How Social Media Is Helping Turn The World To Shit
One could quite logically conclude by this headline that I am either good at clickbait or that I am generally pissed off about social media.The fact is that both are true, But it is the latter that I am really going to expound on.
I should also point out up front that one of the reasons I blog primarily on beBee.com is that I have found beBee to be more the exception than the rule on this issue. This, IMHO has to do with a couple of things. 1. beBee is managed by human beings, as opposed to bots or algorithms and 2. Because of beBee’s size, which is small compared to the behemoths like LI, Facebook, and Instagram, the people there are able to keep closer tabs on things and in many cases prevent a lot of crap from polluting their site.
Now onto the rant.
I believe that something very wrong is happening in the world today and that nowhere is that more obvious than in social media.
Here’s what got me on this topic.
This morning, while scrolling through Facebook, looking for something for my anti-Trump (#resist), meme series, I came across a sponsored link for, of all things, a company that sells lock picking technology.
Now think about that for a minute, and forget about any of the other bullshit that may be cluttering up your head. Lock picking! Picking fucking locks. Could be my lock. Could be your lock. Could be my car. Could be yours. Could be my house or my shed where the bikes are stashed. Could be anything at least according to the assholes who paid for this link.
The other assholes, the anonymous ones at Facebook who actually allowed this disgusting shit on the site, and had the temerity to think that I would be interested in this crap…Well, you can’t get at them can you? I mean who the fuck are they? Just some dipshit millennials working for the big machine who wouldn’t know an obscenity if it pissed on them,
So basically what Facebook, which is really the smiley face of social media, is saying is that it’s OK to buy the equipment you need and learn how to pick locks. This is pretty much an open invitation to the class of people we call "criminals”, to order this shit and get better at what they do. Yeah, you really do have to be a life-long learner regardless of your career path.
This, of course, is just the tip of the iceberg, and it’s really not so much about obscene products as it is the effect that social media has had on people in general.
The whole idea that we are so dependent on it, for communication, information and affirmation is kind of sad.
A while ago I wrote a piece on attention junkies. At the time, I was focused on younger kids, whose dependence on social media for affirmation was turning them into victims, and even causing them, in the worst instances, to take their own lives.
There was an outstanding series that I saw recently on Netflix called 13 Reasons Why, which explored this phenomenon in great depth and with great intelligence.A lot of people got up in arms about it, because the 13 reasons in question were basically 13 people who were the cause of a teenage girl’s suicide. IMHO, the up-in-arms types really didn’t want to face the truth, not so much about bullying or self-esteem, but about the way so many of us have become dependent on it, and how the weaker-willed among us all can be seriously emotionally and or physically damaged by the environments that that people are able to create on sites like Facebook, Twitter and Instagram and SnapChat to name a few.
This is a very serious problem that almost everyone with access to social media has to, at the very least, acknowledge. Otherwise, they can be sucked into the vortex of it and really get fucked up.
The Internet, and social media specifically, prides itself on being, among other things, the last bastion of free speech. You hear that descriptor a lot. And if you have a basic understanding of how it works you can avoid a lot of the pitfalls and potential emotional damage. But the reality is that the vast majority of people do not have this understanding and cannot avoid those pitfalls.
Sadly, a great many predators of all stripes from pedophiles to assholes selling lock picking equipment or dipshit anarchists publishing bomb-making instructions, count on that and create new victims on an ongoing basis.
Since this is a rant, I’m really not offering any specific solutions here. Mainly because nothing I say in that regard would be stuff that hasn’t already been said by countless others.
But what I will say is that people really need to get a lot smarter about how they use social media. The amount of scamming, viciousness, ignorance, hate, and anger out there is off the charts, and it used to be that you could actually limit the amount of it you got exposed to.
But in the greedy rush to make money hand-over-fist and the via the fact that most prominent social media sites are run by algorithms, which means very little in the way of oversight, all the shit you never wanted to have anything to do with will be showing up on your newsfeed with astounding regularity.
And since there are no cybercops to protect you, you have to be your own Neighbourhood Watch. You have to think twice about everything. I won’t get into how some monumentally asshole-ish politicians are working diligently to con whole countries into thinking that black is white and down is up, but they are out there, and they want you to be their bitch.
Don’t be anybody’s bitch! Wise up.Think carefully before you believe anything you see on social media. Because there is a lot of nasty shit going on out there, and the last thing you want is for some on it to get stuck on your shoe.
