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Comments16/09/2017 #45 Pascal DerrienCharisma oral traditions and ancestral legends are all very important components of the learning process but so has been manipulation for some who have mastered the art of misguidance there is no perfect answer to your thoughts I think we just need to be vigilant 😀
#4316/09/2017 #43 siraj shaik#1 once as a child at a village asked the senior woman around whom we all kids had gathered "from where she read the story". "oh! from my grandma"... and back at school I gave a try to share with friends, seems no one got exited (maybe I couldn't fut forward the similar way or ??). But some could tell with perfection, often wondered how point blank some at school the biggest lie in simple way. That technique carrier personalities will be the one either in front end or back end (depend on dependencies depend). I am sure @Aaron 🐝 Skogen, those who had initiated such story might have carried high-levels of creativity which not only had capacity to move something small but nation(s) as well. And seems with tech generic techniques possibility to generate such with easy as per access to source of guides that could mould stories with automation (suggestive's). Don't you think how the grandma's storytelling became a "big think" also giving ways to make good returns. So maybe there are counter techniques to analyze truth (maybe with facility of moderable as PPPC). But one thing for sure either the results will break or build (destruct or develop). Just a common person opinions and views. Like to read (see) comment from @Pascal Derrien15/09/2017 #40 Aaron 🐝 SkogenI loved this @Pascal Derrien!
While storytelling may be approaching "buzzword" status in corporate speak, it's still one of the most viable forms of communication and, dare I say, motivation.
The thing about stories, the good ones, is that they make an impression, make us think, convey a moral direction, etc. I've been a reader my whole life. While I agree, sometimes the story just provides a bit of entertainment in the moment, then is lost. Yet, other times the story spurs us to action, or leaves an indelible mark on the way we see the world. It's a medium of creativity that can, literally, move mountains!
As always a great piece. Thoughtful and well written.15/09/2017 #36 Antoinette Capasso-BackdahlI just was telling my mom the latest details in the story of her grandmother and she was so delighted because Anna never wanted to talk about it. She wound up marrying a Magee and while her boys tried to get to the bottom of it and the court records were destroyed by Hauptly according to a great great uncle... My mom was just happy to finally know what happened in Hoodsport. I said mom, we got hoodwinked in Hoodsport.
Both paternal and maternal grands were brought here on ships to work in the labor camps. Maternal side was rewarded with homesteads by Grover Cleveland only to have them stolen after being murdered by the families who are recognized as the founding pioneers. Paternal side was hoodwinked by the Papal states. I guess that is why my dad always said "we gave at the office" lol15/09/2017 #35 Antoinette Capasso-BackdahlI was just wondering when I would happen on one of your posts and viola!
The Errol Flynn version was filmed in a town that is famous for the McReavy house. The McReavy's and the Hauplty's are lauded for their founding, pioneering and planning WA state but they are also the ones who stole my great great grandmothers land. Jacob Hauptly writes in his diary how he had a crush on my beautiful great great grandmother who married instead someone else. Hauptly was the Justice of the Peace and Sheriff who wound up with custody of my great grandmother and her brother. Who then moved in with the McReavy's. Both Hauptly and McReavy along with other players were in both probate cases of my great great grandmother and her brother who also had his land taken from his heirs [which incidentally, my great grandmother is named in there as well because they had adopted her for that short period while probate was going on]. So Emma and Charles mysteriously died from consumption and Hauptly was the guy who supplied the food.
Anyhooo... I thought the story about Mussolini stealing land in Italy from my paternal great grandparents worth $110k was an interesting story but that was boring compared to sorting out the story where Robin Hood was filmed.15/09/2017 #33 Ken BoddieRobin Hood was a flawed concept anyway, Pascal ..... a mere vagabond middle man. We need to teach our kids to pay it forward and to give back to the community from which we've benefitted. Then, only when we've bred a culture of philanthropists, can we talk to future generations of Santa Claus and the tooth fairy.15/09/2017 #30 Lisa Vanderburg#28 #28 Well, top this one then guys; my dad made me read The Hobbit then the entire trilogy of Lord of the Rings at an age-inappropriate time...I was 6. The ensuing Q&A meant I had to re-read them at age 10.....much better!
Any bats in your belfry, @Chas ✌️ Wyatt? :)15/09/2017 #28 Chas ✌️ WyattWhen I was in Grade School (a rural school with a belfry encasing a cast iron bell), there was a small oak grove woods on the border of the school property encasing the baseball fields where we would play "Robin Hood". We even made bows and arrows, using the ivy vines that were growing on the oaks for our bowstring. It never mattered whether the legend was true, or not, for it fired the imagination and kindled the flame of creativity. Robin Hood was, and still is, about justice, chivalry and integrity. Not unlike the legend of King Arthur, another myth that I grew fond of and was determined to read such a thick book (I do not remember if it was the version by Roger Lancelyn Green, or the one by T.H. White, but, it seemed to be as voluminous as the Bible); it catapulted me into another world and instilled a great love for literature within me. Like Joseph Campbell, I believe the need to have such myths in our lives is as relevant as ever.
