Ari Kopoulos en IT - Information Technology, Human Resources Professionals, Marketing CEO • EmployeeConnect 18/11/2016 · 5 min de lectura · 2,5K

How to Distil an Unforgettable Personal Brand

How to Distil an Unforgettable Personal Brand

    To Brand or Not to Brand?

    “All of us need to understand the importance of branding. We are CEOs of our own companies: Me Inc. To be in business today, our most important job is to be head marketer for the brand called You.”
    – Tom Peters, Fast Company
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    Tom Peters is correct about branding for business success. But business success is not necessarily synonymous with personal success. Should personal brands obey Al and Laura Ries' The 22 Immutable Laws of Branding to ensure success in the Game of Life, or are personal brands different?

    Before jumping on the personal branding bandwagon, it might be helpful to understand the nature of branding as a prelude to understanding the importance of branding. The definition of a brand bounces all over the place, depending on who's doing the defining. A useful definition for this discussion comes from the global branding consultancy, Millward Brown. Millward Brown says a “brand resides in the minds of consumers.”


    “What a brand really consists of is the sum total of the perceptions of that brand in the minds of consumers. And while every individual will have some unique memories and experiences related to a brand, the perceptions of that brand that are broadly shared across a population ultimately define it and influence its destiny.”

    In essence, a brand is the totality of interactions a consumer has with a product or a service. In this regard, branding is the process of creating and sustaining powerful affirmative relationships/experiences in the minds of consumers. In the context of personal branding, it’s people showcasing their knowledge, skills, and attitude for personal & career development.

    Critics have latched on to this and view it as nothing but a politically correct form of selective, self-censorship. Clearly, when personal branding promotes self-censorship, it's personal branding chicanery, which throttles self-actualisation and is exceedingly unhealthy to one’s self. Perhaps the biggest point is, it rarely delivers results. So why go through the hassle of being a fake?

    Relationships matter

    The concept of a “brand” being the sum of consumer perceptions remains true in social, non-transactional, non-commercial situations. People generally have like/dislike/indifferent perception of people in all interactions. In this regard, we are all brands. Hence, personal branding is quite relevant as a career builder as in commerce.

    This gets to the crux why some brands are winners while other brands are losers. Brands have value to businesses only because consumers trust brands. Brands simplify life by short cutting the due diligence decision process. Winning brands win because consumers trust winning brands. Brands that do not enjoy the trust of consumers, struggle. Likewise, personal brands that are not trusted by other people means inferior reputation leading to inferior results.

    Components of the Personal Brand

    Brands that enjoy strong relationships with consumer’s brand loyalty generate more revenue. The same applies to personal brands. But don't get too caught up with the focus on revenue (or remuneration) as brand currency. Feel free to redefine revenue/currency any way you want. There's enormous value in knowledge, skills, and core values when they're underpinned by trust.

    There are six broad drivers of brand loyalty:

      The common theme in all these drivers is trust.

      In context of personal branding, trust is an inherent attribute of character. Trust always precedes the personal branding process. And, nothing validates and signals trust better and faster than authenticity. What you see is what you get! More on authenticity later.

      Brand Your Trust

      It’s hard not to see how and why personal branding often falls way short of expectations. Trust is the essential product or ingredient of personal branding that you. Trust is what you bring to the table.Sadly, many personal branding gurus often diminish the importance of the trust while blathering far too much about brand messaging. Brand messages can be very important. But, they must clearly signal and amplify the trustworthiness of authenticity.

      What's Your Story?

      Your story is the personal branding narrative that affirms your authenticity, which in turn affirms your trustworthiness. Stories have always been the most powerful communication tool in the history of man simply because mankind loves stories. Much if not most of human history is passed on to succeeding generations by way of great, riveting stories.

      The idea that epic stories generate powerful emotions of regard and affection is confirmed by an ever-growing body of research on brain response to descriptive stories. In his Harvard Business Review article, neuroscientist, Paul Zak, reported that character driven stories charged with emotional content communicate a better comprehension of key points than any other

      This is not a treatise on writing great stories. But, most guidelines on the elements of a great story that highlight the common themes of trust, honesty, emotion, and authenticity.

      In short…

      Powerful stories resonate and evoke emotion

      They take an honest, authentic view on human condition

      They signal purpose that's greater than self, which aligns with a common good

      They teach in a way that inspires reciprocal candor and honesty

      They create opportunities to continue the conversation

      The power of words

      Few of us have a natural talent for writing. Writing is an ability that's acquired through practice. But, writing is a necessary evil that personal branding demands simply because written content is the dominant tool for personal branding. And, nobody can execute the personal branding story better than you.

