    Aurorasa Sima
    03/11/2016 #1 Aurorasa Sima
    Great post, assessment and conclusion. People who are afraid are easy to control by demagogues who know how to use the manipulative power of words.
  17. Producerdebasish majumder
    IMBROGLIO WITH IMMUNITY!
    IMBROGLIO WITH IMMUNITY!Immunity in community Are we in reverie? To be obsessed with such symphony To oust all vices Resort to citadel of our choices To remain immune What grandeur of our imaginative tribune! Keeping majority in safe Our...
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    Mohammed A. Jawad
    02/11/2016 #5 Mohammed A. Jawad
    Aha鈥hat a rhapsody in rapture that鈥檚 penned down with pounding passion!

    As I read I feel there鈥檚 so much of abstract expressions coupled with mingled realities. However, there鈥檚 the presence of rhetoric draped with rhythmic words resulting in diverse declarations and deductions.

    Good efforts @debasish majumder I wish you read the works of William Shakespeare, and follow the style of sonnets!
    Aurorasa Sima
    01/11/2016 #4 Aurorasa Sima
    For me, this article was hard to understand but definitely worth the effort. Thank you for another delightful post.
    debasish majumder
    01/11/2016 #3 debasish majumder
    #1 sir @Ali Anani, you overwhelmed me by your continuous admiration. i am grateful to you sir.
    Ali Anani
    01/11/2016 #1 Ali Anani
    The poet @debasish majumder- you know very well you reflect many of my views in this lovely poem.I sy the more we know, the less we know
    Not to express our arrogance and adamant fancy

    still we are in our infancy

    We must not forget, we are mere a dot

    To nature鈥檚 vast expanse with misty episode!

    You pulsed my heart my friend.
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    IS BLISS IN 'DEATH'?
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    26/10/2016
    Synchronicity or Being In Time
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    Chas Wyatt
    30/10/2016 #47 Chas Wyatt
    #43 I love your story @Deb Helfrich; I have many more, deeper, more meaningful stories regarding synchronicity than the one I just shared.
    Sara Jacobovici
    30/10/2016 #46 Sara Jacobovici
    #45 Thanks for taking the time to respond @CityVP Manjit. I will take the time to read your links and reread your comment. Although my gut instinct is to disagree, this is a great opportunity "in real time" to look at how learning takes place within an environment of diversity of ideas and perspectives. Will get back to you as soon as I can.
    CityVP Manjit
    30/10/2016 #45 CityVP Manjit
    #40 Hi @Sara Jacobovici the way I see it fit the space/time of synchronization is the blindspot we all have within our judgement. Just as we can become alert to our sixth sense, to our intuitive expression that emanates from emotional awareness, we may miss the space/time between those we do not see, and in seeing that connect with a wider touch of synchronicity.

    It goes back to the idea of sawabona/shikoba (measures of respect) so I combine this http://www.innerself.com/content/personal/intuition-awareness/intuitive-awareness/8640-synchronicities-invisible-world-becoming-visible.html with this http://exploringyourmind.com/two-powerful-words-sawabona-shikoba/ and the triad is completed by the physicality of the invisible becoming visible. At this meeting point we are strangers in the night, but at all levels of society we can be human beings.

    In your work you do Sara you do see the grassroots of human existence, and I am in touch with that also in recent years, but for a large swatch of society, synchronicity flows where it is visible - in the place it gets noticed more, such as the middle class. If that is a judgement then that is a judgement but where we label someone poor because they are poor, yet we can remove that blindfold of a label and the prize is the inflow of synchronicity as the invisible is made visible.

    I learn most from people who are different from me, but in this world where diversity is spoken as an expression, it is time that diversity is awoken even more as a practice.
    Sara Jacobovici
    30/10/2016 #44 Sara Jacobovici
    #43 Universe loves you back @Deb Helfrich.
    Deb Helfrich
    29/10/2016 #43 Deb Helfrich
    #3 @Chas Wyatt - thanks for opening me to noticing. I cannot believe what just occurred. A kid who I nannied while I was in college before he was in preschool, just popped up in my People You Might Know Window on the top of LI - in the very next browser tab to this article!!! I almost never get suggestions there because there is always some thing happening to my connections.

    I am utterly astounded. It felt spooky. Good spooky but unfathomable.

    His parents were professors at my university in Pittsburgh, PA, so I said, relatively likely he might have went there, that would be our connection - but surely almost 50k kids have attended since my time there and since it was so long ago for me, I don't have many of my college peeps in my network. I check and he is a Technical Program Manager @ Amazon in Seattle.

