To Be Heard By Listening
Listening and hearing are two different words for good reason. Being heard and being understood is rarely congruent. Vulnerability shared might begat vulnerability responses, usually it brings disjointed misdirection derived from "Awkward"
Definition of anomalous
Dialog is achieved by the mutual conclusion of not only being heard but being understood.
What you live through and expel is the healthy exchange we participate in through out our lives. Healthy aura's are constantly expelling and renewing at a rapid rate. When we allow outside influences that are negative build up in us and not expel or pass on to others, this practice looks like the right thing to do in theory however in practice most confuse what appears to be right and end up doing what is not healthy for the self.
When confronted with unexpected vulnerability, the knee jerk response is anger for being put in a paradox of heavy responsibility to respond in kind.
Why did you just do that. Now I have to be vulnerable back and I am not prepared.
The road to success is not a cul-de-sac. More can be continued in dialog if you respond in balance with humanness.
Can you hear a plant when it needs water? Can you hear a plant when it craves trace elements? Of course you can, we are usually not listening as this devia