Thursday Thoughts: Courtesy and Customer Satisfaction
In my last post, I wrote about recently giving a refresher program on manners to some men in a long-term drug rehab. While we talked about a wide range of ways to use good manners, but this particular one â the subject of this blog â never got mentioned at all. Of course, I only had one hour, and there was so much else to discuss!
But the program got me thinking, and then a response from a reader on it solidified a thought Iâd had about courtesy and customer service.
Have you ever noticed that in almost all articles on good customer service, the focus is only on the customer service agent? We talk endlessly about giving them great training, showing them how to solve most any problem (other than just hanging up on the customer), and words they can use to hopefully keep the conversations positive with good end results.
Whatâs amazing to me is that we so rarely talk about the other person in that conversation: the customer! The most-likely upset / frustrated / angry customer who has called about a problem.
I mean, really: Whenâs the last time any one of us called a companyâs agent to say âI hope youâre having a great day!â?
I think this is a conversation worth having. Yes, we call when weâre upset; we have a problem of some sort, and we want someone to fix it. NOW. We've just sat through four or five minutes of the company's latest "phone tree" system, and we're crazed.
But why take it out on the CSA who has the bad luck of getting OUR call?
Here are a few ways we customers can make a difference â in these conversations and any others where we might be not at our best:
1. Write down your main point or points. Why exactly are you calling? What exactly is going on that shouldnât be? What exactly do you want the agent and/or the company to do for you?
As Stephen Covey famously wrote as his #2 point in 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: âBegin with the end in mind.â
2. Ignore the aggravation that the dreaded phone tree system caused. If we allow ourselves to get upset with the idiotic and endless questions and options, weâll be crazed once weâve actually reached a live operator. Just breathe and push the required buttons (or hit â0â on the chance that itâll cut through to a live person). Or say "agent" or "representative" enough times and usually you'll get a live person.
3. Remember: Courtesy starts with you. The agent who takes your call didnât cause your problem, and he or she is more likely to work well with you if youâre not yelling or cursing. Remember honey vs. vinegar . . .
4. If youâre really angry, at least admit it right up front, saying that you know the agent didnât cause your problem, and youâre not at your best right now. At least the agent will be forewarned.
5. Use âpleaseâ and âthank youâ as often as you can, especially when requesting or after getting something you asked for. Make the agent glad you are happy with the results.
6. Keep your voice calm and as friendly as you can manage. If you can manage a smile, even better. Your voice will reflect it. Itâll help both you and the agent.
7. If the conversation isnât working well, quietly and firmly ask for a supervisor. Repeat as necessary. Sometimes, despite both sides making a good effort, something isnât working out. Donât beat up the agent; that person may have very limited power to actually do what you want.
I know there is no amount of money that would persuade me to take any sort of customer service position; for me it would be way too stressful. And that thought is usually enough for me to keep calm as I call a companyâs customer service department; I remember that Iâm talking to someone who makes a living dealing with difficult situations. And that person can and will help me, if possible.
I would really appreciate your feedback on this!Â
What else would you suggest to keep the conversation civil, to allow a satisfactory resolution?
(First published March 2015)
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Susan đ Rooks, The Grammar Goddess
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