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Comments10/09/2017 #44 Aleta CurryI've said it before and I daresay I'll say it again: I am just thrilled, not to mention a little awed, when a writer of the calibre of @Paul Walters reads 'my stuff', much less mentions me in the same breath as some of the incredible writers we're lucky to have on beBee.
I loved Javier's piece too, and thought that it was not before time, although I do tend to cut the posters of inspirational quotes some slack if the quotes are truly inspirational, as opposed to trite pop psychology. I, of course, am imminently qualified to judge that - ahem!
Ditto kittens, puppies and songs. As long as you've published them in Cats, Dogs, and Music hives, I'm going to leave you alone. If they're in IT, however, we may have something of a problem.
I must say I was surprised to find an invitation to follow a blatantly sexual profile in my mailbox a few weeks back. I realised that I didn't really care. I'm not into it myself, since I'm here for professional growth served with a hearty helping of entertainment, but sex probably counts as entertainment for a lot of people, so I'm staying right out of it.
I realise that I have no idea what my point is. I'm stopping now.
Thanks for the chuckles, Paul!10/09/2017 #43 Paul Walters#41 @CityVP 🐝 Manjit Thank you . I do intentionally ridicule myself in many of the pieces I write. 'Nice and fluffy' was something my rather clever daughter said about ( what I thought ) was a serious piece about something or other. I perhaps watch too many Woody Allen movies or reat too many david Sedaris books as I feel I am picking up their habits ! Howver your kind words touch m deeply .10/09/2017 #41 CityVP 🐝 ManjitI think the best testimony is the articles themselves, so I checked out an August 2016 piece about Jakarta also published by Oryx and from the first paragraph onwards a.k.a.
"The early morning sun spears like an arrow through the buildings in old Batavia illuminating an old man hosing down the cobblestones while, across the square a restaurateur arranges chairs and tables on the pavement then pulls down a colourful awning ............"
Where in the eye of the beholder one see's "nice and fluffy" I see "rich and inviting". The key here is certainly not an academic treatise about travel, but a lived experience shared with the reader in a way which is virtual reality without the technology - and that is the best kind of VR - the one that stirs the imagination of our own minds. Now if people settle for less or even focus their attention at the level of branding, then it is an old verse of the self-limiting perceptions of personal branding, and again this simply exemplifies the consequences of operating at the level of sell, tell or yell, rather than stir one's own imagination and avidly seek to be shaken and stirred. So what I read in the Jakarta article is beyond brand, because the reader of that article is physically on route to a real travel experience.
Reading of course is a great habit but imagination is what gives life to that habit and then habit is WHO WE ARE, not as a reader but as human being. So it is the next step is ours. Mine was discovering FX Harsono http://www.thejakartapost.com/news/2015/01/29/fx-harsono-exposing-beauty-ugly-truth.html and we either find those linkages with virtual travel or physical travel, but what I learn here is 100% of the magic that should be travel.09/09/2017 #40 Liesbeth Leysen, MSc. Brand Ambassador beBee, Inc.the power of truly caring09/09/2017 #39 Liesbeth Leysen, MSc. Brand Ambassador beBee, Inc.thank you @Paul Walters it is good to be reminded that we need to take care of our audience, they care about us and we need to show that we care about them too. Wonderful post!09/09/2017 #34 Praveen Raj Gullepalli#29 Content doth matter,
But readers matter a lot more;
Why worry about what other writers write,
When you could devote that energy to write some more? ;)
We have our connections...and their connections to care about or read,
And like, comment upon or share every useful feed;
Let us judge not harshly for we too would be judged,
Opinion is verily a sword, double-edged.08/09/2017 #27 Phil FriedmanNice piece, @Paul Walters, bright and unpretentious -- as always. I enjoy your writing for its lack of hidden agenda. And for the
Openness it displays. As I sit here waiting to see if my home of more than two decades survives the week, it, I've been reading a number of your posts and feeling better for them. Thanks and cheers.
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Comments07/09/2017 #42 Tausif Mundrawala#41 Thank you for your wonderful comment my friend @Liesbeth Leysen, MSc. Brand Ambassador beBee, Inc.07/09/2017 #41 Liesbeth Leysen, MSc. Brand Ambassador beBee, Inc.awe so sweet @Tausif Mundrawala love it07/09/2017 #38 Tausif Mundrawala#33 First of all many many happy returns of the day to an angelic soul. Recently I had put off an idea of celebrating my mom's birthday as we were discussing about her special day. But then I realize that I should celebrate that day in order to keep her memories alive. Yes of course, you are my friend and you have consoled me and supported me during a difficult phase. They were happy that I am connected with you.
