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  1. Tanmoy Ray

    Tanmoy Ray

    09/08/2017
    Popular Career Paths, Jobs, Salaries and Top Colleges in India for Psychology.
    Tanmoy Ray
    Psychology Careers in India: Career Paths & Jobs, Top Colleges in India, Skills and Salaries | Stoodnt
    www.stoodnt.com Psychology Careers in India: Career Paths & Jobs, Top Colleges in India, Skills and...
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  2. ProducerElliot Caleira

    Elliot Caleira

    08/08/2017
    How Being Outside Can Help With Addiction
    How Being Outside Can Help With AddictionEveryone's struggle with addiction is unique. For that reason, traditional treatment approaches may not work for every individual. This is especially true when it comes to treating the underlying reason for the existence of the drug addiction. While...
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  3. Louise Smith

    Louise Smith

    07/08/2017
    See beBee Jobs
    for Psychologist job in Brisbane North QLD Australia
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  4. Louise Smith

    Louise Smith

    07/08/2017
    How to help your child deal with Anxiety
    Louise Smith
    Helping Childhood Anxiety with a 'Worry Box' | Melbourne Child Psychology & School Psychology Services
    www.melbournechildpsychology.com.au The prevalence of childhood anxiety has more than doubled in the last twenty years. And while we all experience anxious feelings at times, certain...
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  5. ProducerJoyce 🐝 Bowen   Brand Ambassador @ beBee
    Institutional Trauma y Trauma Institucional: America’s Holocaust
    Institutional Trauma y Trauma Institucional: America’s HolocaustWe’ll call our protagonist Rosa. But Rosa is not fictional—she is a real person. Rosa was resting in her home, watching television, and waiting for the opportunity to reach her doctor in order to obtain a referral to get a bed in a good...
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  6. Sandra Smith

    Sandra Smith

    10/07/2017
    Be honest about who you are... (or use incognito)
    Sandra Smith
    Everybody lies: how Google search reveals our darkest secrets
    www.theguardian.com What can we learn about ourselves from the things we ask online? Seth Stephens‑Davidowitz analysed anonymous Google search data, uncovering disturbing truths about our desires, beliefs and...
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  7. Louise Smith

    Louise Smith

    02/07/2017
    Saturday 1 July 2017 02.55 AEST
    Louise Smith
    World's first trials of MDMA to treat alcohol addiction set to begin
    www.theguardian.com Imperial College London scientists expect to give first dose in the next two months alongside...
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  8. Louise Smith

    Louise Smith

    28/06/2017
    FROM TWITTER
    IRETA‏ @IRETApgh Jun 14
    Older Adults Deserve Healthcare That Considers Substance Use
    Louise Smith
    Older Adults Deserve Healthcare That Considers Substance Use
    ireta.org Addiction is a growing issue for folks over 65; prescription meds pose additional...
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  9. Louise Smith

    Louise Smith

    26/06/2017
    Anti-NMDA encephalitis is of particular relevance to psychiatrists
    as about 75% of cases present initially to psychiatrists.
    Louise Smith
    Autoimmunity in Psychiatry - What Should Psychiatrists Look For?
    psychscenehub.com Missing an autoimmune disease masquerading as a psychiatric disorder can have devastating consequences and in some cases, be...
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  10. ProducerPhil 🐝 Johnson, MBL and Brand Ambassador @beBee
    The Present Moment
    The Present MomentThe person who is most present is most influential. We spend so little time in the present moment. It took the universe 13.8 billion years to reach this present moment. We do not own the present moment. We need to honor each moment and...
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    Josean Rueda Cardenas
    19/06/2017 #22 Josean Rueda Cardenas
    Si aceptamos que el presente solo existe en nuestro cerebro en cuanto a respuesta de los estimulos pasados percibidos, podemos concluir que no hay un solo presente, sino tantos como percepciones de ese presente... Las percepciones no son únicas, ya que de otra manera, un mismo estimulo, daría lugar a una misma respuesta... y sin embargo las respuestas a una estimulación similar, pueden ser asombrosamente divergentes... El presente perceptivo se convierte conceptualmente hablando en una construcción de pseudorealidades mentales que nos generan la ilusión de una realidad inexistente y solo percibida por nuestro cerebro. Bajo estos principios, podemos modicar la realidad de cualquier captada por cualquier cerebro modicando la percepción de su presente... es decir, alterando su pasado mediante estimulos para construir una idea de presente que le proyecte en el futuro... Algún día, todos podríamos ser FELICES y podríamos generar vivencias inexistentes salvo en nuestro cerebro y percepción... La realidad virtual no ha hecho más que abrir la caja de pandora... El uso masivo de móviles, de redes sociales son otros ejemplos de nuestras vidas en paralelo disociadas de nuestro presente y de nuestra realidad... Podríamos crear la ilusión de una prisión en la que hemos permanecido 20 años, aunque solo hayan pasado 5 minutos de tiempo real. Podríamos alimentarnos mediante una sonda y percibir el gusto de un buen plato de pasta, podríamos ser pobres y sentirnos como autenticos ricos, sin problemas, solo conectados al modificador de nuestra percepción... y siguiendo el hilo argumental, ¿Quien me asegura que no nos esté pasando ya? Tiempo al tiempo... :)
    Josean Rueda Cardenas
    18/06/2017 #20 Josean Rueda Cardenas
    El problema del presente es que no se puede establecer un punto linea espacio tiempo en su configuración porque cada estimulo que percibimos y configura nuestra imagen de presente (percepción de presente) tiene su propia linea tiempo espacio que no es coincidente. Solamente en nuestro cerebro, se crea la gran mentira del presente... CARPE DIEM! :)
    Phil 🐝 Johnson, MBL and Brand Ambassador @beBee
    18/06/2017 #19 Phil 🐝 Johnson, MBL and Brand Ambassador @beBee
    Between what happens and how we choose to respond there is a space. It is in this space where we have the opportunity to choose our response and that response will determine the results we achieve. The ability to choose is our greatest gift and power.

