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  1. Preston 🐝 Vander Ven
    Every few weeks a new idea pops up that EVERYONE thinks is the answer to all their prayers.

    Could be a new piece of software promising to send you cash by clicking ads…

    … or a new business opportunity promising fortunes by twiddling your thumbs all day.

    Doesn’t matter WHAT it is…

    It’s the old “Shiny Object Syndrome” keeping GREAT people struggling and never really hitting the gas.

    There are an endless amount of options begging you to PAY ATTENTION -- literally forcing you to go in a million directions and not focus on ANY.

    The good news is you CAN begin to focus and MAINTAIN your focus for a long period of time.

    And in today’s Daily Shortcut, you’re going to get the solution.

    Watch it now… you’re going to learn how to ELIMINATE Shiny Object Syndrome for good.
    Preston 🐝 Vander Ven
    Entrepreneurs and Shiny Object Syndrome
    www.empowernetwork.com Entrepreneurs and Shiny Object...
  2. Preston 🐝 Vander Ven
    Have you ever wanted to learn meditation?

    Do you hear about people who get great results with meditation but you have zero idea where to even begin?

    Does the thought of sitting down, silently, just to “think” seem a bit silly?

    Then today’s Daily Shortcut episode is perfect for you.

    Start listening to today’s Daily Shortcut

    In today’s episode you’ll learn:

    -- a simple way to start meditating even if you’ve never thought you ‘could’ do it…
    -- how to pick the best time and place to start
    -- the perfect amount of time to set aside

    And much more…

    Click here to start listening now
    Preston 🐝 Vander Ven
    Daily Shortcut Episode #171
    www.empowernetwork.com Daily Shortcut Episode...
  3. Preston 🐝 Vander Ven
    To unlock your future, you need the keys…

    ...And today’s video hands them over.

    It’s incredible once you start piecing together all of the items
    you need to Succeed…

    It’s like watching a good puzzle come together at lightning speed.

    This episode is all about that, and as you watch it, you’ll see
    what I mean.

    It’s about Focus, it’s about Clarity, it’s about you - taking action on You.
    Preston 🐝 Vander Ven
    5 Keys to Unlocking Your Future
    www.empowernetwork.com 5 Keys to Unlocking Your...
  4. ProducerAlexey Shifman

    Alexey Shifman

    Reflecting art, part 1
    Reflecting art, part 1My name is Alexey. Recently I have opened a gallery for emerging street photographers – RAW Streetphoto Gallery. Initial idea was take out the photographers from on-line world into reality. Super target (dream) – create street photography...


    Tony Brandstetter
    26/01/2017 #1 Tony Brandstetter
    Great stuff Alexey!
  5. Preston 🐝 Vander Ven
    What do you need to create lasting victory and financial success in your business online?
    Focus. A single focus.
    Here's why:
    Preston 🐝 Vander Ven
    Focus on One Thing at a Time
    www.empowernetwork.com Focus on One Thing at a...
  6. ProducerElla de Jong

    Ella de Jong

    What if .. you'd be prepared to take a sabbatical?
    What if .. you'd be prepared to take a sabbatical?What if ... you'd be prepared to live on bread and water? It worked for me!I choose to take a sabbatical year.Being able to have my mind on my passion 24/7 has been great!Well, it wasn't exactly living on bread and water :-)But I was and am very...


    Ella de Jong
    27/07/2016 #1 Ella de Jong
    Would love to see more people triggered to read this. So I've edited a bit :-)
  7. ProducerEwan Muirhead

    Ewan Muirhead

    Online Multi-webinar session on Solution Focused techniques/ideas - Monday 8pm Uk
    Online Multi-webinar session on Solution Focused techniques/ideas - Monday 8pm UkFull info on the various topic presenters and joining instructions here:http://www.solworld.org/profiles/blogs/onlineopenspace27jun16Open to anyone who wants to find our more about Solution Focused practice, thinking and techniques!On Monday 27th...


