Broken Blood Relations

Sometimes, typical tales remain untold or hurting happenings lie buried in deep memories. Even family blood relations turn feeble and dispersed with thwarting circumstances, enraged emotions, frequent discords and unpleasant separation.

What a wretchedness when grown up children, from one father and one mother, abstain from communication due to trivial issues!

Ah, the beauty of childhood, in human lives, is that it’s a phase full of playfulness, innocence and cheerfulness. Even if kids go at odds, there’s quick accord or nothing at all in sheer forgetfulness. That’s the spirit that strengthens their bonding with love and solidarity.

As kids pass through adolescence and enter into adulthood, a whole new world appears. More likes and dislikes, shifting pursuits, disparate deliberation and traces of egotism and many more little things blow up frequently and ruin relations. Oh, factions among family members depict a discomforting situation. Nothing but, there’s all stupidity from nonsensical tales from more detachment, broken feelings, refusal to resolve misconceptions, persistence to expose one another’s old mistakes. Truly, with such wrecked family blood relations, the most who suffer the shattering sorrow and seclusion are unfortunate parents.

What are the uses of great learning when one fails to harbor common sense? What it means to be person of well-off standing when one sullies others for insignificant issue? Why flaunting goodness to others when blood relatives stay on with their childish clashes? Why setting an example in charities when close family ties suffer in penury? Why an ardent leaning for celestial grace when no sympathy is shown to one’s own siblings? What’s the benefit of finicky fame when no dutiful reverence is shown to parents? Why needless commitment for unrelated chronicles when there’s no concern for family members’ wellbeing?

Ah, in so many beauteous ways the Almighty Lord favors the mankind and living creatures. But, we human beings, out of futile pride and disregard to ties of kinship, become neglectful, nasty and full of loathing. We are, oftentimes, greedy to shape our cherished dreams and earn riches, but we abandon sincerity in our hearts and become unjust in our affairs. In fact, in such ways, we make our lives miserable!

It’s weird that we turn unto the Almighty Lord, with repentance and hope for mercy, but towards our own family members we show no remorse or feelings for forgiveness.

When any misunderstanding arises, the best solution is to convince others in a courteous way, and if all goes well, then there’s love, esteem, fidelity and peace. Well, if differences continue, probably there’s flaw in one’s approach or inability in others to realize the right guidance.

Sometimes, when we help our own family members in necessity, we count those favors, as if we like little lords, have done great endeavors. Nevertheless, we forget that it is the Almighty Lord Who makes us capable enough to support someone. Verily, we are just means, but the real originator of bounties and favors is the Lord of the humanity.

Ah, when children do mischief, we correct them with kindness and tidbits of precepts. But, when family blood relations turn to arrogance, division and odium, then they best need to realize their folly and alter their attitudes. If they do, they get sheltered with the succor of the Almighty Lord and if they remain haughty, they alone are losers.