      When telling your story, you want your target audience to savour the flavours of your personal branding journey. Do this by dishing up your story in small portions. This keeps them coming back for more. Share what you know in small increments like chapters in a book. Keep your story chapters consistent and focused so your value proposition consistently rings loud and clear in each chapter.

      Don’t be afraid to hold something back.

      Don’t be afraid to turn people away.

      You are not for everyone.

      Get Social

      Personal branding for the everyman would be exceedingly difficult without the Internet and social media. To activate the personal branding process, you must join the conversation by embracing the Internet and of course, social media.

      Regardless of who you are or what you do, there's a strong likelihood a social media platform and/or forum exists that fits the profile of your target audience the social communities you want to engage with your personal branding communications. LinkedIn, Twitter Facebook, Instagram…each has its own value proposition. Do your research to find the platforms that best match you target audience criteria style of communication.

      Twitter taps into the real time serendipitous stream of consciousness. Its 140 character microblogging style allows you to easily project story pulses, interact with others and get the attention of influencers, thought leaders, CEO’s, recruiters, bloggers, and peers. Granted, it has low signal to noise ratio, but carefully curated follower lists and use of #’s will definitely amplify signal.

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      LinkedIn is your powerful partner in long term branding and career strategy. It consolidates a number of functions to become your publicist, agent, recruiter, mentor, referee, teacher, and publisher. LinkedIn allows you showcase your expertise and express your opinions view in long form within a professional network.

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      On any platform, what you post, your comments, the groups you join, and the conversations you have, you bolster your brand, sharing your thoughts in a personal way with connections and those who visit your profile. Don't be shy with your likes, shares, and follows, especially with true thought leaders who engage the community in constructive conversations and share valuable information. Let the law of reciprocity rule and engage your community with constructive, authoritative, and useful conversation, and sharing your unique voice.

      Mentor Me

      Most successful people sing the praises of mentors. A mentor will provide the needed guidance to help you avoid needless missteps and avoid reinventing stuff that's readily available. Neil Patel has a useful free guide that explains why your personal brand can benefit from a mentor. The guide also offers useful tips on finding the ideal mentor for your unique situation.

      Personal branding rules

      There are many approaches to building your personal brand, but the following 10 methods are an excellent way to begin building your personal brand:

      1. Know Yourself

      You can't build a brand until you dig deep and understand yourself. It's critical to know your strengths and weaknesses, core values, skills, attitudes, long-term vision and current tactics or mission before you try to communicate those ideals to others.

      2. Be Yourself

      Once you've identified your own persona, you've got to operate within those parameters. That doesn't mean that you can't stretch yourself and reach for new skills, but you've got to do it in a way that allows you to be Authentic.

      3. Believing in Yourself

      'This above all: to thine own self be true, And it must follow, as the night the day, Thou canst not then be false to any man.' This quote from Shakespeare’s Polonius eloquently sums up the value of believing in yourself.

      4. Learning How to Write and Tell Appealing Stories

      Communicating in stories and parables can entertain and captivate audiences while demonstrating your core values better than long, dry textual communications. Spice things up with stories and an appealing point-of-view. Epic stories can generate powerful emotions that trigger actions. Character-driven stories are especially effective. For example, common popular personas include the following:

        Don't ignore the value of other people's stories - retelling them can leverage those benefits for your brand because you recognized their significance.

        5. Acting Consistently

        Nothing can damage your brand and reputation more than sending mixed messages. Foolish consistency might be the 'hobgoblin of little minds,' according to a famous Emerson quote, but the keyword here is 'foolish.' In almost every modern application, consistency is the gold-standard of building a positive reputation.

        6. Showing Instead of Telling

        Telling stories is the basis behind the paradigm changes that social media have generated in marketing practices. Instead of heavy-handed selling, show people that you can walk the walk and not just talk the talk.

        7. Engaging Visibly with Others

        You can get a lot of branding mileage by engaging with others at high-profile events where you can be seen and heard. Develop details for your social media profiles, and share information, photos, tweets and videos to engage your personal network or associates and admirers. If in business, respond quickly to complaints, criticism and reviews.

        8. Communicating with Focused Authority

        Strengthen your expertise and authority by accepting speaking engagements, supporting charities that complement your brand and writing thought leadership papers. Maintain an active presence in your industry and among your outside interests by commenting frequently on other posts, news and trends. Keep your LinkedIn profile updated with information about awards, promotions and projects.