    Universe, I adore you.
    Irene Hackett
    29/10/2016 #42 Anonymous
    #41 "It is only when we tap into that "sixth sense" or look at things through our "third eye", that we can see beyond the immediate need for our physical survival." What an exciting idea! Is it then, when we see beyond our physical survival that we are possibly 'leveling up' in our experience of being? Again, an area that is vast and fertile with ideas!
    Sara Jacobovici
    29/10/2016 #41 Sara Jacobovici
    #39 100%, @Irene Hackett, our sensory system is limited in many ways; even as sophisticated as it is. What is also interesting is that our sensory systems' ability to "record" input is based on our fundamental and primal needs of survival; interpreting our environment and everything and everyone in it. It is only when we tap into that "sixth sense" or look at things through our "third eye", that we can see beyond the immediate need for our physical survival.
    Sara Jacobovici
    29/10/2016 #40 Sara Jacobovici
    #38 Leave it to you @CityVP Manjit to pull a phenomena from outside a physical state into the "grounded" physical experience. Your perspective is invaluable. Not but, just a however....I may be reading too much into your comment but I feel there is a judgment thread that I don't necessarily see how it fit into the space/time state of synchronization and synchronicity. I see a difference between someone who needs to work as a waiter as a stop gap and someone whose profession is a waiter. Regardless of the motive, I am very appreciative of the difference the waiter's attitude in relation to me as a customer will have on the quality of my dining experience. It is never right, under any circumstance, to lose sight of the human to human contact and objectify that person.
    Irene Hackett
    29/10/2016 #39 Anonymous
    #36 "However, perception, from my perspective is first a raw innate experience stemming from our sensory and central nervous system and only becomes man made when we assign or attach meaning to the illusion." Yes, I can see the solidity of your interpretation. I find it interesting too, that our senses are limited - as in the example of optical illusions - what we see with our eyes may not be reality. Vast material here to work with. Love it!
    CityVP Manjit
    29/10/2016 #38 CityVP Manjit
    Right now it is the physicality side of synchronicity that I am in touch with. "When you are keeping your clocks in time, you are synchronizing". I note that when we are keeping our clocks in time we are synchronizing. The position where synchronicity becomes a high level topic rather than a grass-root reality is where we are clocking in. This is the domain of the everyday worker, the raw reality of regimented time, where physical energy might create muscle or fitness but the physicality leaves us without the energy to be in touch with our conscious being. It is the place where a student with a degree may begin their work-life, and until that student can step beyond that physicality of general labour - they endure life where time is physical energy. I rarely visit restaurants these days, but I used to with the professional classes and the appreciation for synchronicity is available to us, but then I would see the waiter, who is only a considered a waiter - but I have already seen in their eyes and subtle movements, that this is well educated young person, doing what they need to do to get by. Perhaps there is synchronicity in that contact, but the blockage in that synchronicity is that the mind of this highly educated waiter has been drawn to the tip for service rendered, rather than the human connection. That synchronicity is released from the prison of this physicality when we stop eating and start appreciating or at least reflecting for even the briefest moment, the human life that we call our "waiter".
    Sara Jacobovici
    29/10/2016 #37 Sara Jacobovici
    #29 Wonderful comment @debasish majumder. I highlight this statement; "...in every moment we are evolving, and one state is converting to other where the quality of previous state no longer exist." Intriguing on many levels. One thing it reminds me of is where in Einstein's theory of relativity there is the following description (it is an excerpt taken from this link http://everythingforever.com/einstein.htm) "If they were able to travel at the speed of light, their time would cease completely and they would only exist trapped in timelessness."
    Sara Jacobovici
    29/10/2016 #36 Sara Jacobovici
    #27 Your questions bring much value to this discussion @Irene Hackett. Thank you for your kind and generous words and for your insightful comment."So time and separation both an illusion", yes, except I interpret the illusion of separation as "man-made" and of time as "perception made". Now you can say it's all a matter of semantics because after all it's man's perceptions. However, perception, from my perspective is first a raw innate experience stemming from our sensory and central nervous system and only becomes man made when we assign or attach meaning to the illusion.