    Warm regards, Phil
    Jordan Sands
    18/06/2017 #18 Jordan Sands
    *brilliant
    Jordan Sands
    18/06/2017 #17 Jordan Sands
    Brilliamt post and my ethos completely. I shout this from the roof tops and use it as the basis for every client interaction. Have followed you. Thank you.
    Joyce 🐝 Bowen   Brand Ambassador @ beBee
    18/06/2017 #16 Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee
    What an interesting buzz and so thought-provoking.
    Joyce 🐝 Bowen   Brand Ambassador @ beBee
    18/06/2017 #15 Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee
    #3 Interesante interpretación.
    Louise Smith
    18/06/2017 #13 Louise Smith
    @Milos Djukic you might like this
    Louise Smith
    18/06/2017 #12 Louise Smith
    @Phil 🐝 Johnson, MBL and Brand Ambassador @beBee Paragraph 2 "We spend so little time in the present moment........ "
    Where does this leave the philosophy of Mindfulness ? Which relies on being in the present not the past but if that's not really possible?

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    "We need to understand and replace the habits we have created that are cause us to give away our energy.
    This is also why we steal the energy of others. When this happens the results often include drama, chaos, conflict, distrust and disengagement."

    I like this as it exactly describes why many of my clients come to see me (as a Psychologist).
    Many of them are carers like myself and we are constantly getting our energy stolen.
    I am aware of this and try not to fall into it but it's very hard to teach my clients to do this. Any ideas?

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    Have you written anything further about your own journey to enlightenment?
    Louise Smith
    18/06/2017 #11 Louise Smith
    #3 @Josean Rueda Cardenas
    "The present as such does not exist, because everything we perceive as present is already part of the past: time necessary for light to move and be captured by our eyes, time our brain needs to process the information we receive ... We react to past impulses to alter the future .. " Google translated

    I really like your comment above. It fits perfectly with Phil's Paragraph 2 "We spend so little time in the present moment........ "
    Where does this leave the philosophy of Mindfulness ? Which relies on being in the present not the past but if that's not really possible?

    Me gusta mucho tu comentario. Encaja perfectamente con el párrafo 2 de Phil "Pasamos tan poco tiempo en el momento presente ........"
    ¿De dónde sale esto la filosofía de la atención plena? ¿Qué se basa en estar en el presente no el pasado, pero si eso no es realmente posible?
    Louise Smith
    18/06/2017 #10 Louise Smith
    #1 I totally agree !!!
    Lance  🐝 Scoular
    18/06/2017 #9 Lance 🐝 Scoular
    👥ed 🐝🐝🐤🐳🔥🚲
    Lance  🐝 Scoular
    18/06/2017 #8 Lance 🐝 Scoular
    Yesterday is history,
    tomorrow is a mystery,
    today is a gift of God,
    which is why we call it the present.”

