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It Takes a Chorus

It Takes a Chorus

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This is my second go at this article. MS Word crashed and took all my wonderful thoughts with it.

One of the first things I thought was, “It doesn’t matter who gets the credit as long as it gets done.” And it’s true.

So many times over the years I have been met with blank stares when I speak of child abuse. I remind myself nearly every day that five kids will die today from abuse—a high percentage under the age of one. Having been dealt harshly with and terribly by my parents, I know how these kids fear and hurt. I know what it’s like to vibrate with anxiety at a very early age. Perhaps that’s why this is so important to me.

I've fielded many strange looks when it comes to voicing my opinions on child abuse.  I've attempted to rally people to the cause to no avail.  I've approached my legislator, Seth Moulton, with the thought we need a Federal Mandate to stem the backward slide.

Twenty-eight states have put frivolous reporting clauses into play within their Mandatory Reporting laws. My understanding is that States get funding from the Federal government with the stipulation that they have these laws. But the frivolous reporting clauses seem to target those very reporters with severe penalties if they do report. Not reporting is a thousand bucks—reporting is two and jail time. Report a second and third time, and you will pay that fine and spend even more time in jail. Predators are gaining ground and children are being assaulted or worse--killed.

I’ve been a voice for so long I don’t know if I can be anything else. But I’ve come to know it takes a chorus to affect real, meaningful change.  🐝 Fatima Williams suggested educational institutions, but I went that route.  People just didn't want to get involved in pursuing a legislative effort.  At this moment, 3 kids have died today.  Another is on its way.  Perhaps we should pile the bodies up in a designated square in Washington, DC.  

Becoming part of a chorus means virtual obscurity. Not a bad thing—really. Being part of a whole is not a bad thing Robert Cormack thinks a group is a bad thing. Ideas may be sprouted by individuals, but it often takes a group to put those ideas into play. Perhaps if the function of the individual is integrated into the whole, things could work out.

I am a fountain of information, but I am a terrible diplomat. In a chorus, I could serve a function. The wheels grind slowly, but we are currently moving backward.


So what does it take to create a chorus? I have no idea—do you?


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Todd Jones

Devesh 🐝 Bhatt

7 years ago #21

Could you share the barriers, all the barriers and separate them as to the ones that can be overcome with community action and one that mandates legislative change i.e. community+power +money + pressure
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Cyndi wilkins it is often true that abused children turn towards advocacy.
#12
Pascal Derrien That's why I've been focusing on a Federal Mandate over here. Otherwise, you'd have to change laws in each state. That's an overwhelming proposition. As far as enforcement goes, my attitude is one step at a time.
#13
been trying. getting nowhere.
#14
agreed.
#15
Franci\ud83d\udc1dEugenia Hoffman That's exactly the reaction I get. People, who are people, talk about other people like other people should carry the ball.
#16
Phil Friedman get enough people together, there's bound to be enough strong voices to carry the lipsyncers.

Phil Friedman

7 years ago #14

I agree fully with you, Joyce, that this is an area which requires, nay demands more attention and an absolute dedication to rooting out and punishing (not rehabilitating, for that never happens) offenders. Particularly, with what appears to be a growing incidence of human trafficking. However, I am not sure that a "chorus" is the right metaphor, because in my experience a significant percentage of chorus members are only lip-syncing. Better, I think, strong voices banding together to give concerts. Cheers!

Liesbeth Leysen, MSc.

7 years ago #13

Joyce Bowen just be you, your unique voice will do what is necessary.

Pascal Derrien

7 years ago #12

Unless policies and legislations are in place it is difficult to scale up consistently and efficientlty across all segments of the society no matter what the issues may be, the enforcement of those policies is another issue but I suppose one thing at the time, like anything else amplification of the message is key and can sometimes be triggered by ''champions to the cause'' a key or public figure helps adding velocity and acts as an accelerator
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that's alright Cyndi wilkins; you're on that list now.

Cyndi wilkins

7 years ago #10

You have quite the collection of talented musicians being called into your chorus Joyce Bowen...Let us see what the orchestra creates here;-) Even if you had a charmed childhood...Nobody likes an abusive personality...not even the abusers themselves. To some degree Joyce, the sensitive nature of this issue lies also with the taboo topic of mental illness...as many abusers (if not all of them) suffered terrible abuses as children themselves. That you have emerged an advocate to protect children...not everyone is that resilient, is an amazing testament to your resolve. It is a blessing to your children that you have stopped the cycle of abuse from continuing in your own family. My very best to you.
Deb\ud83d\udc1d Lange
Deb \ud83d\udc1d Helfrich
Donna-Luisa Eversley
If people as a whole start clamoring about this issue, this issue will resolve.
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\ud83d\udc1d Fatima Williams I tried educational institutions. That was where I received the worst reactions.

🐝 Fatima G. Williams

7 years ago #3

#2
My best target would be educational institutions. Educate the children to come out boldly and make the claim and I'm sure the society will help them out. Also social media is a great tool to report all types of abuse. There's was a live video on Facebook that went viral and got the mom arrested for physically abusing her child.
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\ud83d\udc1d Fatima Williams Yes, but the truth is our chorus is not loud or organized enough. The predators are winning out with these new clauses. People need to get organized.

🐝 Fatima G. Williams

7 years ago #1

A chorus is you , me and ten and thousands of us. Joyce Bowen Abuse is considered as such a sensitive topic that noone dares to utter that word. The influence of the world has created monsters who cannot tell the difference between their wife and their kid. I don't understand what is the kind of pleasure such a psychopath can get from abusing a child. These beasts should be brutally shot or punished to regret their sinful birth on earth.

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