We'll Leave the Light On for Ya
there’s a disconnect between the rest of your life, which is pretty
freakin’ awesome, and your love life...maybe it is time to realize
and admit that Love is a Lie. Nothing more than a Madison Avenue con
game to get you on the treadmill to be husband, father and inevitably
divorced. If you are a man that doesn’t understand that a woman
will leave you no matter your role in life as a CEO, entrepreneur,
executive, doctor, lawyer, whatever…then you are simply not paying
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MGTOW has something for you that could change everything! Welcome to Men Going Their Own Way
might have been laying in bed often thinking, God – when is she
ever going to shut up and let me go to sleep? Or maybe you are tired
of the incessant text bombs she drops....or finally fed up with the
passive aggressive 'guess what is on her mind at this moment' game.
Then say it with me now ~ Freedom.
It could be significantly better, it could be Saturday night and it’s great that you're home alone, or chilling with the guys, or wrenching on your motorcycle or playing the latest vid game. Your life finally doesn’t suck. Actually it’s kinda great. Other than that whole thing about being lied to about what love is, or having a woman in your life like an anchor when you are trying to go full sail.
Men were meant to be single. You should never Settle, and certainly never 'Down'.
It's great to be single. Listen brother, I have been through the ringer of a Long Term Relationshit (I was never dumb enough to marry) and I am here to say, ain't none of it worth. I know you’ve probably read the books, taken a course and got the T shirt on the whole… I’m the common denominator in all my relationships, thing. Maybe if I were more Alpha – maybe next time I should be more 'sensitive' – Bullshit. All of it – Bullshit.
It ain't your job to make her happy, and really – it never should have been sold to you that it was in the first place. She ain't a Princess, and it ain't your job to White Knight Rescue her – ever. It is Not Your Job to Make Her Happy.
You need to get over it. Hollywood LIED. The American Dream was nothing more than Propaganda to get you on the treadmill, chasing the lies and life that you thought you were meant to have – all the while ignoring what you really wanted for yourself, all because you were told to 'Man Up' or 'Be Responsible' ~ yadda, yadda, fucking yadda.
It is time to do different, to march to the beat of your own drum, to find the marrow of life and to suck it out heartily – and claim that you are not a man of quiet desperation, but that you are committed to go in the direction of your dreams, for yourself, for your own purpose. It is time to cast off the shackles of traditional society – to walk away from it all, to let it all burn and smolder in your mirror as you accelerate over the horizon. It is time for you to live for you.
It is time that you claim your VIP lifestyle, that you give up the notion of a minivan and lean towards valet parking your elite exotic ride, time to move from working too many hours without any recognition or consideration just to pay off her never ending credit card debts – it is time to enjoy comfort, upgrade your life, and opt out of society. Let it all just burn.
Welcome to MGTOW - the light we leave on - will be the city burning in ruins.
ok, ok, ok - maybe you are still simpering in your belief that YOUR unicorn is out there - that NAWALT is real.
You are forever going to worry about money only because you wanna make sure that the money you have enough to get her attention, to keep her at your side – but not too much that she divorces your dumb ass in 72 days or less. You are going to be walking the line between the hopscotch minefield of being with her ever moment to make sure she never cheats on your in grand monkey branching fashion – to plugging into your VR game just to give your ears a brief respite from the drama she brings, creates, or gossips about. You are going to be the one always on guard, or if you are playing the PUA game – always on the prowl. You have put a girl at the center of your life – and whether you are chasing her, or trying to keep her – you are not living your own life.
You've no doubt read of famous celebrity men that have been through the divorce ringer. Think about it. If men of fame, notoriety, grand wealth and immense popularity cannot keep a marriage alive – what chance do you believe you have? Seriously. There is no miracle guarantee that you will not face divorce, other than to never marry in the first place. Everything else is a crap shoot.
Here's the thing – it is time to admit that the game is rigged. Time to realize that the only one that will look out for your best interests – is YOU. Marriage and kids, are fully avoidable. There are many men that have never wed, never bred ~ I am one of them. I full well know the dangers and risks of 'wedded bliss' and I have no intention of standing in front of that execution squad. There is nothing that will ruin your life faster than divorce, nothing that will make your life more miserable than a home that you hate because of the fem-widget you installed in the house. It is time to take preemptive action. Ask your friends – you know, the ones that already are divorced, those going through divorce or those that wish they were without the Ball and Chain, what they honestly think of marriage. It is time to avoid the wedding, shun the marriage and shrug society.A primer to why and how Men are Leaving Society. Where did the Good Men Go? If they are smart - Far Away.