    PS Thanks for the Star Trek reference; "live long and prosper" Irene.
    Sara Jacobovici
    29/10/2016 #35 Sara Jacobovici
    #26 Your on going support and encouragement is very much appreciated @Irene Hackett. Thank you.
    Praveen Raj Gullepalli
    29/10/2016 #34 Praveen Raj Gullepalli
    #32 The other day @Aurorasa Sima and me were discussing her logo and some variants and all of a sudden I lost that thread totally. Each time I clicked her response notification i could only see a Page Not Found Error 404...and then i could see two different profiles of her for a while...dunno where that conversation went too!
    Irene Hackett
    29/10/2016 #33 Anonymous
    Shared on twitter as well..
    Irene Hackett
    29/10/2016 #32 Anonymous
    @Praveen Raj Gullepalli, it happened to me in another buzz today - not sure what's happening!!
    Praveen Raj Gullepalli
    29/10/2016 #31 Praveen Raj Gullepalli
    #28 Irene, wozzatmean? Gotta be some glitch...
    debasish majumder
    29/10/2016 #29 debasish majumder
    absolutely stunning and intriguing post @Sara Jacobovici! i guess, whatever the universe exist surrounding us having the elements, driving us to imagine and triggering our potentials to express accordingly, as per our comprehension is concern, obviously in relevance to the available external conditions and environment we are dwelling with. the matter in and around possess the quality which reflects in our brain, inducing to explore it accordingly. in every moment we are evolving, and one state is converting to other where the quality of previous state no longer exist. a new design of dispensation we experience. past, present and future is just the manifestation of such continuous change and one entirely obliterate by manifesting a new shape or presentation. we are mere a system of particle, just being trigger to accelerate in due fashion according to the designed milieu. however, wonderful post madam. enjoyed read. thank you very much for sharing such enriching post.
    Irene Hackett
    29/10/2016 #28 Anonymous
    @Chas Wyatt @Praveen Raj Gullepalli The links to you in previous comments did not come through for some reason
    Irene Hackett
    29/10/2016 #27 Anonymous
    2/2 - Time being held by cultural belief as something extremely valuable and precious and yet being explained by Science as illusory, jars the mind! This is probably what leads me to the same place as Chas Wyatt, resonating most with Fernando R. Go帽i , "... synchronicity is our relationship with the total, Psychic and Physical Universe and therefore it connect us with the unconscious." The idea of "non-temporal" coming into the discussion again. As with Jung's Scarab illustration, when we become aware of non-temporal connections (synchronicity) in our reality, only then can that 'shift in perception' take place, a new neural path is formed, homeostasis achieved. The concept of connecting patterns within this framework intrigues me; something about it feels as bold truth. It is no wonder that discontent and dis-ease arises as one experiences the illusion of separation. So time and separation both an illusion - in the words of Spok: "fascinating"! When Goni speaks of imagination being the "bridge" enabling 'travel' at a higher speed, I am brought to the outstanding comments of our friend Praveen Raj Gullepalli who raises excellent points about consciousness and vibration. Is imagination a type of high speed 'vibration'? Is synchronicity the product of high frequency energy? Is vibration a type of 'energy' - and can we can "control" it? Or can we flow with it? What remains for me in all this excellent exploration, is loads of questions. And as I've said before, this is true learning. You are one of the most fascinating minds on beBee dear @Sara Jacobovici; thank you for this outstanding parting of knowledge and thought sharing - a piece most excellently researched, organized and framed.
  20. Producerdebasish majumder
    HUMANISM! SYNONYMOUS TO HAPPINESS?
    HUMANISM! SYNONYMOUS TO HAPPINESS?Bees travel nearly 56 miles around their hive to collect honey from nectar and deposits in their hive. Bees are quite contrary from all other living organisms and their metamorphosis is intriguing too! Right from making royal jelly to deposit...
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    Mohammed A. Jawad
    30/10/2016 #3 Mohammed A. Jawad
    @debasish majumder Lovely post. Enjoyed read. Thanks for sharing the post.
    Ali Anani
    30/10/2016 #2 Ali Anani
    With honesty, I picked the same portion of your beautiful buzz dear @debasish majumder as the same one picked by @Lisa Gallagher. You describe an almost ideal beBee society with all bees having much to gain and almost nothing to lose. beBee is the platform for authenticity, but without losing bonds with society. Thank you Debasish for sharing your thoughts.
    Lisa Gallagher
    30/10/2016 #1 Lisa Gallagher
    Great buzz @debasish majumder, my favorite part: "beBee, a lovely amazing social networking site, which by virtue of affinity, we can come closer, making our personal, professional, as well social life a healthy one, by exchanging ideas, values, ethos and principles, which are not mere an imperative, but a rich heritage, which only we human beings possess. We can promote business, expertise, amity, empathy etc. which are the only imperatives to ensure healthy milieu globally,"

