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  1. ProducerRenée Cormier

    Renée Cormier

    08/12/2016
    Try Asking Some Different Questions
    Try Asking Some Different QuestionsNot getting the results you want? We all get stuck from time to time as we struggle to achieve our desired goals. This happens to all of us and there are many sources for this problem that need to be analyzed if we are going to come up with an...
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    Jared Wiese
    09/12/2016 #5 Jared Wiese
    Wow, Renee, have you sparked something in me today. THANK YOU! What a great, motivating article!!

    Right away, on the questions topic, a thought popped into my head: "Quality questions create a quality life."

    As I was reading it, I kept thinking more - MAN! I need to write about this! Then I remembered I had!...

    "Tony Robbins also said:

    Quality questions create a quality life. They direct our mental focus and therefore determine how we think and feel.

    The difference in the quality of people’s lives often comes down to the difference in the questions they consistently ask themselves. If you ask a disempowering question (i.e. “Why does this always happen to me?”), your mental computer will look for an answer, even if it has to make something up! It might come up with “Because you’re stupid” or “Because you don’t deserve to do well anyway.”

    On the flip side, if you ask an empowering question, such as “How can I take this experience and use it to contribute to others?” your brain will look for answers to this question and often come up with an answer that not only makes you feel better, but that can help others as well.
    The key is to develop a pattern of questions that empower you."

    - https://www.bebee.com/producer/@jaredwiese/how-daily-questions-create-a-quality-life


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    Renée Cormier
    09/12/2016 #4 Renée Cormier
    #3 Yes. Ultimately, we are responsible for the degree of productivity in our lives. People are generally more happy to help those who have already started to help themselves. Thanks for the comment.
    Preston Vander Ven
    08/12/2016 #3 Preston Vander Ven
    Great Article. One of my mentors had me read that same book a decade ago. Very powerful. Something I realized way back thing is I was asking these same questions but in a different order. I would ask “Who can help me?” before I asked “What am I going to do today to bring me closer to my goal?”. I didn't realize I wasn't even taking action yet. It is one of the three books I suggest everyone reads.
    Renée Cormier
    08/12/2016 #2 Renée Cormier
    Thank you, @John Prpich. Welcome to beBee! It's nice to see you here.
    John Prpich
    08/12/2016 #1 John Prpich
    A thought provoking article Renée, it requires a lot of commitment and constant evaluation and measurement when setting goals, very much like personal reflection, we're really not good at it. I'll be interested in reading your other article
  2. Jared Wiese

    Jared Wiese

    05/12/2016
    Tony Robbins - Take a Chance to Breakthrough (Tony Robbins Motivation)
    Tony Robbins - Take a Chance to Breakthrough (Tony Robbins Motivation) Tony Robbins - Take a Chance to Breakthrough (Tony Robbins Motivation) Learn more detail - Please Click Here to Get Your Free Book:...
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    Jared Wiese
    05/12/2016 #2 Jared Wiese
    #1 So true, Andrew.
    To do what you love, you will make time and it will fly by!
    Andrew Goldman
    05/12/2016 #1 Andrew Goldman
    A moment when I realized that I've just listened to it for an hour and enjoyed it. Says all about the time. When we want something, we find the time) Thank you, Jared
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  4. Jared Wiese

    Jared Wiese

    27/11/2016
    "you make decisions in a PASSIONATE state"

    What have you decided while engaging on beBee?!
    Tony Robbins - Your Mind is the Key to Your Success
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    Deb Helfrich
    27/11/2016 #3 Deb Helfrich
    I enjoy being in the presence of someone who is clearly living their own right livelihood.

