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Psychology is the study of behavior and mind, embracing all aspects of conscious and unconscious experience as well as thought. It is an academic discipline and an applied science which seeks to understand individuals and groups by establishing general principles and researching specific cases.
  1. Joyce Redlon

    Joyce Redlon

    A woman I know telling her story of abuse in her own words. Proud of her. She has come a long way.
    My Story
    My Story
  2. ProducerSteve Blakeman

    Steve Blakeman

    Is Facebook really as addictive as Cocaine?
    Is Facebook really as addictive as Cocaine?Hooked on Facebook? Well according to a recent study it affects your brain in the same way as using cocaine, gambling or alcohol...The latest research from California State University, Fullerton provides a clear indication that an obsession with...


    Gloria 🐝 🐾 πŸ’« β˜• (Glo) Ochoa
    25/09/2017 #23 Anonymous
    When I teach FB basics, I do issue a warning that FB can be " addicting " in that it activates the FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) gene. lol
    Franci🐝Eugenia Hoffman, beBee Brand Ambassador
    24/09/2017 #22 Franci🐝Eugenia Hoffman, beBee Brand Ambassador
    I am not a Facebook fan but it is beneficial for keeping up with family and friends. Also, it is useful for getting the word out, for example, beBee.
    Hector Fong Mendoza
    24/09/2017 #20 Anonymous
    Kevin Baker
    10/08/2017 #19 Kevin Baker
    #18 funny
    Gerald Hecht
    10/08/2017 #18 Gerald Hecht
    Cocaine! My gosh; isn't that both a Na+ channel blocker in neuronal axons in both the peripheral and central nervous systems? Even more alarming, isn't it also able to inhibit presynaptic Dopamine Reuptake Transporters (DAT) in the Ventral Tegmental Area (VTA)-Shell/Core of the Nucleus of the Accumbens (Nacc)-mesolimbocortical-operant-motivational/reinforcing-circuitry in the CNS?
    Good Heavens; if this is true --somebody should tell someone! Goodness Gracious...I mean golly...Holy Hyperspeed; This has me feeling very frightened.
    Virag🐝 G.
    10/08/2017 #17 Virag🐝 G.
    #11 LOL
    Yolanda Ávila MÑrquez
    10/08/2017 #16 Yolanda Ávila MÑrquez
    Not only facebook .... Documentary 'Deluged by Data' https://goo.gl/UgUvw8
    Ernesto Fuentes
    10/08/2017 #15 Ernesto Fuentes
    Cocaina o Facebook?
    Marisa Fonseca Diniz
    10/08/2017 #14 Marisa Fonseca Diniz
    Everything that is too sick or awakens disorder that is a fact. Social networks are healthy when you use them wisely to share a job, a project and maybe even get customers for your company, but what has been happening in recent times is a legion of people social and psychological problems taking refuge in networks Social and professional to create a virtual face that is the opposite of their real lives, and why all this? Simply because it is acceptable by the majority of society. No one wants to show the virtual world that you have problems or suffer from disorders because you can not get the best job or look the best, not people always want to show that they are good, happy and successful in life. A few days ago King's College London, UK, published a poll saying that one in five people suffer from paranoia - and the main reason may be frequent access to social networks. Still, according to the National Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children, the increase in cases of self-mutilation among young people, who represent the largest risk group for the disease, may be associated with this addiction, that is, life Real is always better than virtual.
    stephan metral 🐝 Innovative Brand Ambassador
    10/08/2017 #13 stephan metral 🐝 Innovative Brand Ambassador
    Oherwise it is the biggest socialmedia highway....
    stephan metral 🐝 Innovative Brand Ambassador
    10/08/2017 #12 stephan metral 🐝 Innovative Brand Ambassador
    #7 David FB and lil Zucky are doing R&D. Digging up in AI, and also in the other way around AS (Artificial Stupidity), They are real explorers.πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜Ž
    Javier 🐝 beBee
    10/08/2017 #11 Javier 🐝 beBee
    I use FB for promoting beBee πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜ŽπŸ˜ŽπŸ˜ŽπŸπŸπŸπŸπŸ
    Numo Quest
    10/08/2017 #10 Numo Quest
    I think it all in essence bares some ground yet, one very important ingredient missing is the chemical addictiveness facebook has not. Even more, the level of dislike, and I see that hardly anywhere in the publications, is rising and more and more people are thinking more conscious about social media and its impact on their every days lives. Like a certain boar-dom triggering antipathy. A second aspect, and that also isn't mentioned to clear, that there is some sort of decay by generation in terms of discipline and educate a child of the importance of social skills above using all digitized. Simple example, recent studies here in the Netherlands has shown huge fall in motorique of latest two generations where the writing skills of children on schools have degraded to levels they aren't able to read their own handwriting anymore. Earlier studies has shown a similar degrade in maths and verbal communication and reading skills as well.

    Being a professional coming and advocating IT, I always have stand on developing all ordinary human social skills as well since that defines human more then digital skills. It indeed is a parental matter that they have to teach and limit use of digitized means and the social media to their children rather than accept it as 'convenient' or 'fact of life because...'

    To give you a very 'close to home' and Simple example.... I have opened an account on fb for sake of preserving my brand an pseudonym yet not feel the need to use it for any other activity. I quit Linkedin for sake of no longer seeing adding value rather then the 'fear of missing out ...' I have smoked for some years until I realized that it just taken me one week to quit that habit. Basically in revolves all around 'Habit'. No matter which habit.

    Very good article to read.

    Thanks Steve :O)
    Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    10/08/2017 #9 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    It can be addicting. I deleted over 100 people around Christmas time of 2016. My feed was so clogged with nonsense and other things I won't mention. I love to catch up on articles reposted by many on FB from beBee. I also love to use it to keep up with out of town friends/family. I used to be on FB much more.. I limit my time to under 20 mins per day now.
    Lance  🐝 Scoular
    10/08/2017 #8 Lance 🐝 Scoular
    Simon Sinek has been talking about this.

    This may have been true, but we won't have the research, after Caxton made mass production of books possible.

    Then the crytstal set, the radio, the phone, the TV.πŸ€”

    πŸ‘₯ed 🐝🐝🐀🐳πŸ”₯🚲
    David B. Grinberg
    10/08/2017 #7 David B. Grinberg
    Nice buzz, Steve. I've shared on three hives, tweeted and pinned to top of my Twitter page for easy RTs at https://twitter.com/DBGrinberg
    What's also concerning about FB are their constant privacy issues. Plus, there's that surreptitious psychological testing FB does on members by messing with their news feeds to gauge the responses. Will Facebook ever face up to these facts?
    cc: @Javier 🐝 beBee @John White, MBA @Lance 🐝 Scoular @Paul "Pablo" Croubalian @stephan metral 🐝 Innovative Brand Ambassador
    Jim Murray
    09/08/2017 #5 Jim Murray
    Yes is it. But here's how I dealt with it. I had 2400 'friends' . But most of them were assholes. So I closed my account and re-opened it under another name. Then, from the list they sent me of my friends, I picked about 100 of the people I new personally or professionally, and friended them. Now,instead of spending an hour or more on each session, endlessly scrolling through crap. I spend about 5 minutes, and get to know what my family, friends and associates are up to, and have a couple hours left to do other mindlessly addictive things. Like writing on beBee or watching TV.
    Zacharias 🐝 Voulgaris
    09/08/2017 #4 Zacharias 🐝 Voulgaris
    Let's not put all social media in the same basket. That would definitely be unscientific! FB on its own is fine, it's one's addiction to it and the useless content in it that make it problematic. If FB users shared similar content to beBee users, while also maintaining a more balanced approach to how they use it (instead of checking it every 2 minutes), then it wouldn't be so bad. So, it's really a user-base matter more than anything else.

    As for the addiction element, this is common in many modern platforms. That's not necessarily bad. It's when this addiction yields no benefits (other than the psychological rush), that it becomes a problem. Someone can be addicted to problem-solving and through this addiction manage to create solutions to problems that plague society. Is that bad? We are all addicted to something. The question is does anything good come out of it?
    Renée  🐝 Cormier
    09/08/2017 #3 Renée 🐝 Cormier
    I agree with @Chas ✌️ Wyatt. I find Facebook boring and stupid, whereas beBee is engaging and interest-sting. Do you like that, @Steve Blakeman? I think any social media site can be addictive if it resonates with you on some level. The need to be constantly checking your cell phone and social media apps for updates is the result of intentional efforts planned into sites and phones, to keep you hooked. Check this out: http://www.spiegel.de/international/zeitgeist/smartphone-addiction-is-part-of-the-design-a-1104237.html

    Are we all going to Hell in a hand basket? I doubt it. We are an adaptive species.
  3. Joyce Redlon

    Joyce Redlon

    Joyce Redlon
    Micro-Generation Born Between 1977-1983 Given New Name | Sammiches & Psych Meds
    www.sammichespsychmeds.com Finally, we have a name of our...
  4. Joyce Redlon

    Joyce Redlon

    American Juggalo - Often Mocked and Misunderstood Subculture
    American Juggalo - Often Mocked and Misunderstood Subculture A look at the often mocked and misunderstood subculture of Juggalos, hardcore Insane Clown Posse fans who meet once a year for four days at The Gathering of...
  5. ProducerRoger Hilleboe

    Roger Hilleboe

    CompulsionObsession is a vision you can’t escape. Compulsion is the unrelenting effort to realize it. Disorder is when that effort supersedes everything else.Flat on my back, comfortable inside a narcotic haze, recovering from surgery, I drew a circle, then...


    Javier 🐝 beBee
    25/08/2017 #3 Javier 🐝 beBee
    I love it. Thanks
    Lyon Brave
    25/08/2017 #2 Lyon Brave
    keep being an erotic obsessive compulsive if this is the result
    Lyon Brave
    25/08/2017 #1 Lyon Brave
    Your art is amazing
  6. ProducerScott Wheeler

    Scott Wheeler

    Projective Surfaces
    Projective SurfacesIntentionally projecting is fun: depending on the emotions. It doesn't have to be about guilt, or even anything bad.Actually, now that I understand projecting, I just had an epic epiphany that I would like to share:I might unintentionally project...


    Scott Wheeler
    15/08/2017 #3 Scott Wheeler
    Am I the only one who thinks this is fun? πŸ˜ƒ
    Scott Wheeler
    15/08/2017 #2 Scott Wheeler
    At least a pamphlet, or introductory leaflets
    Scott Wheeler
    15/08/2017 #1 Scott Wheeler
    I could write a book about this topic
  7. ProducerTricia Mitchell

    Tricia Mitchell

    I've Been Thinking....
    I've Been Thinking....Image Credit: Ashley BatzI'm going to dive right in.Β  I had intended to ramble, but let's stick with one idea, here.Β  Here's something that has entertained my thoughts more than once:If babies are conscious and consciousness begins at the point of...


    Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    14/08/2017 #47 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    You are quite welcome @Tricia Mitchell :))
    Milos Djukic
    14/08/2017 #46 Anonymous
    #45 You are most welcome @Tricia Mitchell :)
    Tricia Mitchell
    13/08/2017 #45 Tricia Mitchell
    Thanks v much for sharing this buzz @Milos Djukic ☺
    Tricia Mitchell
    13/08/2017 #43 Tricia Mitchell
    #35 "Believing punishment accomplishes anything but the cessation of love is one of our species current tragic flaws." I think I may have to quote you on that @Deb 🐝 Helfrich
    Tricia Mitchell
    13/08/2017 #42 Tricia Mitchell
    #35 there's some many quotable comments in your response @Deb 🐝 Helfrich all of which I appreciate.

    "That whole construct came from humans at a fragile point in our development. We understood little of our natural world and we were dying early and often, so stories of vengeance may have offered comfort then, but should atrophy as our knowledge progresses."

    I love how you state that [stories of vengeance] "should atrophy with time.

    Enjoyed reading your comments. Thank you πŸ’š
    Tricia Mitchell
    13/08/2017 #41 Tricia Mitchell
    #33 (part 2) Children's dependency on others for survival & love goes beyond the early years. What we don't yet know is how decisions of adult (eg "trans dad gives birth" or surrogate mum & those chemical signals between parent & unborn) vs biological ("natural") design will play out in future generations.

    The concluding part of your comment about choice, at the point of creation, without judgement sounds very similar to something called Access Consciousness.

    Thanks for sharing some of the principles here @Numo Quest; they are interesting to read. ☺
    Tricia Mitchell
    13/08/2017 #40 Tricia Mitchell
    #33 thanks for contributing your perspective, @Numo Quest While reading your comments a few things sprung to mind in response to your comment that: "The child isn't engaged with much else then just that. It changes on the moment adults start to bring in 'aspects'"
    1) Bruce Lipton states that a child BEGINS learning the rules of the world in which it is to be born in-utero, specifically from 6 months onwards.
    2) Parents may actively teach babies, but babies are LEARNING through observation & modelling, earlier than the period you state it commences. The first 6-7 years of life, they are operating in beta and delta brainwaves (& if mum believes the world is a dangerous place, the baby alters physically in preparation for entering that world, according to mum's map of it) https://www.healyourlife.com/are-you-programmed-at-birth

    Another principle states following, don't put focus and energy in things one can't change.
    While I agree, the "issue" I & many others have come across is that people do not realise or believe we can change things. I have permission to share that working with a client born with "old lady's" hands (as she described them), I was curious as to what may be possible, not taking a stance that we couldn't change it. Past live trauma resolved, her hands continued to look younger each day. My thinking? If cells renew every 30 days & David Hamilton says there's 99.99 recurring space between atoms, hell, let's give it a shot. There are other examples of what can change when we are open to being curious...
    Tricia Mitchell
    13/08/2017 #39 Tricia Mitchell
    #34 I appreciate you sharing this buzz, Debashish. I'm glad you enjoyed it. Thanks
    Lisa Vanderburg
    13/08/2017 #38 Lisa Vanderburg
    #37 Thank you dear @Deb 🐝 Helfrich for your clear and honest opinion; I would expect nothing less from you and completely respect your views. And you're right about those '2/3rds' - they are often more human that we are!
    Deb 🐝 Helfrich
    12/08/2017 #37 Deb 🐝 Helfrich
    #36 First of all, I want to dispute the 2/3rd in the dark ages, I think those outside the industrial world live a more human life and I'd like for us to model them, not for them to catch up to us. Of course, potable water, sewage, and such are mandatory, we should be working full out to ensure sustainable access for every human. I do believe we have the data that there are too many of us for the earth to carry and we can figure out a way to have a realistic world population.

    And this ever growing number of humans is part of my thoughts around not believing in reincarnation. If there was a finiteness/distinctiveness to souls the math doesn't work with explosive population growth.

    I have no personal sense or experience of being anyone or anything but Deb. I have been an atheist since 15. I believe consciousness as we experience it is god, and that in all the various forms the stories of religion are metaphors for this very fact. Being comfortable without a supreme being, I am also quite comfortable with consciousness being an emergent property that only occurs when a biological entity, from an amoeba on up, including all plants and animals, sustains life.

    But each different type of organism has a different level of consciousness equipment. Just like plants don't have legs like animals, the structure defines the expression of the consciousness of life.

    I have never had a moment of worry about being dead, although I have human fears about the process of how I will die or around living in terror. As a cartoon in the New Yorker illustrated, I've imagined I've booked my departure for 4:33 am on a Monday morning, in my bed, asleep.

    I understand other people's belief in reincarnation through the lens of the collective unconscious - ancestral memory - unified field. We are not the program, we are the TV set, while we function, we can be tuned to numerous programs.
    Lisa Vanderburg
    12/08/2017 #36 Lisa Vanderburg
    #35 I agree my friend @Deb 🐝 Helfrich...we need to chew the cud! Ruminate, resonate, take TIME to figure out!
    But to the last paragraph I'm answering; the rest remains a mystery! Are you offering that you believe in reincarnated souls? I know my bent is towards one life - sufficient time for me, but I'm curious, enthralled perhaps that others could well believe in reincarnation; many do, and I respect their beliefs, but then I think of brutal eras, famine, senseless killing, illness, starvation....none of my imaginings include being in a position of privilege no matter the date. We may be in 'enlightened times', but that for only us. 2/3rds of the world are still in the dark 'ages' with all the want and brutality that invokes. Sorry...been writing poetry for my new baby granddaughter - it affects the way my mind speaks!! I also agree that it would take a higher power to 'decide' we need to go around again, but he (or she) is not vengeful, love will turn around! Hoping you'll come back on me with this; with respect!
    Deb 🐝 Helfrich
    12/08/2017 #35 Deb 🐝 Helfrich
    #25 #28 One thing is for sure, whatever the higher power may actually be, there will be no vengeance for open-hearted inquiry.

    That whole construct came from humans at a fragile point in our development. We understood little of our natural world and we were dying early and often, so stories of vengeance may have offered comfort then, but should atrophy as our knowledge progresses.

    Believing punishment accomplishes anything but the cessation of love is one of our species current tragic flaws.

    And it feels like, to me, this is occurring because the internet is helping us to see each human as part of the web of humanity. It was a bumpy start, but we can see the shift from angry to accepting to caring happening all around us.

    As now, anyone, anywhere can read a different point of view about something like consciousness in the womb that is difficult to dive into over a hot beverage. Well, initiating the topic is strange, not hard. What I believe to be difficult is having the ability to cogitate for a bit, rather than having to answer within the quick turn-around of verbal communication before we can examine our own rote answers and spend a moment searching if we might have come across new information that allows us to examine the topic anew, rather than simply repeat an answer long ago drummed into us.
    Debasish Majumder
    12/08/2017 #34 Debasish Majumder
    interesting post indeed@Tricia Mitchell! enjoyed read and shared. thank you for the share.
    Numo Quest
    12/08/2017 #33 Numo Quest
    In case of a child, from our and universal principle perspective, a child is born with character, talents and soft skills, we start to 'support' it on the moment we know how and in which fields. Since the one child isn't the other, there is a difference. Every individual is unique. By this concept the child in the first year is focused on 'need'. Every child has the reflex of survival and does by nature everything in it's power, to survive by getting what it thinks it need. This reflex is the bases for existence until the moment, the parent starts to guide the child, in line with character and talent, the social part. The child needs to learn to develop its social skills.
    The child isn't engaged with much else then just that. It changes on the moment adults start to bring in 'aspects', in all Love and caring, no doubt, like you are explaining and portraying. Until then a child plays, has fun, enjoys life, has ideas, start to develop.

    Another principle states following, don't put focus and energy in things one can't change. If this life's principle is in the child as an ordinary part of life and existing, the child will deal with things in life accordingly. On the moment the adult deems it should be raised an issue, for what ever reason, then indeed it will become an issue for the child. Still not altering anything in the past.

    From our experience, every moment in time has it's point of creation, choice, for every individual, without judgement or limitation, regardless your experiences of, and in the past, you are here now, as you are, unique. You have Choice and Creation. Either, dwell in a way you can't alter and put focus and energy, without changing past tense facts, or in one step say, I know that I am, hence from here I create and make my choices. Both are good, without judging, merely the question, what is it YOU want? :O)
    Tricia Mitchell
    12/08/2017 #32 Tricia Mitchell
    #27 Thanks for sharing your experience, @Lisa 🐝 Gallagher & for sharing this buzz. I tried to tag you in comment #31, as your comments made me think of it, but it wasn't having any of it!

    I think we come from Source, return to Source and the bit in between is our life, learning, growing, experiencing and a process of remembering who we truly are. I love how you experienced positive changes relating to your son once you stayed at home - something that not everybody is able to do. (Sounds like your daughter was in a hurry!)

    Amazing story from when you were 18 months old. Lights obviously hold a special meaning for you. It's great when we have elders who can confirm our childhood memories & I find it fascinating when people or children can remember even being in the womb. I don't have any recollections before the age of 4 years old. Hey ho! Appreciate you contributing.
    Tricia Mitchell
    12/08/2017 #31 Tricia Mitchell
    #27 A friend shared this (author unknown):

    There was a soul whose time had come to take a human birth and so it went to the great cavern, where all such souls went. In the cavern were hundreds of thousands of souls, each manifesting a small blue flame. When its turn came, the soul stood up and said.
    β€œMy time has come to take human incarnation, for I have work to do and many lessons to learn. In my life as human I shall need family and loving friends to help me, to love me and to nurture me. Who will be my family on earth?

    A ripple flickered across the thousands of flames and shortly a few stood forward and said.
    β€œWe do no know you, we have not met before and we are strangers, but being kind and giving love is a pleasant and easy task. We will be your friends and family on earth.”

    The soul spoke out and again said.
    β€œAnd on earth I shall need teachers, people to guide me, to correct me and to discipline me. Who will be my teachers?”
    Again a ripple went out around the assembled flames, and a group came forward and said.
    β€œWe have known you in other lives and we have grown to respect you and like you. We will take on the task of being your teachers in life.”

    And a third time the soul spoke out and said.
    β€œOn earth if I am to learn the retest lesson of all, the lesson of humility, tolerance under provocation and to love those who hate me, I shall need people to hate me and to do violence to me. Who will do this for me? Who will be my enemies?