    ― Bil Keane
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    Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    17/06/2017 #6 Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    #5 Thank you @Sara Jacobovici. My next buzz shall be based on two comments that you made on one of my latest buzzes AND the cynefin-like diagram that @Phil 🐝 Johnson, MBL and Brand Ambassador @beBee used in this buzz. I am waiting for his permission to use the diagram with adaptation to suit my buzz.
    Sara Jacobovici
    17/06/2017 #5 Sara Jacobovici
    Thank you @Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee for bringing my attention to @Phil 🐝 Johnson, MBL and Brand Ambassador @beBee's buzz. Thank you Phil for sharing. I appreciate the line, "Each moment is simply the opportunity for us to live on purpose."
    mohammed khalaf
    17/06/2017 #4 mohammed khalaf
    Present help you to build the floor under your feet more strongly which ultimately leads into a good future
    Josean Rueda Cardenas
    17/06/2017 #3 Josean Rueda Cardenas
    El presente como tal no existe, porque todo lo que percibimos como presente forma ya parte del pasado: tiempo necesario para que la luz se desplace y sea captada por nuestros ojos, tiempo que necesita nuestro cerebro para procesar la información que recibimos...
    Reaccionamos ante impulsos pasados para alterar el futuro..
    Un saludo,
    Josean
    Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    17/06/2017 #1 Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    Without hesitation I dare say this is one of the best buzzes I have ever read. It is so rich and thought-provoking. The paradox here is that the author @Phil 🐝 Johnson, MBL and Brand Ambassador @beBee View more
    Without hesitation I dare say this is one of the best buzzes I have ever read. It is so rich and thought-provoking. The paradox here is that the author @Phil 🐝 Johnson, MBL and Brand Ambassador @beBee writes "Our focus on continuous thought stops us from truly being present. In reality, we are separate from our thoughts. We are the observer of our thoughts". I need to pause so as not to be an observer of my new thoughts.
    Phil, I love the cover image. Is it possible to steal it "legally" to incorporate in my next buzz? @Sara Jacobovici and I exchanged comments recently which I am expanding into a buzz. I need your image.
    One paragraph that captured my attention is your writing "The journey to authentic emotionally intelligent leadership starts with our self. We need to understand and replace the habits we have created that are causing us to give away our energy. This is also why we steal the energy of others. When this happens the results often include drama, chaos, conflict, distrust and disengagement". I shared this buzz proudly. Close
  11. Louise Smith

    Louise Smith

    16/06/2017
    Louise Smith
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    Louise Smith
    16/06/2017 #4 Louise Smith
    #3 SO diplomatic thanks
    Praveen Raj Gullepalli
    16/06/2017 #3 Praveen Raj Gullepalli
    #2 ...that some things are just two good and true too! ;)
    Louise Smith
    16/06/2017 #2 Louise Smith
    #1 I have 2 and I'm a psychologist
    what does that tell you !
    Praveen Raj Gullepalli
    16/06/2017 #1 Praveen Raj Gullepalli
    Best therapist ever! ;)
  12. ProducerCasey Katchersyde
    Stop! Maybe It's Time To Reassess Your Goals
    Stop! Maybe It's Time To Reassess Your GoalsA good friend of mine is an NCAA National Champion in his sport. Actually, I am being modest. He’s a multiple-time National Champion in his sport. At the end of every season, win or lose, he takes a week or so off of training to “emotionally...
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    CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    09/06/2017 #5 CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    #4 This is why I do not put stock into comments but into energy, and the energy of reflection you speak of is presence. The students in my college hate my emails because their meme is that attention is precious, but I say meaning is precious and the meaning we deposit is raw material. That is the problem with education is it not, it is all about doing/having and not thinking/being - so my doing is not your being, all I have here at beBee is thinking in what is presence that got presented.

    What separates reflection from comments is the energy it generates and how we link this energy up will determine what it lights (hence the word enlightenment). Words like "goals" and "challenges" are also raw material but processed as an energy called reflection it can take us to a wholly different place like it did for Leo Babauta here https://zenhabits.net/no-goal/

    The last thing I want to do is change others for they are responsible for that change but a comment is in the past - reflection is in the present - and the act of you reading what I am thinking out aloud here is you reading my past - for the simple reason presence is in my present.

    Presence is where my energy meets my consciousness where I am fully alive, and so is reflection a foundation like a house or is it an energy that travels through a house that makes a house a home and shifts making a living into making a life?
    Casey Katchersyde
    09/06/2017 #4 Casey Katchersyde
    Such wonderful comments @Jerry Fletcher, @CityVP 🐝 Manjit, and Michael O'Neil! Thank You! I'm very happy to hear how your experiences with this topic has helped you realize new goals and take on new challenges. As I am constantly learning, I am excited to practice new life experiences and being able to reflect back is a foundation to being able to move forward.
    CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    08/06/2017 #2 CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    When I was taking selfies in the early 80's, it looked odd that someone at that time would point a camera at themselves and take a picture, so when my kids discovered an old album of selfies, they screamed "Hey! Papa used to take selfies!!!".

    The same goes with reflective practice. People are not familiar or largely do not engage in reflection, yet both of us do and therefore we represent the early majority of this particular way of thinking. Of course reflection cannot be compared to selfies. Reflection is a higher order faculty, whereas selfies is a lower order indulgence. The irony is that in recent decades I tend to limit being in photographs because reflective practice helps see through things and become conscious of what is image and what is presence.