    Anyone who can convey that life can be totally about meaning, joy, and fulfillment is helping to fix the world in their own unique way.
    Jared Wiese
    27/11/2016 #2 Jared Wiese
    #1 Well said, CityVP! He certainly brings SOMETHING to this world. Glad this caught your eye and hope it creates energy or at least some different thought waves for others.
    CityVP Manjit
    27/11/2016 #1 CityVP Manjit
    Man, this guy is pure high energy, love him or dislike him - respect to that kind of energy that seeks to create more energy..
  5. ProducerSara Jacobovici

    Sara Jacobovici

    21/11/2016
    Developing a Tolerance to Negativity
    Developing a Tolerance to NegativityImage credit: Casual Photophile The writers and readers who participate in the discussions found on beBee provide such a great source of energy to think, learn, grow and succeed. And it’s...
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    Sara Jacobovici
    27/11/2016 #105 Sara Jacobovici
    #103 Nice share and powerful ending @Jared Wiese. Thanks
    Jared Wiese
    27/11/2016 #104 Jared Wiese
    #85 Sara, I am honored, but even happier that I added to the discussion and can share it. :)
    Jared Wiese
    27/11/2016 #103 Jared Wiese
    #102 Love it! HA... here we go....

    Your acceptance comment reminds me of M. Scott Peck's Road Less Travelled (which I imagine you've read ;)

    The first 2 paragraphs speak to acceptance (CAPS are mine):
    "Life is difficult.

    This is a great truth, one of the greatest truths. It is a great truth because once we truly see this truth, we transcend it. Once we truly know that life is difficult - once we truly understand and ACCEPT it - then life is no longer difficult. Because once it is accepted, the fact that life is difficult no longer matters."


    The paradox, duality, good/bad, negative emotions (suffering) topics also remind me of Dan Millman's The Life You Were Born to Live. From the chapter, The Law of Perfection:

    "From a transcendental perspective, everyone and everything is unconditionally perfect; from a conventional viewpoint, perfection doesn't exist" -J. Krishnamurti

    "The Law of Perfection presents a paradox because it contains two apparently opposite truths, which operate at different levels of experience.

    From a conventional view, this world is a place of suffering: crime in the streets, the hungry, the homeless, the oppressed. Even without the daily news, in our own lives, when we get what we don't want, we suffer; when we don't get what we do want, we also suffer; and even when we get exactly what we want, nothing lasts in this realm.

    From a transcendental perspective - seeing ourselves and this world with all its difficulties from the all-encompassing wisdom and patience and love and understanding that comes when our hearts are open - then all of it, the joys and sorrows, the suffering and pleasure, and everything going on in this moment on planet Earth, is absolutely, completely perfect in terms of a great process of evolution."
    Sara Jacobovici
    27/11/2016 #102 Sara Jacobovici
    #101 No rambling here @Jared Wiese but your perspective and insights. Thanks for sharing. When you write, "Until we reach a threshold, we probably will not really change the circumstances that got us, stung.", it reminds me of Carl Rogers quote, "The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change."
    Jared Wiese
    27/11/2016 #101 Jared Wiese
    #84 yes, Sara. Thank you for the insightful reply! More good perspectives.

    My simile also speaks to tolerance. Many people can tolerate 1 sting. Some cannot. Until we reach a threshold, we probably will not really change the circumstances that got us, stung.
    I am thinking of the more current definition of tolerance. To me, it then gets into how much pain we take before changing. This ties to negative emotions and your discussion point.

    - Am I "really mad/sad/hurt/NEGATIVE" that I got stung? (notice the reactivity)
    - Am I "grateful/glad/smarter/POSITIVE" that I now know what I did or can do to avoid getting stung (proactive).

    It is not me vs. the bee. It is me AND the bee. Perhaps that's another perception of duality?! We both exist and do what we are innately born to do (sting/react)
    . . . or learn to do better (sting/not swat at a Bee's nest, then get uoset about it) if we are more evolved.

    Please excuse the rambling-if you feel/choose to see it as such. I hope it ties to many points in this discussion.
    Sara Jacobovici
    27/11/2016 #100 Sara Jacobovici
    Part 2/2 @Nikki Petersen continued from part 1.....Tension does exist in the "negative" until the expected resolution occurs and then the positive/release takes place. The duration, intensity and sense of familiarity of the tension will create different experiences. Nothing simple about all of this but certainly makes for interesting discussion.