    There was a long pause in the cavern until at last a small group came forward and said.
    β€œWe are your soul group, we have known you over aeons of time and your growth and your learning are as dear to us as our own. This is the most delicate and difficult task and if you are to be hurt and abused it would be better done by loving friends. We will be your enemies on earth.
    Tricia Mitchell
    12/08/2017 #29 Tricia Mitchell
    #28 thank you for your honest and open response @Lisa Vanderburg I appreciate you sharing your experience of Catholicism. love that we can hold different points of view and still remain receptive to explorations without any investment in the outcome. To be honest, I'm not one who remembers much; it's what I'm continuing to learn now about where I have been and what I know as a result. I've written about a couple of my surreal experiences. Flexibility and freedom will allow us to evolve. Have a blessed day, my dear. ☺
    Lisa Vanderburg
    12/08/2017 #28 Lisa Vanderburg
    #26 Thank you, @Tricia Mitchell for your gracious honesty. I tend to think of faith as being different from 'religion' as I was born into Catholicism but soon saw the dangers of rigid dogma. That quote you mention sends shudders down my spine!
    I would love to discuss reincarnation with you sometime - respectfully and with the greatest care. We are free to evolve! Many thanks, lovey Lady!
    Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    12/08/2017 #27 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    Interesting topic @Tricia Mitchell. This made me think of death too (but not in a morbid manner). Does consciousness begin at birth and excelerate at death? A question many people have. I believe our souls are energy and energy transfers. One simple thought I keep close to my heart, positive ions attract positive and vice versa for negative ions.

    I think the process of birth is underscored. My son had a difficult birth and he was colicky and cried a lot. He was also sick a lot his first 2 yrs of life until I decided to take time off from work and stay home with him. I noticed many positive changes once I was home full time. My daughter's birth was easy in contrast.. 2 pushes and out she came without incident.

    Quick story, I was about 18 mos old when my parents took their first trip with me. I remember vividly seeing beautiful lights and I kept saying, 'ooooh, pretty lights." My mom couldn't believe I had that memory. I even knew we were on a bridge crossing over into Canada. Mom confirmed my memory was correct and she was shocked I had the memory. I have never lost my lust for lights at night!
  8. ProducerHarley King

    Harley King

    How To Write Powerful, Inspirational Speeches
    How To Write Powerful, Inspirational SpeechesWriting the speech is one of the more challenging and creative aspects of speaking. Purpose of the Speech The first step is to understand the audience. Who are they? What do you think they will want to know about your topic? What do you want them...


    Harley King
    10/07/2017 #4 Harley King
    #3 You are welcome, Sandra! Maybe you can put it to use in the future. Thanks for sharing.
    Harley King
    10/07/2017 #2 Harley King
    #1 Thanks for sharing this buzz.
    CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    10/07/2017 #1 CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    Thanks for connecting Harley. Look forward to reading more your buzzes.
  9. ProducerTricia Mitchell

    Tricia Mitchell

    A Curious Thing Happened On My Path To Peace
    A Curious Thing Happened On My Path To PeaceOn Saturday night, I listened to my own meditation audio. Yes, I'd listened before now to critique it, but I was ready to receive its gifts. I led there as my stomach periodically convulsed, elevating my legs and upper body, then relaxing. I saw...


    Tricia Mitchell
    10/07/2017 #31 Tricia Mitchell
    #30 I understand what you're saying about feeling bad but, you're right, there is nothing you can do. It was a similar thing with this person, as you describe. I kept giving options: hypnotherapy, reiki, coffee & cake or walking the dogs - I made it as easy as possible, offering to pick her up and drop her off. She would only engage if it was about staying stuck. The emotional distress caused to all was too much, then the family backlash because I'd "deserted her", but I couldn't be around that manipulative energy any longer.

    If that friend wishes to come back, they will. If not, you were good enough to leave the door open but they have the choice whether to walk through or close it. Thanks for sharing @Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    10/07/2017 #30 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    #29 I had to do that with a certain person over a year ago. I felt bad but there was nothing I could do to help and I felt she was self-sabotaging our relationship after she did the same with her family and a few other good friends. I left the door open but I haven't heard from her since.
    Tricia Mitchell
    08/07/2017 #29 Tricia Mitchell
    #28 thanks @Lisa 🐝 Gallagher yes, you summarised it well. I referred to her as an old friend because eventually I had to walk away when I discovered she had become emotionally manipulating. Recycling crises to get sympathy, which (I'd later learn from her daughter) had actually happened weeks earlier. She engaged when speaking about meds & MH professionals. She'd withdraw & fall silent if focusing on anything that may contribute to the solution, which meant facing her reality. The things she did were very damaging emotionally to those around her. For reasons of self-preservation, I eventually severed all ties.
    Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    08/07/2017 #28 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    #27 Thanks for explaining that. Numbness which can lead to situational depression from real life experiences. A great support system can help people when they are going through a hard time. It sounds like she has a good friend in you. Life can be so tough and it can leave people feeling numb, I agree- meds are not the answer in cases like that.
    Tricia Mitchell
    07/07/2017 #27 Tricia Mitchell
    #26 hi @Lisa 🐝 Gallagher I recognise that each person has the right to choose the best course of action for them; I'm not anti meds. My old friend's issue was a social one with her neighbours. Her neighbourhood was a socially & economically deprived area. Meds, sadly, don't factor in any social elements, they just numb feelings, including joy. They take the edge off life, which, if someones been living on a knife's edge is helpful. But it also numbs joy, which is one of the contributors to lifting us out of feeling low. Thanks for replying.
    Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    07/07/2017 #26 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    #24 That's sad to hear about your neighbor. Sometimes meds are needed depending on the severity of the illness but many times doctors either over-medicate or put people on drugs without giving other modalities of treatment a chance. Many times, meds should just be temporary, helping a person to get over their hump period while they receive other therapy.
    Tricia Mitchell
    06/07/2017 #25 Tricia Mitchell
    I'm grateful to you for sharing this buzz @David B. Grinberg Thank you.
    Tricia Mitchell
    06/07/2017 #24 Tricia Mitchell
    #23 how wonderfully refreshing @Lisa 🐝 Gallagher that you have an MD who is so aware & interested in healing in the widest sense of the word. He sounds great & totally supportive. When I read your quote of him stating that meds numb, it reminded me of an old friend. She had an ongoing dispute with noisy neighbours.

    The ongoing dispute shifted her existing low mood into depression. She felt unable to move home. So, the doctor put her on anti-depressants. The nuisance neighbour situation got worse, the doctor kept increasing the dosage.

    It was a social situation that medication could not resolve. Changing the environment, or trying to detach from the situation (with meditation) may have more beneficial than creating the conditions where a plan was needed to gradually reduce the dosage!
    Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    06/07/2017 #23 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    #22 Inspiring @Tricia Mitchell. You wrote: "Doctors practicing functional health understand the mind-body-environment (social) connection. If they could 'prescribe' self training & holistic therapies, in consultation with patients/clients," I am lucky enough to have a Doctor like this. He refrained from giving me meds knowing I'm working with my therapist using EMDR and meditation, along wtih CBT. My therapist even has essential oils to use during the meditative part of our therapy which is at the end. My Doctor looks forward to updates because he's been to a few conferences on EMDR and found it can relieve symptoms for a long time unlike Meds that numb you and give you no chance for a cure... his words. :)
    Tricia Mitchell
    05/07/2017 #22 Tricia Mitchell
    #18 @Lisa 🐝 Gallagher thanks for reading this one and commenting. If I understand you correctly, you're suggesting looking at what others have already done, in terms of methods? I think it's a great idea. Personally, I tend to limit what I take on these days, because I spent a long time "gathering" certificates in order to "prove" I was "good enough" & didn't know when to stop. In my 20s, there would be rookie cowboys out in the field, doing harm & I would be cautious & conscientious, declining work because I wasn't qualified, then I wasn't experienced enough. It was only them making a "pig's ear" out of something that would spur me into action. So, I use the tools I already have& trust that I'll be shown what I need to know or directed to any new training I need.

    I wholeheartedly agree with you when you state, "Many of us suffer from lack of inner peace and I going to bet it's great to add layers of self training along with therapy if necessary and a Doctor's help. Why not, it sure can't hurt." Doctors practicing functional health understand the mind-body-environment (social) connection. If they could 'prescribe' self training & holistic therapies, in consultation with patients/clients, it would be so empowering. I think it all boils down to educating the people who are looking for a different solution. Thank you for sharing this buzz in the Mental Health hive. I appreciate it.
    Tricia Mitchell
    05/07/2017 #21 Tricia Mitchell
    #15 (Part 3) I am pleased that you've been able to release comingled events through physical releasing using the audios I recorded @Deb 🐝 Helfrich. You wrote, "But I didn't quite understand how intensely, even low level, sub-cognitive stressors and events can affect how we proceed through life." I don't think any of us do, until we stumble across them & then laugh at the absurdity of some of the beliefs. Here's an example I wrote about: https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/foul-play-business-tricia-mitchell where a repeated pattern of successful businesses & wealth SLIPPED AWAY from a man, and the root was found in when he was 15 years old - the chance of a professional football career SLIPPED AWAY from him.

    It seems your travels are bringing you back to shore, Deb.

    "Hopefully these two different personal narratives can indicate a direction of sorts for those who will have to hack their own way out of their own jungle of memories and the wild things that grew up in their bodymind complex." I hope, too, Deb that others will benefit from our willingness to be open about our journeys & perhaps, be inspired to embark on their own travels to unravel & understand the patterns in their lives. Thank you for your poetic expressions, I do appreciate them, as I do your contributions & engagement with my buzzes.
    Tricia Mitchell
    05/07/2017 #20 Tricia Mitchell
    #15 (part 2) I admire that you're able to stay out of words & just allow the process to unfold, as you unfurl. You capture the western approach to dis-ease so eloquently, "Unlike the current, standard, western model that seeks to converge any issue into a set of symptoms that require a fixed remedy, our mind makes connections in a free flowing, relevance-centric way."

    I don't know whether I've shared this video clip with you before or not, but this is my trainer talking about a woman who walked out of her job. Events eventually went back to childhood, being hit by a swing as a toddler & then the day that she was born. The belief? When things are going well, I screw it up for others (she was born on Christmas Eve & Xmas was put aside for her older siblings, because the new baby was here). Only when we become aware of the existence of a pattern, "Why does this seem to keep happening to me?" (although life does not happen TO us), can we take steps to change it.

    At 3.33 he starts to talk about the ONE BELIEF that we all have in our lives: https://youtu.be/iGCpEjobv-w?t=213 5.05 he uses a bamboo metaphor which illustrates your comment, "We often regard our random thoughts as just that, out of the blue, and yet there has to be some shared salience, for these thoughts to proceed in sequence. Uncovering where events 20 years apart hold the same emotional charge is a new method, to most, for uncovering how our brains have wired certain disparate events together." He introduces Diana's story at 7.43.
    Tricia Mitchell
    05/07/2017 #19 Tricia Mitchell
    #15 Dear @Deb 🐝 Helfrich I enjoy reading your comments. I'm glad you found this post very insightful. Today, I learned that the pioneer of the system I referenced here died, aged 82. My next buzz will be about his journey. Although I never met him, I feel emotional talking about his selfless contribution to the planet, without which, I'm sure I wouldn't be able to affix my spiritual approach to a scientific framework

    I love how your approach is away from words, because it was your way of escaping & your rich metaphor of moats and being an island suddenly brings to mind the saying "No man is an island".

    It's interesting, looking at Human Design (HD), my chart shows that I have to speak aloud to understand - so the internal healing conversation actually happens externally (I think aloud; I'm one of those "annoying" people who asks for advice, and in talking it through arrives at a conclusion, thanks you for your input, without you uttering a word).