God bless you always and your sister was privileged enough to have you, my friend @Lisa Vanderburg07/09/2017 #35 Tausif Mundrawala#28 Life seemed impossible after she departed this world but time is the best healer of all griefs. You made a very powerful statement in your comment stating about her wishes and desire about me. Thank you so much for all your support, my friend @Deb 🐝 Helfrich07/09/2017 #33 Lisa Vanderburg#24 My dear @Tausif Mundrawala, I am so deeply touched that even through you and your families grief you still reach out to console and remember someone else that you've never even seen; that's pure love and I am humbled. It's my sister's birthday today and she's still on facebook so I left her a cake and a message :)
Your wonderful mother would be so proud to have seen her son rise up out of his grief to extend a helping hand. God bless you, sweet and wonderful man!07/09/2017 #28 Deb 🐝 Helfrich@Tausif Mundrawala, I was moved to read these words many times. The ways in which you have expressed your feelings highlights the love you shared with your mother and the legacy of her precious spirit that will live on in you for many years to come. I know that moving on will prove challenging in some ways. But remember, proudly, how she brought you to life, because that was her dream, her wish, her desire - for you to experience the joys of being alive.06/09/2017 #24 Tausif Mundrawala#20 Your buzz which was dedicated to your sister still resonates with me well especially the quote of Khalil Gibran. I have shared that story with my family and they have asked me to relay the message of their deepest condolences to you and your family. However hard I may try I can't remove her from memory as she was the vital part of me.
Thank you so much for your kind support as you were one among those who consoled me during this difficult phase of my life. Thank you once again, my friend @Lisa Vanderburg06/09/2017 #23 Tausif Mundrawala#19 Thank you so much for your kind words my friend. I have seen people ignoring their parents just due to some misunderstandings with their spouses. I reminded them that they are losing the most precious time which should be spent with their parents. Only those who know the value of this relation would shed tears. Thank you so much for support my friend, @Pascal Derrien06/09/2017 #22 Tausif Mundrawala#18 My sister kept a whole bunch of photos in my room. I begin my day while having a look at them. It's same with me that before smiling I start to cry. I keep asking her, 'Mama why you left?'. Yes she was a wonderful woman. She was an exception among many. In the company of women she never chatted or back bited anyone. In fact she was more interested in watching documentaries as if she was present there. She loved animals and hated the ones who hurted them.
Am glad that you liked this buzz. Once again thank you so much for consoling me at the time when I needed a friend like you, @Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
- Producer29/08/2017Abuse Again y Abuso Infantil: Un Paseo por la MemoriaMost know me for my tackling of social issues. This can take a toll. Mucking around with what’s wrong with the world can be horrific. I find things out I don’t want to know. Yes, Ian Weinberg—there is no justice. You’re right, but that doesn’t mean...
Comments31/08/2017 #16 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher#14 That's a good point you brought up @Nicole Chardenet. My mom's dad threw her real mother down the stairs in the 50's, her mom had amnesia and was sent to a State Mental Facility back then. While there, she was pregnant, had a still born at 9 mos and developed Pneumonia afterwards. She needed moved to a real hospital for treatment but my grandfather ran off. His own family even put a big plea in the newspaper asking for help to find him. Only HE COULD have my mom's real mom transferred back then. My mom's real mother died in the Mental Health facility b/c of lack of treatment.
The premise of the above story, my mother was sent to live with her Grandparents in Florida while he was MIA. She was with them from 18 mos old to 4 yrs old and her good memories were always of them, always. So, I assume they had a major impact early on. He showed up at their door with his 'new wife' mom had never met, took her and left. He ran off and joined the Military and that's why no one could find him. He wouldn't get away w/that today.
Her grandparents must have really set a good foundation for her during her formative years.31/08/2017 #14 Nicole Chardenet#12 It's good that your mother didn't repeat the patterns that she grew up with, and even knew what love was...was there some other adult figure in her life who *did* love her? Like a teacher or an aunt or something? Some people get out of abusive situations and set their minds on breaking the cycle, others go forth and abuse as their parents had. I find the stories of resilience and the unwillingness to perpetuate the abuse cycle fascinating and heartening. Trying to understand who survives and who doesn't. You and Joyce are survivors, Lisa!31/08/2017 #12 Lisa 🐝 GallagherMy mother grew up in an abusive home. Her dad was an alcoholic and a beater. Her step mom was verbally abusive and didn't care about my mom. Mom told us that her saving grace was in knowing that she would move out as soon as she was old enough, meet a nice man and have kids so she could give them the love she never had. It was a win/win for her because she received love back from her husband, extended family and 5 children along with grandchildren. Mom said her desire to live a life that was nothing like the one she grew up in was so strong, it got her through many tough days. She also broke ties with my grandparents because he never stopped drinking and she (the step mom) was just not a nice person, sadly she was abused too but chose to stay, which many women do. I wish you the peace you desire and deserve @Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee. I pray that day comes sooner than not for you, everyone deserves to feel free and happy. Sending good thoughts your way :)30/08/2017 #3 Ian Weinberg@Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee I fought the good fight against many injustices and untruths for many years. I'm not sure what I achieved. For the most part, the status quo continues. And so I've mellowed. I sprout forth from time to time or take it on when confronted. I also support others in their noble quest. But these days I tend rather to mind my own acre.
- Producer30/08/2017The Tides of EmotionsIt's been a while since I've written a buzz. I feel like I've been a bit frozen in time lately. It's taken a lot of self-reflection to understand why it is I've felt this way. Before you read on, please let me warn you this blog will contain the...