    Ewan Muirhead
    27/06/2016 #1 Ewan Muirhead
    Hopefully see some of you tonight :-) @Ella de Jong @Paut Kromkamp-Struik
  8. Ewan Muirhead

    Ewan Muirhead

    Ewan Muirhead
    Dancing with the ghost in her head - a metapoem for purposeful communication
    www.bebee.com Happy Father's Day to all (past, present and future). I lost my Dad to depression in 2003 and currently helping Mum with dealing with her...
  9. Ewan Muirhead

    Ewan Muirhead

    Ewan Muirhead
    UKASFP on Twitter
    twitter.com “https://t.co/bcRyxrvaYI...
  10. Ewan Muirhead

    Ewan Muirhead

    Ewan Muirhead
    BRIEF on Twitter
    twitter.com “"Once upon a time" by @briefsolutions on @LinkedIn...
  11. ProducerAli Anani

    Ali Anani

    The Paradox of Fractal Repetition
    The Paradox of Fractal RepetitionYou hear a song and you enjoy it- till you have enough of it. You listen to a charming music and it moves you- till you get saturated with it and you say to yourself enough is enough. You hear a joke which makes your sides split from laughing and...


    Ali Anani
    12/07/2016 #61 Ali Anani
    This is your exclusivity of great manners dear @Sue Chien Lee
    Sue Chien Lee
    12/07/2016 #60 Sue Chien Lee
    Find out why we should "branch our character, our habits in a fractal form" from the inimitable @Ali Anani .
    Ali Anani
    12/07/2016 #59 Ali Anani
    #56 Dear @Deb🐝 Lange- it is amazing how your mind and mine overlap. I was in Turkey last work and only had the opportunity to read your comments now. You highlighted two words wonder and emerge in your two comments. I published yesterday a buzz on Merge to Emerge, which I would love you to comment on, In my response to @CityVP 🐝 Manjit I highlighted the word wonder. No wonder we are on the same wavelength, Lisa.
    Ali Anani
    12/07/2016 #58 Ali Anani
    #54 I have wonderful feelings following reading your fractal-like comment dear @CityVP 🐝 Manjit. Space is increased by removing the language barrier and new fractals are emerging accordingly. Yes, ideas are allowed more space to react and for new ones to emerge.
    Deb🐝 Lange
    09/07/2016 #57 Deb🐝 Lange
    Once again I thank you for your musings, your playing with ideas and your creativity at connecting difference and allowing something new to emerge.
    Deb🐝 Lange
    09/07/2016 #56 Deb🐝 Lange
    #38 Yes @CityVP 🐝 Manjit let us focus on wonder!
    Jean L. Serio CPC, CeMA
    09/07/2016 #55 Jean L. Serio CPC, CeMA
    #54 A wonderful share @CityVP 🐝 Manjit. It seems the more we're integrated, the more we learn., n And the more info we can discover regarding fractals from the illustrious @Ali Anani.
    CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    08/07/2016 #54 CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    What I have learned from when this post first appeared last month is that I am beginning to see even more power of the universality in fractal relationships than even I had considered possible. While BeBee wants to succeed in the United States, I am beginning to identify with like-minded people who were once separated by language. Yet the fractal relationship when we connect with each other beyond the language barrier reveals even greater self-similiarity - and in that I am discovering universality. Yes @Milos Djukic saw those who tamper with fractal relationships will reap what they sow, but as a learner, I feel the fractal in my heart becoming even more intelligent. This is a wonderful, wonderful feeling.
    Jean L. Serio CPC, CeMA
    08/07/2016 #53 Jean L. Serio CPC, CeMA
    #50 Thank you for the compliments dear friend. As always, they are appreciated.
    Ali Anani
    17/06/2016 #52 Ali Anani
    #51 The author of he splendid e-book "The 90-Second Mind Manager" @Edward Lewellen- your words are like honey
    Edward Lewellen
    16/06/2016 #51 Edward Lewellen
    Beautifully written, dear friend! The more I read the more I wanted to read...
    Ali Anani
    16/06/2016 #50 Ali Anani
    #49 Thank you my friend @Jean L. Serio CPC, CeMA. I wish readers to know of our genuine virtual friendship based on so many exchanges of comments and opinions. You are a beautiful lady my friend.
    Jean L. Serio CPC, CeMA
    16/06/2016 #49 Jean L. Serio CPC, CeMA
    I've become so fascinated by your articles on 'fractals', @Ali Anani the more I want to read about them. Your comment "Fractals are repeating patterns; yet the more we zoom in them, the more we get attracted to their beauty" is succinct and a perfect description of an imperfect scenario. P.S. Also enjoyed the Slideshare on 'Fractal Thoughts on Management'.
    Ali Anani
    15/06/2016 #48 Ali Anani
    #47 I am grateful and extremely appreciative of your good feelings. You boosted my morale @Tausif Mundrawala
    Tausif Mundrawala
    15/06/2016 #47 Tausif Mundrawala
    #46 I am on a reading spree today and what else could be better than reading your posts. Thanks for stimulating our thinking to its farthest.
    Ali Anani
    15/06/2016 #46 Ali Anani
    #45 The butterfly of words is an amazing domain @Tausif Mundrawala. Changing words or their sequence might send us in different paths. I shall consider first showing this by example and then shall look seriously into your suggestion. Fractals are discoveries and I am glad you got interested
    Tausif Mundrawala
    15/06/2016 #45 Tausif Mundrawala
    I only had slightest idea about fractals but thanks to you, Ali for imparting knowledge on this subject. I would like to cite the example of reading. The more we read to more we become wise. Sometimes we encounter same words but their meanings differ according to the circumstances. The more we read the more knowledge we gain then comes a time where books and newspapers chase us. You need to create a group my friend in order to assimilate all intellectuals hungry for more insightful material.
    Ali Anani
    15/06/2016 #44 Ali Anani
    #43 I am grateful to the brilliant exchange of comments between @CityVP 🐝 Manjit and @Milos Djukic. I am standing by learning from both of you.
    Milos Djukic
    15/06/2016 #43 Anonymous
    @CityVP 🐝 Manjit, Profound statment, you are a careful thinker. "The power of the present moment is massively underrated. Ultimately, time is only an illusion (particles of light already knows everything), but somehow everything rather than nothing is possible if we start to understand the secrets of a personal time management. Time stands still and then we will come back to fractal. Fractals are forever." - from "You Are a Social Leader? The Butterfly Effect", LI long-form post
    CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    15/06/2016 #42 CityVP 🐝 Manjit
    #40 Milos is aware of the folly of humankind. Those that pursue folly in religion want us to remain the past, those who pursue folly in science want us to be their future - but to be present and fully here that is the gift we are given and in that gift we can learn the lessons of history and also find that future in our present moment - the one we are guardians of. As Milos has underscored, the gifts we find within us - which is all the latent potential and blessings that we have barely touched, expressed and more importantly can mindfully weave, into patterns that flow with renaissance, a beauty within that shapes and contributes quality of life.
  12. ProducerEwan Muirhead