    My "obsession" with seeing patterns in everything probably leads to a curious exploration of where this thought may 'fit', which also leads me away of just BE-ing and accepting "It just is". I am an investigator in HD terms, so I'm always going to try to understand what's going on.

    I don't think many people are aware of just how compliant the subconscious mind is. Set the intention & it will provide the answers, if it's safe to do so. Tell it to show you the events & it will. It's then our childlike curiosity that can explore the connection, if we wish, between seemingly random events.
    Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    05/07/2017 #18 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    Very interesting stuff @Tricia Mitchell. My thoughts, why not explore methods others have tested. Many of us suffer from lack of inner peace and I going to bet it's great to add layers of self training along with therapy if necessary and a Doctor's help. Why not, it sure can't hurt. Thanks for sharing all of this.
    Tricia Mitchell
    05/07/2017 #17 Tricia Mitchell
    It is late @Deb 🐝 Helfrich and your comments are too rich to respond to now. I will be back tomorrow. Thank you so much for enriching this buzz & adding to the narratives, so those with curious minds may choose to water the seeds that reading this may have planted in their minds.
    Deb 🐝 Helfrich
    04/07/2017 #16 Deb 🐝 Helfrich
    Pt2 - But the truth is that I wasn't fighting any specific villain or trauma, and I was unaware of how the very low attachment I received in my earliest days played out in my choices and preferences and ultimate withdrawing. Therefore, I didn't keep track of the steps of protection, I didn't even notice them at all. But the boundaries between me and the world went from a mote that a drawbridge could easily connect, to an ever vaster sea as my island of self drifted from shore.

    Hopefully these two different personal narratives can indicate a direction of sorts for those who will have to hack their own way out of their own jungle of memories and the wild things that grew up in their bodymind complex.
    Deb 🐝 Helfrich
    04/07/2017 #15 Deb 🐝 Helfrich
    I find this a very insightful post, @Tricia Mitchell, as a model of how a personal, internal healing conversation unfolds. Unlike the current, standard, western model that seeks to converge any issue into a set of symptoms that require a fixed remedy, our mind makes connections in a free flowing, relevance-centric way.

    We often regard our random thoughts as just that, out of the blue, and yet there has to be some shared salience, for these thoughts to proceed in sequence. Uncovering where events 20 years apart hold the same emotional charge is a new method, to most, for uncovering how our brains have wired certain disparate events together.

    As you know, I have been experiencing quite a lot of tremoring as my body releases decades of comingled events, as I listen to your recordings. From the very first, I intuitively felt the power of TRE. But I didn't quite understand how intensely, even low level, sub-cognitive stressors and events can affect how we proceed through life.

    In my case, different than yours, I try to stay out of my mind and cognition, as much as possible, since my own way of self-soothing was my ability to retreat into the world of my thoughts. My mind palace was a comforting, fortified place that I spent years trying to escape, rather than just unsecuring the steps I took to secure myself in the first place.
    Deb 🐝 Helfrich
    04/07/2017 #14 Deb 🐝 Helfrich
    #11 There are some profound truths in this statement @Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee. True communication is a much more nuanced and reciprocal version of plain old talking.
    Tricia Mitchell
    04/07/2017 #13 Tricia Mitchell
    #2 I meant to thank you for your encouraging words, @Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee and overlooked to do so, in responding to another of your points. Apologies and thank you. I will continue to move forward and follow where my curiosity takes me.
    Tricia Mitchell
    04/07/2017 #12 Tricia Mitchell
    #11 And you expressed it so succinctly. I agree with you entirely, and also, if we don't see the world as it is, but as we are (attributed to the Talmud & others), where there is a lack of inner peace, our outer world will merely reflect that turmoil. I'm resisting making reference to a "political" leader who lacks the finesse and oratory skills required to convey peace to the masses. It all starts with the inner work on ourselves and being at peace with who we are & accepting responsibility for the decisions and choices we make in our lives.
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    Louise Smith
    02/07/2017 #13 Louise Smith
    @Juan Imaz "There have been changes in the industry such as the rich and famous have started launching their own lines of perfume."
    DO we look forward to a honey scented beBee range?
    Tanya Todorova
    29/06/2017 #12 Tanya Todorova
    I am a partner with FM Group - a company that offer more than 160 perfumes at affordable prices. If you love perfumes I will be glad to invite you to register either as a client, either as a partner and take the chance to purchase real perfumes at affordable prices. Follow the link http://www.fm4you.co.uk/lp/fmworldwide/
    Franci🐝Eugenia Hoffman, beBee Brand Ambassador
    27/06/2017 #11 Franci🐝Eugenia Hoffman, beBee Brand Ambassador
    I love perfume, especially soft subtle scents. Perfume should be used sparingly and, in fact, some people are allergic to certain scents.

    I have always loved the scent of lavender and citrusy scents, as well.

    Perhaps, beBee should come out with a perfume - Golden Honey!
    Sarah Elkins
    27/06/2017 #10 Sarah Elkins
    That movie, Perfume: The Story of a Murderer, was so creepy, @Juan Imaz! But I couldn't walk away from watching, it was compelling visually, and the story was intense. I struggle with perfume on others, it seems many people use far too much and it's overwhelming to someone with a sensitive nose like mine. Perfume is best used subtly, with just the barest hint of scent. I discovered my favorite while traveling in Provence, France. When I spray it, from 18 inches or so, and walk into the mist, I'm transported back to that amazing trip to Nice, St. Paul du Vence, and Tuscany. Every time I wear it and hug people, they comment on the lovely scent. Perfume can be magical, when used sparingly!
    Javier 🐝 beBee
    26/06/2017 #9 Javier 🐝 beBee
    #8 @Renée 🐝 Cormier yes of course ! Don't doubt there ;)
    Renée  🐝 Cormier
    26/06/2017 #8 Renée 🐝 Cormier
    #4 Is that you way of telling me you smell good? :P
    David B. Grinberg
    26/06/2017 #6 David B. Grinberg
    Thanks, Juan, for such interesting information on such an pungent topic (lol). I always wear cologne when I go out and have used different brands over the decades starting in high school.
    For the past years, my favorite brands have been "Hugo Boss" and "Express Honor for Men." My better half, Nicole, uses "Burberry Brit." In high school and college I recall using "Drakkar Noir" and "Paco Rabban for Men."
    What about you, Juan, what's your cologne of choice? Has it changed over the years or decades?
    Lastly, I would just note there's a fine line between wearing too much cologne/perfume versus too little. It's very important to use the right amount. No one should want to smell like they bathed in cologne/perfume.
    Josean Rueda Cardenas
    26/06/2017 #5 Josean Rueda Cardenas
    DespuΓ©s de leer este libro, nada vuelve a ser olfativamente igual...

    Javier 🐝 beBee
    26/06/2017 #4 Javier 🐝 beBee
    I love Perfume !
    Renée  🐝 Cormier
    26/06/2017 #3 Renée 🐝 Cormier
    I love to wear perfume. I especially enjoy wearing fruity or citrus scents. I really hate spicy scents and heavy florals. A man who wears a nice cologne (or perfume) could make me follow him anywhere. :)
    @Julio Angel 🐝Lopez Lopez
    26/06/2017 #2 @Julio Angel 🐝Lopez Lopez
    @Juan Imaz Great article, you already have me fan, poster fan.
    This is December 15
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    Ever Expanding Multi-billion Dollar Market for Male Cosmetics
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    CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    21/06/2017 #23 CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    #21 Whether these products are tested on animals or not, the premise of cosmetic existence has a cruelty to it. Body image issues, societal prejudice, escalating the cost of living for no other purpose but our own fear of not meeting new social expectations, unnecessary creation of chemicals that don't factor in disposal or harm to environment, so end up as a part of the water cycle. Never mind that injecting chemicals into the social ecosystem ultimately have led to afflictions that are considered unintended consequences of this "social behaviour", like cancer.

    Then there is life turned into image and the kind of society Guy Debord called the Society of the Spectacle. A fixation on viewing something normal like balding and turning into a disorder. The rise of allergies because we have become so manic about cleaning that we over-clean and hurt our own immune system. If this was a Woody Allen comedy I would actually laugh.

    The whole recipe that goes along with this that ultimately perpetuates group-think. Everyone has a right to use this stuff, but why should I lose a job because I refuse to apply chemicals on me or I pay for believing that growing and aging naturally is my way of life. It is great that we can create a business out of lifestyle but we now have a health system creating new lifestyle drug categories and people are having cosmetic surgery at great personal pain - because the pain of being rejected is much worse for them to take. Advertising works because fear works - this is 20th Century thinking writ large by dinosaur thinkers.

    If there was systems thinking involved in this I could rest well assured, but to exist in a world where we don't question these things and not speak up is the world we are actually living in. That is the consequences not of using cosmetics but of the branded and conditioned life and not even recognize that our very lives have becoming product - that we are now the product.
    Franci🐝Eugenia Hoffman, beBee Brand Ambassador
    21/06/2017 #21 Franci🐝Eugenia Hoffman, beBee Brand Ambassador
    #13 There are websites that assist the consumer in selecting cruelty-free cosmetics. http://features.peta.org/cruelty-free-company-search/index.aspx
    Cydney Walton
    21/06/2017 #19 Cydney Walton
    How the business of beauty is expanding...marketing to men
    CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    21/06/2017 #18 CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    #16 @Gerald Hecht I don't think that happens widely in most professions, that is the realm of either the digital elite (it is amazing what stock options can do to the neurons) or we are also taking about here what happens in Justin Bieber entourage territory.

    Of course we at the mundane Terra Firma level of lived reality, one where HR may be the chief arbiter or perhaps only gatekeeper of our economic intent, at that level what is viewed by HR as a Justin Bieber level brand is often really a Pee-Wee Herman in disguise. Who knows, the success we achieve is more often going to find it's way into an employee newsletter.

    BTW good to see RES IPSA LOQUITUR! being quoted in what I call with absolute my usual charm, your Hechtic contributions. "Long live the Hechtics!" (think here the dynamic perspective of the heretic and not a linear representation of the hectic).
    CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    21/06/2017 #17 CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    #15 Debasish according to this BBC Earth article it seems to refute what we may think creatures in nature exercise http://www.bbc.com/earth/story/20150206-are-there-any-homosexual-animals but seeing a primate shaving and pruning their own face, now evidence for that is harder to find.

    It is difficult for me to see an animal engaged in a facial. Now it is true that consciousness gives us a huge edge in life, but how it is that consciousness led to us living a branded existence?

    This firstly demonstrates just how much of the gift of our own consciousness we waste day after day and secondly should lead us to ask what drives us to this kind of behaviour. That behaviour is, for me, an example of our animal self - because tribal behaviour is our animal self - not our deepest human self. That small percentage of our being which is truly human, now that is worth spending considerable time with and actually represents the wisest possible utilization of our human consciousness.

