Sara Jacobovici

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Balance comes in threes.

Balance comes in threes.

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I have often heard authors compare writing and publishing a book to the experience of giving birth. Well for me, it feels more like climbing a tree; each time I write something it branches off into another related area. It’s exciting but at some point I need to return to the roots and get grounded. I can’t wait for the time when I can rest against its trunk and feel the coolness and protection of its shade. For now, I offer a snap shot of a branch within the context of this Hive, Triads.*


Viktor Frankl has incorporated into his work of “man’s search for meaning”, the triad of body, mind and spirit. In his article, Victor Frankl and Logotherapy, Stephen J. Costello writes:


"He views the human person as being in three dimensions: body, mind and spirit, and according to Frankl, the spirit can never be sick. There is always something intact even in illness, which he calls the ‘noetic’ core of the person."

Costello continues to write about, what is interestingly enough, Frankl's triadic approach:

"According to Frankl, there are three main ways through we may find meaning in life: Creativity (giving something to the world through self-expression), Experience (receiving something from the world through nature or culture or the environment), and Attitude (changing our mental attitude toward a condition especially if confronted with unavoidable suffering)."

In her article, A Leg (or Three)to Stand On, Molly Weinburgh writes:

"Ask a mathematician to tell you about “balance” and he or she will tell you that having three nonlinear points allows you to create a plane that is one-dimensional (a triangle) and therefore very stable."

Frankl’s three ways of finding meaning provides us with the balance and stability to assist us in our search for meaning.

But the search is only the first of yet another triadic process in Frankl's work; searching, finding and challenging.


"Challenging the meaning of life is the truest expression of the state of being human." - Viktor Frankl 



*The Hive, Triads was inspired by @Ali Anani's Buzz, Triads Are Everywhere.

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Comments

Sara Jacobovici

7 years ago #16

#32
Beautifully written and a great contribution to the discussion Irene Hackett. You write, "No other animal has ever cared whether or not there is a meaning to life." Agreed. Everything we do serves a purpose and the root of that purpose is survival. All animals can respond to the questions: What (identifying/recognizing) – was that sound? Where (direction/location) – do I go for shelter? When (time) – I have to go find a mate. Who (other) – do I choose to fight? Which (selection) – is my pack? How (action) – will my cub get food? Only humans ask Why - was I born, am I here, did this happen to me, do I feel this way, are there stars in the sky? Our search for meaning is part of our survival.

Sara Jacobovici

7 years ago #15

#29
#30 Love it Gerald Hecht! This reminds me of the anecdote where 2 men go to the village leader to help them settle a problem. One presents his side and the leader says, "You are right." The other presents his side and the leader says, "You are right." At which point the leader's assistant turns to him and says, "You said to each that he is right. They can't both be right". And the leader responds, "You, too, are right." Well Gerald, all I can say is, you are right! You have given me a great insight into the paradox of balance. Thank you.

Sara Jacobovici

7 years ago #14

#21
Thank you gentlemen Mohammed Sultan for this great dialogue.

Sara Jacobovici

7 years ago #13

#20
Thank you Cyndi wilkins for the gift you have offered through the sharing of your story, of your experience!

Sara Jacobovici

7 years ago #12

#19
Dear Gerald Hecht. I need your help to understand what you mean. Can you please expand?

Sara Jacobovici

7 years ago #11

#18
What a touching and beautiful comment Franci Eugenia Hoffman. I am honoured to be placed in this triad and to receive this message from you.

Sara Jacobovici

7 years ago #10

#17
Thank you CityVP Manjit for creating a great framework for triads based on your perspective. The one line that sticks out for me at this time is, "Once we learn to wrap metaphor around the power of three we can develop our storytelling abilities."

Sara Jacobovici

7 years ago #9

#16
Thank you Gert Scholtz for the connection. My impression of you is that you are always and will always be learning something new.

Sara Jacobovici

7 years ago #8

#15
Thank you so much for your valuable contribution to this discussion Mohammed Sultan.

CityVP Manjit

7 years ago #7

#15
Dear Mohammed, the reason we have triads in communications is to simplify what would otherwise be highly complex ideas. The power of three is a fantastic means of communication because we can understand things in three's and we tend not to remember more than an average of 7 bits of information. Once we learn to wrap metaphor around the power of three we can develop our storytelling abilities. This is where the world of science needs to communicate around the framework of what is powerful about human narrative. Otherwise science speaks in its own language and then complains that religion has captured the imagination of the world. At that point I simply shrug my shoulders and move on with life because science is an important form of understanding - whether that be the physical, the Earth or life. Ultimately the triad also contributes to meaning making and as intelligent beings we are good at pattern recognition. If the power of three helps with that, then it is a way of opening our own mind to understanding - because we cannot know it all.

Sara Jacobovici

7 years ago #6

#8
Dear , your words are truly a gift of encouragement. Thank you so much. You have renewed my energy.

Sara Jacobovici

7 years ago #5

#10
Thanks CityVP Manjit. Your expansion of the metaphor is much appreciated.

Sara Jacobovici

7 years ago #4

#6
I greatly appreciate your very "sweet" comment Anees Zaidi.

Sara Jacobovici

7 years ago #3

#5
Thank you Ali Anani for your generous response and on going support. I look forward to the inspiring shares ahead.

CityVP Manjit

7 years ago #2

The reality that some authors point to is that in writing a book, one writes three but publishes one - the other two are discarded as the pruning of getting to the book that the world will see - the writing of a book can then be viewed as triad experience that turns three into one.

Sara Jacobovici

7 years ago #1

#1
Thank you Donald Grandy for contributing your comment.

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