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Relationship couching

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This hive is dedicated to individuals who all share skills and affinity for human social relationship cultivation. This is the place to come for advice or training if you want to improve your professional or personal social skills. Highly recommended for anyone who works in social and interactive environments. Even if you are a master, you can always learn something new, and it is always great to share your knowledge with those of us who are less skilled.
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  1. Preston 🐝 Vander Ven
    Here is a teaching that speaks directly to what beBee is build upon.

    When you first start building a business online, you’re told to focus on so many things…

    Conversions … List building… Traffic… Content … “Value”... whatever THAT is… But if you REALLY look at what each one is all about?

    Each one comes down to this single 12 letter word. RELATIONSHIP

    That's what today’s video is all about:
    Preston 🐝 Vander Ven
    The 12 Letter Word That Unites us All - Relationship
    www.empowernetwork.com The 12 Letter Word That Unites us All -...
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  2. ProducerAli Anani

    Ali Anani

    12/02/2017
    Family Dynamics in Action
    Family Dynamics in ActionThis buzz is about real life story of what started as a very promising family till… I am telling the story as it happened, but changed names so as not to hurt anybody. Lisa and David were classmates right from elementary school to attending...
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    rene pontaza
    21/02/2017 #72 rene pontaza
    You are a wonderful writer, thank you
    Ali Anani
    17/02/2017 #71 Ali Anani
    #70 History has shown us that life oscillates between extremes sometimes. If it is on the positive side today it could swing to the other side tomorrow. Yes, and may be this topic would be your next buzz. It is worthy dear @Donna-Luisa Eversley
    Donna-Luisa Eversley
    17/02/2017 #70 Donna-Luisa Eversley
    Hahaha yes @Ali Anani, though many may consider it pessimistic to look at the negative what ifs up front, I think 'the bubble' of positivity needs to always have a dose of reality close by. I recall thinking many years ago, I had a business idea that could not fail... when it did I was crushed. So yes, even in circumstances which seem highly positive we need to use a bit of caution. Love though makes us all fools, so yes we will always need to face reality when it comes.#68
    Ali Anani
    17/02/2017 #69 Ali Anani
    #67 "Having some clear discussions upfront may create breaking points, but better than spending years with anger being built. Just my opinion". This is my wisdom of the day dear @Donna-Luisa Eversley
    Ali Anani
    17/02/2017 #68 Ali Anani
    #66 This is a beautiful idea dear @Donna-Luisa Eversley. "While it is always preferential to seek the better, one must prepare for 'worse', because it will come"- this is an eloquent way to look into risk management. Even in business- when a business is thriving it should also consider the possibility of cold water poured on them.
    Donna-Luisa Eversley
    17/02/2017 #67 Donna-Luisa Eversley
    @Ali Anani... to continue... It will be hard for any relationship to work with a spouse if there is not mutual trust and support. We can't get away from the intrinsic make up of men and women and the way most men may feel emasculated if their wives earn more, or for a woman if a husband is the one who is more adept at handling the home and keeping it in order. That is a controversial statement I've just made, but it is from years of observations and discussions. Though we progress as people with all similar abilities and capabilities, relationships are even more challenging if they are to be enduring and long-lasting. Having some clear discussions upfront may create breaking points, but better than spending years with anger being built. Just my opinion.
    Donna-Luisa Eversley
    17/02/2017 #66 Donna-Luisa Eversley
    @Ali Anani Relationships change and people change. In the case presented, sometimes you get the flip side of the marriage promise - for better or worse! While it is always preferential to seek the better, one must prepare for 'worse', because it will come. I was giving advice to a friend in a relationship and asked if she was prepared to stick it out if 'worse came around' in the relationship, and she said no. Thus, maybe when getting into a permanent relationship we should discuss our 'worse' with potential mates, and get the cold water poured on us. #46
    Javier 🐝 beBee
    13/02/2017 #65 Javier 🐝 beBee
    Sometimes, leaving a sick person is far better than sticking with him. Fully agreed.
    Ali Anani
    13/02/2017 #64 Ali Anani
    #63 I am waiting for the response of @Javier 🐝 beBee. Estimations range between 60%-80% of our bodies is water. What we throw in rivers we tend to throw in our bodies. This is a new idea emerging. For somebody to throw a pepsi can in water it is he who drank the bubbles and contaminated the water of his body. Careless to the environment is also careless for his own body.
    CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    13/02/2017 #63 CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    #61 Better than that - we are made of water. We are not dry of humanity and in that sea we can drown. That is why home is no different to a single polyp of coral. Given the opportunity to grow tiny polyps can become great barrier reefs. As we become smarter about our ecology we will get smarter about our home. The daily practice of living is what is dynamic - that is the value of the link to This is Water - this is where David Foster Wallace was most brilliant, but David Foster Wallace also commit suicide, how does @Javier 🐝 beBee reconcile his particular theory of happiness with someone like David Foster Wallace?
    Ali Anani
    13/02/2017 #61 Ali Anani
    #60 🤦🤷 WOW! So, in big families with so many kids the possibilities become staggering. This is one reason when we have too many interactions on a buzz the possibilities become mind-bewildering. However; my dear friend @CityVP 🐝 Manjit View more
    #60 🤦🤷 WOW! So, in big families with so many kids the possibilities become staggering. This is one reason when we have too many interactions on a buzz the possibilities become mind-bewildering. However; my dear friend @CityVP 🐝 Manjit few great possibilities shall emerge out of large possibilities. One example is water solutions and because of you I am working on it. Close
    CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    13/02/2017 #60 CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    The math of possible relationships is staggering as the formula pointed out in this link
    http://sfhelp.org/fam/pop/formula.htm
    Ali Anani
    13/02/2017 #58 Ali Anani
    #56 There is a big difference in adding sugar to water than adding fat to same water. Sugar dissolves in water and we have a homogeneous solution. Fats don't dissolve and always float on the surface of water. It is up t us what to add to the waters of marriage. This thinking is due to your superb comment @Harvey Lloyd. You wrote "We can't describe the points of each in terms of equal but rather how one fills the others weaknesses and compliments their strengths". This is our choice: sweetening strengths and reducing weaknesses or add immiscible 'thoughts and actions" and sour the relationship.
    As you wrote "The need for solidarity of family commitment has never been greater". Unfortunately, the waters are becoming salty and we make water saltier. The salting out effect takes place and wife and husband separate like oil and water do.
    I greatly appreciate your comment, Harvey. It is worthy of pondering on for long times.
    Ali Anani
    13/02/2017 #57 Ali Anani
    #55 You fed my heart dear @CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    Harvey Lloyd
    13/02/2017 #56 Harvey Lloyd
    A very divisive subject matter. It is difficult to discuss this topic without discussing the values that sustain a marriage. A vowed relationship is different than just being friends. IMHO marriage is not a vow of equals but rather of complimentary. We cant describe the points of each in terms of equal but rather how one fills the others weaknesses and compliments their strengths.