    I also empathize with Gerald that we can be given a brain that has capacity for God like powers but then as a researcher or a scientists with this gift, are then settling for experimenting with compounds, because some man wants his cheeks puffed. After all if the most reasonable paying job in town is spraying male perfume into rats eyes, then that is brand reality right there.
    Gerald Hecht
    21/06/2017 #16 Gerald Hecht
    #13 @CityVP 🐝 Manjit yeah...my new benchmark is to see if anyone is being given "Pink Cadillacs" based on performance --that doesn't happen in science, lol; and Keith Richards version of "manscaping" (it's funny how my autocorrect turns that into "man-aping") hasn't seemed to have backfired: http://www.vogue.com/article/patti-hansen-rock-steady
    Gerald Hecht
    21/06/2017 #14 Gerald Hecht
    #13 @CityVP 🐝 Manjit I take important to remember that there is no actual scientific/biomedical basis (other than human scratch test/desensitization for allergic reactions, etc.) for cosmetics FOR ANY REASON.

    Giving some of this stuff a name like "cosmetology" can (in the mind of folks whose eyes are already covered in dust) can lend the impression that THIS really IS A SCIENCE; Nope...instant red card!

    For both women and men; health/fitness/hygiene is one thing...cosmetics are either 1)a broken crutch for sentients with broken self esteem or 2) a "Halloween Thingie" for people who (for whatever reason) wish to do some entertainment or imitate a mating ritual conducted by (usually males) individual members of non-human (usually wild animal species) and usually under neuroendocrine control because their survival requires specific estrous cycles, as opposed to human menstrual cycles and concomitant options.

    Testing Cosmetics as if they were testing a promising Alzheimer's Therapy is analogous to testing potential doping agents as legitimate exercise physiology.

    In front of many people who don't work in the field and don't know their ass from their mouth πŸ‘„ in these techniques.

    I don't believe this is an IMHO situation either; we all know this.
    CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    21/06/2017 #13 CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    #12 When it comes to physical cruelty what the cosmetics industry have done with testing cosmetic products on caged animals can be considered as a "cost of progress", one which we can turn a total blind eye to, but I cannot turn a blind eye to it, it is not a part of my constitution packaged within me which we like to describe as "humanity".

    To me a caged animal does not necessarily have to be the only example of animal cruelty, but also a human resources mindset. If anything I put a call out to organizations who consider themselves truly 21s Century to call human resources what it should be called, which is "Animal Resources".

    Once we put life on that equal footing - and here less is not more when we are settling for less, we begin to realize to what extent we are a caged animal of human resources. To me the 20th Century human resources industry is a broken home and it is need of intervention and if you want to get a taste of a cruel professional culture, spend some quality time with dog-eat-dog recruiters.

    Just because the human resources industry are the chief purveyors of what should be counted as a redundant mindset, does not mean that we should be willing animals consuming their dog food. When we see things called "employee engagement", we should substitute those words with "lab-rat engagement". If my thinking is the difference between me not getting a job and having this caged mindset - keep your job, no wonder people call HR - "Human Remains" - and in this cage we remain product.
    Gerald Hecht
    21/06/2017 #12 Gerald Hecht
    #9 @Simone I agree that it's important for people to take care of ourselves; I'm increasingly concerned (I must admit) between the deliberate confusion (shareholder driven) between 1) health/hygiene and 2) cosmetics.

    The first assignment I ever had in (what appeared to be a biomedical laboratory)...I currently work on getting at the key denominators underlying neurodegenerative disorders and Neurotoxicological/Neuropharmacological mechanisms underlying compulsive amphetamine and opioid self administration.
    Anyway my first "job in the field looked like that type of environment...I was told to perform Druze Assessments of "Shampoo Candidates" on awake rabbits under mechanical restraint and unable to move.
    Later, my first Neuroscience Animal subjects were "Liberated" by an Animal Rights group who made know distinction between 1) clubbing baby seals for their pelts or dropping 4.3 pH drops in the unprotected corneas of rabbits and 2) trying to discover the key to things like Parkinson's, Alzheimer's, ALS, CNS-specific-Prion-induced-genetic-errors in protein folding, etc.
    They spray painted death threats to monsters such as myself for torturing animals.

    The animals that they condemned to gruesome deaths (for months) hit by cars all over campus, exposure, starvation, dehydration, death by cat, etc.
    One young woman in leather moccasins called me a Nazi and spit in my direction before heading off to the campus food court.

    I don't blame her, and her hair smelled lovely, like a dream
    Simone Luise Hardt
    21/06/2017 #11 Simone Luise Hardt
    #3 lol Joyce :) you can have "cultivated" wrinkles ;) Have a great day/evening today :)
    Regards Simone :)
    Simone Luise Hardt
    21/06/2017 #10 Simone Luise Hardt
    hi Juan :) great article :) and yes, itΒ΄s (still) an expanding ;) market ;) and to me personally, every men should look after his looks ;) itΒ΄s not only the "intrinsic values" that count ;) outer appearance is important too ;) Have a great day/evening today :)
    Regards Simone :)
    Simone Luise Hardt
    21/06/2017 #9 Simone Luise Hardt
    #4 hi Franci :) true, men should also take care of themselves ;) have a great day/evening today :)
    Regards Simone :)
    Gerald Hecht
    21/06/2017 #8 Gerald Hecht
    #7 @CityVP 🐝 Manjit that actually...I'm keeping that one ...when you put that way (especially the "narcotics-narcissism " thingie)...it's not all that upsetting to me ; it's a actually a logical progression that accounts for a wide range of phenomena which are more interconnected...then I was considering...thank you...I was overly worried about something because I was tired and "tunnel visioning!"
    CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    21/06/2017 #7 CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    #6 Look at it another way. Women wanted equality and did not want men treating them like objects. Instead men now become objects so ipso facto, women get equality. That is about the same narco-quality mindset behind personal branding. It is wonderful to know that the term narcotics and narcissism are related twins. Actually I do need to stop thinking for a mo now, because I need to practice my newly acquired cosmetically enhanced smile. Botox anyone?
    Gerald Hecht
    21/06/2017 #6 Gerald Hecht
    #5 @CityVP 🐝 Manjit that's a lot of information about cosmetics; I thought this was about the beautiful game: howxit in Portuguese ? o novo bonito (or something like that)...please don't tell me it was about makeup...my son is a futball fanatic, Messe was his first role model but that's because I still do a faster mile than him --but he's thirteen and that's gonna reverse soon enough... but the HgH was hard enough to explain...cosmetics?!
    OMG NO...please No
    CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    21/06/2017 #5 CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    Being that cosmetic life is what is being sold it should not come as a surprise. If being cosmetic is what people choose, I say good for them. The Roman Empire got highly cosmetic before it finally cratered. Now if I happen to see through this cosmetic existence, it does not help me none. Each kids in our house wants that dream wedding and entire cosmetic wedding planning industry has convinced them that anything short of $60,000 for their big day is not good enough for them. Now by the time all our eight kids get married, my family will have spent 1/2 million dollars to satisfy this highly cosmetic need.

    It is fine giving the kids what they want, but as other kids want to emulate and do the same, the cost over the long term in psychic terms is a steady escalation. Not only does cosmetic existence add to the cost of living, it silently increases the degree of prejudice we have - and in this arms race there are two industries that laugh all the way to the bank, the first is the cosmetic industry, but its cousin is happy as pigs too and that of course is cousin Big Pharma. Instead of moving towards the 21st Century, instead we are moving backwards to the 18th Century, when men were at their cosmetic high-point. So the lipstick and wigs come back - all that means is that it is the past reviving as it once was. The leaders of this particular revolution deserve to called cosmetic.

    Trying to be David Beckham has just one little flaw to it, there is one David Beckham - the rest are just cronies and copycats - and so I say praise the Lord for all those who want to do for the next few years what Disco did for the 70's. This too shall pass.
    Franci🐝Eugenia Hoffman, beBee Brand Ambassador
    21/06/2017 #4 Franci🐝Eugenia Hoffman, beBee Brand Ambassador
    No surprise. Men like to look their best too. Job seeking, competition in the workplace, attracting women or other men have an impact on how men feel about themselves. I think it is great there are cosmetics especially geared toward men.
    Joyce 🐝 Bowen   Brand Ambassador @ beBee
    21/06/2017 #3 Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee
    "...youthful and healthy appearance."

    I'm sort of reveling in old bagism. I earned every one of my wrinkles. Wrinkles are powerful. Not disagreeing--just saying...
    Lance  🐝 Scoular
    20/06/2017 #2 Lance 🐝 Scoular
    πŸ‘₯ed 🐝🐝🐀🐳πŸ”₯🚲
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    CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    26/06/2017 #18 CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    I followed up on this buzz but through the physical intelligence lens that I am apply for my own learning journey here :
    CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    25/06/2017 #16 CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    The physical aspect here is something I am totally with, but the image side, of course not. This idea that people should have "white teeth" is an abomination when at best healthy teeth are off-white not fake white. I care deeply about health but not social judgements - because I am not going to placate or uphold human resource values that belong in the dustbin of the 20th Century.

    Creating a prejudiced view of the human body perpetuates image disorder and creates markets based on bad science. Health should come before image and as the decades progress, an industry dedicated to make us believe how we should look according to a false representation of the human self, is a form of professionalism (as special interest) that should face deeper inspection as an attitude that represents thinking from the past - not a freedom for the future. Health however is freedom.

    This is a subject that is worthy of me writing a separate buzz but also worthy of including in physical intelligence - because the physical (rather than social or psychological) component of having healthy teeth is a worthy message and worth developing further. We should focus on science rather than religious belief that advocates people to be more concerned about image and cosmetic economics than in the basics of evidence based health. Personal branding is a religious movement not a science, where the chief deity is image and persona.

    To add to the cost of living in an age where there is increasing complexity is not something I am going to support but a renaissance society that gets past these dark ages of body image (whiter teeth) and moves us towards holistic health - that is a movement towards enlightenment and the kind of 21st Century life I do support. BTW would anyone advocate whiter skin???
    Virag🐝 G.
    25/06/2017 #14 Virag🐝 G.
    "Worldwide, 60–90% of school children and nearly 100% of adults have dental cavities."
    Sadman Ishrak
    25/06/2017 #13 Sadman Ishrak
    Thanks a lot for sharing this content.

    This is very important and yet most of us ignores this. I have shared this content to raise awareness.