    I have to confess the first thing I thought of was Peanuts and Lucy and Charlie Brown and the football. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=055wFyO6gag
    Sara Jacobovici
    27/11/2016 #99 Sara Jacobovici
    #96 Part 1/2 Thank you @Nikki Petersen for taking the time to read my post and for your comment. I appreciate you bringing up trust/mistrust as they are are an important contribution to this discussion. You write, "For us to create the trust that enables the sitting with the tension, there also has to be mistrust. There has to be doubt that the outcome will be what we hope it will be." My sense of this is a mature view point; something we are able to form out of accumulated experiences, whereas trust and mistrust are formed very early on in human development. It's not a matter of hope for the newborn and infant to have his or her needs met, its an expectation. The newborn or infant trusts that his or her physical and emotional needs will be met; it's unspoken and innate. It is when those needs are not met that mistrust begins to form and produces feelings/sensations related to anxiety.

    In any group, individuals bring their own meanings formed from experiences related to expectations and will either be "naively" open in their trust or on the other end of the spectrum, suspicious, or anywhere in between. Trust is earned; we shouldn't trust anyone until they have proven that they are trustworthy. In terms of my clinical work I remind my client of that. I have to work hard at earning his or her trust. As well, I remind my client that there are three aspects to the trust in the work; they need to trust themselves that they will do what they need or able to do in their work, trust the medium; whether the talking or the creative arts materials and process, and then there is me, where the client can take the time to develop that trust.
    Sara Jacobovici
    27/11/2016 #98 Sara Jacobovici
    #97 Thanks for your encouraging remark about my post @Jim Murray. As for the rest, I defend your right to saying what needed to be said.
    Jim Murray
    27/11/2016 #97 Jim Murray
    I learned a bit here and that's always good. This is a solid post, nicely reasoned and resolved and very useful, especially for Americans at this extremely stressful juncture in their history.

    But I was a little taken aback at some of the comments. This Max Carter fellow very much appears to be a walking contradiction of sorts. "I have one rule in life. Do not go to jail. If you like it, do it again, if not, don't." What does that even mean and what does that have to do with your piece? The first time I read it I got the distinct impression he was approving of those who choose a life of crime.

    There's a certain etiquette that needs to be observed here. People spend a lot of time and energy on their posts, and slathering the comments with non-sequiturs and discussion highjacks is really bad form. The whole idea is that the engagement should add to the value of the post, not take the discussion off into the wild blue yonder.

    I guess you could accuse me of the same thing, but it needed to be said, because I'm seeing a lot of it lately.
    Nikki Petersen
    27/11/2016 #96 Nikki Petersen
    @Sara Jacobovici I enjoyed your discussion of this topic. I do enjoy this forum because it allows me to think deeply, which I need in my life. Thank you.

    I wonder where trust fits in? In trying to apply the topic to my own life, personal, business, and parenting (among other aspects), my observation is that so much of the tension and dissonance is created by trust/mistrust issues. For example, the employees can feel that they should focus on the journey of discovery to multiple outcomes, but they have to trust that their ideas will fall on receptive ears; isn't the reason that sitting with the tension is uncomfortable is because they're not sure they can trust what will happen in the long-run?

    With your other example, music and therapy, doesn't the client need to be able to trust that the outcome of being with the tension created in a session will be useful or meaningful? That trust isn't just there, automagically -- it has to be created.

    For us to create the trust that enables the sitting with the tension, there also has to be mistrust. There has to be doubt that the outcome will be what we hope it will be.

    And that's where the circle comes back to negative emotions. We've all been hurt and we've all experienced the disappointment of misplaced trust. It's part of being human.

    The tension between positive and negative then, must come from trust and mistrust?
    Max J. Carter
    27/11/2016 #95 Max J. Carter
    What is it you are disagreeing with?

    Which part and why?