    In your story i wonder what the answer would have been, if early in the relationship, the wife had been asked, Would you trade your husband for a million dollars?

    Families today struggle to meet relationship requirements as they serve to many masters. Work, finance and social all pull at the family. The need for solidarity of family commitment has never been greater. Husbands cant be husbands without a wife, nor can a wife be a wife without a husband. Sounds simple but when we make so many promises outside the marriage then what is left for the family?

    Long before the outcomes you described, each party made a decision they couldn't go with the other, emotionally. They became competitive. Each responded differently to this choice, mentally. Each chose their corner and began the journey of competitive separation. The real outcome is neither chose the family.

    When i fear my boss/career more than my wife/family, then separation has started.
    CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    13/02/2017 #55 CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    #54 That indeed is the problem of underwhelm in organizations that have the potential to be even greater, pure water CEO's get frozen out, sugar water CEO's do not. Then again "This is Water" : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PhhC_N6Bm_s View more
    #54 That indeed is the problem of underwhelm in organizations that have the potential to be even greater, pure water CEO's get frozen out, sugar water CEO's do not. Then again "This is Water" : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PhhC_N6Bm_s

    There is a big difference between a tree of knowledge and a tree of life. The monkeys on the tree of knowledge can eat what they want, the rare humans who find the Tree of Life is the Tree worth finding and that tree feeds our heart not our mental stomach. Close
    Ali Anani
    13/02/2017 #54 Ali Anani
    #53 My next buzz following today's buzz on New Insights on HUman Behavior (actually an eBook) will be on "Adapting to Increase our Tolerance Levels". Dear friend @CityVP 🐝 Manjit- one way trees adapt to cold weather and to stop water freezing and killing trees is to produce sugar water. Sugar water doesn't freeze as readily as pure water. So, I thank you for increasing my tolerance level. I see more synchronicity peeping between us.
    CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    13/02/2017 #53 CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    #48 My dear Ali Anani, I am not in this world to oppose or dispose, I want to set my sights much higher visions than that. I only have two words for the limitations that stem from opposing in this regard before I get back to how the best minds make honey.

    Sugar Water.
    Mohammed Sultan
    13/02/2017 #52 Mohammed Sultan
    #51 "Sadak Alah Al azzem"
    Ali Anani
    13/02/2017 #51 Ali Anani
    #49 In my previous comment I forgot to add two words (men anfusekkum) so it should read as follows:
    Wa men ayatehi an khalaka lakum men anfusekkum azwajan litaskonoo elayha wa ja'al beinakuma mawadatan wa rahma.
  3. ProducerMax🐝 J. Carter
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    Deb 🐝 Helfrich
    10/10/2016 #1 Deb 🐝 Helfrich
    "You have to be able to be this deep with yourself first." "An honest conversation is vulnerability." Having that honest conversation with ourselves can be one of the hardest things in life.
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    Franci🐝Eugenia Hoffman
    18/06/2016 #2 Franci🐝Eugenia Hoffman
    This is what life should not be without - connecting with others and developing meaningful relationships.
    Javier 🐝 beBee
    18/06/2016 #1 Javier 🐝 beBee
    I fully agree. We feel happy after a nice meeting. Those facial expressions are REAL. After spending time connecting this is the result. Happiness and a sense of fulfilment that we get when we spend time connecting ! Hopefully beBee is offering present and future relationships. I made a lot of friends here and I am willing to meet , discuss .... to enjoy life !
  5. Marcel Arvizu

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    18/06/2016
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  6. ProducerRandy Keho

    Randy Keho

    14/06/2016
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    Sara Jacobovici
    19/07/2016 #2 Sara Jacobovici
    "If you can live with what you see in a friend's eye, then you have made a worthy imprint." Beautifully written @Randy Keho.
    Nancy Walker
    14/06/2016 #1 Nancy Walker
    A really beautiful post to read this morning @Randy Keho.
  7. Marcel Arvizu

    Marcel Arvizu

    08/06/2016
    Miren que mala influencia es @Javier 🐝 beBee, jaja! Ya me agarro por crecer barba tambien! Marcel Arvizu
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    Oliver Moloney
    01/06/2016 #1 Oliver Moloney
    Um..NO!
  10. Marcel Arvizu

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