    Please share this content everyone!
    Javier 🐝 beBee
    25/06/2017 #12 Javier 🐝 beBee
    @Juan Imaz @Rafael García Romano @Matt 🐝 Sweetwood @Virag🐝 G. @John White, MBA @Roberto Ferri @Marta Carretero Garcia @Emilio Naveso Gonzalez

    Have a look at this

    Javier 🐝 beBee
    25/06/2017 #11 Javier 🐝 beBee
    #9 @John Karwowski welcome to beBee ! we need a face pic on your profile ! many thanks !
    Cydney Walton
    25/06/2017 #10 Cydney Walton
    Thank you - Excellent information!
    You are your brand, investing your image is invaluable part of your marketing plan.
    John Karwowski
    16/06/2017 #9 John Karwowski
    Such a well thought-out article. I've always understood the importance of good oral hygiene.
    Juan Imaz
    14/06/2017 #8 Juan Imaz
    #6 what a wonderful theory @David B. Grinberg! "In giving we receive"
    Timothy welch
    14/06/2017 #7 Timothy welch
    all true if you have dental insurance.. even with the statistics your provided then why do 100% of people have cavities. somethings are hereditary but otherwise sound practical advice. i say even carry gum atleast to give fresh breath
    David B. Grinberg
    14/06/2017 #6 David B. Grinberg
    Thanks for the helpful and healthful advice, Juan. You are certainly well versed in this subject area. I use a Sonicare electric toothbrush. Are those sold in Spain? http://www.usa.philips.com/c-m-pe/electric-toothbrushes
    Lastly, I never understood why it's accepted for people in the UK to have bad teeth? Do you know why the British don't heed the astute advice you have articulated here? Just wondering. Lastly, let's not forget that old saying that a nice smile (with good teeth) can brighten another person's day. This fits one of my life theories: in giving we receive.
    Looking forward to your next brilliant buzz, Juan.
    Matt 🐝 Sweetwood
    14/06/2017 #5 Matt 🐝 Sweetwood
    Bad teeth, bad smile. Good teeth, good smile. And a good smile is the first step in any good relationship. Buzz on that toothbrush.
    Franci🐝Eugenia Hoffman, beBee Brand Ambassador
    14/06/2017 #4 Franci🐝Eugenia Hoffman, beBee Brand Ambassador
    Smiles are the first impression when we meet one another. Oral hygiene is a priority in our personal and business lives. In the US, dentistry is expensive, even with dental insurance. My dentist advised I get an electric toothbrush, which I've had for 5 or 6 years. I would suggest a well known brand, such as Oral B and be sure to change the heads when they show signs of wear.
    Helena Jansen van Vuuren
    13/06/2017 #3 Anonymous
    In England dentistry = a mortgage - it is cheaper to fly to the continent to get any work done including hotel and airfares and still come home with money.
  14. ProducerJuan Imaz

    Juan Imaz

    The Importance of Flexibility and Empathy in Business
    The Importance of Flexibility and Empathy in BusinessAs we make way for the robot revolution, we increasingly discover that the most important business skills come from decision-making using empathy, flexibility and patience. In today’s society where many hold university degrees and have years of...


    Harvey Lloyd
    05/06/2017 #25 Harvey Lloyd
    I believe that you have discussed the finer points of true leadership qualities. I do believe that empathy and flexibility are a part of the success dynamic. I would want to add to the matrix "motivation". Empathy and flexibility will eventually reveal the motivation for the application of these skills. Nothing is more devastating to learn that what was perceived as empathy or flexibility turns out to be a power play by the individual executing the skill.

    The genuine care of another individual and their success has to be the bases for empathy. Even to the point of self sacrifice. Empathy is something we can use to determine if our journeys align, fully understanding each other's motives can establish a trust to go forward or a trust that it can't work out.

    Having watched many of my younger contemporaries exercise the skill of empathy and flexibility with no/poor/understanding, motives of why, ends in disaster. Discussing in an empathetic way how the team can help a member grow while they help others is the true essence of empathy.
    Lynne Black
    05/06/2017 #24 Lynne Black
    Juan, Excellent article with a lot of good points for anyone in business.
    Michele Williams
    05/06/2017 #23 Michele Williams
    Tweeted. Great insights, Juan!
    Jamil Ahmed
    03/06/2017 #22 Jamil Ahmed
    This is awesome.
    Melissa Hughes
    02/06/2017 #20 Anonymous
    Great piece! Thank you!
    Jordan Sands
    02/06/2017 #19 Jordan Sands
    Brilliant post Fatima.
    Deb🐝 Lange, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    02/06/2017 #18 Deb🐝 Lange, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    Totally agree - it is the social, emotional, group, interpersonal and group skills that make a difference. It is a choice to become more aware and incr see our capabilities in these areas. High tech needs high touch
    🐝 Fatima G. Williams
    02/06/2017 #17 🐝 Fatima G. Williams
    @Juan Imaz And this is why beBee is at the centre of my heart."We listen to what our users have to say about beBee, how we can improve and what changes they want to see in the future.
    Without our users, there would be no product. Our users are our key and priority."
    You give People, passion and performance the value they need. People feel like home here ! Money and status have no value here. #beBee rocks #keepbuzzing
    Vivian Chapman
    02/06/2017 #16 Vivian Chapman
    This could almost have been called: "Where LinkedIn Went Wrong"!!
    Lada 🏑 Prkic
    02/06/2017 #15 Lada 🏑 Prkic
    "Without our users, there would be no product. Our users are our key and priority. The evolution of beBee grows and adapts with its users." Such approach is what keeps us, users, firmly here. Thank you, @Juan Imaz View more
    "Without our users, there would be no product. Our users are our key and priority. The evolution of beBee grows and adapts with its users." Such approach is what keeps us, users, firmly here. Thank you, @Juan Imaz. Close
    Franci🐝Eugenia Hoffman, beBee Brand Ambassador
    02/06/2017 #14 Franci🐝Eugenia Hoffman, beBee Brand Ambassador
    @Juan Imaz, wisdom and transparency, a winning combo which you and @Javier 🐝 beBee exude. I agree with @David B. Grinberg, the dynamic duo!
    Praveen Raj Gullepalli
    02/06/2017 #12 Praveen Raj Gullepalli
    Very true Juanbee! In simple terms it is mostly as basic as putting yourself in your customer's shoes. Openness, being connected and being receptive are key to any evolving brand.
    David B. Grinberg
    02/06/2017 #11 David B. Grinberg
    Thanks so much, Juan, for sharing such valuable information for leadership development. You and @Javier 🐝 beBee exemplify the critically important qualities pointed out if one aspires to success in business -- and especially within the startup/tech community. This is brilliant advice from someone who speaks from first-hand experience. It's too bad there are not more executive leaders in the social media space like you guys. The dynamic duo! Again, thank you for sharing your words of wisdom, from which we can also learn and prosper.
    Lance  🐝 Scoular
    02/06/2017 #10 Lance 🐝 Scoular
    πŸ‘₯ed 🐝🐝🐀🐳πŸ”₯🚲
    Lance  🐝 Scoular
    02/06/2017 #9 Lance 🐝 Scoular
    # 8
    Part 2/2

    I am a beta tester for the duplicate message Snapchat app, and I guess all beBee users are beta testers, yet the level of engagement from @Javier 🐝 beBee @Juan Imazju and their team has been amazing.

    This is not hype.
    It is fact.

    I have had a lot of issues with Live Buzz. However, any feedback submitted received almost immediate response.
    Particularly @Federico 🐝 Álvarez San Martín

    I therefore felt encouraged to do more Lice Buzz testing to assist with improving the product and look forward a better product in the iminent beBee sostware update.

    Flexbility, pivoting and empathy displayed by all concerned.

    Lance  🐝 Scoular
    02/06/2017 #8 Lance 🐝 Scoular
    Part 1/2

    Having invested time and expertise, more so than money, in a number of start-ups as well as a few mature small to medium enterprises (SMEs) over the last few years, I have experienced the values and concepts discussed here.

    It is almost a year since @David B. Grinberg , recommended I give beBee a try.

    Having spent a few months reseaching and then jumping in and giving Snapchat a full on test drive, I was a tad dubious, but out of respect for David I thought I would dip my toe in the water.

    I was pleasantly surprised.
    cont 2/2
    David 🐝 Martín Alonso
    02/06/2017 #6 David 🐝 Martín Alonso
    "In this fast paced society and competitive marketplace, leadership skills such as flexibility and empathy are the skills required to make the best decisions and to take advantage of opportunity. Great leaders have the ability to use the traits in communicating in an advantageous way to their employees, team, partners and users"

    Many thanks for this master class, just needed to read something like this @Juan Imaz
    @Julio Angel 🐝Lopez Lopez
    02/06/2017 #5 @Julio Angel 🐝Lopez Lopez
    What beBee gives me, is much more than I would have thought. There is no choice but to offer. It has long been the give system, just help anothers.
  15. ProducerLyon Brave

    Lyon Brave

    A Mindful Memeo
    A Mindful MemeoI keep my mouth shut a lot. To be honest sometimes I want to punch people for the things they say and do and I don't because I control myself, I don't get into my feelings and sometimes expressing your feelings and opinions is pretty much the same...
  16. ProducerJuan Imaz

    Juan Imaz

    6 Benefits of Flexible Working Hours for Start-Ups
    6 Benefits of Flexible Working Hours for Start-UpsEntrepreneurs are faced with the difficult decision of having a fixed or flexible work schedule for their employees. The digital age has brought with it the option to work from anywhere. Remote working and flexible hours are tomorrow’s norm....


    Robert Cormack
    27/05/2017 #13 Robert Cormack
    Companies that reject flex-hours are a bit of an anachronism, much like publishers still demanding manuscripts be sent by hard copy (with self-addressed envelopes). As a freelancer for 25 years, I only dealt with one client (agency) requiring me be on site every day (the president didn't trust anyone). Trust is really the issue here. If you're insisting that everyone be on-site, working traditional hours, etc., you actually lose something in the process. Good thinkers are working around the clock. They construct ideas, notions, strategies even in the shower. Imagine going from this environment to being forced into an office (and a cubicle) each day. The noise is deafening and so much time is wasted with chatter and silly "requirements." If Gates is serious (Microsoft still requires staff to be on site), he should show by example how effective letting people work in their own environments (on their own hours) can be. My best working time is 4:00 am. Between then and 9 o'clock, I accomplish more than a week in an agency. Thanks for the post @Juan Imaz. Very interesting.
    David B. Grinberg
    26/05/2017 #12 David B. Grinberg
    Juan, I also want to add per point #6 that studies and anecdotal evidence show that more Millennials view work autonomy as a non-negotiable job criteria. Moreover, Millennial workers are in high demand and will soon comprise the majority of the global workforce compared to other age groups, especially as Baby Boomers and GenXers increasingly retire. I also assume that Gen Z -- the younger cohort of Millennials -- will also demand flexible work options as a prerequisite for considering any job offer. Although most members of Gen Z are still in high school, the oldest members of this demographic are starting to graduate college and embark on their first professional jobs. Therefore, flex work is a major incentive to them as well.
    Thus, it's important for employers to recognize why flex work makes good business sense from the standpoint of recruiting, hiring and retaining the best available talent, particularly among a new generation of young people. Employers who ignore flex work options do so at their peril, as talented applicants will be hired by the competition. On the employee side, it's critically important to remember that with increased work autonomy comes increased accountability and trust by management.
    Thanks again, Juan, for a terrific and timely read. FYI - here's another buzz I wrote about an emerging flex work management model: Results-Only Work Environments (ROWE) https://www.bebee.com/producer/@dbgrinberg/new-work-paradigm-for-millennials-gen-z-is-results-only
    David B. Grinberg
    26/05/2017 #11 David B. Grinberg
    Kudos, Juan, on another brilliant buzz full of important insights and astute advice. I've been a long-time proponent of work flexibility because, put simply, it just makes good business sense in today's fast-evolving mobile, digital and virtual high-tech workplace.
    Thus, I hope employers take note of the business benefits you point out of allowing flexible work options for employees -- which, as you note above, increases engagement, productivity, morale, job satisfaction, and company loyalty (among other things).
    FYI, here's my buzz from June 2016 on the Top 10 reasons why telework makes good business sense https://www.bebee.com/producer/@dbgrinberg/top-10-reasons-why-telework-makes-good-business-sense-in-the-digital-age
    John White, MBA
    26/05/2017 #10 John White, MBA
    364 tweets scheduled. :)
    Matt 🐝 Sweetwood
    26/05/2017 #9 Matt 🐝 Sweetwood
    Quite frankly this is at the heart of why most people, including myself, would chose to work for a start-up. After having run a company that operated for 12 hours a day, 7 days a week, I wanted a job that afforded me the time-space to be creative in way that was better for me. A traditional CEO role at a traditional company would simply have me in the same grind I left when I sold my business. beBee offices are in a Wework in New York which is filed with start ups. The flexibility of work hours can be seen on the faces of people walking around there. They are happy, they socialize more and just seem way more creative. This is a great post, sharing... @John White, MBA @Virag🐝 G.
    Liesbeth Leysen, MSc. Brand Ambassador beBee, Inc.
    26/05/2017 #7 Liesbeth Leysen, MSc. Brand Ambassador beBee, Inc.
    thank you, start-ups will be grateful for this post!
    Donald 🐝 Grandy
    26/05/2017 #5 Donald 🐝 Grandy
    Thanks @Juan Imaz for this article. Start up companies that implement these steps will be able to read and adapt to changes quicker than those sticking steadfastly to their old failing structure.
    CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    26/05/2017 #4 CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    I am glad that this buzz leads with the word "Workers' and not "Employees". Workers should denote those people who do the work. That is not necessarily true with the word "employees" when it means being employed under someone else's dime. Employees are pampered in large organizations but workers still do the work.

