Branching Interests
I was looking at the image below when so many ideas started colliding in my mind. Why some people grow up vertically and do the same thing all their lives like a stem of tree without any branching. Why some people branch out? I am not referring only to work, but also to other aspects of life. Some people don't care to learn other languages and others care to know a bundle of them. Is it better to be a gun with one eye, or one with many eyes?
If we study the lives of achievers we find that they kept doing same job for a while. Then they became overwhelmed with the realization that they were not doing what they had passion for. They decided to branch out to other areas. A medical doctor turns into a novelist. A carpenter becomes a famous actor. A wealthy man such as Carnegie donating most of his money to his community and, in return, the community favors his business to make him richer without intending it.
We are limited by our fears and negative mindsets. We allow fear to have a grip on us and thus keep us going in one direction. There are the few who realize that doing the same job isn't their growth path. They realize their dreams before realizing them. They are willing to sacrifice their comfort for the challenge and uncertainty to explore and find out more. The chasm between what they love doing and what they doing is is a great motivator for them. These people felt left out sometimes, but this feeling pushed them to make the jump. I believe those people followed simple rules that led to their success.
1. Do what your heart loves
2. Learn and get inspired by others
3. Act on what you love doing
4. Accepting the detour on a complex path
Who is willing to invest his life in doing that are foreign to his/her heart? I believe these four rules apply to all people. It is the difference in what our heart love that successful people differ in. The starting point is different, but the rules apply. It is adherence to simple rules that lead us to take same trajectories in life and what a waste it could be doing spending a life span doing what we hate. This way we end up living in a conflicts between what we are passionate for and what we keep on doing. The tree trunk bifurcates too early and only to give a poor and ill trees.
We need some disruptive events in our lives to change. I recall a lady asking me:
- So you smoke?
-Yes, I do
- You know smoking is harmful for you?
- Yes, I do
- So how could be a manager if you can't take good decisions for yourself before you may take them for your staff?
This discussion changed my life. We need sometimes a shock to disrupt us and awaken us to the right path. We tend to change paths as we grow older for varieties of reasons. This way we may branch out as we grow older. No matter what we should always branch into areas we have passion for with the objective to help others and not ourselves. Ego passion limits us and limits our growth.
While writing this buzz Donna-Luisa Eversley wrote a buzz "climbing-the-knowledge-wall". The first line of the buzz reads "We are limited only by what we 'choose not to know'. How fitting this eloquent line with this buzz is unbelievable.
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Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #38
Thanks dear David I used Google translate and yes you aer right. We succeed sometimes in things that we don't like or are not in our focus. Life is full with paradoxes.
David Navarro López
منذ 7 سنوات #37
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #36
I opt for a mixture of them. Good observation John Rylance
John Rylance
منذ 7 سنوات #35
#40 Interestingly Harvey has the river as being apart from the person/tree. I saw it as the branching and river/sap as being within the person. This highlights that one person's vision isn't the one someone else envisages. Both have value and the difference is whether the changes are internal or external. The answer is I suggest either or a mixture of both.
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #34
I agree- natural branching is the way. Harvey Lloyd. I am drafting a buzz on natural social gluing ad branching. My findings are consistent with your comment.
Harvey Lloyd
منذ 7 سنوات #33
#35 “No man ever steps in the same river twice, for it's not the same river and he's not the same man.” ― Heraclitus This was the quote i was thinking of when reading and responding to changes in our path. We reach the rivers edge each time a new person so we cross differently and with new wisdom. I may branch out, but each time i start to branch i am not the same person i was last time. Seems to be two schools of thought in branching. Forcing a branch in answer to required change, or branching as a natural process of growing wisdom. I have often seen folks who change because they are running from something, forced branch. The most successful seem to branch naturally as the tree height presents new opportunities, they are not leaving something but rather going somewhere. Two totally different mindsets. Thanks for you comment and sharing the journey of understanding.
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #32
John Rylance- you expressed my views as well with great punctuality. I find my main fuel in writing buzzes is the exchange of comments. Not only because comments show interest, but also very often they were the seeds for new writing ideas.
Lisa Gallagher
منذ 7 سنوات #31
I like that title haha, I need to share that with my husband 😉 Thanks Ali, Im a constant work in progress :)) And you are the compassionate philosopy man!
John Rylance
منذ 7 سنوات #30
Ali, saddling up my hobby horse the comments and others sparking thoughts replies ideas on posts such as this is where beeBees scores over others, particularly where so called Influencers are concerned. I enjoy and learn from the cross pollination.
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #29
Keen to read Harvey Lloyd response.