Comments04/09/2017 #58 Anonymouswhat a lovely poem..thank you @Puneet Srivastava I always try to remember when I get sad, that they would not want me to be sad, they left together (how they wanted to) and they are no longer in pain here. I never say they died..seems so harsh (even tho true)..I say they got their wings. In my mind's eye...that is much more accepting.04/09/2017 #56 Puneet SrivastavaO' Death, why are you so difficult?
And if you are a mere transformer,
Then why so many bleeding hearts,
you leave behind with your action?
Come clean for once and always after;
or else don't blame us for seeing you
as a tormenting monster.
To all you friends with prayers of peace, courage, love & acceptance.
@Lisa 🐝 Gallagher @Tausif Mundrawala @🐝 Fatima G. Williams @Gloria 🐝 🐾 💫 ☕ (Glo) Ochoa @Liesbeth Leysen, MSc. Brand Ambassador beBee, Inc.04/09/2017 #54 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher#53 I'm sorry you still feel such a loss when your dad comes to mind @🐝 Fatima G. Williams. As they say, it can come in waves and the pain is real. Many times I feel thankful I can still feel because it reminds me although she's gone, she will always live in my heart and the same with your father. That is something no one can take from us, our precious memories. At times I too, feel as though I could have valued the many times I had with my mom but took for granted. I think that is not uncommon so don't be hard on yourself. Until we face the idea of losing a loved one I think it's easy to take those we love for granted (unintentionally). The good thing, your heart comes from a place of love and compassion and I'm sure you dad always felt that from you. I'm sure he never felt taken for granted. As a parent myself with grown children, I know their lives have taken their own paths now but I also know that they love me unconditionally, faults and all.
You are making a difference in this world and I bet your dad always knew you would and you probably were doing that before he passed too in many ways you weren't even aware of. Don't be hard on yourself but remember, it's OKAY to feel what you need. I lost my father when I was 10 yrs old and there are times I still feel like I need him, I cry for a minute and then I talk to him. Joels' comment was great and made so much sense!03/09/2017 #53 🐝 Fatima G. WilliamsDear dear Lisa a big HUG to you. I always told you, 'You are a champion and you are unique. It's different for each of us like Pascal said. Even to this minute tears come streaming down just mentioning my dad's absence in my life, a feeling in my chest, a lump in my throat. No-one truly understands, it's our own heart, at its own pace, learning to embrace, value and be thankful for their presence on earth. It's like they take a piece of us that we don't really need anymore. Like for me it was not valuing the time I had with him. In a way the lesson he taught me to treasure every minute I have with every person I know and be thankful for every blessing I receive and to be generous with love to all people like he always did.
I love what Joel said "So all we can do is continue the journey of life long learning and navigating the changes along its path realizing that in our experiences, relationships, associations, interactions and just being human we truly benefit and grow from stories like yours. That despite the challenges and changes along the way, in the end, we can and will find our way home."
Sending you loads of love and happiness to fill that beautiful heart of yours.01/09/2017 #48 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher#45 Great quote by Hugh Prather, @Joel Anderson, and so true! I like ( I think) the idea that we can sense our way home. Possibly that's the 3/4's of the journey, being alive enough to keep those senses open, so we can 'sense' our way home as well. Somehow we arrived here (our souls), we sensed our way here or did we choose? I always wonder about that. I'd like to read the book, it sounds interesting.
Sending you good thoughts, I know this has been a tough time for you Joel.01/09/2017 #47 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher#43 I'm really glad the video resonated @Tausif Mundrawala. I have found things like that can be tough to listen to but the more we listen, the more we may shed tears and clear our heads as well. Tears are healing and yes, I truly empathize with you. I know how much you loved your dear mom. Still sending good thoughts your way!01/09/2017 #46 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher#42 @Louise Smith, thanks! I'm so happy I'm out of the anger phase. I think that in some ways was the worst. I'm finally able to feel warm feelings and the grief has been slowly lifting. I'm so thankful that I had a mother that I will always feel deep love towards.31/08/2017 #45 Joel Anderson#30 @Lisa 🐝 Gallagher One interesting journey indeed. "Just when I think I have learned the way to live, life changes." Hugh Prather.
In the 20th Anniversary introduction to his book Notes to Myself: My Struggle to Become Human (*not an endorsement--just a reflection*), he makes this comment about progress: "In our hearts, we can all sense the way home..."
So all we can do is continue the journey of life long learning and navigating the changes along its path realizing that in our experiences, relationships, associations, interactions and just being human we truly benefit and grow from stories like yours. That despite the challenges and changes along the way, in the end, we can and will find our way home. (Spiritually, Physically, Metaphysically, Cosmically, or in just living the moments we are given).
In trying to find the truth of my own path, I find comfort in knowing that there are others on the same quest. I am me, You are You, and We are We. Keep making a difference Lisa: one person, one step at a time. Thank you again.31/08/2017 #43 Tausif Mundrawala#34 You are such a wonderful friend of mine to have dedicated the last video to the angelic soul of my mom. I would like everyone to know how your words acted as a balm on the wound which I thought would never go away. I am planning to pen a buzz on a subject which I would definitely tag all my friends here. What else could one ask from a friend who has dedicated a wonderful piece to my mom. You had been through those experiences where you could empathize with me. Hats off to our moms who had been through an unimaginable pain. They never let us know what they felt.