    The next key word is agile. Agile works when the workers an organization hires are really good, they know how to do the job and the organization has headhunted the best of the best - so why then would an organization stand in their way and create rules that impeded and get in the way of their job. If you hire the best, let them work and here flexible hours are intelligent hours. It is a win-win - a worker that wants to work and wants to flourish using abilities and gaining new abilities.

    The reason organizations with bloated HR need to create policies is because not all organizations can command the best minds, so an organization hires B-Players or what Steve Jobs called BOZO LEADERSHIP and the whole organization is then either dumbed down or policy driven because the policy is to protect the organization from bad workers. This is when comedies like Office Place find their material for "TPS Reports" and having these "Lumbergs" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fy3rjQGc6lA In this case flexible work is a crazy idea - to give people who are experts at playing the game, the opportunity to game flexible time - not good.

    Bottom dollar, hire really good people, get out of the way unless they ask for development and then work on a win-win basis, but hire a good person and throw them into an "employee culture" and expect the good person to be the one who is burned. So if your organization needs to downsize, do not call me - I have become very tired watching over decades, this kind of BS. Flexible work is not BS but it needs to stay clear of BS in order to create a win-win scenario.
    Laurent Boscherini
    26/05/2017 #3 Anonymous
    Thank you @Juan Imaz for sharing your excellent approach to enlight the flexibilty's prism. I like very much the idea like compensating differentials to steer the work efficiency needs, targeted. That can be an entire package of well-being in corporate life, to reduce the paradox of the risk intermingling between work and family life, if strict boundaries can be set and shared both sides.
    @Julio Angel 🐝Lopez Lopez
    26/05/2017 #2 @Julio Angel 🐝Lopez Lopez
    Flexibility is certainly one of the rising values, Thanks @Juan Imaz
  17. ProducerRoger Hilleboe

    Roger Hilleboe

    A SenseSational Sight
    A SenseSational SightThis drawing questions the premise that possessing eyes are required to see.Although Ape Man here is eyeless he is never-the-less is looking left and reacting to what he sees.Conversely those of us with eyes frequently fail to see frequently fail to...
  18. ProducerRoger Hilleboe

    Roger Hilleboe

    Love and Hate
    Love and HateThis is a painting about symbolic conflict.It uses two symbols: the Swastika, an ancient religious symbol co-opted by the Nazi Party, and the Heart, a religious ideograph that dates back to the 13th Century.Adding faces to these ancient symbols...
  19. Lyon Brave

    Lyon Brave

    Well I wanted to upload a video where kids say hi to. Bebee and that's not an option unless you upload it to another social media site first . Lyon Brave's advice to Bebee come in get independent of instagram and Facebook Lyon Brave


    Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    26/04/2017 #2 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    @Lyon Brave Dean read my mind or vice versa. I agree, try live video... I know you'd have fun with it and produce a great one!
    Dean Owen
    26/04/2017 #1 Dean Owen
    Hey Lyon, great chance to use the Live Buzz feature!
  20. Deb 🐝 Helfrich
    This is a post worth visiting if you've ever tried to quickly fact check a cognitive bias. I like this guy's style - a lot - and I think his post typifies the gold mines we can stumble across on the internet every day. And, yes, I invited him to beBee!
    Deb 🐝 Helfrich
    Cognitive bias cheat sheet, simplified
    www.linkedin.com Four months ago I attempted to synthesize Wikipedia’s crazy list of cognitive biases, and after banging my head against the wall for weeks, came...


    Devesh 🐝 Bhatt
    25/04/2017 #2 Devesh 🐝 Bhatt
    Cognitive bias is our point of reference to surpass it.

    It is only bad when when we presume the starting point as the finish line

    This is an amazing share. A reminder that every step is a starting point.
    Joanne Gardocki
    25/04/2017 #1 Joanne Gardocki
    Wow, very powerful tool. Wonderful news it is being expanded into a book.
  21. ProducerSara Jacobovici

    Sara Jacobovici

    A Stand Alone Comment
    A Stand Alone CommentI am sure you can relate to my experiences of being drawn into dynamic posts and discussions. It is great to be able to share these posts but often just "liking" a comment doesn't feel enough. A few times in the past I shared comments off the...


    Harvey Lloyd
    24/04/2017 #9 Harvey Lloyd
    #6 Thank you @Ian Weinberg
    Joyce 🐝 Bowen   Brand Ambassador @ beBee
    23/04/2017 #8 Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee
    mmmmm Ian and Ali. Two of my favorite mind benders. Great post!!
    Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    23/04/2017 #7 Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    #5 #6 Dears @Deb 🐝 Helfrich and @Ian Weinberg- I am privileged to be an integral part of my connections and I take this opportunity to thank you and @Sara Jacobovici for giving life a real meaning.
    Ian Weinberg
    23/04/2017 #6 Ian Weinberg
    Wow, I didn't even see this earlier on @Sara Jacobovici Really humbled by this. There is some real magic developing here. There is an uplifting of mind and soul with the likes of you, @Deb 🐝 Helfrich @Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee @Harvey Lloyd and others. I feel truly privileged to be able to share this sacred space with you all.
    Deb 🐝 Helfrich
    23/04/2017 #5 Deb 🐝 Helfrich
    Absolutely a comment by @Ian Weinberg that deserves a stand-alone treatment! Very well-selected, Sara.

    As to the content of the comment, this line provides a template for how we should be evaluating most of what we do. Our time invested is our single most preciously commodity. Why do we chose to do things (not mandated by participating in a society) that do not bring this sort of flow into our lives?

    " It is purely a personal, creative space from which personal gratification sustains our vitality and ongoing engagement."

    Even things like preparing a meal or cleaning can be imbibed with this sort of personal gratification if we monitor our perspective. It is really our perspective on any given task which determines whether it sustains or increases our vitality. And if we don't chose to habituate this beneficial perspective, the default will become that we allow most situations to drain us.

    I am still working my way through the discussions on this very impactful buzz by @Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee - I find this occupation to be the definition of work that sustains my vitality.

    I am grateful for all the human energy that has made beBee an emergent zone of freedom and authenticity that enhances community!
    Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    23/04/2017 #4 Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    Thank you so much @Ian Weinberg for your uplifting of my soul. It is great contributions from great minds that give any buzz I write a value. I truly mean it. As I reviewed all the comments this morning on my buzz I paused a lot on quite lovely comments and surely one of them the Quote in this buzz by @Sara Jacobovici. I wonder if we weren't exchanging deep comments if we would write such valuable comments. In my case, I dare say loudly that most of my buzzes resulted from these discussions. I learn from them. I enjoy their depth and challenge. I am not fearful to lose a friend because of disagreement of opinion. We created a healthy environment for all of us to thrive. I am honored to be connected with all of you, Ian.
    Ian Weinberg
    23/04/2017 #3 Ian Weinberg
    #1 @Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee Equal to the the nature of the content of dialogue is the milieu that supports and promotes that dialogue and the collective evolution that follows. In this regard you have contributed to both. You are a great value contributor to us all and to the extended environment. I wish to acknowledge this and salute you.
    Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    23/04/2017 #2 Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    You now- I meant you know and i am truly sorry for the typo
    Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    23/04/2017 #1 Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    You are very daring @Sara Jacobovici. You selected a great comment by @Ian Weinberg. You now that there are also other valuable comments on my mentioned buzz. I am elevated because reading the comments on the buzz reflect how commenters enriched each other and brought the best of their minds. I am truly honored to be mentioned in your buzz and more honored to have so many great minds participating in the discussions. These discussions prove the point the active engagements shall bring the best of us. Authenticity without being excessively authentic is the way ahead in my humble view.
  22. ProducerIan Weinberg

    Ian Weinberg

    The problem with Gus
    The problem with GusThis is the story of Gus. Gus like all of us was once a dependent infant. He required feeds, security and love. Unfortunately there were times when Gus’s needs weren’t promptly met. With the dropping of his blood sugar levels and the delay in...