    Nor do I take pictures on my travels to capture moments to add them to the 10,000 other captured moments because it is easy to engage visual collection - but it is more meaningful for me to be present and enjoy the blessings of a mind that is more relaxed and free - and ironically in such a mind, there is greater room to learn to see, which sits at the basis of what we can imagine and in this way reflection is a complimentary intelligence to vision and this "learning to see".
    Jerry Fletcher
    08/06/2017 #1 Jerry Fletcher
    Casey, A prediction: You will do well in the goals you choose. I can say that because you have learned one of the great lessons of life. There always will come a time when you have succeeded, failed, finished or tripped over something. It is then that you need to step back and reconsider. It is worth distancing and rediscovering yourself as you have been transformed. Always.
  13. ProducerJoyce 🐝 Bowen   Brand Ambassador @ beBee
    Goals
    GoalsDavid B. Grinberg rekindled this for me with his buzz  https://www.bebee.com/producer/@dbgrinberg/why-disability-employment-good-businessI was selected to be a student volunteer in the First Year Reading Experience (FYRE) program.  I was excited but...
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    Joyce 🐝 Bowen   Brand Ambassador @ beBee
    06/06/2017 #17 Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee
    #12 A favorite saying of mine. Thank you @David B. Grinberg
    Joyce 🐝 Bowen   Brand Ambassador @ beBee
    06/06/2017 #15 Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee
    #10 I do my best, jefe.
    Pascal Derrien
    06/06/2017 #13 Pascal Derrien
    maybe the only article about goals that I truly like :-)
    David B. Grinberg
    06/06/2017 #12 David B. Grinberg
    Thanks for the mention, Joyce, I appreciate it. I commend you on confronting and overcoming so many life challenges. Your are a real inspiration. Keep persisting and don't give up. You're a gifted writer and person. And me just reiterate for readers that it's all about ABILITY, not disability. Anyone can do anything if they put their mind, heart and soul into it. You are living proof, Joyce, such as inspiration. Keep writing, persevering and buzzing. You have a lot of fans and friends here cheering you on!
    Javier 🐝 beBee
    05/06/2017 #10 Javier 🐝 beBee
    @Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee we are proud of you. beBee is better BECAUSE of you. Many thanks
    Jerry Fletcher
    05/06/2017 #9 Jerry Fletcher
    Joyce,
    You are my new superhero! You are one gutsy lady!
    Joyce 🐝 Bowen   Brand Ambassador @ beBee
    05/06/2017 #8 Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee
    @Todd Jones, @Gert Scholtz, @Don Philpott☘️, @🐝 Fatima G. Williams, @Milos Djukic, @Gulcin Newby Kennett, @John White, MBA Thank you for those of you that have shared this post. I am in endless tweak mode for about 24 hours after I post. I think it's finally finished.

    I always post thinking it's finished, but inevitably, it is not. It probably sounds hokey, but I am honored by your comments and your shares. Thank you.
    🐝 Fatima G. Williams
    04/06/2017 #7 🐝 Fatima G. Williams
    Joyce I second Todd's comments and yes you are a hero. The things we all go through in life is not even close to what you go through.
    You my friend are a survivor, a fighter and an inspiration. I got my Master's around the same time in 2014 and I wish I could have been your class mate I’m sure I could have just drove you around 😉 and put everyone aside.
    But jokes apart something has to be done and I hope these universities do something about it.

    Now when are we seeing a picture of the framed picture☺☺☺❤
    Don Philpott☘️
    04/06/2017 #6 Don Philpott☘️
    "I achieved my goal... This is for those that triumph through adversity" - it is that.
    Joyce 🐝 Bowen   Brand Ambassador @ beBee
    04/06/2017 #5 Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee
    #3 I think I will, @Gert Scholtz. It's been sitting in the envelope these past three years.
    Joyce 🐝 Bowen   Brand Ambassador @ beBee
    04/06/2017 #4 Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee
    #1 You make me smile, @Todd Jones. Thank you, and thank you for your support.
    Gert Scholtz
    04/06/2017 #3 Gert Scholtz
    @Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee This piece moved me Joyce. Well done on your determination and achieving your goal. Now please go and frame that picture and hang it where everyone can see it - you should indeed be proud!
    Todd Jones
    04/06/2017 #1 Todd Jones
    Joyce, this post gave me goose bumps. I do not see a tired, desperate woman. I see overwhelming magnificence in your tenacity of purpose, and reward in the face of hardship that would have sidelined most of us. There is an incredible lesson in this photo, not shame.

    Though you may not see it, YOU Joyce Bowen, with your steeled determination and boundless virtue, are a hero. Against all odds, you are a true champion of possibility. A model of what can be achieved when single minded resolve triumphs adversity.

    I hold out hope that more of your beBee friends will consider extending financial assistance to your cause through Patreon. It is a wonderful opportunity to directly do good for someone that has braved a lifetime of suffering.

