Cassiano Tavares

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Our Heroes...!!

Our Heroes...!!

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There is no love who more touches our hearts when feel and what comes from our dear parents ... Over the years this feeling is greater as we learn his teachings, his paternal love, his eternal friendship... !!

Time passes and we already adults... we formed our family... we raise our children with the same love and care that our parents gave us ...!!
However, a feeling of anxiety, very different from our gestures of love and gratitude to they, begins to show to our eyes what not we would like to see and feel...!! 
Our heroes parents lost their agility,  their youth ... Their faces are showing the marks left by time ... !!!
We all understand their gestures ... they're old now... !! ... They don't have more your youth, they feel difficulty in walking, to act and tell  stories that always we like to hear .. This wonderful life that God has always gave for their, one day will reach its final season, the your last stop...!!!
They have not lost their life experiences, but physically they lost their agility to face the difficulties and enjoy the good moments of everyday life ... now they are more vulnerable and therefore they begin to have a few different ways to act and speak... !!
They are tired of taking care of others and be examples of life: ... now it's their turn to be "pampered" and will be cared for by their children and grandchildren,      even though they often have to use features with a little "emotional blackmail"! ! . ...They deserve ...!!!
They have a lot of mileage round and knowledge, and what they don't know, they  will look to the experiences of others ... !!.
They no longer make long-term plans ... now they are dedicated to little adventures ... like eating hidden all that the doctor has forbidden !!
They are with patches on the skin ... sometimes suddenly they feel sad ... but they are not considered obsolete people: ... are in fact some children who are reluctant to accept the life cycle...!!
It is hard to accept that our heroes are no longer in control of the situation ... they are fragile and have forgotten of things ... they have this right, ..but unconsciously ... we don't accept this new reality. ... We can not admit their weaknesses, their dismay .. !! ... These our attitudes are very wrong ... Yes,... Only one thing can explain all this: ... "Is that our heart has a much greater feeling than our reason" ... it's true !!!
We often have "pleasant dreams"... !!! ... They came back from the past, and we are all fraternizing as before ... they act and talk animatedly as always !!! 
But, without we our having the slightest awareness that our "dream" it is unreal, the " Lord of Time" already knocked on door of my heroes it's been a long time !!!
Instead of us to accept with serenity the fact that people will adopt a slower pace over the years, we get indignant because the "Lord of Time" betrayed our trust ... the trust that our superheroes are indestructible ..
This our intolerance can only be "afraid" ... "fear" of losing them, .. and the "fear" of losing ourselves ... and "afraid" that we will be not very lucid and in good health when we get our old age ... !!!
Why can not we be and act like they have always been and also as  they always made for us ...??  How many nights these our heroes passed next to our bed, medicating, and measuring our fever !!
And now when we say that they forget to take their medications, we will hurt them and we will let them cry, as children that we once were also a day !!...These our attitudes for their good, are often incomprehensible by them .
It's a mess this passage of the "Time" ...!!!...the"Lord of Time" has taught us to take advantage of all the stages of life, but it is difficult  to accept the footsteps of others ... It is unfortunate.. !!
Is very difficult also accept that  our heroes, our foundation, these people to whom we could always to return,...they  always with open arms to welcome us..., now  are giving signs that will go leave us one day ... !!! .. 
The their time to going to forever is coming ... !!!
For all this ... my dear elderly parents who still light the dark ways with care, dedication, where we should go without fear and full of hope, a simple our thanks is not enough ... !!
For all this ... my dear parents who have abandoned many of their dreams so that we could  to we carry out our        . !!!
For all that ... my parents by nature, by choice and love, nothing would be enough to tell them that we have no words to thank you all ....
That's what happens to us now, when we strive to verbally express an emotion. !!! Its one emotion that  would never be translated by words. !!!  

Yes...we love you now and for all the eternity ... !!


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Comentários

Lisa Gallagher

há 6 anos #6

#7
It's so very sad when parents are treated like after thought or worse after all they've given us for years.

Cassiano Tavares

há 6 anos #5

#7
Hi Franci Eugenia, Yes, in this life, everything goes too fast. We are children, we grow, we build our family and soon we reach the old age. The days are short, the moments are scarce and it's up to us to know how to enjoy everything in the best way. I always say that we should not waste time with intrigues, sorrows and unnecessary discussions ... we must not waste these precious seconds that life offers us with futilities. But let us enjoy these good moments with our family, our parents, our children and the good friends that God has bequeathed to us. Yes, believe that there will be a time when we will realize that when we shake hands we do not hold our hearts. That who stays today can leave tomorrow and that our course is constantly changing.... This is the secret of life ... !!!

Lance 🐝 Scoular

há 6 anos #4

👥ed🐝🐝

Lisa Gallagher

há 6 anos #3

cc: Lance \ud83d\udc1d Scoular, I thought you might enjoy this!

Lisa Gallagher

há 6 anos #2

Thanks for tagging me Lada \ud83c\udfe1 Prkic. It's very hard to accept aging, especially if the changes seem to occur in a millisecond. That's how life is though, the older we become, the faster time goes by. I will be forever grateful to my parents for their unconditional love, support and teachings. We all deserve to be treated with love and dignity, no matter the age- it seems as people become 'old' sadly, some are not given that accolade. I can only hope my own children will always treat me as they do now, with love and respect.

Lada 🏡 Prkic

há 6 anos #1

Cc. Lisa \ud83d\udc1d Gallagher

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