How could I thank you enough, my friend @Lisa 🐝 Gallagher31/08/2017 #42 Louise Smith@Lisa 🐝 Gallagher By dealing with the inescapable even though you passed through denial and anger, you are a stronger person. a braver person, a more understanding person. Your Mother is proud of you ! People without real compassion criticise and fall away. Do not concern yourself with them. Instead focus on the good memories, the funny stories, the dedication of your Mother as you knew her better than they did. You have learnt something about yourself that they will never know or even consider possible. Your Mother did a good job nurturing and is still teaching you. Look into your heart and know you are worthy.31/08/2017 #41 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher#38 Hi @Deb🐝 Lange, Brand Ambassador @beBee. I agree, we don't spend enough time feeling and sharing grief. It shouldn't be viewed as something negative because just as much as birth is a part of life, so is death- I will always celebrate my mothers life. We didn't celebrate my fathers because he died before Hospice was created and during a time when to talk about death was hush. Thanks for your lovely comment!31/08/2017 #39 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher#35 Dear @Sara Jacobovici, I hope the music was soothing. I have to admit, tears will still stream when I hear those songs but that's a cleansing feeling. How are you? It hasn't been long at all. You know what stood out for me in the first song, when he sang, "And I remember all the things we did, when I was a little kid." I swear those are the memories that come flooding back. A friend lost her mom before I lost mine and she said, "I feel like a child again, missing my mom." I understand now. I find the childhood memories put a smile on my face now. That's my wish for you, more smiles than tears- all in your own time. I'm very glad we met too! Bless you Sara.
- Producer22/08/2017Meeting My New Normal. Not At All The Same As The Old OneThis is the second installment in this series. You can read the first one at https://www.bebee.com/producer/@jim-murray/dispatches-from-the-quiet-side-of-the-lake-part-oneIn the new place where I have lived since last December, the biggest...
Comments23/08/2017 #10 Jerry FletcherJim,
Thank You sir! Nice of you to spell out the emotional journey I've just embarked upon. I'm readying my house for the market and looking forward to buying what will be my last one with a little luck. I'm trying to move from a 4 Bedroom, 2 office monster into something with just 2 bedrooms as I don't know what I would do if I didn't have an office in the home like I've had for the last 27 years. Thanks, too, for pointing out that the nerves do get sanded down over time. Perhaps I'll relate my saga here as you've so eloquently done.23/08/2017 #8 Jim Murray#7 I'm glad you feel that way @Don 🐝 Kerr. From down here and looking back at when I was in Toronto, I always thought of the area from Oshawa to Stoney Creek as pretty much one big megapolis. Mainly because I had seen it fill in over the years. It's nice to know that there is a sense of community within it that 'feels' small and homey.23/08/2017 #6 David B. GrinbergThanks for another exemplary read, Jim, filled with important insights. Many congrats on finding such a wonderful community to live, work and excel. Frankly, I'm envious!
I'm really glad everything worked out so well, as I still recall some of your blog posts before and after you immediately moved in. There's a small quaint and quiet town on Maryland's Eastern Shore called St. Michaels -- perhaps St. Catherines is his sister?
The following sentence really struck a chord with me, especially as someone still living within what too often feels like a concrete jungle:
"But there’s something to be said for the diminished sense of urgency that living life in a smaller community brings with it."
Amen to that, brother! Enjoy...23/08/2017 #4 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher#3 I agree Jim, it's the incessant thoughts that can drive us crazy but like you, I HATE packing too. Now, we have almost 30 more years worth of crap to get rid of or pack, yikes... that thought keeps me from taking the leap. Your yard looks so pretty, I saw the pool and it appears you have nice greenery too!22/08/2017 #1 Lisa 🐝 GallagherThat HAD to be a major adjustment after living in a large city for so many years @Jim Murray. We talk about moving to an area that has more to offer but the idea of packing and all that you mentioned above causes me stress just thinking of it. I'm glad you are happy now! Write away :))
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Comments23/08/2017 #12 Numo Quest#9 What a great reply dearest Promo. It is like changing a 'Habit' what will take some time to adopt in ones system. Reward anyhow will be that you graduate will preserve your own energy re frustration of opinion and judgement of others, hence, your 'urge' of forming opinion or judgement. Things gently will become ease in you while your self confidence will grow exponentially. If you simply replace 'believing' in to 'Know it is so...' no one else can tell you any different. Great to read it is benefiting you on your own term and pass. :O)) It is intended that way.23/08/2017 #10 Lance 🐝 Scoular🥚cellent article
@Proma 🐝 Nautiyal
Both stories broght to mind a few scenes of Julia Roberts in the film "Pretty Woman."
The most memorable one for me was when Vivian (Julia Roberts) returns to a up market fashion shop, where yesterday she was wearing her casuals but today is now dressed to the nines...