John Rylance
منذ 7 سنوات #28
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #27
You are the "Wisdom Lady" Lisa \ud83d\udc1d Gallagher. I love your comment and your saying "Sometimes we go through things that seem so permanent but they are just temporary setbacks". This is truly wonderful. Yes, we need to draw our "Life Paths" and see what patterns emerge. In your case and from your comment it looks wavy to me.
Lisa Gallagher
منذ 7 سنوات #26
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #25
Nice memories John White, MBA and what a coincidence in choosing the background image.
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #24
Jerry Fletcher- stunning ly you wrote "The choice of passion over produce is what marks the life of any individual". This is worthy of pondering on for hours. Myself I shall
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #23
Nicole Chardenet- I believe the same story is being repeated. I recall a story in which the interviewee said he had twenty years f experience. Upon the conclusion of the interview the interviewer told the candidate"you don't have twenty years of experience. You have been doing the same thing for twenty years".
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #22
Chas \u270c\ufe0f Wyatt- Absolutely, and in the complex work we live in the machine metaphor is simply wrong. We should opt for discovery and learning. I agree fully with your comment.
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #21
There are two lines that you may wish to consider expanding into two buzzes. "Sometimes we love things only after experiencing them. But the indecision results in Points of reference become borders of relevance". "But love needs depth, the same act which we perhaps do daily , perhaps in the same manner with the same thought process, yet the outcome is different with each experience". You are a deep thinker Devesh \ud83d\udc1d Bhatt and I hope you do. These two lines are gems.
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #20
CityVP \ud83d\udc1d Manjit this part of your comment "If Javier says Manjit this is what beBee is, then that too is pruning and not branching".
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #19
Your comment is so succinct and it is difficult to "prune" any part of it CityVP \ud83d\udc1d Manjit. I paused on this "There is no such thing as a wasted life when we are all wasted". Human nature is wasting and abiding by entropy. Somebody said the biggest source of energy is wasted energy. I feel like saying the biggest source of life is wasted life.
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #18
This is a lovely thought Franci\ud83d\udc1dEugenia Hoffman "but if we don't go down that path ourselves, we won't have the experience". I am in total agreement with you.
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #17
Yes, the path of wisdom's growth is a field that we need to focus on Harvey Lloyd. Great idea
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #16
In my next buzz you shall find relevance to your comment dear debasish majumder. I can say for now that studies show that only 17% of people are willing to see the big picture that serving the community should be their top priority.
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #15
I love your combined metaphor and how you linked the tree and river metaphors together John Rylance. I am still wondering how I could build on your metaphor and your lovely explanation of it. More, I am thinking loudly on how to expand the idea of combined metaphors as you did. I believe this is an area that merits our extreme attention.
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #14
Yes, learning new languages is one way of branching in life as you mentioned dear Tausif Mundrawala. The big question is do we intend always to branch out or we find ourselves branching out without prior planning? SOmetimes the latter takes place.
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #13
I am not surprised at all that your read my mind Sara Jacobovici. Initially, I titled the buzz The Thoughts Path. As for the rest of your comment my response is in my next buzz. All I can say now, your comment is spot on.
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #12
You said it perfectly well Deb \ud83d\udc1d Helfrich "A well-branched life is one worth growing toward". This is the theme of the buzz.
John White, MBA
منذ 7 سنوات #11
Jerry Fletcher
منذ 7 سنوات #10
Javier Cámara-Rica 🐝🇪🇸
منذ 7 سنوات #9
CityVP \ud83d\udc1d Manjit beBee is what you like :-) Enjoy the hive !
Devesh 🐝 Bhatt
منذ 7 سنوات #8
CityVP Manjit
منذ 7 سنوات #7
Javier Cámara-Rica 🐝🇪🇸
منذ 7 سنوات #6
Harvey Lloyd
منذ 7 سنوات #5
"We tend to change paths as we grow older for varieties of reasons." I would think that as experience hones our wisdom, the path of yesterday will no longer suit today's needs. So is it change or is it the wisdom we have attained leading us differently? Some great thoughts and discussion. Your comment sparks a whole new buzz concerning change or wisdom's growth.
John Rylance
منذ 7 سنوات #4
Ali andHarvey I would like to combine your two metaphors. Firstly the tree grows outwards from its trunk. The river grows from the tributaries that flow into it. During the Spring and Summer the tree grows outwards collecting in your terms Ali information, come the Autumn and Winter the sap like a stream returns to the trunk with its new found knowledge. Where it strengthens the tree while it rests ready for the next year. Like us the tree grows by building on the sustinence it has gathered. I hope unlike me the metaphors are not too mixed up.
Sara Jacobovici
منذ 7 سنوات #3
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #2
Your comments always give me the comfort of feelings that what I wrote has a meaning Harvey Lloyd. Thank You and your river metaphor is beautuf
Harvey Lloyd
منذ 7 سنوات #1