Savvy Raj en Professions, Workers, Careers, Healthy Living, Human Resources Professionals Member • International Dance Council UNESCO 26/5/2018 · 2 min de lectura · 4,5K

The Unburdening

I came across this story and it touched my heart. Do take some time to read...

"I hired a plumber to help me repair an old farmhouse.

He already had a rough and tiresome day.

* a flat tire

* his electric drill fault

* his old car broke down.

* his tiffin was spoilt

* he lost his wallet

* his bank was calling for loan repayments

In all the tension and stress he finished my repairs.

Since his car broke down, I drove him home.

While I drove him home, he sat silently, but I could mark his agony and restlessness.

On arriving, he invited me in to meet his family.

As we walked toward the front door, he paused at a small tree, touching the tips of the branches with both hands and closed his eyes.

When the door opened, he was smiling and happy.

In seconds he underwent an amazing transformation.

He hugged his two small children, gave his wife a kiss, laughed, and never even slightly made them feel the troubles that he had encountered that day.

I was astonished and curious. Seeing my inquisitive eyes he said, “Oh, that's my Trouble Tree. My best friend. My trouble carrier for the night”.

He replied. "I know I can't help having troubles on the job, but one thing's for sure. Those troubles don't belong in the house with my wife and the children. So I just hang them up on the tree every night when I come home and ask God to take care of them. Then in the morning I pick them up again.”

He smiled and shared a secret. He said, “when I come out in the morning to pick 'em up, there aren't nearly as many as I remember hanging there the night before!!”

Life may be a burden of worries, but there is a way to keep our loved ones untouched from these worries.

Time will heal every wound.

Whoever is tensed today,

look for a tree 🌳

Great story and advice indeed!

Sharing a few reflections on a tree..

The tree symbolises the supportive grounding in the rootedness.

A tree is a friend for life.

Always there by you growing with you through the trials and tribulations.

A tree has few needs but gives so much.

It's shade protects and it's bearings nourishes.

There is much depth to this wisdom of being in touch with nature especially a tree ... but more of it in my next article.

Have you ever taken the time to embrace a tree for a while . If you haven't I suggest some time off with just you and a tree. You will certainly feel more collected in your thoughts connected in your heart with yourself in time.

So care to spend some time nurturing a tree if you can . Your life will be better for sure!

A few reflections of life and living...

Life is truly unpredictable!

Vagaries at work is part and parcel of life. Stressful living and tensions seem at an all time high. Sometimes we all need a shoulder of support.

It takes consistent effort by one and all to build a thriving atmosphere in the family.

On power equations:

A gentle reminder to those who bring home the moolah! Simply ensure you do not take the loved ones at home for granted and use them as punching bags to vent out your own frustration from work .

There are many so called powerful people who seem successful in professional and social circuit who get on by downloading their insecurities and problems to their families. Nothing wrong in it. In fact the family is your strength and support and they will truly care and pray genuinely but as long as there is no violence attached.

Often domestic violence can be traced to a failure in a profession as much as a faulty upbringing or most often triggered by influence of alcohol. And as for alcohol well it cuts through barriers the rich and poor divides. In fact the addicted know no class under its influence. Then there is remorse and regrets but the memories of deeds done cannot be forgotten. At best perhaps, they may be only be forgiven.

An angle not much talked about is of the emotional and mental wounds... for such torture is inflicted especially on the financially dependent . As in knowing that the family cannot escape because of societal pressures there is more power to the aggressor in question.

What is relevant is knowing how to steer clear of passing the baton of worries to one and all and creating chaos confusion and at times utter despair. Besides developing patience to bear the inevitable truly one needs to learn the strength of equanimity in all situations.

Time heals all.

The truth is we will get on by in time. The pain and problems of today become small matters tommorow. And new experiences will occupy our thoughts and vie for attention. Such is the circle of life.


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Savvy Raj 11/6/2018 · #32

#31 Thank you for your kind appreciation .I deeply sense the relevance of your reflections. 

Cyndi Docy 11/6/2018 · #31

 Thank you for the positive and uplifting story.  If we really took the time too leave our worries and concerns outside of our homes,  too give them to God,  and show the love and support so needed in families,  I'm sure there would be many less broken homes. 

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Savvy Raj 11/6/2018 · #30

#29 @Geoff Hudson-Searle
That is wonderful to know.  Am certain you must have had a great experience and sensed the energy around it. Have read that this ancient tree was vandalised a few years ago... Glad to know it's growing and well. 

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Geoff Hudson-Searle 9/6/2018 · #29

A wonderful buzz @Savvy Raj I recently spent time in Glastonbury - UK where I reflected with a 2000 year thorn tree, such peace, tranquility and unburdening energy. 

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Savvy Raj 30/5/2018 · #28

#20 Thank you @Brian Chicoine
And truly so!
Simply a practice of being in the moment lovingly
Is to know worries will take care of itself in time gradually.
I believe it is all about living life lovingly!

Savvy Raj 30/5/2018 · #27

#19 Yes indeed @Renoy George. It certainly helps to have consistent practice of Unburdening going to actually dance lightly with life whatever the path we choose for wellbeing.  Thank you for your inspiring reflections as well 😊

Savvy Raj 30/5/2018 · #26

#18 @Bill Stankiewicz, 🐝 Brand Ambassador
Am honoured to read your kind and supportive comments here as well the thoughful shares.Thank you Bill . Hope to share more in time.

Savvy Raj 30/5/2018 · #25

#17 Thank you Lisa for your thoughts on this post as much as your kind words in reflection. Actually I equally share your sentiments here.
When I started reading this story a few similar questions did pop in my mind as well, which then steered to reflecting the connects between power equations and financial dependency in relationships. The bread earner no matter the gender holds the clout and the general happiness of the household depended on their behaviour And the various factors that brings about the changes.
I do believe there is more to touching a tree and feeling grounded and centred. But thats another deep subject of personal interest and I hope to share more on this in a future post