Questions to Help You Mind Your Business... Question #9
Question #9: How will I know if I am successful?
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I donât know â you will have to tell me.
Since success needs to be measured against the goals and objectives you set for yourself, it goes without saying only you will know if youâre successful. Sure, there are societal norms and conventions that you can use to benchmark yourself against, but in the end you define your own success.
Oh everyone has an opinion on this; just ask anyone and they will have quite the perspective on it â although Iâve found if you keep pressing you may find they actually struggle to articulate what success really is. Iâve even checked the Internet and found a site called Lifehack â sure enough Missy Yost offered up 20 definitions of success you should never ignore (bless her heart).
- Success is always doing your best
- Success is properly setting concrete goals
- Success is having a place to call home
- Success is understanding the difference between need and want
- Success is believing you can
- Success is remembering to balance work with passion
- Success is taking care of your needs
- Success is learning that you sometimes have to say no
- Success is knowing your life is filled with abundance
- Success is understanding you cannot keep what you donât give away
- Success is overcoming fear
- Success is seeing your child graduate
- Success is learning something new each day
- Success is learning that losing a few battles can help you win a war
- Success is loving and being loved back
- Success is standing your ground when you believe in something
- Success is not giving up
- Success is celebrating small victories
- Success is never letting a disability hold you back
- Success is understanding you control your destiny
So there you go.
You may be saying to yourself, âBut gpe, we are talking about how will I know Iâm successful with my business.â Again, I will say, âI donât know â you will have to tell meâ. You have goals and objectives for your business donât you?
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PS: The only perspective I can really offer is when you set your Goals & Objectives, set them HIGH.
RenĂ©e â
I think this may be a bit of a lame question, but as I recall, I was the one who came up with it, so Iâm going to provide you with my best answer. People define success in many ways, and it is different for everybody. For some, you are successful if you have a lot of money. For others success is the result of having completed any goal. Are you successful if you donât have a spouse and 2.4 children? Are you successful if you never own a house or a car? Ask the Dalai Lama.
Years ago, I was listening to a Brian Tracey tape (yes, it was a while ago) about success. He gave a definition that always stuck with me, which was something along the line of achieving any goal with integrity. He went on to say that money is not a measure of success per se. Drug dealers have enormous amounts of money, but you canât really call a criminal a successful person. They lie, cheat, steal, kill and corrupt to reach their goals. A runner who shoves a competitor out of the way in order to win, is not a successful runner, even if he is first over the finish line. The journey to success is as important as the end result.
So how will you know if you are successful? Look around you. What are you grateful for? Have you set goals in your life? Have you achieved any of them? Have you achieved your goals with integrity? Have you ever failed?
I think truly successful people, never really arrive. Not that they cannot be satisfied, but rather, they find it difficult to stop challenging themselves. Success breeds success. I also think that failure breeds success. You cannot know what you want until you experience what you donât want. Most successful business people have had their share of failures too. Being able to recognize what is not working and why is a good thing. Have you made mistakes? Did you learn from them? Are you still moving toward your next goal? Do you feel good about the things you have done? Are you a happy person? Â I daresay, if you can answer yes to these questions, you are likely quite successful.
The definition of success to me is not necessarily a price tag, not fame, but having a good life, and being able to say I did the right thing at the end of the day.Â
Jeremy Luke
Thanks to the social media platform beBee, Renée Cormier & Graham Edwards developed a business relationship and friendship that typically involves regular meetings, goal setting sessions, etc. Our meetings often provide the fuel for plans around business strategy, blog ideas and more.
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Grahamđ Edwards
6 years ago #4
Thanks for the comment Lyon Brave I think you are right when you say "I think truly successful people, never really arrive. Not that they cannot be satisfied, but rather, they find it difficult to stop challenging themselves"... Life is in the journey...
Grahamđ Edwards
6 years ago #3
Thanks for the comment not only "Success is helping others succeed" but I think it is a very important part of Leadership.... it's a great list !!!
Lyon Brave
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