Steven Marshall

7 years ago · 2 min. reading time · ~10 ·

Blogging
>
Steven blog
>
A Lesson in Leadership, Two Very Different Approaches

A Lesson in Leadership, Two Very Different Approaches

Editor's Note: This article from Inc. E-Zine is just too timely to waste, so I will place this ahead of another post I am currently working up on "change." Read on and enjoy. As always, you can find all my blog posts from 2013 to the present on my website at http://stevemarshallassociates.com/steves-blog/
 

How can you build someone up when it counts the most? A lesson from Sunday night's game.
h 4

the worst
mistake anyone
can make is
being too afraid
CTL CLERC TY

VN
Sunday night's NFL game between the Arizona Cardinals and the Seattle Seahawks made history--but not in a good way. It ended in a 6-6 tie, officially making it the overtime tie with the lowest score in NFL history. CBS sports writer Ryan Wilson summed it up well: "If you love suspect coaching, horrible special teams, and offensive football before the advent of the forward pass, all sandwiched around superb defense, Sunday night's Seahawks-Cardinals game was your Super Bowl."

The most exciting (i.e., gut-wrenching) plays of the game included two potentially game-winning (and extremely makeable) field goals. First, with 3:26 left in overtime, Arizona kicker Chandler Catanzaro missed a 24-yarder. (He had already made two field goals over 40 yards, including a 45-yarder just a few minutes earlier.) Then, Seattle kicker Stephen Hauschka had his chance to be the hero--but his 28-yard attempt didn't go in either. (Hauschka was also successful in his two previous kicks in the game, despite the fact that both were longer attempts.) It's safe to say both coaches were in disbelief. But the real lesson would come just a little while later.

The Coaches' Reactions
Fast-forward to the postgame press conference. When Cardinals head coach Bruce Arians was asked if he had any words for his kicker after the game, he said simply:

"Make it. This is professional, this ain't high school, baby. You get paid to make it."

Ouch!
And how about Seattle coach Pete Carroll? What was his postgame response to his kicker's blunder?

"[Hauschka] made his kicks to give us a chance and unfortunately he didn't make the last one. He's been making kicks for years around here ... but he's gonna hit a lot of winners as we go down the road here. I love him and he's our guy."

Now that's what I call having someone's back. In contrasting these two reactions, we learn a lot about leadership. The truth is, anyone can fall victim to a misstep in a high-pressure situation.

1416b9f8.jpgThe question is, can these two kickers come back from their mistakes? Or, by extension, will your team members be able to recover when they slip up? Of course, much has to do with an individual, the person's unique personality and character, and how he or she chooses to respond.

199c40da.pngBut leaders are in a unique position to help individuals recover from mistakes like these. When a leader keeps his or her own failures in mind, it's easier to use words to encourage and build up than to dishearten and tear down. By choosing to focus on the positive, skillfully sharing your own personal experience, or simply reminding the person that everyone has a bad day, you do everything in your power to help that person recover.

So, leaders, I encourage you to ask yourselves: How do I react when a member of my team makes a mistake? Consider your words carefully, and you'll not only make the best of a bad situation--you'll get the best out of your people, too.

Next Week: Change as a Constant?


"""
Comments

Steven Marshall

7 years ago #1

#1
Thank you, Loribeth Pierson!

Articles from Steven Marshall

View blog
5 years ago · 2 min. reading time

NOTE: The following is from my friend, Paul McCusker, Senior Director of Content Creation at the Aug ...

6 years ago · 4 min. reading time

Note: I have always wondered why we are obsessed with symptoms, instead of causes. This past week's ...

3 years ago · 3 min. reading time

Note: I am shocked and saddened by the demeanor and tone of Tuesday night's Presidential debate. Mor ...

You may be interested in these jobs

  • Dartmouth Health

    Echo Cardiology Technologist

    Found in: Lensa US P 2 C2 - 1 week ago


    Dartmouth Health New London, United States

    General Summary: Perform ultrasounds of internal cardiac structures. Education: High School diploma or equivalent. ARDCS or CCI Certified. Current BLS Certification. Experience: One year of echocardiography experience.Employment Type: per-diemShift: Day shiftHours: As neededEduca ...

  • Foundation Health Partners

    Cath Lab Technologist

    Found in: Lensa US P 2 C2 - 5 days ago


    Foundation Health Partners Fairbanks, United States

    Performs radiographic diagnostic/interventional special procedures by following and verifying referring providers' orders. Uses independent judgment and applies learned methodologies according to established policy and procedures. Educates patients/f Technologist, Cath Lab, Lab, ...

  • GEICO

    Auto Damage Trainee – Manhattan, KS

    Found in: beBee S2 US - 2 days ago


    GEICO Manhattan, United States Full time

    Auto Damage Trainee – Manhattan, KS · Salary: $24.82 per hour / $50,000 annually · Accidents can be scary, and our Auto Damage team rises to the occasion to provide unparalleled customer service when our customers need us the most. We're looking for Auto Damage Trainees in Manhat ...