For Whom Am I Writing?
NOTE: This post was previously published on WordPress. Here I made a few modifications.
After the initial euphoria related to my first blog post on the beBee publishing platform, I decided to create my personal blog on WordPress (about two weeks ago). I named it What Interests Me. I've been spending a couple of days dealing with the technical issues and general visual impression of my blog. By the way, the configuration process is not finished yet.
Given the fact that I wrote only one post The writer in me just woke up! I put it on the blog expecting equally good reviews as those I've got on beBee.
But writing on a personal blog is something completely different. Obviously, it takes time for the ‘new kid on the block’ to be accepted. Not only was there no feedback, but there were no views at all. As if I published in the twilight zone. I was very discouraged that my post wasn't getting any traffic. It is hard to accept that no one was reading the article you consider to be solid.
And then, a kind of enlightenment happened! I asked myself, ‘Why does it matter?’
I started a blog as an experiment and I have had no idea how things continue to go further. I rediscover the joy of writing short stories that best suit my personality. Some of these stories are waiting to see the light of day.
Moreover, one of the reasons for starting a blog was to sharpen my written English, even though I had doubts whether to write in my own native language. I often experienced frustration when writing in English because the sentiment so perfectly expressed in Croatian is being lost in translation.
Finally, the decision on writing in English prevailed. Remains only to force me to think and write a draft primary in English to avoid the pitfalls of translation.
Given to all, I promised myself that a lack of feedback or low stats won't erode my self-esteem. Realistically speaking, thousands of different blog posts have been published daily. Being found and read among all that and with one or two followers is a miracle by itself.
Completely unburdened, I published another post on my blog.
Hope that views will follow, but even if doesn't, I am satisfied that my writing is a reflection of me and my way of thinking, and makes me happy when I read it. For now, I am the most important audience for my posts.
So, for whom am I writing?
For the time being, I write about what’s in my mind and heart and find a great joy in it. Some might say I write for myself. But what’s the difference between writing for yourself and for someone else? No matter how personal my story is, others can find themselves in it.
Writing for myself I write for those who feel the same. I hope I’ll find those people and they would become my audience.
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NOTE: The Internet is full of articles on “writings for yourself vs. writings for others”. As in most other things in my life, I only rely on my common sense and logic. And I really think that you can't write for other people if you don't feel connected to a subject you are going to write about.
That’s why I’ll write for myself and people like me.
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These are thoughts of a beginner blogger. Dear fellow beBee readers, what do you think?
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Lada 🏡 Prkic
prije 1 godinu #40
Thanks @Franci 🐝Eugenia Hoffman, beBee Brand Ambassador!
Lada 🏡 Prkic
prije 1 godinu #39
Thank you, @Javier 🐝 CR 🇺🇦🇪🇸! It's great to see that Google SEO loves beBee. :)
In essence, I’m writing for myself first. My beBee blog is my space where I shape my thoughts and ideas and make them public. But without readers, blogging isn't blogging. I feel fortunate that those who read my stuff seem to like it. 🤗 That encourages me to continue to write.
Javier Cámara-Rica 🐝🇪🇸
prije 1 godinu #38
Lada 🏡 Prkic
prije 6 godina #37
Lada 🏡 Prkic
prije 6 godina #36
You make me smile, Chas. Perhaps the world doesn't need another writer beginner, but why not try to find a nook in the vastness of the blogosphere. :-)
Lada 🏡 Prkic
prije 7 godina #35
I think a lot of people on beBee for whom English is not their mother tongue have similar problems. But, as you said, we grow through challenges. Thanks for reading and commenting Julio Angel Lopez Lopez.
Lada 🏡 Prkic
prije 7 godina #34
Thanks Claire for re-sharing this article and thanks for the kind words.
Julio Angel 🐝Lopez Lopez
prije 7 godina #33
Lada 🏡 Prkic
prije 7 godina #32
Lada 🏡 Prkic
prije 7 godina #31
Javier Cámara-Rica 🐝🇪🇸
prije 7 godina #30
Lada 🏡 Prkic
prije 7 godina #29
I am flattered that the beBee Chairman is reading my buzzes. Thanks Juan Imaz
Milos Djukic
prije 7 godina #28
Lisa Gallagher
prije 7 godina #27
Lisa Gallagher
prije 7 godina #26
Lada 🏡 Prkic
prije 7 godina #25
Milos, I just don’t know what to say. What a wonderful and profound message! Thank you so much! Not in my wildest dream I had no idea that my little story could touch so many people and provoke such interest. Thanks for sharing my post here on beBee and on LinkedIn.
Lada 🏡 Prkic
prije 7 godina #24
Dear Lisa, I never thought that writing has such healing and cathartic power. As I said to Julie Hickmanickman, I feel like a part of me has been unleashed and begins to breathe freely. It may sound pathetic (even to me), but it's true. Thank you for your condolences and understanding.