    I am think the readers would be curious to know more than I would.

    Is the part where I say we are not as removed from the animal kingdom a we would like to think?

    Is it the part where I explain pack mentality and how it actually works?

    Is the part about rules creating exclusion?

    Or is it all of it summarily?

    I covered more Tran one point.
    Ali Anani
    27/11/2016 #94 Ali Anani
    #90 We agreed to disagree.
    Max J. Carter
    27/11/2016 #93 Max J. Carter
    #92 I am curios as to why?
    Sara Jacobovici
    27/11/2016 #92 Sara Jacobovici
    #88 As you said @Max Carter, you disagree. And so, at the risk of sounding cliche, I respectfully agree to disagree.
    Sara Jacobovici
    27/11/2016 #91 Sara Jacobovici
    #87 Read it and admired it @Ali Anani
    Max J. Carter
    27/11/2016 #90 Max J. Carter
    #89 The chaos behind why the birds flock together has many variables down to the individual birds and the place they take within the flock. there are no rules, they feel their way though it with instinct and at times in any flock or even pack there are challenges for pecking order or place in the pack.

    The alpha is the strongest leader of the flock or the pack that guides them true and out of danger based on the leaders intuition which is chaos based in the now and the variables in a state of flux being read in the moment.

    We as humans foolishly think ourselves more evolved from the animal and will go against intuition in favor of thinking we can think better than our intuitive senses. That is the biggest road block we create and keep in place for ourselves.

    I have one rule in life. Do not go to jail. If you like it, do it again, if not, don't.

    When you start creating rules you have to start excluding those who don't meet with your rules. For me i think it's healthy not be hanging out with someone in the middle of creating a crime and to avoid breaking the law myself in my own actions.

    When people do not comply with the laws we impose in society they go away from society and are excluded from society.

    Rule building is about creating mechanisms for and parameters for exclusion.
    Ali Anani
    27/11/2016 #89 Ali Anani
    #88 There are simple rules for birds flocking together> The feedback effect leading to chaos is based on simple rules. No one pretends the rules are always right, but we strive to improve them. They help in focusing our efforts. Nobody till now can predict the weather of of its complexity, but it was the three simple differential equations that helped in noticing the butterfly effect. We are trying to do the same.
    Max J. Carter
    27/11/2016 #88 Max J. Carter
    #87 I disagree because existence works on the principle of organized chaos and as a part of existence so do we which means all the variables are variable in the moment and no equation is ever going to suit the moment you are in unless you create it and can control all the variables which control is an illusion.

    To create an equation is to engage in willful delusion that one has control over anything. We mange ourselves we don't control anything because we are organized chaos not a machine.
    Ali Anani
    27/11/2016 #87 Ali Anani
    #85 I agree entirely with you @Sara Jacobovici. On my last buzz, I responded to a comment by @Max J. Carter and I almost said the same about the value of developing the equation. It is trial and error, but is worthy.
    Sara Jacobovici
    27/11/2016 #86 Sara Jacobovici
    #78 Thank you @Jared Wiese for your very valuable contribution to this discussion. Much appreciated.
  6. Jared Wiese

    Jared Wiese

    16/11/2016
    Amazing info on Robbins and creating Raving Fans...
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    Are you treating your employees like raving fans?
    www.tonyrobbins.com This post was originally written as a LinkedIn Influencer essay, published on November 11, 2016. Peter Drucker, one of the greatest business minds of the last century, once said that the success of any business is dependent on just two factors:...
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  7. Jared Wiese

    Jared Wiese

    14/11/2016
    Tony Robbins - Whatever It Takes - Make it Happen (Tony Robbins Motivation)
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  8. Jared Wiese

    Jared Wiese

    08/11/2016
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    08/11/2016 #1 Jared Wiese
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  9. Jared Wiese