    Though too proud to ask, Joyce absolutely needs our help. Every dollar makes a difference to her. https://www.patreon.com/user?u=5891284
  14. ProducerDeidré Wallace

    Deidré Wallace

    26/05/2017
    How People Tend To React To Acts Of Terrorism.
    How People Tend To React To Acts Of Terrorism.How People Tend To React To Acts Of Terrorism.Recently various cities in Europe have experienced drama via a terrorist 'persecutor' attempting to create mayhem.But how did people react?I draw your attention to Karpman's drama triangle: Daily many of...
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    Deidré Wallace
    05/06/2017 #8 Deidré Wallace
    #5 Louise Smith. Thank you. It certainly got the article read! 😀😀
    Deidré Wallace
    05/06/2017 #7 Deidré Wallace
    #4 Louise Smith: You are one in a million. Most adore and thrive off drama as you well know. So thank you for your supportive and insightful comment. Much appreciated.
    Jordan Sands
    28/05/2017 #6 Jordan Sands
    Totally agree ! Great read Louise :)
    Louise Smith
    28/05/2017 #5 Louise Smith
    BTW good interest piquing title !
    Louise Smith
    28/05/2017 #4 Louise Smith
    This is a great saying “Once the game is over, the King and the pawn go back in the same box.”
    After decades of working, I am really over drama.
    I try to keep it out of my life except for my counselling room when it's the client's not mine !

    Some of my relatives are right into drama. They couldn't miss one episode of Big Brother. Now there's a plethora of those reality shows The Biggest Loser, Hoarders, Survivor, The Bachelor and all those dating programs, The Block and all those makeover programs, Masterchef and all those cooking programs and I am sure you can name 5 more in any language.

    These become young/other people's role models and view of the world. This interferes with making good career, relationship and life decisions.

    I don't understand why people like drama. (of course from an academic view I can) But it's too tiring and I'd rather be doing something more interesting and rewarding like losing weight by exercising, going camping in a remote area, finding my own date through socialising with people I like and respect, painting my house and gardening myself, cooking new recipes for family and friends.

    Surely this is more satisfying !
    Paul Walters
    28/05/2017 #3 Paul Walters
    @Deidré Wallace Now thats an early morning post that got me to thinking. Thank you
    Deidré Wallace
    26/05/2017 #2 Deidré Wallace
    Frank Giesler: Thank you for your complimentary comment. Much appreciated.
    The book certainly looks like an interesting read. Thank you. I will certainly get it.
    Frank Geisler
    26/05/2017 #1 Frank Geisler
    Great article - there a plenty of more games we adults are playing such as marital, party, sex or predator games. Eric Berne wrote an interesting book over this https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eric_Berne View more
    Great article - there a plenty of more games we adults are playing such as marital, party, sex or predator games. Eric Berne wrote an interesting book over this https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eric_Berne - The German title is "Spiele der Erwachsenen": https://www.amazon.de/Spiele-Erwachsenen-Psychologie-menschlichen-Beziehungen/dp/3499613506 and the English one "Games People Play: the Psychology of Human Relations" Close
  15. ProducerShelley Brown

