FALLACY WITH SELF-BELIEF!
Recently I came across a wonderful buzz of Dr. Ali Anani, Phd., where he expressed his wonder of human trait, that, when we desperately crave to achieve something and after achieving it, how our interest and desire subsequently evaporates, how craving for a loved one immediately started to decline after we connect and attached to her! Is this human trait, having resemblance with hot and cold analogy, the character of convection, which virtually clouded with our mind-set too? Intriguing content indeed! The character of transfer of heat and human heart and its propensity, whether having the same trait is truly a lovely metaphor.
I guess, people having innate ingredients, which are actually paving the way for hoodwinking himself alone. I aspire to embark a board. Moment I embarked, and get acquainted with many fellow members. I feel extremely elated. But, in due course, I got to know about my fellow members I am attached to, I started to develop a sense of aberration, comprehending that, despite they look like the birds of same feathers, but their characteristics keep me in utter imbroglio and discontentment. Moment I am capable to fathom their depth, I could evidently understand, how I have been deceived. Actually, it is the depth which allures me to draw my attention and alacrity towards them. But, I actually have been deceived by my own anticipation and confidence on myself. Moment I comprehend their shallowness, I lost interest on them. This is the reality which I adamantly ignored, having trust and being clouded by my own belief, utterly isolated element from the confronting reality, ignoring the quality and character lying with the external constituents, which I failed to comprehend or gauge as per its apparent dispensation. The reflection of the external matters with its inherent qualities, I failed to recognize, as it evidently having a contrast with my experience with the external world I am accustomed with, resulting an utter mental jeopardy to myself.
I may have the freedom to accuse others or divert my failures, accusing them to lack of enough depth to attract me, but actually, I guess, it is my lack of ability to analyze the depth of the aiming object according to the available circumstances. I, myself, being deceived to my own design and blaming others. What an irony! We are habituated to accuse others, but unable to gauge our own limitations and constraints. We have to recognize that we are nothing but the system of particles, ignoring which, I only indulge to hurt myself, while others are utterly in dark about my exact state of mind, my pain and afflictions. How can I expect empathy? What a conundrum I indulge to construe!this post dedicated to Dr. Ali Anaini, Phd.