    Jared Wiese

    05/11/2016
    Tony Robbins: How to Master Anything (Motivational Video)
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    Jared Wiese
    05/11/2016 #1 Jared Wiese
    Tony Robbins: How to Master Anything (Motivational Video)
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    After a full year of the Tony Robbins experience, I wanted to take a moment to recap all the incredible adventures I've had, highlight the most important wisdom I've learned and urge you to make the three most important decisions in your life.

    t all started with Unleash the Power Within (UPW).
    I can't even believe that my journey started less than a year ago, in March of 2015, with my fellow Inc. Owners Council CEOs. I documented my personal transformation at this event, so I won't detail it here. What I will say is that the rock concert style and incredible energy is unlike any event in any industry (and I've attended and/or spoken at hundreds of events globally). I now understand why many Tony Robbins fans refer to UPW lovingly as "the gateway drug." It's what sets you on a course for total transformation. (I later invited my entire company and ultimately shared this experience with several of my Trepoint colleagues in Chicago in June).

    Business mastery transforms my business.
    Having had an incredible personal transformation at UPW, I got on a plane and flew to London to experience Business Mastery (Part 2). Yes, I'm an overachiever so I decided that to get all of this done inside a year, I needed to take the Business Mastery courses out of order. And I'm so glad I did. I met a global network of entrepreneurs who I'm still working with more than six months later. There's no question that I received more than $1 million dollars in business value in the five days I spent there (as promised and personally guaranteed by the Anthony Robbins organization).

    Life mastery transforms my body.
    Two weeks after London, I flew t
  10. Jared Wiese

    Jared Wiese

    05/11/2016
    Tony Robbins: Stop Kidding Yourself (Tony Robbins Motivation)
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  11. Jared Wiese

    Jared Wiese

    03/11/2016
    Tony Robbins: Use Your Emotions to Change Your Life (Tony Robbins Motivation)
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  12. Jared Wiese

    Jared Wiese

    31/10/2016
    Tony Robbins - How to Discipline Yourself (Tony Robbins Motivation)
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  13. Jared Wiese

    Jared Wiese

    29/10/2016
    Shared from the Living the 7 Habits app:

    Proactive people focus their efforts in the Circle of Influence. They work on the things they can do something about. The nature of their energy is positive, enlarging and magnifying, causing their Circle of Influence to increase.

    Habit 1: Be Proactive
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    Jared Wiese
    30/10/2016 #2 Jared Wiese
    #1 Hi Hayley,
    It's all incredible stuff! The app is just a refresher... :)
    Hayley Bruce
    30/10/2016 #1 Hayley Bruce
    I really enjoyed reading the 7 habits of Effective People. I've not explored the app, but I do use some of the exercises set out in the book.
  14. Jared Wiese

    Jared Wiese

    21/10/2016
    Tony Robbins - Psychology of Emotions (Tony Robbins Motivation)
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  15. Jared Wiese

    Jared Wiese

    20/10/2016
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    20/10/2016 #1 Jared Wiese
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  16. ProducerDave Rynne

