The Honey Hive: Lesson 3. What do you expect and want from life? Anna's Talk.

The detailed description of everything that we want in life is vital for us to stop chasing things and wishes we have and to start attracting what we actually want. However, the majority of the people usually think that deleting what we don't want will make us attract what we do want. IT IS NOT like this. It takes time to properly define our objectives, and the biggest mistake is TO TAKE FOR GRANTED everything. YOU NEED TO DEFINE EVERYTHING, EVERY SINGLE DETAIL. 

To understand this topic properly, I’d like to share the real stories of real lives of my real students. Hope these fantastic examples will be really useful for you.

Let’s start:

• ESTHER. Her main goal was to find a partner .

The definition of the goal: “I find a boy that loves me like crazy”.

The final result: “I think that I defined my goal wrongly, I found a boy, but he loves me so much that sometimes I feel oppressed. He goes everywhere with me, home, to my friend’s house, to visit my mom. He is ALWAYS next to me… I thought that no matter what I would still have my own private space, but I didn't go that way…

The correction for the definition: I find a boy that loves me like crazy and still respects and values my personal space. 

2. RAUL: His main goa was to win a prestigious award for drawing. 

The definition of the goal:” To be shortlisted.”

The final result: it happened this way, he was shortlisted, however… not the winner.

The correction for the definition: I win the award and i take the right steps to achieve it.

3.FRANCISCA: Her main goal was to work only during the mornings, dedicating the evenings to her family.

The definition of the goal: “I enjoy my evenings with my family”

The final result: her company went bankrupt. She “enjoys” her evenings and mornings at home. 

The correction for the definition: “I enjoy my mornings at work achieving a really nice time for me, my company, clients and everyone involved. I spend the evenings with my family happy and quietly.” 

She thought that she didn't have to specify that she wanted to work during the mornings…

And just like these people, it happened to many others. All of us take things for granted. However, we need to specify everything. I would really appreciate if any of you would like to share your goals and real stories.

And now I want to invite you to think: what do I want and expect from my life? And remember; 

General information: https://www.bebee.com/producer/@anna-valadzko/the-honey-hive-how-to-reach-your-goals-at-work-and-in-life

How the course works: https://www.bebee.com/producer/@anna-valadzko/the-honey-hive-how-to-reach-your-goals-at-work-and-in-life-how-the-course-works

Lesson 1. Part 1.https://www.bebee.com/producer/@anna-valadzko/the-honey-hive-lesson-1-dream-big-or-how-to-attract-what-you-wish-for-part-1

Lesson 1. Part 2. Motivational Speech. https://www.bebee.com/producer/@anna-valadzko/the-honey-hive-how-to-discover-your-talents-anna-s-talk

Lesson 2. Wheel of Life. https://www.bebee.com/producer/@anna-valadzko/the-honey-hive-lesson-2-wheel-of-life-dream-big-or-how-to-attract-what-you-wish-for-part-2

Lesson 2. Balance and imbalance. Motivational Reading. https://www.bebee.com/producer/@anna-valadzko/the-honey-hive-lesson-2-balance-and-imbalance-motivational-reading

Lesson 3. What do you expect and want from life? https://www.bebee.com/producer/@anna-valadzko/the-honey-hive-lesson-3-what-do-you-expect-and-want-from-life