    And so many of us are already doing what you propose above. I'm glad to have made friends with you. I also believe possessing empathy along with all the other traits you listed above is a great human quality that helps us to better understand the nature of others in many aspects of life!
  21. ProducerGordon Pye

    Gordon Pye

    03/10/2016
    Sugar Tax A Symptom of Health Fascism !
    Sugar Tax A Symptom of Health Fascism !I first became aware of the Cancer Causing potential of Aspartame from an Australian Sugar Industry TV advert when I was Down Under over the New Year 1988, watch the opening video linking other current almost epidemic scale health problems such as...
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    Gordon Pye
    26/10/2016 #8 Gordon Pye
    #6 If you want to avoid Cancer its probably a good idea to avoid frequent flying as well !

    Strong Solar Storm, Tech Risks Today | S0 News Oct.26.2016 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pOkPBm65fD8
    debasish majumder
    26/10/2016 #6 debasish majumder
    lovely insightful post@Gordon Pye! enjoyed read. thank you for sharing the post.
    Gordon Pye
    20/10/2016 #5 Gordon Pye
    Ive just been watching a Channel4News report on antibiotic resistant TB and how they are monitoring patients to ensure they take their tablets via video link, When On Healey I was given Amoxicillin ( which I had never had any problems with before ) just prior to my " Dog Walk " "with one of the nurses, I had to turn back as it felt like my lungs were full of cotton wool, and when back on the ward I asked one of the UCLAN students for advice on what to do. He informed me that Fructose kills Penicillin so I supped half a gallon of Cordial and it soon did the trick and I could soon breathe normally. Looks like the boffins are falling down on imperfect understanding of the basics again,, the patient in the video was swilling down her pills with Orange Juice ?
    Gordon Pye
    19/10/2016 #4 Gordon Pye
    Explore https://www.bebee.com/producer/@gordon-pye/are-macmillan-nurses-villans
    Gordon Pye
    11/10/2016 #3 Gordon Pye
    Explore https://www.bebee.com/bee/gordon-pye?t=posts
    Gordon Pye
    03/10/2016 #2 Gordon Pye
    Our NHS doesn't get any help from the Department of Work & Pensions either, quite the contrary, but then everything has to be made as difficult and expensive as humanly possible to SWELL CORPORATE PROFITS ! https://www.bebee.com/producer/@gordon-pye/uk-dwp-ministry-of-silly-walks
    Gordon Pye
    03/10/2016 #1 Gordon Pye
    Yet more Dick Turpin PhD Eco-Nazi Aristotle Science Fiction exploded ! http://www.breitbart.com/london/2016/10/01/james-lovelock-godfather-green-climate-change-religion-totally-unscientific/
  22. ProducerAli Anani