...Shop assistant: Hello, can I help you?
Vivian: I was in here yesterday, you wouldn't wait on me.
Shop assistant: Oh.
Vivian: You people work on commission, right?
Shop assistant: Yeah.
I have to go shopping now.
🎬23/08/2017 #9 Proma 🐝 Nautiyal#8 @Numo Quest such an empowering thought. I read your comment at least 4 times before commenting. You have massively changed the perception I had about people and their judgements. It will take me some time to implement it, for sure, but I now have grasp of the fundamental. Thank you! :-)22/08/2017 #8 Numo Quest#7 That is the biggest mistake thinkable. Mirroring some one is the same as putting energy and focus in something that is some one else is stead of remaining oneself. If you stand in front of a mirror, just do for argument sake, and concentrate at the mirror, not the reflection of you. Just do that for about three minutes and it will sink in. The mirror is just a mirror, and object not doing anything at all. The energy of you, or anyone else, isn't touching you, harming you, appeal to you, no matter how they try. You will understand that having any opinion on what ever subject, any judgement on any person, has no ground, hence is a waste of time and energy. If you adopt the principle of the mirror, you won't even feel or become annoyed about opinion or judgement of others. Since these only are based upon the idea or vision of the other, not knowing which path you have walked, on what grounds you decide. Hence, putting energy in judgement or opinion of others, regardless you or any topic, in fact is useless. If you quit mimicking others, you will have eye and focus for other things to observe. ":O) Just give it a try and be your own Creator :O)22/08/2017 #4 Proma 🐝 Nautiyal#2 @Lisa Gallagher I can't thank you enough for your kind words and encouragement, Lisa, it means a lot to me. It took me a lot of self-contemplation to go ahead and write about it, but then I really wanted to.
You are so right about donning casuals outside of work hours irrespective of where you are living. And the kitchen, of course, room service can never help unwind like a cooking/baking session does.
I agree with your point about the lady at the stall being made to feel inferior at some point in her life. It could very well be a reason for her to reflect that same treatment on someone else. A person confident in their own skin would never have let themselves treat others so poorly even though they might have been treated badly, themselves, at some point of time. Karmic logic ensures I never overstep my boundaries and I just hope others understand the same too.
My husband and I had both decided to spend every waking moment out, exploring the city. I guess that is what helped us survive the hotel stay. :D22/08/2017 #2 Lisa 🐝 GallagherWhat a wonderful topic for a buzz @Proma 🐝 Nautiyal. Let me first say, I can relate so much when it comes to staying in a 5 star hotel. I'm not comfortable either because too many do walk around all dressed up and when I'm away, I like to dress down. I don't want to have to dress up for breakfast, dinner or to even walk through the halls and lobby. For those reasons, I stay away from 5 star hotels.
I'm glad you found your voice and you were able to speak up for yourself when it came to the crystal lamp! It baffles me when people have no problem treating others as if they are less important than another based on how they dress etc... it baffles me more when they don't have a hard time making comments that reflect how they feel inside. I think some people like that have possibly been made to feel inferior at some point in their lives and treat others as they were treated. Maybe by speaking up to the woman who was selling the stones and more made her think about her actions?
Thank you for sharing this because we all deserve to be treated with dignity. This is a good reminder. For the record, I would have gone stark raving mad having to stay in a hotel room for 2 months. I could have handled a 1 bedroom room with a kitchen but not just a room. I think my husband and I would have really gotten on each others nerves lol. (that's an understatement).
- Producer16/08/2017How to Write a College Essay that Shares Your PassionWhen coaching my college essay clients on how to write a college essay, I always tell them to talk about their real passion and to tell their real story – not to talk about what they think other people want them to talk about.In that vein, today,...
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- Producer30/07/2017Madman, Architect, Carpenter, JudgeWe all have stories to tell. Yet, sometimes writing it is not so easy. We write a bit, then realize how clanky it sounds, delete and start again. After one or more attempts the same happens and we stop the effort. One way to get out of the muddle...