    Sara Jacobovici
    24/04/2017 #45 Sara Jacobovici
    #41 Interesting point @debasish majumder. It made me think that from a biological perspective, humans share the same forward developmental progression as other species. Yet, you inspired me to think that humans posses another paradox, "backward progression".
    Milos Djukic
    23/04/2017 #44 Anonymous
    #43 You're welcome @Ian Weinberg. I like this story, it is very instructive... Thanks.
    Ian Weinberg
    23/04/2017 #43 Ian Weinberg
    Thanks for sharing @Milos Djukic Its been a busy day today dealing with Gus ...
    Ian Weinberg
    23/04/2017 #42 Ian Weinberg
    #41 And unfortunately we don't seem to be able tocollectively reason, expand knowledge and increase awareness so that we can positively evolve as a species.
    Ian Weinberg
    23/04/2017 #39 Ian Weinberg
    #38 Very interesting. Thanks for sharing @Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee
    Joyce 🐝 Bowen   Brand Ambassador @ beBee
    23/04/2017 #38 Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee
    Dr. Spock was said to have expressed that he created a generation of monsters. I read him religiously before and after the birth of my first. Did he coin the term partial reinforcement? I deliberately waited to fulfill the needs of my first. My second was born with hyaline membrane disease with a subsequent collapsed lung and I sprung into action each time he cried. What a difference between my two guys that exists even today.
    Gerald Hecht
    30/03/2017 #37 Gerald Hecht
    #33 yea...you know @Brian McKenzie even society's "machinations"... like "the legal system" ...just a way for society to slap it self on the back and tell itself: "we done good"...and the individuals who fall for it until its too late...fortunately, I was able to bear witness to the machine --as it was given the assignment of providing a remedy for its own affirmative action based rationale for violating the due process rights of myself (in the role of the individual)... I got to see its uselessness from the "best front row seats in the house".
    Now, finally, I can truly say..."I know some stuff"!
    Ian Weinberg
    16/03/2017 #36 Ian Weinberg
    @Ken Boddie Thanks for that. Great belly-laugh over here in Darkest Africa. You nailed it mate!
    Ken Boddie
    16/03/2017 #35 Ken Boddie
    Love the psycho-physiological theme, Ian, and the sound advice. A seriously entertaining read with a meaningful moral. So ..... just to tick all the boxes, we should stop spitting the dummy, avoid the one finger rule, think outside the square, and stop acting like a bunch of trolls?. Easy peasy! Got it!
    Now pardon me for asking, but what's in it for me?
    Sorry, mate, just applying some tensile force to your lower extremity. 🀣
    Devesh 🐝 Bhatt
    16/03/2017 #34 Devesh 🐝 Bhatt
    We all have the Gus in us. But the Gus in me needs most attention :)

    Thanks a lot. This opens another perspective to deep dive.
    Brian McKenzie
    16/03/2017 #33 Brian McKenzie
    #27 @Gerald Hecht I have no inclination nor motivation to save 'society' - I am quite content to throw gas on the embers to help its destruction any way I can. $ociety is the enemy of the individual - it nearly always has been. How many iterations of "If you dont follow our (often arbitrary & capricious) imposed rules you will be fined, tortured, cast out, imprisoned, excommunicated or executed" do you need to show this as true?
    Liesbeth Leysen, MSc. Brand Ambassador beBee, Inc.
    15/03/2017 #31 Liesbeth Leysen, MSc. Brand Ambassador beBee, Inc.
    Love the way you brought it @Ian Weinberg, a good reminder!
    Sara Jacobovici
    15/03/2017 #30 Sara Jacobovici
    Thanks for the tag @Ian Weinberg. You have Gus down pact and I am encouraged to see that there is a Charlie and all the other variables because that's what keeps things so interesting. When we work backwards, we can see the route a Gus has taken. But it's the variables, those who had the same outset but took different turns, who help us marvel at what it means to be human. I would be worried if I heard you say that you have nailed it after x number of years. No matter how predictable we are, there is always someone who can still surprise us.
    Ian Weinberg
    15/03/2017 #29 Ian Weinberg
    #25 Thanks @Emilia M. Ludovino You've nailed it!
    Ian Weinberg
    15/03/2017 #28 Ian Weinberg
    #23 Why not @Gerald. BTW, in my actual program the Gus's are referred to as Bravo's and those that never experienced any meaningful response to their needs emerged as 'Charlies' - low self-esteem, hopeless-helpless with raging levels of pro-inflammatory cytokines. All the variables that you mention are indeed relevant - but where to start? I've been profiling now for 25 years and still haven't nailed it. I'm aiming for some posthumous recognition ...
    Gerald Hecht
    15/03/2017 #27 Gerald Hecht
    Wait...what if @Brian McKenzie cottoned on to the critical variable straight away...imagination! That would be cool! Some people better than others at keeping themselves amused under conditions of deprivation...from the "outside", it would look like "a high tolerance for deprivation" and a desire to put society's needs ahead of one's own: "Self-sacrifice"!

    Society benefiting from the behavior of an individual who is clueless to the fact that they are putting the needs of society ahead of their own.

    That would be something...
    Harvey Lloyd
    15/03/2017 #26 Harvey Lloyd
    #15 I agree with the devoid of feeling area but even intellectually you walk away wondering what happened. I went for the therapy but decided against it as I had decorated and installed a tv. So i was fairly comfortable. once you become inverted the following applies. If you are not the lead dog the view never changes.
    Harvey Lloyd
    15/03/2017 #24 Harvey Lloyd
    #21 As long as you don't look behind the curtain.
    Gerald Hecht
    15/03/2017 #23 Gerald Hecht
    Brilliant Ian! Of course, (like all of your stuff) it is spawing questions at an alarming rate --some, just silly, and some serious and possibly testable;

    a silly one would be that usually that expression about a male counterpoint to "Debbie Downer" is often called a "Gloomy Gus"...but this Gus can't afford that action (until his premature death).

    A testable one might be something like: Given that we start out in with the same limited repertoire as Gus...why are some of us more "Guslike" than others?
    We can only guess and test...one possible answer is an "uncomfortable" one; namely that having relatively "inattentive" or "emotionally absent" caregivers could , in the long run be "good for society" (Gus' Amygdala is conditioned from the get go to "wait it out".

    Alternatively, there could be individual differences in how we develop "deal with it" tactics.

    Also Alternatively, there may be innate (as in genetic) differences in reward sensitivity...like a disease model of addiction.

    It could be a number of other things as well.

    We should start work right away, I'll send you my a'lol
    Brian McKenzie
    15/03/2017 #22 Brian McKenzie
    #17 @Gerald Hecht There's too much work in being a 'King' - plus I really like my anonymity; but if there is a paid Ambassador position into #Kyrzbekistan - write me in for that.
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    Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    30/05/2017 #30 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    #29 Personally, they've never worked for me. Some people say Kava works. Studies have been done which state Kava doesn't. I never benefited from it. Maybe others would know? They do sell teas specifically for stress, a company named Yogi sells one. You can get it in the grocery store. It wouldn't hurt to try, maybe it would work for you. B vitamins are supposed to be really good for anxiety. You have to take B Complex with B12. I buy both and get sublingual drops. They sell sublingual B12 too. It takes time for a vitamin regime to begin to work if it's going to but that is well worth trying.
    Lyon Brave
    29/05/2017 #29 Lyon Brave
    Do you know any good herbal pills or teas that help with anxiety
    Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    26/04/2017 #28 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    #27 Thank you @🐝 Fatima G. Williams, you are so sweet! Yes, it will be a great trip :)) Thanks for sharing too!!
    🐝 Fatima G. Williams
    26/04/2017 #27 🐝 Fatima G. Williams
    I kept sharing this cause I know the heart and mind that wrote it and to show you I am there to support you in any way. I learnt alot about anxiety and how it can affect us through your stories. I would like to say "You Got this Lisa and your going to have a fantastic trip" :)
    Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    25/04/2017 #25 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    oops I meant to add thanks for the share @🐝 Fatima G. Williams :))
    Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    25/04/2017 #24 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    #23 Hi @debasish majumder thank you very much! I felt my mind was a bit scattered when I wrote this but that's what anxiety does to a person. I try to keep it very real because so many suffer. Appreciate that you took the time to read! Thanks for the share!
    Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    21/04/2017 #22 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    #21 Thanks @Renée 🐝 Cormier, hugs back and always, wishing you the best too. Your awesome!
    Renée  🐝 Cormier
    20/04/2017 #21 Renée 🐝 Cormier
    #19 I wish you all the best @Lisa 🐝 Gallagher. I know it's a struggle for you. Big hug.
    Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    20/04/2017 #20 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    #16 Thanks @Jerry Fletcher, that's the key, understanding myself, understanding how my brain is different and trying hard to reprogram years of not 'understanding' which led to where I am now. Thanks for reading and wish you all the best too :)
    Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    20/04/2017 #19 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    #15 Hi @Renée 🐝 Cormier, sadly with GAD (Generalized Anxiety Disorder) thoughts do control you in a strange way. That's one of the reasons I'm in therapy working on reprogramming my brain per se. Intrusive thoughts are unwanted thoughts that play over and over like a broken record in your mind no matter what thoughts you try to replace them with, they return instantly. I never realized how much my thoughts controlled me until I sought help. That is *one* of my issues and I actually thought for a very long time that I was weak and should be able to control my thoughts- I worked hard daily w/out success and just became more worn down physically, When people are inflicted with intrusive thoughts they beat themselves up more than anyone. Logically, a person will keep saying, "This is BS, I need to stop thinking these thoughts, re-direct... think about all the positive things going on, think of wonderful memories," eg, it's only a temporary (very temporary) reprieve. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a negative Nancy no matter how it may appear when I write. I agree, we can choose our thoughts but we aren't always in control. I appreciate you taking the time to read this. :)
    Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    20/04/2017 #18 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    #13 Thanks for reading @Pascal Derrien :)
    Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    20/04/2017 #17 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    #14 Maybe I will silently use those two words while doing my deep breathing lol.
    Jerry Fletcher
    20/04/2017 #16 Jerry Fletcher
    Lisa, I applaud your courage and your forthright way of helping us understand how things are for you. I wish you enjoyment on this short part of the adventure we call life that though defined as separate from "regular life" truly is not..
    Renée  🐝 Cormier
    20/04/2017 #15 Renée 🐝 Cormier
    #14 I agree. Changing the talk in your head may be difficult for some, but your thoughts are the only thing you can actually control. They do not control you. You create them, so choose them wisely.
    Robert Cormack
    20/04/2017 #14 Robert Cormack
    You'll excuse my language, @Lisa 🐝 Gallagher, but one of the most therapeutic things you can do is tell your brain to "f**k off." I know it sounds crazy but our rambling minds can sometimes create panic that goes way beyond reality. Every time you feel anxious, just use those two little words. Say them to yourself or say them out loud. And just keep saying it until your brain calms down.
    Pascal Derrien
    20/04/2017 #13 Pascal Derrien
    I have no smart advice for you :-) You know what to do :-) Honest article as usual :-)
    Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    20/04/2017 #12 Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    #11 You aren't alone or crazy. I wish we all had your bravery and social commitment.
    Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    20/04/2017 #11 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    #10 I used to have as part of my bio on Twitter that my mind travels faster than the speed of light. You may be on to something @Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee. And, my hope is by sharing such personal stories, others will find they arent alone or crazy.
    Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    20/04/2017 #10 Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    I just wonder if your attention is spread over many issues if this would lead to increased anxiety @Lisa 🐝 Gallagher! You seem to enjoy trying variety of things and this may ead to some anxiety. I wonder if I am right. Great buzz because you share your own experiences and therefore the reader trusts you. Sharing
    Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    20/04/2017 #9 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    #8 My son is doing a race at Pikes Peak this summer! Every year my son, my brother, and brother in law do Mt. Evans bike race, it's become a yearly tradition for them. Pikes Peak I've yet to see. I think my son wanted to drive me up there the last time but I said no... Isn't that where you can see the Continental Divide from?
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