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The Spectrum of Humanity

The Spectrum of Humanity

What do Jews think about Jesus?

He asked me as innocently as a college freshman at a small, Jesuit school could ask. It caught me a little off guard.

What do ALL Jews think of Jesus?

It was puzzling to me that he would think ALL people of any ethnicity, race, nationality, gender, etc. would think the same thing in any context, much less something as faith-based as religion. After all, faith is such a personal thing!

There's no Pope figure for Jews, so everything is interpreted among our leading Rabbis all over the world. This means that there isn't one person making the rules about what to believe, how to interpret our commandments and holy writings, or what Jews think about one thing or another. The old joke is that if you ask 12 Rabbis a question, you'll get 14 opinions.

He seemed unsatisfied with my answer, so I went on:

When I was in Australia and introduced myself as an American exchange student to a group of girls on campus, they looked at me with surprise: "But you CAN'T be American! You're not fat and stupid!"

The students laughed uncomfortably. I explained why that story was important in our discussion:

Those girls on the Australian college campus had an impression of Americans as fat and stupid. How did they form that impression? Maybe television and movies, maybe they met a few Americans. I was shocked by their generalization; the United States has as many cultures in New York City as exist in all of Europe. Add in the differences in culture and behavior between California and Maryland, North Dakota and Texas, and you see an entire spectrum of cultures, accents, and dramatically different radio station options.

It took me years to realize I fell into that trap sometimes, too, painting an entire community of people with the same broad brush, especially when it came to politics.

Back to the students in that Introduction to Religion class at a small Jesuit college -

The students started to understand the theme when I reminded them of the spectrum of behavior and culture across the United States. That's when I dropped the big statement on them:

Judaism, just like Christianity and all other religions, just like human skin color, gender identity and sexuality, Judaism is on a broad spectrum. While there are a few people on one far end or another, most of us fall somewhere in the middle. That means that there are Jews who are very religious on one end of the spectrum, and Jews who identify as Jews, but are completely secular in their belief and practices on the other end of the spectrum.

When you ask about Jewish customs, traditions, language and prayers, I can tell you all about those topics. But when you ask me "what do Jews believe..." or "What do Jews think..." I can tell you what I believe and think, but there's no way I could tell you what other Jews believe.

Every time I've had an opportunity to speak about being Jewish in this small city in Montana, I prepare by choosing my top two points I wish for people to understand and take back with them for more thoughtful consideration. The spectrum of humanity is always my first priority.

Here's why this is such an important mind shift:

The Spectrum of Humanity

I know there is a beautiful message in that video; I found it disturbing. Listening to each of these visually attractive, apparently intelligent people speak badly of entire cultures and ethnicity before finding out they not only share many genetic indicators, in one case, the people are actually related, makes me seriously uncomfortable. Can you say that you dislike and/or distrust an entire group of people based on their geography, their skin color, their sexual orientation, their religion, or even their political affiliation? If you've had a handful of experiences in the United States, are you able to truly judge ALL Americans based on that small sample? Is it okay for someone to do the same to you?

When we paint an entire community with the same, broad brush, we miss incredible opportunities to learn, to grow, and to make connections with each other. The only way to heal our fractured communities is to care about each individual we interact with, and avoid making assumptions. That's our job, folks, to remind people of our humanity. To demonstrate our own vulnerability in order to more deeply connect.

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Sarah Elkins 20/12/2016 · #32

#31 Thanks, @Paul Walters, appreciate the comment!

Paul Walters 19/12/2016 · #31

@Sarah Elkins Loved this piece....thank you

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Sarah Elkins 28/11/2016 · #30

#17 You hit the nail on the head, @Sara Jacobovici, I'd be willing to say that the vast majority of hate is based in fear. And thank you for that wonderful share and comment. I love our spectrum of humanity. Even the people who are horrible to me teach me something!

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Sarah Elkins 28/11/2016 · #29

#19 Unfortunately, @Ali Anani, that doesn't surprise me at all. I have similar stories from early in my time here in Montana, and from my travel experiences. What you say here is exactly right, we must connect one-to-one to change the dynamic. And it helps to be a good ambassador for our people, speaking and educating rather than being insulted and defensive.

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Sarah Elkins 28/11/2016 · #28

#23 Thank you, @Alan Culler, I appreciate that comment!

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Sarah Elkins 28/11/2016 · #27

#25 Oh dear, @Nicole Chardenet, I know exactly what you're talking about in terms of it being hard to forgive the chronically and willfully stupid. I call it willful ignorance and have a really hard time with it myself. The reason I've been able to look past that issue with some people is that I realize that without talking about it, without having that dialog, the people who voted without the intention of exacerbating hate, fear, and bigotry, we are truly lost. Those who were more intentional with their votes are a lost cause.

I agree that asking what Jews think about Jesus is a totally fair question, it's the way he asked, as if all Jews would believe the same thing about Jesus. Many Jews fall into the category your mother described, and many do not. Just like some Jews keep kosher, others do not. The best question that is consistently asked by the students I encounter each year is this: "What makes the Jewish belief so different from the Christian belief." And my answer is that practicing Jews are still waiting for the Messiah, while Christians believe he has already been here. (Notice I said "practicing" Jews, as opposed to all Jews.)

Thanks for that great comment, it made me clarify why I responded that way to the student's question.

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Sarah Elkins 28/11/2016 · #26

#10 So true, @Kevin Pashuk, and that loss of our humanity begins with fear. Thanks for the comment.

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Nicole Chardenet 28/11/2016 · #25

Asking what Jews think about Jesus is a fair enough assessment. It could be interpreted as perhaps the 'party line', with or without a Pope or other centralized figure. When I was a kid, growing up in a Christian family, my mother said that Jews believed Jesus existed but wasn't a Saviour, but that he was a great teacher. I actually cleave toward that view more myself now, rather than the Christian one...but then again, I haven't been Christian in many years.

As for not judging people en masse, easier said than done sometimes. I find myself struggling with the anger at people who elected a total asshat for world leader and put the rest of us in danger as well. That's not judging someone on biology; that's judging them on their unwillingness to take a real look at what they were voting for. It was eye-opening going to the States for Thanksgiving; it because quite clear that it wasn't just uneducated, chronically unemployed rednecks who hadn't been paying attention during the election campaign.

Harder to forgive, sometimes, the chronically and wilfully stupid.

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