    Shelley Brown

    20/05/2017
    I've Gotta Condition
    I've Gotta ConditionI’ve gotta condition. You’ve gotta condition. Everyone’s gotta condition. This one had me perplexed, befuddled, bemused, dazed and confused. Okay! Okay. Any overuse of adjectives, based on past conditions including but not limited to many...
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    Shelley Brown
    13/06/2017 #36 Shelley Brown
    #35 @Paul Walters I'm in a dark and lonely place called fear. Some say it's located in the corporate world. I think it's located in a shopping aisle and I always decide to purchase it in exchange for a heavy price.
    Paul Walters
    13/06/2017 #35 Paul Walters
    @ Shelly Brown Where be you? I miss your posts
    Sarah Elkins
    28/05/2017 #34 Sarah Elkins
    #27 @Lynda Spiegel - a few years ago, while we were visiting with friends at an outdoor festival, one of our boys came up to the group, presumably to ask for money for snacks, and happened to hear part of our conversation. I don't remember the context, but someone mentioned my name and the phrase "grown up" in the same sentence. Our son, maybe 10 at the time, smirked and said to the group: "MY mom? Ha. MY mom's not a grown up." I was totally conflicted, proud and a little weirded out that our kid didn't think of me as a grown up.
    Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    21/05/2017 #33 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    #27 ha, I don't want to be a man either. In some ways I think men have it tougher. I only say that watching my husband do work on the outside of the home and repairs inside that I could never do. Thanks to his skills we've rarely had to call anyone in to repair anything which has saved us tons of money over the years. About 5 years ago he took a jackhammer and put in french drains, re-did our basement walls and added a sump pump. Big job, it took about 1 month of heavy work but he saved our basement from being a wet basement. It was beginning to flood at times... that was not cool.
    Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    21/05/2017 #32 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    #18 I'm glad you defined a rag for me @Shelley Brown lol. So I should ditch my tunics? ;-) Ah I do love them. I'm all about comfort and still looking er... presentable but I don't feel I need to primp like I did when I was younger. I don't miss the primping days, too much work.
    Brian McKenzie
    21/05/2017 #31 Brian McKenzie
    #30 Apparently they have been ranting about it for three years - I just found the spools of articles today, and the videos that go with it. I am so glad that I am overseas and all of this is just a spectator sport for me.
    Shelley Brown
    21/05/2017 #30 Shelley Brown
    @@Brian McKenzie thanks for reading. I understand your comment. The story was not in any way meant to male bash. It was my way of being self expressive about something I do to myself and no longer wish to do.
    Brian McKenzie
    21/05/2017 #29 Brian McKenzie
    We dont hold the door open anymore because it's sexist (according to the new crop of SJW's, UK Daily, Boston College "Research" and entirely too much feminist blathering rants on just such topic) and since we can't guess which switch flips for you that day, in what ever phase of Pre, Post, or Perpeta MS you may be cycling through - we afford you the same 3 to 6 seconds of attention we get, remember - you're a strong independent woman that doesn't need a man ~ get your own door.
    Lynda Spiegel
    21/05/2017 #28 Lynda Spiegel
    #5 you hit on my trick, @Deb Helfrich. The reason no one suspects my age (other than my relentless refusal to act it, what ever acting one's age means) is that I have always kept my hair as long as when I was a teenager. And as a "technical model" for Redken, I do get free color, so hiding the pure white that my hair seems to want to be helps, too. But I'm with Franci, I own the number, just not the baggage that comes with it.
    Lynda Spiegel
    21/05/2017 #27 Lynda Spiegel
    #7 I WON'T grow up, I won't grow up, I don't wanna be a man (well that part's true)
    Lynda Spiegel
    21/05/2017 #26 Lynda Spiegel
    #10 I LOVE you, @Lisa 🐝 Gallagher, but my schmattes and I are 64 years old
    Shelley Brown
    21/05/2017 #25 Shelley Brown
    @Lynda Spiegel I love your energy and especially want to hold onto "We live the lives we imagine"!
    Shelley Brown
    21/05/2017 #24 Shelley Brown
    #3 @Pascal Derrien what I love about being here is we are age blind.
    Shelley Brown
    21/05/2017 #23 Shelley Brown
    #2 @Ian Weinberg your humor is in no way old fartish! Thank you!
    Shelley Brown
    21/05/2017 #22 Shelley Brown
    #5 @Deb 🐝 Helfrich 3 feet of hair! That's amazing!!! I haven't met you in person however; I do know one of your most beautiful attributes is your the freedom you allow yourself when it comes to so much superficial BS.
    Shelley Brown
    21/05/2017 #21 Shelley Brown
    #6 @Franci🐝Eugenia Hoffman, beBee Brand Ambassador I feel like the bond we get through the gift of sharing makes us all ageless and reminds me that connection is truly the most valuable thing we have. The rest is just BS. Thank you for reading and commenting.
    Shelley Brown
    21/05/2017 #20 Shelley Brown
    #7 @Sarah Elkins thank you for helping to inspire this story and for helping me extend some grace to myself. Most of all, thank you for your generous spirit Now let's rock this sh*t! :)
    Shelley Brown
    21/05/2017 #19 Shelley Brown
    #9 @Jim Murray love you biggly back! It was a great exorcism! Thank you. Mine didn't stem from the Kardashian era it came from growing up in a family were the outsides were more important than the insides and the expectation was that if you looked good you would get married, have children and live happily ever after. I didn't have that season in my life and always felt like something was wrong with me. I know that is a complete lie. xoxo JJ
    Shelley Brown
    21/05/2017 #18 Shelley Brown
    #11 @Lisa 🐝 Gallagher - a Szmata is a yiddish word for rag but mainly used for a shapeless top. I agree, we do realize our priorities are different. I think a lot of my olderexia came from the fact that I come from a very vain people who valued the outside more than the insides and it's time to just let go. We can be badasses together!
    Shelley Brown
    21/05/2017 #17 Shelley Brown
    #12 @Martin Wright Thanks! That was hilarious!
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    Tracy Poizner

    12/05/2017
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  18. ProducerIan Weinberg

    Ian Weinberg

    08/05/2017
    The shameless and the damaged
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    Ian Weinberg
    05/07/2017 #28 Ian Weinberg
    #27 Thanks for that contribution @Phil Friedman There is an ongoing inability of society and my profession to deal with those that are 'different'. I experienced this personally when, on presenting my work on the correlation of mind states with the body electric field (performed with sophisticated apparatus in Faraday cage conditions), the Prof warned me to lock it away if I valued my future career in clinical medicine!
    Phil Friedman
    05/07/2017 #27 Phil Friedman
    In Florida, we have legislation known as the "Baker Act". It is often thought as a tool for having someone involuntarily committed to a mental hospital, but it is actually a patients' rights act that incorporates a strict requirement for licensed mental health professionals to examine and go before a judge within 72 hours of commitment to show that the patient is a danger either to him- or herself or others or release the patient.