Comments01/08/2017 #44 Cyndi wilkinsKudos to anyone who dares face the judge without the fear of being judged...Intelligence itself does not create anything...The imagination is your channel to the creative unconscious...Write away my friends...The only critic you need to conquer is your own;-) Thanks for the invitation @Gert Scholtz!01/08/2017 #41 Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBeeI'm a great slasher of words--phrases less often. My madman is comfortably retained on the seat of my chair. I sit on it every day. Down Boy. If my madman manages to surface, I simply pluck myself from my seat and watch some TV. Nobody likes listening to your madman.31/07/2017 #38 Gert Scholtz#36 @Liesbeth Leysen, MSc. Brand Ambassador beBee, Inc. Thank you Liesbeth,31/07/2017 #37 Jerry FletcherGeez Gert,
You reminded me that I had a manual typewriter back in the day. Most of my craziest ideas were handwritten. You had to physically push the letters and the words onto the page. Then came the electric typewriter and then computers and then programs that track changes. Perhaps that is why we can now identify the madman, architect, carpenter and judge. Now, where did I put that pencil?31/07/2017 #36 Liesbeth Leysen, MSc. Brand Ambassador beBee, Inc.#25 you are the greatest bee @Gert Scholtz31/07/2017 #31 Connie LimonGert Scholtz: What catches my eyes here are many statements, but I will share only one which probably covers it all for me: "let the madman energy flow. Find what interests you in the topic, the question or emotion that it raises in you, and respond" I have had somewhat of a "madman energy" SINCE I experienced a conversion experience that took me into a spiritual world that not been opened up to me prior to this happening.....I then began to write like a mad man at certain times. It was times I could not call up on my own, like sit down and say, I am going to write now as if with a madman energy.31/07/2017 #30 Vincent Andrew"Whatever joy there is in the writing process can come only when the energies are flowing freely-when you're not stuck." I find this to be true. When I am stuck, it's because the ideas, the words and sentences are not coming together. It can be frustrating. But give it a bit of space and more time and suddenly they come maddeningly together at the same time that I am forced to sit to literally get it all out on paper. Enjoyed this Gert.31/07/2017 #29 Harvey LloydI am the original butcher of the English language. Certainly here of BeBee writing is a central theme. But the largest issue is communications in the broader sense.
Even though i have an aversion to punctuation, i have witnessed the other end where folks cant just blurt out on the screen a free style of writing as each sentence becomes an epic journey. The idea in their writing gets lost in the diagraming of sentence structure.
I loved the concept you presented. Thanks.31/07/2017 #28 VDS BrinkLovely Gert! Core of it is that we should do our thinking in separate modes. De Bono's hats are a similar approach. Freewriting a great one as you put a piece of paper on your screen and just type madly as a madman boring the left brain Judge all the way. It works every time!!
- Producer10/07/2017Busy? Try being productiveBusy.Everyone is busy, right? That's all we hear all day.I'm busy. Today was busy. I can't, I'm too busy.Busy, busy, busy.Can someone please call Lake Superior State University and ask them to ban this word next year?It's a terrible word.Telling...
- Producer25/06/2017Transitioning from Corporate EA to Entrepreneur There is so much information on the internet about how to transition from a support in the corporate world to learning all the ins and outs of working for yourself. It is a BIG step with many unknowns. I remember how it happened for me. I...
Comments28/06/2017 #6 Suzan Savarese#3 Jugging life can be difficult especially when we all work full-time and have to leave our job. My finances and life have been much different. But we pick up and go on. Perhaps we can connect sometime and compare notes! Take care of yourself and hope your mom stays "kicking" for some time to come. Stay well.26/06/2017 #4 Harvey LloydThe transition from employee of any type to entrepreneur is challenging. I did it very young. I can still remember the fear and anxiety of feeling like a long tail cat in a rocking chair store.
You bring some valid points to the discussion. What i had to learn is that my knowledge, skills and wisdom would be present within each new experience. Wisdom may have been elusive, but with knowledge and skill i could develop the wisdom needed to traverse the new.
Welcome to BeBee26/06/2017 #3 Barbara HensleeHi @Suzan Savarese, I'm a newbee too. And, I too, am an EA large company (Fortune 100). AND, also a 50/50 partner for a small business. Both jobs are vastly different as you describe here. Yet, our core values are the same, in fact must be the same in order to be successful at both AT the same time. My condolences for the loss of your Dad. I ALSO can relate to that. My 93 year old mom was in my care directly for the last 10 years. She is still "kicking," but we moved her to a long term nursing home close to my two sisters in another city. I didn't want to do it at the time, but I'm glad we did, as my life has been given a much needed break. I wish you all the best in your future.
- Producer06/05/2017A compilation of selected beBee essays (Final version)http://www.pninet.com/articles/Compilation.pdf Updated and...
Comments11/05/2017 #1 Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBeeOften times, I read your stuff and my mind screams, "I don't want to know." That's because your depth of knowledge is almost frightening. The fact that you chose to share with us (or take the time to do so) leaves me with no better words than, "Thank you."
- Producer17/06/2017Salem HospitalDoctors are Gods; are they not? I don’t think so, but they think they are. I once had a doctor say to me,“Things are getting better.”And he was right—for doctors—not for patients.The Atlanta Journal Consitution wrote a scathing review of physicians...
Comments19/06/2017 #11 Tausif MundrawalaWords seem ineffable to describe your courage but your stories prove one thinh that you are a fighter and have always fought all odds which were meant to ruin your life. You are a lioness who have retaliated despite being wounded. I can't understand what happiness such people derive by harming others. Always be strong the way you are my friend,@Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee18/06/2017 #9 Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee#7 There are a few posts I've written on this topic that are related. The whole thing is so convoluted. It took decades to do all the research. Many of the answers came via happenstance. The posts are below, but Deception is, by far, the most important.