    Dave Rynne

    18/10/2016
    What If Tomorrow Never Comes?
    What If Tomorrow Never Comes?I went to a funeral this past weekend - a young man's life cut too short. 33 years and 27 days he spent alive - living, loving and doing.33 years and 27 days.Seeing his family was tough, I know his dad and 2 brothers. I didn't know him at all, but...
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    Lisa Gallagher
    30/10/2016 #11 Lisa Gallagher
    I saw a link to your buzz on John White's 'submit buzzes for RT'ing' buzz. I love this quote of yours, "We are reborn each month to address how we will be remembered," and I think it's safe to say, we are reborn each day too :)) Nice article!
    Brian McKenzie
    19/10/2016 #10 Brian McKenzie
    I keep waking up, and nobody has blown up the planet yet, though it is clearly on that inevitable path. There is always tomorrow.
    Dave Rynne
    18/10/2016 #9 Dave Rynne
    @Harvey Lloyd, @Jared Wiese thanks very much for your comments. Yes, at the end of the day (or life), how have I acted? How have I helped someone? How have I moved the needle towards the Positive side of the big meter in the sky?
    Harvey Lloyd
    18/10/2016 #8 Harvey Lloyd
    #7 Absolutely! If you want to excite an introvert ask prodding or probing questions as i call them. Your motives should be clear in this case. The questions i refer to or those that you ask yourself when you are faced with a challenge. The challenge presented here is immortality, the value of your own life and worthiness. These questions have daunted mankind for centuries. If we can reframe the questions as Dave is doing here then we can answer the question for ourselves and live accordingly. I know the real question will always be concerning service to others, regardless of what the question is trying to accomplish within our own psyche.
    Jared Wiese
    18/10/2016 #7 Jared Wiese
    #6 Are you are suggesting questions are good for prodding, but daily habits priceless?
    Harvey Lloyd
    18/10/2016 #6 Harvey Lloyd
    #5 Like the qoute. If we had ten folks in a circle. Each gifted with the question before they spoke, no matter which number i was within the ten i too would receive the richness of someone answering their question. Like the quote you shared. Unfortunately we often experience the circle broken. Number 5 is having a challenging day, within my little world presented, but 9 others can help them by answering their question. What will number 9 do next time they see someone who needs a good question?

    A little boorish in context but my hope is that the process of answering the right question as we have discovered here reaches a saturation point with those in your circle. Where life starts to happen within the moment, everyday, all the time.
    Jared Wiese
    18/10/2016 #5 Jared Wiese
    #4 Ouuu, I like it better! After all, it is not about ourselves, now is it? It's along the lines of what I heard once, "We come to this life with nothing. We leave with nothing."

    “I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”
    ― Maya Angelou
    Harvey Lloyd
    18/10/2016 #4 Harvey Lloyd
    #3 What if we changed the question to "How are we taking steps towards changing someone else's living or legacy? How does this change our actions?
    Jared Wiese
    18/10/2016 #3 Jared Wiese
    #1 I keep hearing how important questions are. "Quality questions = quality life". Of course, like you say, it is more the action than the question. But just having the question should usually spur some action.

    Here's one: "HOW are we taking steps toward living and leaving a legacy this DAY/WEEK/MONTH?"
    Jared Wiese
    18/10/2016 #2 Jared Wiese
    Great post, @Dave Rynne! Shared in a couple hives.
    Love the idea of small daily "Make today count."
    Harvey Lloyd
    18/10/2016 #1 Harvey Lloyd
    These times are trying at best when we face our own mortality, @Dave Rynne. Our pastor once had a program of living for thirty days as if we new our death would occur on the 30th. No comparison for those who are challenged by the loss of a loved one. But i must say it really did cause me to think about our daily activities and the self proclaimed impending doom. In the end i came to one conclusion.

    My goals, and planning were important past the 30 day experiment, but the reality came in a statement that formed over those thirty days. Did i impact anyone today! Did i go out of my way to say, do or act in a situation that grew someone else. Did that someone today experience self worth because they crossed my journey?

    I try to ask these question each day and live the statement. Not always succeeding. Tomorrow is a mystery to be planned for, but be all you can today.
  17. ProducerPaul Kearley 🐝
    Three Steps To Conquer Change
    Three Steps To Conquer ChangeI know of no more encouraging fact than the unquestionable ability of man to elevate his life by a conscious endeavour  ~Henry David Thoreau I remember the day that I made the decision to make the change. It was just after supper on...
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    18/10/2016 #7 Paul Kearley 🐝
    #6 Thanks a million @Jared Wiese
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    18/10/2016 #6 Jared Wiese
    Sharing in Self-improvement
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    Sharing in Entrepreneurs
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    18/10/2016 #3 Jared Wiese
    Sharing in Tony Robbins
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    18/10/2016 #2 Jared Wiese
    Hey Paul, brilliant article.