    Ewan Muirhead

    Four candles? Clean language and SF - goals, outcomes, resolutions or differences sought? All 'best hopes'!
    Four candles? Clean language and SF - goals, outcomes, resolutions or differences sought? All 'best hopes'!One of the things which impresses me about the Solution Focused Approach is the use of simple, purposeful language (which is based on evidence gathered over decades in therapeutic settings). Whilst learning coaching models of any kind are useful and...


    Ella de Jong
    25/06/2016 #6 Ella de Jong
    Thank you @Ewan! I'll be back, but 'first things first': preparing the second day of my Training Course: "Creating Energising Communication with Troubled Youth". Solution Focused verbal and non-verbal communication. Fun an valuable!!
    Ewan Muirhead
    19/06/2016 #4 Ewan Muirhead
    Great to see you here @Paut Kromkamp-Struik @Ella de Jong @Ellen Hansen & @Nick Burnett Welcome to BeBee :-)
    Ewan Muirhead
    15/06/2016 #2 Ewan Muirhead
    Absolutely - a communication begins with an outcome in mind, in order to achieve that outcome the communicator must find the best way to not only deliver the message but also retain ownership of the conversation generated until the outcome is achieved (otherwise the communication may be a waste of time for both sender/receiver)
    James Smith
    15/06/2016 #1 James Smith
    This post reminded me of this question: Is the understanding of the message responsibility of the listener or of the person communicating it? I've always found that it'll be the communicator's responsibility to confirm that the message he wants to communicate is received and understand.