Hay algunos posts que he escrito sobre este tema que están relacionados. Todo es tan complicado. Tardaron décadas en hacer toda la investigación. Muchas de las respuestas vinieron por casualidad. Los postes están abajo, pero el Engaño es, con mucho, el más importante.
https://www.bebee.com/producer/@joyce-bowen/predation-stories-of-stolen-childhoods18/06/2017 #7 Irene 🐝 Rodriguez EscolarUuuaaau @Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee. I'm so sorry. Murphy hit you hard, but you did not let him beat you. Too many bad people, (fortunately not all humanity is), is true and limit situations that push us to the abyss.
Thanks for telling us your story. Gracias por mantenerte viva. Later, forced reading "Deception".
- Producer14/06/2017Resume Writing, FUN? Yes! Here Are My Top 7 TipsOn May 12th, I presented a webinar for Yale alumni on the Top 7 Ways to Make Resume Writing FUN! Does this sound like an event you’d want to attend? (Spoiler: Keep reading for a link to watch...
- Producer09/06/2017THE ART OF SAYING "NO!"Let you imagine something very uncomfortable, for instance, one of your very best friends asking you a favor. The moment you hear the favor, deep in your heart you scream "no"! But s/he is your best friend and made you also many many favors in...
Comments09/07/2017 #15 CityVP 🐝 ManjitI am a living embodiment of what is said here because I began my life in a state of extreme protection. I never understood why I was protected or what from but I learned not to say NO. Now had I at that time learned to say NO, I would have been a damaged human being rather than a human being living in a bubble of protection. So it is not simple as saying NO but assessing the wisdom contextually. Understand the context and what seems wrong is under some contexts what was right.
Had I said NO when I was younger and escaped this protection, I would have walked into the same fire other people did, which was right into the hands of the major gangs in our town. I was not brought up in a middle class home with natural protections of middle class existence - I am extremely thankful for that protection because that allowed me to recognize in retrospect just how lucky I had been.
Now just because someone has been in that bubble of protection does not erase their natural intelligence. If had been utterly simplistic to the point of being stupid about life I would not have come to a point where I learned the power of saying NO - but without betraying my past and a mother fiercely protective of her children. To this I say forever thank you Mom.
That being said I also became self-aware enough to know the downside of living in a bubble, that when one is not touched by the hard stones and knives of reality, there is a blissful ignorance of life as it for many people. In that regard I do identify with the story of Buddha who came out of his protected state and was shocked to the core of his bones when he saw reality first-hand. That led to him exploring how to end suffering. Of course I am not Buddha, but here I accept the meaning of "NO".10/06/2017 #13 Franci🐝Eugenia Hoffman, beBee Brand AmbassadorAn important subject to tackle and well-written post, @Victoria Toumit. Sometimes, it is difficult to say no for various reasons. We get caught up in situations we don't like nor do we have time for because we can't say no. Perhaps, we don't want to hurt another person's feelings or we feel sorry for them and we give in to their request. Too many situations can foster angry feelings and damage relationships.10/06/2017 #11 Lance 🐝 ScoularWell put Victoria.
While you put it in the context of personal relationships, the importance of being able to say no applies in our work, professional and involvement in not-for-profit, causes or religious organisations.
The reasons can vary but can particularly relate to being over commited with our time on other responsibilities or unwarented high expectations of others.
Often in these cases, it is some thing we actually want to do, yet if we say yes, it will impact other activities with a higher priority or impact.10/06/2017 #8 stephan metral 🐝 Innovative Brand Ambassador#2If the type of content you want to save is mostly reading the material, then your best bet is to use one of the reads it later services like Readability or Pocket that support tagging. Both services have browser extensions (Readability, Pocket) that allow you to quickly save links, and the next step is organization.10/06/2017 #6 stephan metral 🐝 Innovative Brand AmbassadorCC @Javier 🐝 beBee , @John White, MBA and @Juan Imaz. Victoria wrote a good piece here about authenticity and the power to say No..sometimes. It deserves a share if you think it met the quality content criterium..Up to you guys. For my part, I am gonna Facebook It and Tweet!
Sometimes, just take a deep breath, say why and end by this is why is say No..or to be politically correct..why you decline for today the favor you have been asked for. If they insist because of many reasons...say you are not the appropriate person and point someone they despite or you despite. For the no receiver, it helps him or her to grow,
- Producer07/06/2017The Pros and Cons of Freelance WritingA few years ago, I decided to jump headfirst into the world of freelance writing. While scary, freelance writing can be a blissfully rewarding experience for those entering the market. However, it’s not for everyone; depending on how you like to...
Comments07/06/2017 #2 Praveen Raj GullepalliIndeed. Both sides of the coin there! Am not really sure how many would want to end up as a freelance writer...always thought it was a phase to getting somewhere else. A good preparatory phase. I wouldn't dare do that again not unless I was sittin on a tiny treasure to get by through the lean times ;) Maybe after retirement...
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Writing is a medium of human communication that represents language and emotion through the inscription or recording of signs and symbols. In most languages, writing is a complement to speech or spoken language. Writing is not a language but a form of technology that developed as tools developed with human society. Within a language system, writing relies on many of the same structures as speech, such as vocabulary, grammar and semantics, with the added dependency of a system of signs or symbols. The result of writing is generally called text, and the recipient of text is called a reader.