    I sense another Robbins fan... The way you describe reaching threshold: pain in the past, present and future as impetus for "instant" change. Raising your standards and creating new image of ourselves... Then finishing off with a strategy! Awesome stuff that works!
    Donna-Luisa Eversley
    16/10/2016 #1 Donna-Luisa Eversley
    Absolutely brilliant advice and Observations @Paul Kearley 🐝..been falling off my weight loss program and you seem to have called me out... feeling the conviction.😎 Indeed we are responsible for making the changes we need in our lives to live the best way possible , consistently. Thanks for this.
  18. ProducerStephanie Lamoureux
    The Power Within You
    The Power Within YouA universal truth is that life presents us with another obstacle when we least expect it. Unfortunately, the bump often occurs when there are deadlines and tasks to complete at work, or there are pressing family complications. Because of this, the...
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    01/12/2016 #64 Renée Cormier
    "The most powerful weapon we have against becoming discouraged is our ability to choose one thought over another. " Very true, @Stephanie Lamoureux! Thank you for the reminder. @Graham Edwards 🐝 View more
    "The most powerful weapon we have against becoming discouraged is our ability to choose one thought over another. " Very true, @Stephanie Lamoureux! Thank you for the reminder. @Graham Edwards 🐝 told me I was a bit crabby today. This post reminded me that I can change that very easily. :) Close
    Graham Edwards 🐝
    17/10/2016 #63 Graham Edwards 🐝
    This is a really important message @Stephanie Lamoureux. Thank you !
    Jared Wiese
    17/10/2016 #62 Jared Wiese
    Inspirational, Stephanie.
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    17/10/2016 #61 Jared Wiese
    Sharing in The Miracle Morning.
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    17/10/2016 #60 Jared Wiese
    Sharing in Tony Robbins
    Tracey Henderson
    23/08/2016 #59 Tracey Henderson
    Great reading !!
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    02/07/2016 #58 Anonymous
    Thank you for taking the time. I am glad you found my buzz enlightening! @Anees Zaidi
    Anees Zaidi
    02/07/2016 #57 Anees Zaidi
    Excellent @Stephanie Lamoureux. 'redirect your thoughts through a quick decision- making process'. Powerful tool to convert passivism into optimism.
    Milos Djukic
    02/07/2016 #56 Anonymous
    #55 You are very welcome @Stephanie Lamoureux.
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    02/07/2016 #55 Anonymous
    I am pleased. :) Thank you so much for sharing! @Milos Djukic
    Milos Djukic
    02/07/2016 #54 Anonymous
    I enjoy this @Stephanie Lamoureux. Thank you.
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    02/07/2016 #53 Anonymous
    You might enjoy this....@Anees Zaidi
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    29/06/2016 #52 Anonymous
    Look closely.......
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    29/06/2016 #51 Gerald Hecht
    #49 @Stephanie Lamoureux I thought you were smiling from your eyes ...
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    29/06/2016 #50 Gerald Hecht
    #48 @Stephanie Lamoureux I got nothing ;-)
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    29/06/2016 #49 Anonymous
    There should have been a ;) face on my last comment...
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    29/06/2016 #48 Anonymous
    Yes! You are too funny...get to writing one of us should :@Gerald Hecht
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    29/06/2016 #47 Gerald Hecht
    #46 @Stephanie Lamoureux oh?
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    29/06/2016 #46 Anonymous
    Check your message @Gerald Hecht
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    29/06/2016 #45 Gerald Hecht
    #44 @Stephanie Lamoureux no can do!
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    12/10/2016
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    12/10/2016 #1 Jared Wiese
    Learn faster with THE strategy for how we all learn!
    When learning, you create a relationship, not "figuring things out". Known to unknown.

    @10:00 Learning NLP: "Never leave the site of setting a goal without doing something that commits you to fulfillment ."