        9. Practising Empathy

        Your values are always important, but it's equally critical to step into another person's shoes, which is the textbook definition of empathy. Showing empathy helps to build trust in your brand even with those who disagree with your specific positions on issues.

        10. Persevering Always

        Don't get discouraged when things don't go your way or move as quickly as you'd like. If you maintain your core values, continue to deliver on your promises and work tirelessly to build trust, the right people will eventually notice.

        Personal branding's influence percolates through marketing, social engagements, job searches and all modern activities. If you own a business, encouraging your employees to develop social profiles and share brand messages enables those messages to reach 561 percent more people according to research. Furthermore, 92 percent of all people trust messages from people over messages from corporate entities. These messages of employees are also shared 24 times more often than boilerplate social posts.

        How you look and appear online now has wider ranging implications than building followers or attracting hits. Your digital image - for all intents and purposes - is who you are, and other people have 24/7 access to this information. Your personal brand influences entrepreneurship, employment, acceptance to schools and training programs and even such mundane tasks as securing credit or leasing business or personal property. A strong online presence adds credibility to any venture you undertake regardless of whether it's personal, business or social. If you don't appear in online research, anyone has a perfect right to think that you're hiding something or just not trying. Consistency and attention to details are key branding strategies that everyone shares, but the tactics you use and the brand you build are entirely up to you.

        The process of defining your personal brand requires time and many, many iterations to ensure you stand out from the pack. In fact, since most of us are changing personally and professionally all the time, your personal brand should be organic and evolve with you. In the end, a personal brand is not a sprint, it's a never ending journey of reflection, discovery, and calibration. The sooner that you control the messages that comprise your identity, the faster you'll advance in your business, social and personal communities. Entrepreneur, marketer and writer Seth Godin summed up how to get started nicely,

        "Making promises and keeping them is a great way to build a brand.”

        Ari Kopoulos is CEO at EmployeeConnect

        Many people find it difficult wrapping their heads around the idea of a personal brand. There’s a kind of existential struggle for identity that has brand atheists screaming ‘I am not a brand; I am a human being. The problem with this fractured line of argument is it’s locked into a particular definition, currency and expectation of what branding is.The reality is great branding is neither impersonal nor dehumanizing - in fact, branding great branding is far from that. Great branding is human.

        • Rational benefits: Consumers believe the brand is the best choice.

        • Emotional benefits: The brand makes consumers feel good.

        • Popularity: Consumers believe the brand is a safe choice.

        • Difference: Provides the reason to choose over alternative choices.

        • Dynamism: The brand is a trendsetter, shaking up the status quo.

        • Value: The value proposition encapsulates the reasons why the brand adds more value or solves a problem better than alternative choices.

        Modest but likeable hero

        Small guy versus bigger guys or large corporations

        Passionate enthusiast

        Empathetic listener

        Ella de Jong 29/11/2016 · #10

        Shared it with 'Entrepreneurs'. I'm almost always forgetting to add some extra words with it .. :-(

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        Ella de Jong 29/11/2016 · #9

        Great post @Ari Kopoulos! I like the "Showing empathy helps to build trust in your brand even with those who disagree with your specific positions on issues." the most :-)

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        Ari Kopoulos 27/11/2016 · #8

        #6 ditto that.... BIG thanks @Jan Barbosa for sharing!

        Jan 🐝 Barbosa 27/11/2016 · #6

        Happy to share @Lisa Gallagher !!! 😎

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        Lisa 🐝 Gallagher 26/11/2016 · #5

        Excellent buzz @Ari Kopoulos. This really stood out for me, "Don't get discouraged when things don't go your way or move as quickly as you'd like. If you maintain your core values, continue to deliver on your promises and work tirelessly to build trust, the right people will eventually notice." It's easy to get discouraged on a given day. Well delivered! Thanks to @Jan Barbosa, I stumbled upon this buzz!

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        Mohammed Sultan 23/11/2016 · #4

        It's a good idea from Tom peters that can energize your career strategy.Everyone should stick around the idea of branding themselves. Branding doesn't mean presenting your past "core skills", but instead positioning the output of your current "core interests" through personal and professional profile on beBee.

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        Ari Kopoulos 19/11/2016 · #3

        Cheers @David B. Grinberg Glad it resonates! Means a lot coming from you! #1

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