    Ali Anani

    24/10/2016
    Unexpected Passion Migrations
    Unexpected Passion MigrationsGoogle celebrates today the 384th birthday of Antonie van Leeuwenhoek. I wanted to know more about him and found out that he was Dutch being a tradesman and scientists. He is commonly known as "the Father of Microbiology", and considered to be the...
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    Ali Anani
    31/10/2016 #49 Ali Anani
    #48 @Simon Gray= I couldn't agree more with you "Sometimes the smallest things generate the most pleasure". This is the Butterfly Effect in action. We tend to give only negative meanings to it, but correctly you give a powerful example of its positivity. Than you for your kind words.
    Simon Gray
    31/10/2016 #48 Simon Gray
    Great post Ali, I love the phrase 'craving knowledge' 鈥撀爄t's so important for a happy and fulfilled life. This is something I pursue by spending at least some time each day with my head in a book. Sometimes the smallest things generate the most pleasure and I can honestly say I'm happiest when doing this. Thanks again for your kind comment on my buzz and for directing me to yours 鈥撀爄t's a great read. Best wishes, Simon
    Lisa Gallagher
    26/10/2016 #47 Lisa Gallagher
    #46 Awe, that makes me feel special that I voiced your heart @Ali Anani, because I see your heart as pure!!
    Ali Anani
    26/10/2016 #46 Ali Anani
    #45 This is the essence of life and I say BRAVO dear @Lisa Gallagher as you voiced out my heart
    Lisa Gallagher
    26/10/2016 #45 Lisa Gallagher
    Leeuwenhoek's work was done because he craved knowledge, not to gain praise. Isn't that how we all should look at life? Whatever I do isn't to gain recognition but rather to either, gain knowledge or help another- purely for the reason of wanting to help, not because I feel I have to. I would never want anyone to feel indebted to me either, it's the circle of life as I see it.
    Ali Anani
    26/10/2016 #44 Ali Anani
    #43 Love your art spirit my devoted researcher dear @Milos Djukic
    Milos Djukic
    26/10/2016 #43 Anonymous
    A great person deserves no less: Antony van Leeuwenhoek. Thank you dear @Ali Anani.
    Milos Djukic
    26/10/2016 #42 Anonymous
    #28 #37 #35 #31 A great example of @Ali Anani art knowledge. In order to achieve unrealistically high goals, hopes and expectations, we need more dreamers jointly united far above the merely material goals. We recently see here one inaccurate idea that the fractal structure of a social network is something that is religion and single-mindedness. If we abolish disagreement, we will never reach these lofty goals.An intangible help is also very valuable. It is safe shortcut to sudden serenity. Rage exists even in Eden, but not with you dear @Deb Helfrich, @Vincenzo De Florio, @Fatima Williams and @Sara Jacobovici. We're all a minority of one.
    Ali Anani
    25/10/2016 #40 Ali Anani
    #37 My dear brother@Vincenzo De Florio- so glad to read your insightful comment. I am sure when you know more about van Leeuwenhoek, the more you shall admire him. Like knowing you
    Ali Anani
    25/10/2016 #39 Ali Anani
    #36 yes, dear @debasish majumder and your great example of Newton extends the range of relevant ones.
    Ali Anani
    25/10/2016 #38 Ali Anani
    #33 My dear @Amina Alami- yes, I fully concur with your comment and that we may follow our passion gradually than never following it. Thank you.
    Vincenzo De Florio
    25/10/2016 #37 Vincenzo De Florio
    A great presentation, dear Ali! I know very little of van Leeuwenhoek -- merely due to the role that preformationism played in Leibniz's Model; it's been very nice to have the chance to read his own noble words. Thanks to you know now I want to know more about van Leeuwenhoek the man! Thank you very much dear friend.
    debasish majumder
    25/10/2016 #36 debasish majumder
    nice insight sir @Ali Anani. even Sir, Issac Newton was being forced to engage in family business, and later he was engaged in pursuing Law. but, the eventual epoch making scientist drifted from his traditional design of studies and we are being gifted with a remarkable prodigy. a giant in classical physics. Great share sir! enjoyed read. thank you for sharing the post.
    Fatima Williams
    25/10/2016 #35 Fatima Williams
    I love this 馃馃馃 @@Deb Helfrich and Fully agree with you. "What we do in each buzz, in each hexagon of the hive, scales so beautifully into a whole eco-system of fractal wonder"
    #beBeesforever
    Passion is the key Deb even if it migrates each morning ! With this key we can unlock any door 鈽衡樅鈽衡樅鈽
    Amina Alami
    25/10/2016 #33 Amina Alami
    Gread read as always! We may not all make the leap to follow our passion in the way Antonie did, but his example can help us be a little more willing to honor our calling.
    Deb Helfrich
    25/10/2016 #32 Deb Helfrich
    #30 That is highly useful and relevant, much appreciated, as I try to redefine what I do for a living. Each time I write something definitive, the next morning, I look at the statement and my passion has migrated.....
    Ali Anani
    25/10/2016 #31 Ali Anani
    #28 You are becoming fast the Lady of Wonderment dear @Deb Helfrich. What a brilliant comment that you wrote. Converging and diverging- and how to reward the true diversion drivers (generalists) is a hugely innovative idea.
    I highlight the name of dear @Milos Djukic for you rightly highlighted his first name in your comment. I am sure Milos shall find this comment by Deb so enriching and rewarding. I DO love to hear the feedback of Milos on this. I have some initial ideas.
    Deb, as for your writing "What we do in each buzz, in each hexagon of the hive, scales so beautifully into am of fractal wonder" I am all the way with you.
    Sara Jacobovici
    25/10/2016 #30 Sara Jacobovici
    #28 I consider your comment "pure gold" @Deb Helfrich. Thought you might find this link of interest https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/new-professionals-interconnected-world-fabio-marzocca?trk=prof-post.
    Ali Anani
    25/10/2016 #29 Ali Anani
    @Sara Jacobovici extended this buzz and the exchange of comments here between herself, myself and @Fatima Williams by publishing a great buzz titled Be Passionate. It is a great idea to read both buzzes as one bundle.
    https://www.bebee.com/producer/@sara-jacobovici/bee-passionate
    Deb Helfrich
    25/10/2016 #28 Deb Helfrich
    So much here. I actually am glad I didn't comment when I first read it, as this nugget from Sara " If we narrow our scope" and how it echoes the two men profiled is very telling. Up to a certain point, history and science benefited from the urge to specialize and drill down and work to understand basic causes. Then, as everything, even knowledge is part of a cycle, we needed to migrate back to a much more broad, global, even universal perspective to integrate all of the knowledge gained via incredibly important specialization.