    f course, most mental health workers lie to patients about what their rights under the law are -- or are sadly ignorant of the law, which is just as bad. The most dangerous position for a patient to be in is when he or she has been committed involuntarily and at the same time has insurance that covers the stay. In such cases, if the facility has open beds, it will finagle and lie and do everything it can to retain the patient, whilst billing the insurance company more than, literally, $10,000 per day. The situation continues to be horrible for those who are not dangerous, either to themselves or others, but due to slightly odd behavior run afoul of those who would lock them away against their wills.
    Ian Weinberg
    12/05/2017 #26 Ian Weinberg
    #25 Thanks for sharing your personal experience Deb. To be honest I haven't researched headache/migraine specifically in the context of deprivation. We do however know that there is a strong inflammatory component in migraine. A higher incidence of inflammation has indeed been found in people with nurture deprivation issues - this could be the link. In your case however, the family history of migraine is probably significant in regard to your headaches.
    Deb 🐝 Helfrich
    09/05/2017 #24 Deb 🐝 Helfrich
    Unfortunately, @Ian Weinberg, I just don't know who would be able to defend their sanity against this tide of events. The way these internments go, ALL humans would become triggered with rage against the institution at some point and the only outcome is to be further buried under the meds that preclude having a rational conversation to explain the utterly common reaction.

    It appears to me that we mistake psychiatric meds and their ability to tamper down personality and consciousness itself - along an easily identifiable continuum with the anesthesia meds - as helping, when in reality, we just turn the person into a just a zombie - a functioning body that has no self-awareness or ability to be responsible for self-direction.

    Utterly shameful.
    Ian Weinberg
    09/05/2017 #23 Ian Weinberg
    #22 Thank you very much @Mohammed A. Jawad
    Mohammed A. Jawad
    09/05/2017 #22 Mohammed A. Jawad
    @Ian Weinberg I must say you are simply humane and so well you have exposed the agony, sufferance and escape of an oppressed person. Here's a lesson that teaches us to read human feelings with compassion, justice and trust.
    Ian Weinberg
    09/05/2017 #21 Ian Weinberg
    #18 Thanks for that Marc
    Ian Weinberg
    09/05/2017 #20 Ian Weinberg
    #17 Dankie Oom @Gert Scholtz . All the best.
    Ian Weinberg
    09/05/2017 #19 Ian Weinberg
    #16 Thanks very much for that @Lada 🏡 Prkic
    Marc Templeton
    09/05/2017 #18 Marc Templeton
    @Ian Weinberg Wow!! Completely blown away by this!! Sad that we pigeon hole everyone too quickly instead of trying to fully understand what is actually going! Thanks for a great article
    Gert Scholtz
    09/05/2017 #17 Gert Scholtz
    @Ian Weinberg I read the story, marked it relevant, and had to pause a few moments to take it all in. It is both tragic and triumphant and so well told. It reminds me of One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest but with a different outcome and ending. Gems from you like this one will keep me reading the Writings of Weinberg again and again. Thank you Ian.
    Lada 🏡 Prkic
    09/05/2017 #16 Lada 🏡 Prkic
    Ian, I hit the Relevant button but the relevant isn't the right word for your piece. I wish we have the Magnificent button. :-) I was reading your post last night before going to sleep and couldn't comment before. This is so well-written, but the story itself leaves a bitter taste in the mouth. Who knows how many people are wrongfully imprisoned in psychiatric institutions because of such a law. With all due respect, but psychiatrists always make me shudder.
    Thanks for writing such an important story. I'm still under impression.
    Ian Weinberg
    09/05/2017 #15 Ian Weinberg
    #12 Thanks for sharing that @Dean Owen
    Paul Walters
    09/05/2017 #14 Paul Walters
    @Ian Weinberg Shades of "one flew over the cuckoos nest" Tragic tale well told .Thank you
    Cyndi wilkins
    09/05/2017 #13 Cyndi wilkins
    If having an 'invisible friend' or talking to yourself is enough to have you institutionalized...perhaps we all should be...Despicable practice by incompetent psychiatrists...Failure of a system that has absolutely has NO knowledge of human consciousness...'Nuff said.
    Dean Owen
    09/05/2017 #12 Dean Owen
    This sounded so much like England and the experience I witnessed first hand with my brother who had similarly been institutionalised, and in and out of half-way houses and on meds all his life. I can't fathom that even now in the 21st Century, we've seen little progress in the archaic and often brutal nature with which paranoid schizophrenia is treated. Beautifully written.
    https://www.bebee.com/producer/@dean-owen/tales-of-greed-love-and-schizophrenia
    Tausif Mundrawala
    09/05/2017 #11 Tausif Mundrawala
    Your buzzes make me more humble day by day because it makes you realize being a human. What else could I say? Am speechless. Hats off to you, Ian for dealing with such cases day in and out. Thanks for tagging me @Ian Weinberg
    Joyce 🐝 Bowen   Brand Ambassador @ beBee
    09/05/2017 #10 Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee
    "no comment" should be enough of a comment.
    Harvey Lloyd
    08/05/2017 #9 Harvey Lloyd
    I could feel the rage myself. Wow
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    05/05/2017
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  21. ProducerElliot Caleira