Cyndi wilkins
prije 7 godina #23
Lisa Gallagher...You are a true expression of one who "follows her heart"...Whatever the personal opinions of others, (and they are not wrong in and of themselves), remember this...The heart is the true window to the soul...The intellect is the pursuit of external power, whereas within our hearts resides the awareness of our feelings, bringing us in touch with the higher order of logic and understanding of the soul...To view emotion as unnecessary or "devoid of clarity" only serves to repress the soul of an individual or species...I admire your resolve;-)
Milos Djukic
prije 7 godina #22
Lisa Gallagher
prije 7 godina #21
Milos Djukic
prije 7 godina #20
CityVP Manjit
prije 7 godina #19
Milos Djukic
prije 7 godina #18
Lisa Gallagher
prije 7 godina #17
Phil Friedman, I take no offense. I understand you did not engage me in this conversation but as I read comments it brought to mind an old conversation we had that we never did quite agree on. I do not find personal revelations as self-absorbed and I guess that is where our brains will continue to find differences. We are all moved by different writings, narratives, informative information and so on. That's what makes each of us unique- we all view the world differently in some manner if even through writing and what other other's write. There is intellect in narratives as well. I know you will disagree with my last statement but I find this to be very true. If someone is writing 'woe is me' posts constantly, they may be seeking attention. An occasional narrative that's personal is not attention seeking. Unless you walk in another's shoes who is writing said material that you find self absorbed it's just your opinion, right? Those are my thoughts and thanks for your comment Phil. :)
Phil Friedman
prije 7 godina #16
Lisa Gallagher
prije 7 godina #15
Lisa Gallagher
prije 7 godina #14
Phil Friedman
prije 7 godina #13
Lada 🏡 Prkic
prije 7 godina #12
Lisa, I've read your stories that have been written after your mother passed away, and I felt so connected to these stories because I remembered all the pain I experienced after my father passed away of cancer. This is exactly what I was thinking when I wrote the sentence you pointed out. That's why I believe that writing for myself I also write for others who can find themselves in my stories.
Lisa Gallagher
prije 7 godina #11
I can see the points you are making Phil Friedman and they are valid. But this is where I digress... I will just speak for myself. There are many different writing styles and I'm aware people realize this. However, I may begin to write something that is stuck in my head. I need to get it out. As you know a lot of what I write pertains to anxiety in order to bring awareness, and I take no issue with differing views. But, there have been possibly 3-4 articles I've written since mom passed that came from my heart and were cathartic. So, I think possibly I began writing for me but with the idea that if I can bare my soul and show my vulnerability- it may help others as well , even if they do not comment. Not everyone can read articles like that because they are too close to the heart. When I write it's always my hope that something I've written may be of help in one way or another. Ok, with the exception of my Trump rant. I do rant on occasion ;-) I receive a lot of private messages after writing very personal stories. People share many personal stories with me yet they are afraid to bare their soul for others to see. I think many times I get messages from managers and CEO's for example and they do not want their employees to read their personal stories.
Lisa Gallagher
prije 7 godina #10
Phil Friedman
prije 7 godina #9
@Cyndi Wilkins - I have had this very discussion with many writers whom I respect immensely, writers like Milos Djukic, and too many others to mention. Often, others don't see the importance of correct expression in this matter, but I do. For I believe that to say that one writes for oneself, is to be somewhat unclear about one's motivations in writing -- and to confuse writing to one's own personal standards with somehow not caring about being read by an audience. Indeed, some writers have literally said they don't care about being read -- which to my mind is self-contradictory, as long as you consider yourself a writer. Cheers!
Phil Friedman
prije 7 godina #8
Well, Lada Prkic, CEng, that brings a measure clarity to the issue. Which is my goal as well. See my recent piece: https://www.bebee.com/producer/@phil-friedman/conversation-isn-t-just-politely-waiting-your-turn-to-speak
Cyndi wilkins
prije 7 godina #7
Lada 🏡 Prkic
prije 7 godina #6
Phil, it is obvious that everything published is intended to be read by others, but I was thinking on the written content and joy of writing, regardless of views, likes or comments. I think that we just define differently the definition of 'writing for oneself'. I would also like my posts to be read. I just wait for the right audience.
Phil Friedman
prije 7 godina #5
Lada 🏡 Prkic
prije 7 godina #4
Wonderful quote Cyndi. My motto is related to it: 'Always try to learn something new each day.' Thanks for reading and for your kind words.
Lada 🏡 Prkic
prije 7 godina #3
Thanks Julie Hickman, I also enjoy reading it.😊 Since I rediscover my passion for writing I started to think out loud - but on paper or screen. I began to write down thoughts that arise to me, and even find myself 'holding' them in my mind until I put it on the screen. I find this process very helpful for my writing. Who knows, maybe I discover my mission in life as Martin Luther King proclaimed in your quote.
Cyndi wilkins
prije 7 godina #2
Lada 🏡 Prkic
prije 7 godina #1
I agree, Brian. You're a role model for that. Your posts are so unique and original.