Peace out….jim
Jim Murray is a marketer, communication strategist, writer, art director & blogger. His partner, Charlene Norman is a business systems and operational analyst. Their collaboration is called Bullet Proof Consulting, headquartered in St Catharines, Ontario. Bullet Proof is designed to help companies change their thinking for the better, to become more productive and efficient, better branded and successful in today’s highly competitive business world. You can get a very clear impression of how we think at www.bulletproofconsulting.ca
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Comments
don kerr
6 years ago #13
yup
Jim Murray
6 years ago #12
Chas \u270c\ufe0f Wyatt. I can't disagree with your assessment, my friend. In fact Phil and I will be doing our next He Said He Said on this topic. I think this is simply a function of my 80/20 Differential manifesting. As this site grows the amount of crap grows with it. They are simply not attracting enough good serious writers and I believe that this is a function of not being as business oriented as they could be. They are doing a very good job of marketing the social side, so good in fact that it's hard to attract business side writers to the site. They look at beBee as 'fluffy' and several of them have told me that.
Jim Murray
6 years ago #11
Zacharias \ud83d\udc1d Voulgaris. Yeah I could have probably used a meat grinder. But I really wanted to get the shit aspect across. Thanks for the opinion though.
Jim Murray
6 years ago #10
Don \ud83d\udc1d Kerr. I don't disagree that this is a first world problem. But internet access is growing exponentially and those Bay of Bengal Citizens are soon likely to be as connected as we are. I do agree that self-regulation is the only reg we have right now. I would hate for anyone to tell me what to write or how to write it. Sadly there is a buffoon in Washington who would love nothing better that to do just that. And there are other clowns all over the planet who are. Just another reason to be happy that we live where we live, which I have always considered to be the best stoke of luck.
Jim Murray
6 years ago #9
Thanks Harvey Lloyd. I agree that there is no real answer right now, that's why I actually ended up advocating caution, because that's about all we have right now.
don kerr
6 years ago #8
Harvey Lloyd
6 years ago #7
Zacharias 🐝 Voulgaris
6 years ago #6
David B. Grinberg
6 years ago #5
Jim, I really appreciate your extensive response to my comments. You make some cogent points, as always, which I will seriously consider. You'll know if I'm fully convinced if you receive a request to "friend me" or whatever the appropriate lingo is these days. Thank you, kind sir, and please keep the buzz coming!
Jim Murray
6 years ago #4
Pert 2...Re Point Number 2: I agree with you that there needs to be some sort of restrictions imposed on social media sites. But with the current administration of your country that obviously doesn't give a rat's ass about the first amendment unless it suits their point of view, I fear that it will end up being left up to the sites themselves. This of course means that, greediness being what it is, that will never really happen. I don't know the stats but I inuiitively believe that there have to be a great many sites out there who do monitor and moderate content, but once you reach a certain size that job becomes very costly in terms of man-hours. And there is also the ethical issue of where you draw the line and decide what needed to be censored and what goes through. I believe that our friend Phil Friedman might have more of a concrete POV on that issue. Hope this is a good answer on both points.
Jim Murray
6 years ago #3
OK . Re Point #1: Why I stay on Facebook. 1. I lost my privacy years ago, like we all did the minute we joined the first social media site we belonged to. It might have been Facebook. I honestly can't remember. So they already have my info, and all they're really doing with it is selling it to advertisers. I'm not particularly bothered by that because I study that stuff, as awful as most of it is. 2. I stay on social media site because I'm a marketer and I have to be conversant enough with what they are all about and how they are evolving to be able to advise my clients. 3. Believe it or not, being basically a nice guy, and being married to a very wonderful woman, I have acquired through my business, my writing and my marriage a number of friends. You know the real 3-d kind, and I enjoy keeping up with them, as they evidently enjoy keeping up with me. 4 I have picked up more freelance work from posting on Facebook than on LI, Twitter and beBee combined. 5 My partner, Charlene Norman is extremely smart about business and believe that the business opportunities that exist by playing the Facebook game the right way are substantial. Facebook business page to care for and feed. 5. I'm a sucker for goat and kitty cat videos. cont.
Jim Murray
6 years ago #2
Great comments . Let me think about that and I will comment.
David B. Grinberg
6 years ago #1