    Elliot Caleira

    03/05/2017
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    Harvey Lloyd
    03/05/2017 #1 Harvey Lloyd
    Parenting is a challenge when we look at our children as a reflection of ourselves. Children are not a reflection but yet a unique personality in conflict with your sought after reflection. Parenting is developing the skill of allowing growth within safe boundaries and taking away fears of exploration. All too often i see parents who extend their child narrative they experienced as fear based parenting within their own children.

    Exploring with your children may lead you to better understand your own narrative. I know i learn more from my grandchildren's exploration than a lot of adults.

    Some good thoughts.
  22. ProducerElliot Caleira

    Elliot Caleira

    01/05/2017
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  23. ProducerTracy Poizner

    Tracy Poizner

    24/04/2017
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  25. ProducerDebesh Choudhury
    Can We Survive without Social Media?
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    Debesh Choudhury
    29/04/2017 #19 Debesh Choudhury
    #18 Thanks a lot @Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee for your time
    Joyce 🐝 Bowen   Brand Ambassador @ beBee
    26/04/2017 #18 Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee
    Oh so true. I put all my eggs in one basket for years, and *poof* they shut down. I had to scramble to get what work I could.
    Debesh Choudhury
    17/04/2017 #17 Debesh Choudhury
    #12 Thanks @Javier 🐝 beBee for your time to write a comment
    Debesh Choudhury
    16/04/2017 #16 Debesh Choudhury
    #8 I agree with your point @David B. Grinberg that social media is a "doubled edged sword" and I have read the "more FB more bad feelings" article from HBR you shared .. Thanks for joining
    Nilesh Dubey
    15/04/2017 #15 Nilesh Dubey
    Nice article .... I am 100% agree with this written post.
    stephan metral 🐝 Innovative Brand Ambassador
    15/04/2017 #14 stephan metral 🐝 Innovative Brand Ambassador
    50/50 l would say , let's toss a coin,
    Javier 🐝 beBee
    14/04/2017 #12 Javier 🐝 beBee
    @Debesh Choudhury thanks for your buzzes ! Let's keep on producing honey!
    Javier 🐝 beBee
    14/04/2017 #11 Javier 🐝 beBee
    Spammer removed !! 😎😎😎
    Bill Stankiewicz, 🐝 Brand Ambassador
    14/04/2017 #9 Bill Stankiewicz, 🐝 Brand Ambassador
    Great post today , I agree 100%
    David B. Grinberg
    14/04/2017 #8 David B. Grinberg
    Kudos on this excellent buzz, Debesh. You make great points and raise very relevant questions. I think social media is a "doubled edged sword" in that it can have very positive as well as negative consequences in terms of harassment and lack of direct human interaction on one hand, to connecting and networking with people worldwide on the other hand. Did you know a recent major study shows that the more people use Facebook, the worse they feel. Here's the article from Harvard Business Review https://hbr.org/2017/04/a-new-more-rigorous-study-confirms-the-more-you-use-facebook-the-worse-you-feel Like they say, everything in moderation. Keep buzzing Debesh!
    Debesh Choudhury
    13/04/2017 #7 Debesh Choudhury
    #6 @Lisa 🐝 Gallagher, I like the way you brought out altogether in a brief yet pin pointed comment. Life would become too robotic if we don't get out of the #SocialMedia and give some quality time with our acquaintances
    Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    13/04/2017 #6 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    This is a very thought provoking article @Debesh Choudhury. With advancements in SM which iclude work we would lose our livliehood, and a lot of pertinent data including customers since we rely on social media in so many aspects. But, I think it is vital to go beyond SM as Sarah did and get to know people, keeping the human factor alive! Society could become too robotic if we only rely on technologyand leave the human element out.
    Debesh Choudhury
    13/04/2017 #5 Debesh Choudhury
    #1 Thanks @Milos Djukic for your support
    Debesh Choudhury
    13/04/2017 #4 Debesh Choudhury
    #3 Thanks @Donna-Luisa Eversley for your time .. I agree with your views that we would become more human.
    Ali Gouran
    13/04/2017 #2 Ali Gouran
    with this site : http://www.bestmarker.com/ ! No!
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