    Gets into the 2 of 5 Cs to RPM (planning)
  20. ProducerEmilia M. Ludovino
    THE MIND IS THE SOURCE OF ALL SUFFERING AND THE SOURCE OF ALL HAPPINESS
    THE MIND IS THE SOURCE OF ALL SUFFERING AND THE SOURCE OF ALL HAPPINESS“If you are pained by external things, it is not they that disturb you, but your own judgment of them. And it is in your power to wipe out that judgment now.” Marcos Aurelius“The mind is the source of all suffering, and it is also the source of all...
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    03/10/2016 #6 Emilia M. Ludovino
    #5 Thanks @Gert Scholtz for reading it. Glad you liked it :))). Viel plezier!!!
    Gert Scholtz
    02/10/2016 #5 Gert Scholtz
    @Emilia M. Ludovino You capture the essence of your article so well when you highlight attention and intention to reprogram thinking habits and attitudes. Thank you Emilia.
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    02/10/2016 #4 Emilia M. Ludovino
    Thank you @David B. Grinberg for reading it and for the kind words. "Mind over matter" always makes me think - Wich comes first - The Mind or the Matter?. Being a naturally curious girl once I made this question to one of my Buddhist masters :), I was 14yo at the time and I'm still looking for the answer :). Glad you liked and shared it. I'm grateful for your support. Have a pleasant evening.
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    02/10/2016 #3 David B. Grinberg
    Nice buzz @Emilia M. Ludovino, you make so many interesting points to ponder. I'm reminded of the important phrase, "Mind over matter." Also, I have shared on the following hives, "Lifestyles" "Inspiration" and "Healthy Living" -- BUZZ ON!
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    02/10/2016 #2 Emilia M. Ludovino
    Hi @Jared - Thank you for taking your time for reading it and for the tip on the broken link. Have a wonderful day!
    Jared Wiese
    02/10/2016 #1 Jared Wiese
    GREAT post, Emilia! Need to re-read, refect, then will comment more :)

    Say, your link is broken:
    http://www.linkedinhttps//www.bebee.com/producer/@emilia-ludovino/reprograming-our-brain-healing-ourselves-from-the-inside-out
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    02/10/2016
    Jared Wiese
    How Attentional Bias Makes You Obsess Over Buying Stuff You Don't Need
    lifehacker.com Every few days, my attention will be grabbed by some new thing (or, on occasion, some old thing that had slipped my mind). Maybe it’s a movie. Maybe it’s a board game. Maybe it’s a new gadget. Maybe it’s a book. Whatever that thing is, something...
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    02/10/2016 #2 Jared Wiese
    It made me think of Tony Robbins and his description of our use of the Reticular Activating System (RAS). In short, he says RAS is responsible for us constantly noticing something.

    On the other extreme, we are "deletion creatures." Our brains are constantly blocking things from our focus. If we didn't do that, we wouldn't be able to focus on anything.

    Proof?
    Remember the last time you got a car? Did you ever think about it while not in it? Ever suddenly start seeing others on the road?! That's our RAS.
    Now, when's the last time you thought about that billboard you drove by while focusing on the road?

    Per Wikipedia,
    "The reticular activating system also helps mediate transitions from relaxed wakefulness to periods of high attention. There is increased regional blood flow (presumably indicating an increased measure of neuronal activity) in the midbrain reticular formation (MRF) and thalamic intralaminar nuclei during tasks requiring increased alertness and attention."

    Also made me think of The Miracle Morning and visualizations. The more we think about and see something in our mind, the more real it becomes - even if it is not yet real!
    Jared Wiese
    02/10/2016 #1 Jared Wiese
    This article came from Trent Hamm on his great site, The Simple Dollar: http://www.thesimpledollar.com/attentional-bias-why-you-talk-yourself-into-buying-the-thing-youre-obsessing-over-in-your-head-and-how-to-stop-it/

    I found it on http://lifehacker.com/how-attentional-bias-makes-you-obsess-over-buying-stuff-1787233263

    Image adapted from Mechanik and Merfin(Shutterstock).
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    Check out @successmagazine's Tweet: https://twitter.com/successmagazine/status/781219175310118912?s=09
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    Tony Robbins: Life Is a Dance Between Your Fears and Desires

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