    I believe we are all a part of the new migration away from specialization and separation in work and life to a period of collaboration across many spheres of knowledge and experience. Even our dear Milos, with a specialty like hydrogen embrittlement, through his tireless sharing and connecting and pointing out self-similarity and the nature of fractals is leading us in the new direction.

    Now we simply need to figure out how to change the financial reality from rewarding specialists to promoting generalists. And we are all participating, as what could be a better site for generalists bumping into all sorts of specialists than the affinity networking concept of beBee.

    What we do in each buzz, in each hexagon of the hive, scales so beautifully into a whole ecosystem of fractal wonder.
  23. Producerdebasish majumder
    TROLL AND ITS MALEVOLENT ROLE!
    TROLL AND ITS MALEVOLENT ROLE!I am a troll I am passionate in my goal Though I do not possess the capacity to write But, I can disrupt others with might Bringing down their morale Stories, Articles, Poetry, Art and Sculptures The creator鈥檚 dedication,...
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    Lisa Gallagher
    26/10/2016 #7 Lisa Gallagher
    Exceptional poem about Trolls @debasish majumder. What you wrote rang so true.
    debasish majumder
    26/10/2016 #6 debasish majumder
    #4 thank you very much sir@Milos Djukic for your consistent support and appreciation you extend towards me! i am privileged and honored sir.
    Phil Friedman
    26/10/2016 #5 Phil Friedman
    #3 Debasish, I am not sure why Milos tagged me to look at this, but he did. It would be of great interest to me if you could detail some incidents of when "trolls" criticized poetry or other creative pieces. As I am trying to develop a true, not mythical feeling of how prevalent the problem really is. Thank you and cheers!
    Milos Djukic
    26/10/2016 #4 Anonymous
    The most meaningful poem about a troll. Congrats @debasish majumder!

    Best Regards,
    Fractal troll :)
    Milos Djukic
    26/10/2016 #3 Anonymous
    debasish majumder
    25/10/2016 #2 debasish majumder
    #1 Thank you very madam@Deb Helfrich for your continuous support and appreciation. i am privileged and honored.
    Deb Helfrich
    25/10/2016 #1 Deb Helfrich
    Masterful poem, @debasish majumder. Simply impressive.
  24. Producerdebasish majumder
    BUOYANCY, AN ESSENTIAL ART OF LIVING!
    BUOYANCY, AN ESSENTIAL ART OF LIVING!The movie, 鈥楾itanic鈥 made an immense impact across the world out of its high quotient of 鈥楨motional Intelligence鈥 and accordingly made a niche as a story of 鈥楲ove Affairs鈥, where struggling for survival took a back seat, while 鈥楲ove affair鈥 made...
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    Donna-Luisa Eversley
    30/10/2016 #3 Donna-Luisa Eversley
    @debasish majumder...it is an interesting discussion on survival. I believe that life as we know it changes daily. Sometimes the changes are big and therefore easy to see. The bigger changes are small and incremental, thus only visible when we can see the impact on our lives, and have the choice to sink or float in the ocean of our lives for survival. Most will float, sadly some get lost at sea.
    David B. Grinberg
    23/10/2016 #2 David B. Grinberg
    Nice buzz @debasish majumder. You nicely articulate what lies beneath the tip of the proverbial iceberg. Very thought provoking.
    Ali Anani
    23/10/2016 #1 Ali Anani
    You shall excuse my short comment dear@debasish majumder- This is lovely writing "At the same time, we do fight with the system we construe, which might sometimes cause impediments to our natural influx, bringing disruption to our available system'. I loved the way you highlighted a love story having more attention than survival. May be love is survival
  25. Producerdebasish majumder
    ENIGMA OF SALUTATION!
    ENIGMA OF SALUTATION!I salute to people who are brave I salute to people who are even in grave I salute to work which deserve respect I salute even personalities, not knowing they are deprave What a misty I construe with salutation! I am confused...
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